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darling22
(darling22 Ling)
48F
489 posts
5/6/2005 11:35 pm

Last Read:
3/5/2006 9:28 pm

Why women lie???

Jst wan to share my feeling here when i read abt tis article frm a member.
This is his question frm blog :
I continue to be amazed at how many women here
tell me initially that they want to marry. Yet
after we chat for a few minutes they are ready to
have online sex. I'm not complaining I just wonder why Chinese women are not more honest
about what they want here. Please explain?

Ok, i think only the same kinds human will meet
the same .if u r a crazy sex maniac , u can not
blame the ppls u meet is a sex maniac also.
I do believe , really hard to change a person if
he/she not ready for change...Once u get addicted
to chat abt sex online, automaticaly u will look for someone same intention with.M i rite ???


touch213 69M

5/8/2005 8:47 am

I read the blog about the sex chat thing also..
many people want to marry because they want someone whom they can count on to be there..
I do agree with you that, as for the sex chat's . they are people who choose to like the chats..about sex.... (the member must be pulling some trigger that opens that line of exchange up..) being sexual is not a problem nor is it a bad things..but the problem is when people make it the "only" thing.. that they can look through to see another person..
I think we all have a vast capacity for sex, creativey in sex and filled with various desires for sex and sexual interactions be it internet and otherwise.. but, I would say... it may work best for the member, and whom ever.. to see the person as a individual rather than as just the simplicity of a sex organ.. sex .. is natural.. and beautiful in it's multi-dimensional reality... and at the core of even basic sexual attractions.. it always come to the point of individuals being people.. and appreciation becaomes wanted.. to be seen as a full being.. with a full range of emotions and feeling and life things..of being regarded .
In basic sex is beautiful.. but it also includes the beauty of the person as a whole.

Girls ... asking for things to be bought..maybe that may have something to do with the nature of conversation that is created...for certain don't potray yourself as being a money bag.. but who knows what the reason is... they may just want things, and some may actually need them.. your have to talk to them and find out who they are .. and express whom you are..... and keep smiling and just be straight talking.. as yourself..


victorylee0516
(victoria lee)
41F

6/7/2005 11:42 am

Oh, my goodness!!! There are indeed a lot of people in Asia Friendfinder who want to find someone to have a sex chat with. They are really sick. There some some who claim that they are young and rich. Beware of them. Only chat with the ones who have a webcam so you can see who you are really chatting with!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Vicky


WokDontRun
(William )
49M

6/28/2005 10:15 am

yes, never sex chat with a person who to cheap to have webcam. why you perform and he watch? what he hiding? his shortness?


n8tive_american
(Lu )
54M
1289 posts
7/16/2005 11:56 am

You don't understand what is special about cybersex?? For shame!! Just kidding. I don't get it either.

Many Blessings.
B.