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I Want To Chat With You In Private I get lots of email from guys and I don't find many too interesting. Most is boring. So I asking them, hey, let's have conversation. Go to my blog Why Western Guys Think Asian Woman Only Interested In Sex and let me know what you think. That way others know what you think and we can have a conversation. You know what? Lots of them afraid to share ideas to ME and YOU or sharing with total strangers. WHAT? Me is total stranger to them and they don't thinking to clear that I don't know they are strange to me too? Why most guys afraid to share thoughts in blog? Huh? In the email they saying like, "Hey cutie, you the best I see here in the AFF." << You not looking too good, lots of good looking guys here too, you know. or "I long for a beautiful woman." << Keep longing this girl long gone. or "I don't want to share my private thoughts with with world." << Then why you share them to me???? or "*&(*&#&(*&#(*&(*#&(*&*&^*&@^*&#&*" (You know what they saying, those naughty boys) OK you understanding what I trying to say, right? They can saying all kinds strange things to a total stranger, ME, in Asia Friendfinder email. But they afraid to say the same thing to YOU and ME in Asia Friendfinder blog!!! What is wrong with them? Why those guys afraid to sharing with everybody their thoughts in the blog? Anybody out there can tell me why they so afraid? VICKY |
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1/7/2008 9:57 pm |
I also sent this in email form, not e-male.  In your blog post 'I Want To Chat With You In Private', you revealed a problem I had never thought of before. It does seem that men should be willing to say the same things in a blog or email. Most men are not interested in talking to you. That may seem like a contradiction, but remember that men are programmed to be easily stimulated. They see your picture and want to do something other than talking. I know that sounds negative, but it is the simplest explanation I can think of. In other words, when using the internet, you are still very much exposed to 'pick-up' lines. I guess, here, you could jokingly call them e-males, where 'e' stands for 'erect'. E-males are no different than those guys in the bars; this place allows their personalities to exist, digitally.
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1/7/2008 2:46 pm |
the answers that you speak of .. is a summation of the point depicted in a summation of perspective.. that hopefully give other's motivation to express their views be it similar or differ, agree or not agree... I seek resolve of the point depiction.. that others may reflect upon it and supply their commentary or rebuttals..  I enjoy to write.. I've been doing it so long.. it's a daily habit.. and has been for over 30 yrs..  I find everything about life interesting.. and like to see and hear what other's think .. and how they view things.
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1/7/2008 1:36 pm |
Touch You certainly write a lot in your blog and you often answer your own questions but that is good, right to talk to yourself because I think sometimes we are many people and so is only way to find that inner self that want to talk to you. Yes and is true that here in the public place needs to be honest and truthful, but you know wit and humor is good too. Also, I like to be educated because there is too many different points of view and is easy to forget that sometimes. Vicky I enjoy to write.. I've been doing it so long.. it's a daily habit.. and has been for over 30 yrs.. I find everything about life interesting.. and like to see and hear what other's think .. and how they view things.
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1/7/2008 12:57 pm |
I had a friend on her who was very delightful to chat with.. via the messenger.. but the problem I found was the time element of keeping it going... she was very vibrant and expressing , great sense of humor and shared a great many things about life in her locality... she was a professional woman with a child.. and quite an interesting person in every respect.. but for me.. I'd like to be able to at some point and time visit and share some face to face meetings.. and then utilize the technology in-between such times. but different people like the tech tools for different reason.. and it's most certainly a very wide variety of reasons and things people utilize it for .. But I like the interaction of the blogging cause I can reflect first, right, and then can answer back after lots of thinking. No rush to reply, just take the time when is most convenient.
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1/7/2008 12:54 pm |
I talk about "anything" in My blogs.. and in the magazine.. I don't write very many mails .. I've never understood why so many are so afraid to talk about what they think.. in open forum.. to me.. if one is not afraid of their thoughts, then they can stand behind them expressed in open forums. You certainly write a lot in your blog and you often answer your own questions but that is good, right to talk to yourself because I think sometimes we are many people and so is only way to find that inner self that want to talk to you. Yes and is true that here in the public place needs to be honest and truthful, but you know wit and humor is good too. Also, I like to be educated because there is too many different points of view and is easy to forget that sometimes. Vicky
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1/7/2008 12:51 pm |
I think many people just want to share thoughts with their good friends. So, be friends first.
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1/7/2008 12:25 pm |
I had a friend on her who was very delightful to chat with.. via the messenger.. but the problem I found was the time element of keeping it going... she was very vibrant and expressing , great sense of humor and shared a great many things about life in her locality... she was a professional woman with a child.. and quite an interesting person in every respect.. but for me.. I'd like to be able to at some point and time visit and share some face to face meetings.. and then utilize the technology in-between such times. but different people like the tech tools for different reason.. and it's most certainly a very wide variety of reasons and things people utilize it for ..
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1/7/2008 9:57 am |
I talk about "anything" in My blogs.. and in the magazine.. I don't write very many mails .. I've never understood why so many are so afraid to talk about what they think.. in open forum.. to me.. if one is not afraid of their thoughts, then they can stand behind them expressed in open forums.
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I think many people just want to share thoughts with their good friends. So, be friends first.
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