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Why Western Guys Think Asian Woman Only Interested In Sex??? Gee, I get so many emails from strange mens make offer to be father of my ! WHAT???? Are they crazy? I not only person who asking why the white guys like Asian woman. SpyGirLL ask in her blog [post 125449] the same question. Coldlonelysea in her blog Attention Attention Attention seem to have the problem I have. I get the letter from the guy who say he loves Chinese culture. So what!!! I like Chinese culture too but that not make me run out and say "hey, I love GoldmanHuangShan." Sure, I like Burger King but does that mean I like American culture? What is there to like about American culture? It has lots of freedom? I think maybe it means it has lots of spoiled and rotten parents too lazy to teach their . So grow up stupid and thinking "wow, Chinese food, I like eggrolls." Now is that Chinese culture? I look at some of the profiles of guys who write to me. Most look like losers, really. Some really cute guys but I think most just cut and paste from some gay guy magazine. So I email back and ask they send me photo of them holding latest copy of Time magazine. Only one man do. And he say his real age is 42 but he listing age 33 because he feel that age. I think his age more like 3, so childish. Some western man (not cowboys) think that Asian woman is hot for sex. Remember Jessica Rabbit from Roger Rabbit movie? I think she say "I'm not really sexy, I'm just drawn this way." You know Asian woman not really exotic and erotic, just simple woman who just happens to look different then western woman and not too overweight. Some guys say Asian woman looks younger then western woman. You think maybe is because Asian woman not make pig of herself when eating and just keep slim and trim through proper diet. If choice is Burger King or Panda Express, take neither. So my question is to you guys and girls and other peoples out there what do you think Asian woman really interested in? |
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1/8/2008 10:09 am |
Oh you write so much that I have to take vaction from work just to reading that's funny.... but probably true..  but, more on the humor side.. it's symbolic .. If woman imagine how much time I put into doing things .. then the symbolic principal.. becomes a good thing  I try not to miss even a toe's twich ..
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1/7/2008 2:43 pm |
when I was working in LA there were many women that I worked with that hit on me... and one woman who was the superior.. did so and when I rejected she caused me a world wind of problems.. and people even said.. stupid stuff like,.. she is a white lady and who is this black man to think he can refuse her. and I even had people who tripped saying that I thought I was too good for some of the women, and then saying that I did not like this kind or that kind of woman.. and everything imaginable.. and I was making decent money and some all they said is stuff like, he'd make a good catch becase he makes this or he has this or that... and it's all pure crazy.. I was going to one church and they just decided they'd match me up with some woman, whom I found not even in the least to be what I like.. and they even made an issue of that. i moved here and people started that same crap.. saying.. Oh, you can have any woman you want because you got this and that.. and it's all external appearance stuff based on stuff they know nothing about the cost to maintain it. and to me it really is stuff that equals nothing.. I've even had old time school friends who don't even communicate because they measure me by stuff.. and think that I think this stuff makes me more .. when what matters to me, is the mental aspect of life, the will and want to do something, the will and want to be with integrity and have substance in the character... I talk about ideas, and making and building things.. where many people like to talk about things and stuff, and who's got this kind of house and that kind of car.. and etc.. that stuff does not phase me.. I care about building things that have business natured aspirations, and things that can contribute to society.. I get turned on by such stuff as that. as to people.. I see beautiful people in all arrays.. as to pretty, I think there are some bi racial people that are just plain eye pretty to look at .. and maybe some of the prettiest people I've seen in life are bi racial, as far as facial pretty.. but in the whole of things.. is all people.. and nothing works between any two people unless they can functionally communicate and have some core natured concerns.. and by that I mean concern for integrity and value for their character.. and those things are colorless and not ethnically specific. and the trip part of all of it is,.. I don't have money...people just make that assumption.
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1/7/2008 2:39 pm |
people have made some interesting comments.. and one matter that become of thought... life is always about "perception"... it plays a great part in how we see and how we think about things.. an that may be a element that requires much more consideration to consider.. than just one side of what drives our "perceptions'.. there's always internal elements that come into play more than sometimes what comes at us from the external. You are so right. Jessica Rabbit: You don't know how hard it is being a woman looking the way I do. Eddie Valiant: You don't know how hard it is being a man looking at a woman looking the way you do. Jessica Rabbit: I'm not bad. I'm just drawn that way. That is my favorite quote.
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1/7/2008 2:37 pm |
very good comment.
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1/7/2008 2:35 pm |
I worked with lots of Asian women.. and the people I met in foreign countries... they were not out and about being someone sex kitten.. and many of the women whom I knew from work.. they come to work and they work hard.. they stay focused on their work.. and I noticed that in HKG.. and even in Thailand people may think it's all some girl sex feast.. but the women when they are talked to as individual.. most of them do the work but they have no want for that work they do it becase they have responsibilities.. women in general .. are just people .. they like to be appreciated as a person.. it's nice if they get a compliment about their figure or their face..but most will tell you right away.. they want to be seen for more than their face or their butt.. and to be understood as a individual and person. for women and men.. it's fun when they are in the mood to play mind erotica with each other.. but thats something that fades in and fade out.. situationally.. I talk a lot about the sexual aspects of life.. but my interest in that.. is more about people not making games and making it some bargining fest.. but, to deal with it as reality and more so than all of that, as an equality matter of people.. I think it the bargain factor is removed people may find out how to appreciate each other.. all women.. of all ethnicities are sensual.. that's something God created to exsit between male and female .. and it involves more than we as humans know.. it just exist.. but no matter how pretty nor how shapely.. it will still come down to the disposition of the individual.. women don't talk much to many men about sex.. becase they know if they did the man would instantly figure she wants to do it.. when to her it may be a simple matter of conversation about a natural body function between people.. or about the emptional realization that exist to attract people.. what many never noticed in the Bible.. it clearly says "Adam came to KNOW Eve" .. and that's a very important statement.. "to know".. most women know they can play the average guy for a sucker by and thru his own desire.. and if he bugs them.. they may just play him to simply show him how meaningless she can make him feel.. telling a woman you like her because she is Asian .. is about equal to telling her you like her because of her breast or her butt.. they get turned off from such quicker than if you walked up and slapped her.. because it's a slap to her character... to be told such stuff. they already know their body mass is small.. and they don't mind you appreciating that.. but they don't want you worship ping them for that factor. we all know that.. visual are a part of our make up and our attracting factor as being.. but we also have to know.. there are many .. who find that the look is not what matters when the integrity of the person is not the most important.. there are many pretty faced women that .. many have no interest in as well as shapely becase they don't like the demeanor of them as a person.. if looks made a relationship.. Halley Berry would never have been divorced. and she'd have a perfect relationship.. but that is not even remotely a reality factor. people get hung up on the sex part of what I write and miss the whole point.. my writing always come to the point of " discussing the removal of the bargaining mentality, the manipulating mentality and dealing with the reality factor of being simply honest people.. and no matter what happens in life.. it will always be about the honesty factor of people and the integrity elements of their character.. and if they don't have that they their dignity will not be present and without that.. it has nothing.. but two people BS'ning each other. we can like all the characteristics of physical appeal that we want.. but .. it's the person within and behind it that will matter.but
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1/7/2008 2:28 pm |
I have a feeling that men are more sexual in general thinking than women.. hence the saying "men play at love to find sex and women play at sex to find love." I think that you would find men are equally as attracted to women of all races/ethnicities and not just asian. However, your thoughts/theories are amplified as this is an Asian singles site. Also, when you put comments on your profile like " I can be good, but I'm better when I'm bad." you may set a sexually tone.. and the fact that you are sexy looking adds to things too. I don't think its bad that you or other asian women are looked at with sexual/physical desire. What is important is that you are always treated like a lady and with genuine respect. But you know some women give in easy to man cause they want to find fast road to some sort of security or maybe they just like to have that kind of relationship. I know lots of woman like me who can be anything a man wants them to be behind the close door. My friend tell me that she is the lady in public but behind the close door with her boyfriend she is a hooker like person. Now I never meet the hooker but I guess I understand what she mean so maybe her boyfriend has that kind of fantasy about her or about the woman. But I like the quote best from Who Framed Roger Rabbit, you remember the movie? Jessica Rabbit: You don't know how hard it is being a woman looking the way I do. Eddie Valiant: You don't know how hard it is being a man looking at a woman looking the way you do. Jessica Rabbit: I'm not bad. I'm just drawn that way. So just because a woman looks beautiful does not mean she is a sex craving woman. Just some ladies are more easy to look at then others.
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1/7/2008 2:18 pm |
when I was working in LA there were many women that I worked with that hit on me... and one woman who was the superior.. did so and when I rejected she caused me a world wind of problems.. and people even said.. stupid stuff like,.. she is a white lady and who is this black man to think he can refuse her. and I even had people who tripped saying that I thought I was too good for some of the women, and then saying that I did not like this kind or that kind of woman.. and everything imaginable.. and I was making decent money and some all they said is stuff like, he'd make a good catch becase he makes this or he has this or that... and it's all pure crazy.. I was going to one church and they just decided they'd match me up with some woman, whom I found not even in the least to be what I like.. and they even made an issue of that. i moved here and people started that same crap.. saying.. Oh, you can have any woman you want because you got this and that.. and it's all external appearance stuff based on stuff they know nothing about the cost to maintain it. and to me it really is stuff that equals nothing.. I've even had old time school friends who don't even communicate because they measure me by stuff.. and think that I think this stuff makes me more .. when what matters to me, is the mental aspect of life, the will and want to do something, the will and want to be with integrity and have substance in the character... I talk about ideas, and making and building things.. where many people like to talk about things and stuff, and who's got this kind of house and that kind of car.. and etc.. that stuff does not phase me.. I care about building things that have business natured aspirations, and things that can contribute to society.. I get turned on by such stuff as that. as to people.. I see beautiful people in all arrays.. as to pretty, I think there are some bi racial people that are just plain eye pretty to look at .. and maybe some of the prettiest people I've seen in life are bi racial, as far as facial pretty.. but in the whole of things.. is all people.. and nothing works between any two people unless they can functionally communicate and have some core natured concerns.. and by that I mean concern for integrity and value for their character.. and those things are colorless and not ethnically specific. and the trip part of all of it is,.. I don't have money...people just make that assumption.
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1/7/2008 2:18 pm |
In my opinion, it doesn't matter what race, sex and where they come from,there are always people come here for sex. I dont' know why u r so interested how guys think about what asain women want. everyone wants differently. Very hard to answer your question. it's just matter of you. what kind of guys u r looking for date. There is not need to answer it in general. there re girls who use other's photo, bragging she is a virgin at age of 25.... come on, there are stupid losers and liers everywhere. dont' try to always blame on guys... we re so innocent sometimes.. not always.
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1/7/2008 2:13 pm |
Hey my girlfriend is asian indonesian and the sex is great but that is not why i love her . i love her for who she is a beautiful intelligent young lady . in my opinion all women should be treated with kindness and respect no matter what race age or looks . but unfortunately not all men have been taught the right way to respect and treat a lady . i travel to asia a lot and many ladies prostitute themselves but for them this is their only means of making a living and supporting the family . it is sad but it is life and maybe this adds to the male perception that asian women are easy targets . so guys take a little time and think before you open yuor mouth and and try not to put your foot in there . Suzie is poor girl by someone and she has baby. Family disown her cause she have the baby, not her fault but now she have no family at all and besides in that culture she is girl so she is expendable since gonna move away anyway after marry but you k So only way Suzie can support self is by selling what only thing she have is body so she can live for her and her child and she dream to educate child so son can be better life then hers. So I understand that many mans before in the 1950s and 1960s have this vision that is what Asian woman is like and maybe they still having that fantasy today cause of lots of American mans go to the Vietnam war and to Asia and not realize that woman is in that position of prostitue cause not their fault is that culture gives them no other outlet or hopeing. I guess that is call sterotype. I know a few times I want to stick something besides foot in guy's mouth beside the foot but not find happy man want to do that for me to him. Again you too seem understand that woman want the respect. Vicky
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1/7/2008 2:05 pm |
People are people not where they come from or their culture decides their actions. Case and point: I've been contacted by some women on this site just for sex,(some are asian and some are american) that doesn't mean I think every asian woman that contacts me is just for sex. There are asian women on this site that are very intellectual and very professional. So you can't judge or label a culture for a select few who care to disrespect themselves. I think we need to look at people as individuals and not as a group or label them as a certain culture and relay that to their actions. There are women around the world from different backgrounds that you will meet that will have some really great qualities. You will also meet some women where you want to say " what on earth were you thinking". Your statement about American children being spoiled: When I go out and I see spoiled American children, I'm embarrassed, I think will people will see these kids and think "is that how all American kids are raised"? Again it's the individual, I travel a lot and see spoiled kids from around the world from all cultures. I just think that the USA is always in the spotlight and that's maybe because we always put ourselves in that position. What do Asian women want: The something that every woman wants; I man that will respect them, a man that is caring, loving, successful, motivated,honest and loyal. A man that will respect her for her opinion and will support her goals and dreams. A man that won't judge her and will understand and respect her background. A man that would do anything for her to show his love. Marc Yes, I think and maybe I already know that there is a universal want that all women want regardless if Asian woman or European woman or African woman or any kind of woman. I know there is spoiled children all over the place and one time I go to Africa and see the poor kids there but you know they are not the same as spoiled American kids. Even in Asian poor countires when you see the poor children running along side of the American asking for maybe cigarette or candy or something is not really part of their culture but what they learning that maybe the Americans do that make the children react that way. I like what you and some others say, I think you understanding that universal want and need for any person is respect however that is understood like consideration and courtesy and loyalty and honesty but that is all in that one word respect. Thank you and looking forward to hearing more from you. VICKY
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1/7/2008 1:59 pm |
OOPS!!! I think you make it right and wrong. But no opinion is wrong, right? I think average Western guy understand that regardless where woman come from that woman is the same as woman in his society. But I think that man who thinks that woman from outside his culture can give him what he is lacking in his own culture is in for very rude slap in the face when encounter real facts of relationship with Asian woman. Unless he really lucky and find some desperate woman want to escape to her own fantasy land with her fantasy man to a foreign land he gonna find that under the skin color there is red blood same as all other woman. And that is going to be the man's problem when enter that kind of relation ship having a dream expectation based on his own insecurity and need for something he cannot find in his own society because of his own failure in himself that he gonna be hurting a lot, right? But you know, I think that in all the society the basic goal between all men and woman is to find that one person even if not the dream perfect to share a lifetime together. So big question and maybe the big problem is how do the outside culture man make entry into the woman's culture? Is hard, right? You know anyway can be making easy?
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1/7/2008 1:52 pm |
Well i am a New Zealand man and i have know Chinese people for nine years,close friends and lovers,some Chinese women in a new country need a good friend network that they are often missing,leaving China from a bad relationship often,coming to a new country for a new life,can often feel lonely,leaving behind their Husband Children,some not being quite ready for a relationship are looking for a good friend and a lover,most men with common sense will know that not too many women(Chinese or whatever country)are just looking for a quick bonk,more someone that will be there for security for them and family life,i am not a psychologist(wish i was sometimes i would earn double a friend is hehe)seriously some men feel lost lonely and confused and do not have good communication skills or confidence,some men feel lost in a society where traditionally hundred and even thousands of years ago and even twenty years ago roles have changed so much giving women much more money,power,better jobs and social standing unimaginable 30 years ago,so women are more picky,choosy often fussy,so men can feel lost confused,frustrated and do not express themselves well,properly and can be rude or blunt,i see no point myself,better for me to do their best build themselves up even slowly but surely to feel confident,does not have to be through better work,could be education,self development,some Asain women i have found to be very lovely,some are quite blunt,unhappy,very money oriented,but you will get European women like this,it is also men and women are so different it is quite often a men and women thing,and again this is the net and you will get and find people who are not serious and play. I know lots of Asian/Chinese woman in San Francisco area who divorce and move on to this country to start all over again and yes sometimes they are lonely people and often time seek out other lonely people for comfort but then when they wake up one morning discovering they making a mistake and have to looking at the relationship from the new perspective of claritly and not from the rose color eyeglass where life seem rosy but is not really. And is true that modern woman (can I use that term because regardless when is time in present time is considered to be modern) in American society can be very progressive and very successful then woman used to be. I think my generation man and woman have no problem with us being equal power sharing in everything, job, opportunity, school, finanance and all things like that. Is problem I think for person maybe 20 years old then me to understanding new dynamics in relationships and if they not feel comfortable with woman able to pick and choose what she want then he has the problem and not the woman. But you know I am not looking for that kind of loser person I want a winner. I want a partner, cause maybe who knows maybe in this modern age a modern woman maybe feel more comfortable in relationship with woman instead of man, how I can share respect with. I think the relationship has to be two ways and not the give me give me relationship that some spoiled men I meet have. So thank you for sharing your thoughts with me. You have any other ideas to share? Bye Bye Vicky
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1/7/2008 1:35 pm |
I agree with you can happen regardless of culture person is in. But you knowing that makes it more difficult when you in same culture but you are from different backgrounds and have different value systems, right? And is true about arrogance they have cause somehow they thinking they somebody special when maybe in real life with real friends they are really nobody so they trying to be comic book super hero with total stranger and hope everybody forget in the morning. NOT!!! GONNA HAPPEN. And yes, you are sooooooo correct. We women all want the same thing. But most important is respect for who we are, easy to do right? Thank you for insightful reply.
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1/7/2008 1:31 pm |
Thank you for the complement. I have to do the travel for my father's business four times each year to Asia and two times each year to europe for the fashion business import. You know sometimes I want to pound stupid foreign people when I seem them drunk and making stupid fool of themselves. But you know what irritate me most is seeing American man not behave properly with foreign ladies. I know in America they not going to behave improperly with white ladies so why they thinking when they go to Asia or see Asian lady that they are God's gift to Asian woman when many times they are a horror and maybe sometimes they display that they are disgrace to them ownsleves and human race.
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1/7/2008 1:27 pm |
Oh, you so smart. You get the big hug and kiss from me (only kissing cheek ok?) cause you understanding that all woman really want is security. Financial security not really mean lots of money, I mean what can Eskimo lady offer man except maybe body heat inside their igloo and is his job to go catching the fish, the seal, the whale, the polar bear so she can heating and be his heater. So they both have stake in his being successful so he not freeze his cute butt in cold ice house.
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1/7/2008 1:24 pm |
I like your post a lot and I was laughing. Because it's dead on accurate. You would probably get a kick out of the things I get to hear. So many guys think that all Asian women are hot. I just have to laugh when they say that, because I can easily show them that most Asian women are not hot, just like most American women are not hot. It's only a small percentage of women that are very attractive and when it comes to Asian women, they tend to show only the most attractive on American TV and movies. So American guys naturally think they are all hot. As for what I think Asian women are really interested in, I would first need to break it down by country. There are many countries in Asia and I imagine that women from Laos have different interests from women in Mongolia, for example. So, it would be quite difficult to define what Asian women are interested in. I have one friend in Asia and she lives in Japan. She likes video games, Darth Vader helmets, and coconuts!
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1/7/2008 10:27 am |
people have made some interesting comments.. and one matter that become of thought... life is always about "perception"... it plays a great part in how we see and how we think about things.. an that may be a element that requires much more consideration to consider.. than just one side of what drives our "perceptions'.. there's always internal elements that come into play more than sometimes what comes at us from the external.
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1/7/2008 10:22 am |
In my opinion, it doesn't matter what race, sex and where they come from,there are always people come here for sex. I dont' know why u r so interested how guys think about what asain women want. everyone wants differently. Very hard to answer your question. it's just matter of you. what kind of guys u r looking for date. There is not need to answer it in general. there re girls who use other's photo, bragging she is a virgin at age of 25.... come on, there are stupid losers and liers everywhere. dont' try to always blame on guys... we re so innocent sometimes.. not always.
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1/7/2008 10:20 am |
I worked with lots of Asian women.. and the people I met in foreign countries... they were not out and about being someone sex kitten.. and many of the women whom I knew from work.. they come to work and they work hard.. they stay focused on their work.. and I noticed that in HKG.. and even in Thailand people may think it's all some girl sex feast.. but the women when they are talked to as individual.. most of them do the work but they have no want for that work they do it becase they have responsibilities.. women in general .. are just people .. they like to be appreciated as a person.. it's nice if they get a compliment about their figure or their face..but most will tell you right away.. they want to be seen for more than their face or their butt.. and to be understood as a individual and person. for women and men.. it's fun when they are in the mood to play mind erotica with each other.. but thats something that fades in and fade out.. situationally.. I talk a lot about the sexual aspects of life.. but my interest in that.. is more about people not making games and making it some bargining fest.. but, to deal with it as reality and more so than all of that, as an equality matter of people.. I think it the bargain factor is removed people may find out how to appreciate each other.. all women.. of all ethnicities are sensual.. that's something God created to exsit between male and female .. and it involves more than we as humans know.. it just exist.. but no matter how pretty nor how shapely.. it will still come down to the disposition of the individual.. women don't talk much to many men about sex.. becase they know if they did the man would instantly figure she wants to do it.. when to her it may be a simple matter of conversation about a natural body function between people.. or about the emptional realization that exist to attract people.. what many never noticed in the Bible.. it clearly says "Adam came to KNOW Eve" .. and that's a very important statement.. "to know".. most women know they can play the average guy for a sucker by and thru his own desire.. and if he bugs them.. they may just play him to simply show him how meaningless she can make him feel.. telling a woman you like her because she is Asian .. is about equal to telling her you like her because of her breast or her butt.. they get turned off from such quicker than if you walked up and slapped her.. because it's a slap to her character... to be told such stuff. they already know their body mass is small.. and they don't mind you appreciating that.. but they don't want you worship ping them for that factor. we all know that.. visual are a part of our make up and our attracting factor as being.. but we also have to know.. there are many .. who find that the look is not what matters when the integrity of the person is not the most important.. there are many pretty faced women that .. many have no interest in as well as shapely becase they don't like the demeanor of them as a person.. if looks made a relationship.. Halley Berry would never have been divorced. and she'd have a perfect relationship.. but that is not even remotely a reality factor. people get hung up on the sex part of what I write and miss the whole point.. my writing always come to the point of " discussing the removal of the bargaining mentality, the manipulating mentality and dealing with the reality factor of being simply honest people.. and no matter what happens in life.. it will always be about the honesty factor of people and the integrity elements of their character.. and if they don't have that they their dignity will not be present and without that.. it has nothing.. but two people BS'ning each other. we can like all the characteristics of physical appeal that we want.. but .. it's the person within and behind it that will matter.but
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1/7/2008 8:35 am |
I have a feeling that men are more sexual in general thinking than women.. hence the saying "men play at love to find sex and women play at sex to find love." I think that you would find men are equally as attracted to women of all races/ethnicities and not just asian. However, your thoughts/theories are amplified as this is an Asian singles site. Also, when you put comments on your profile like " I can be good, but I'm better when I'm bad." you may set a sexually tone.. and the fact that you are sexy looking adds to things too. I don't think its bad that you or other asian women are looked at with sexual/physical desire. What is important is that you are always treated like a lady and with genuine respect.
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1/6/2008 8:36 pm |
In my opinion, it doesn't matter what race, sex and where they come from,there are always people come here for sex. I dont' know why u r so interested how guys think about what asain women want. everyone wants differently. Very hard to answer your question. it's just matter of you. what kind of guys u r looking for date. There is not need to answer it in general. there re girls who use other's photo, bragging she is a virgin at age of 25.... come on, there are stupid losers and liers everywhere. dont' try to always blame on guys... we re so innocent sometimes.. not always.
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1 post 1/6/2008 3:27 pm |
Hey my girlfriend is asian indonesian and the sex is great but that is not why i love her . i love her for who she is a beautiful intelligent young lady . in my opinion all women should be treated with kindness and respect no matter what race age or looks . but unfortunately not all men have been taught the right way to respect and treat a lady . i travel to asia a lot and many ladies prostitute themselves but for them this is their only means of making a living and supporting the family . it is sad but it is life and maybe this adds to the male perception that asian women are easy targets . so guys take a little time and think before you open yuor mouth and and try not to put your foot in there .
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1/6/2008 9:34 am |
People are people not where they come from or their culture decides their actions. Case and point: I've been contacted by some women on this site just for sex,(some are asian and some are american) that doesn't mean I think every asian woman that contacts me is just for sex. There are asian women on this site that are very intellectual and very professional. So you can't judge or label a culture for a select few who care to disrespect themselves. I think we need to look at people as individuals and not as a group or label them as a certain culture and relay that to their actions. There are women around the world from different backgrounds that you will meet that will have some really great qualities. You will also meet some women where you want to say " what on earth were you thinking". Your statement about American children being spoiled: When I go out and I see spoiled American children, I'm embarrassed, I think will people will see these kids and think "is that how all American kids are raised"? Again it's the individual, I travel a lot and see spoiled kids from around the world from all cultures. I just think that the USA is always in the spotlight and that's maybe because we always put ourselves in that position. What do Asian women want: The something that every woman wants; I man that will respect them, a man that is caring, loving, successful, motivated,honest and loyal. A man that will respect her for her opinion and will support her goals and dreams. A man that won't judge her and will understand and respect her background. A man that would do anything for her to show his love. Marc
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1/5/2008 1:47 pm |
Ok, try this perspective on for size.. My generation of Americans (baby boomers) was taught much about American history, and European history as young students. But all we learned about Asian countries was either related to World War II or popular misconceptions about cultures inspired often by movies. As the world is getting smaller and we have the opportunity to actually meet and get to know Japanese and Chinese people, we have a natural curiosity and a sincere interest in the cultures. Women? Of course Asian women are fascinating and beautiful. But any more than the Italian, German, Swedish or Irish women? Not really. The difference is that we have become accustomed to their features. In fact, they are what American women are made of. We, Americans and Asians are just getting to know eachother. Through business, the info superhighway, the History Channel and sites like this. There have been huge changes in our lives in the last 20 or 30 years, and more to come. China fascinates me for many reasons, not the least of which is the sheer numbers involved. 20% of the world? Think about it. Even as we compete for business, we have tremendous opportinities to help eachother in so many aspects of life. Exchange of our collective knowledge in education, medicine, social challenges that accompany growth and prosperity, ecology and on and on. So, I guess we start by simply getting to know eachother. Nice to meet ya'! Al ps: Sorry if I strayed to far from the subject.
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1/5/2008 2:41 am |
Bonsoir..... Lee... I have no comment regarding your opinion. But I do like to express mine at some points , when some men told me that they like chinese cultures and chinese women . They mostly dont know what they truly mean . I guess it must be a simple compliment or maybe it is just for their convenience with the traditional women. There used to be a slogan that men want japanese women.It is not because of their cultures.Without anu offendre, it is becoz these women have the beautiful qualities by being submissive, but I may be wrong. My dad used to make this joke , such as American house, Chinese cuisine, Japanese women. It was a dream for the older generation.  Like you, I found out that some men with their passions for chinese culture is about eggrolls , skin tone or body shapes .For them , there is no need to understand our cultures. From the mails and profiles I've read.Yet, they also want women to be independant, assertive, player, sportive, etc. there are so many to site here. I simply cant remember. As I can tell you.The western women are as interesting as the chinese women. They are great and their personalities are very intriguing, too.They are the good mothers and good wives, also. They can take charge and be equal to men. Maybe it is the reason why some men have such a judgemental opinion between these 2, but I may be wrong. Personally, it also irritated me when some men have the mindsets for the chinese women as if we always bow the head in walking .j/k I thank you for this topic.Btw, I can eat a Big mac, a cheese burger, an apple pie and a milk shake at mealtime. Will love to meet you one day in San Francisco for a burger and hang out. How's that ??? Nite nite. God Bless  Rejoicefrance  You know I just kidding about the white woman. Really, I think all woman is beautiful, right? Just some hard to look at. I just get upset when I am in bar with friends and some white guys walk up to me and start talking about how much they are in love with Asian woman and my girlfriends with me are all white and very pretty like models. I not sure why they think just because I am in bar with my girlfriends enjoying the evening that I am shopping for a white guy. I date a white man once and he get upset when I tell him NO when he want to practice make baby with me. I tell him I am not like that kind of girl at all and he get really upset. Good thing my brothers teach me how to fight. I hit him really hard in his you know where and I get out of his car and start run and call 911 and they put him in the jail. So that is reason I only go out with groups now. Never go out with white guy by myself. You know, when no body looking I sneak out and go to the Wendy for the tripple square hamburger with cheese special. Oh so good to eat. And then add the french fries and the shake (make from imitation ice cream) and you have one gonna be fat Asian girl if I can't shake my bootie on the dance floor with my friends. Sure, why not meet in San Fran someday for the hamburger. Eagle Nest at Pier 39 serve really nice handmade hamburger, not made from frozen patty like Micky D, or BK. Take care. VICTORY
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