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darling22
(darling22 Ling)
48F
489 posts
5/24/2005 5:08 am

Last Read:
8/9/2006 7:39 am

What Do We Want?

CHAPTER ONE: WHAT DO WOMEN WANT ?
When I was a young woman, all I wanted was a guy with big muscles. So
I dated a muscular guy. He was as strong as Terminator, but he beat up
any other guys who would stare at me. I was afraid he would
hit me too. So I dumped him when he was in jail.

I decided to date a romantic guy. He was so sweet:he sent me flowers
every Friday to my office just to ask me out; one time he packed himself
into a box as my birthday gift.But he was also romantic to other
girls until I found out in a florist that he ordered 5 dozens roses
each Friday. It was too late, he already dumped me.

So I decided to date a stable guy. He was a "good" man and he had a
Ph.D from MIT.
But all he talked with me was M/M/1 Queuing theory. I had to dump him
because when one day I said I was going to Australia, he said you don't
need to go there to buy apples.There's a grocer across the street.

After that I decided to date an interesting guy. He was so funny and
he was like "George" in TV Steinfield. He made me laugh all time.But later,
I couldn't laugh any more.
He didn't have a job,nor did he plan to find one.All he did was play Mahjong
and "Cho Dai Di".

The worst thing is that we got married.

=========================================

CHAPTER TWO: WHAT DO GUYS WANT ?
When I was in JC, all I wanted was a girl with big boobs. So I dated
a girl with big boobs, but there was no passion.
I needed a passionate girl. In University, I dated a passionate girl,
but she was too emotional.Everything was an emergency,she cried all the time.

I decided I needed a girl with some stability and I found a very
stable girl. But she was so boring, she never got excited about anything.

I decided I needed a girl with some excitement. There, I found an
exciting girl, but I couldn't keep up with her.She rushed
from one thing to another, never settling on anything. She was directionless.

I decided to find a girl with some ambition. After graduation,
I found an ambitious girl and married her. She was so
ambitious, she divorced me and took everything I owned.


touch213 69M

5/24/2005 8:37 am

EXCELLENT !!!!!! it so often the attracting point of infactuation, may be all there is, until people get to know each other, and talk, ask the questions that matter and deal with what is real in the big picture of living..single dimension's are single dimensions..
I wrote a blog on Multi-dimensional, as for me I choose the multi-dimensional and in women I like to see the multi dimension's.. not what you think I want to see, but show me what there is to see that actually be.."you:!!! this is what I would speak to a woman..


victorylee0516
(victoria lee)
41F

6/7/2005 11:59 am

darling22

It is real shame you married person you are not compatible to. Oh, just to marry to wake up with someone in the morning is not good reason to marry.

VICKY


WokDontRun
(William )
49M

6/28/2005 10:08 am

did you ever find out what guys really wnat, beside make love with you? do you think person really marry most compatible partner? do they marry because if not marry this person then maybe no other person come back to marry to them? they say better bird in hand then hand in bush.


n8tive_american
(Lu )
54M
1289 posts
7/16/2005 12:59 pm

My wife and I are as different as day and night, summer and winter, & black and white. I do not believe in best matches, but what I do believe in is that you need to find someone who: supports you even when you like something he/she hates, makes you laugh and talk about your problems when all you want to do is cry or be angry, helps you when you are tired even if he/she is more tired than you. Yes, it is the best friend that we all need. When everything else fails, the best friend always finds something else to try.

Many Blessings.
B.