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Plain or Hotie Picture? Long time I am there in the AFF. Mostly just have plain picture of me in my profile. Then last week I put some picture of me just play model in our spring fashion collection. Then WOW!!! suddenly lots of email flooding my Asia Friendfinder mailbox. Sooooooo many that cannot answering them anymore. I just regular member so sometimes I can answer one or two letter a month. But not hundreds. I to cheap go silver or gold. So I thinking, guys not really interested in what we say in the profile. They only thinking with the eyes and the wild image in the mind. They think seeing hotie picture that girl is hotie too. Don't think so. If I posting the plain picture that is me. If i posting you know that other kind of picture, well, you know a woman always like to dream maybe can be fashionalble, right? Not dream to be hotie for total stranger. What you think? Guys thinking too much with gonads when eyeballs see hotie? |
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1/7/2008 1:31 pm |
Yes, I reading your blog long time too. Only now I find the courage to try to writing in English. You know sometimes American slang make my face red, you know like time I suggest job for somebody. Oh, that making my face so red. You sometimes I teasing people because I need let them know I disagree with them so I use the humor, you know make the funny saying to them so they know maybe is not what they say but how they say is make me confuse or want to question what they saying. By the way I not have anything against Mr. Goldie. I like teasing you too because you are fun to chatting with. See people I not attracted to the handsome man but I do like their sense of humor. They are my friends. Right? VICKY I like your analogy about the shopping cart and the baby.. I've said it before.. there are more couples who are not that face and shape pretty who make up many famines and many times these are the people who I see that have great family gatherings.. they are more into enjoying each other and life.. than styling and profiling and afraid to have fun for trying to uphold a pretty person image.. keep writing... it's good... and yes.. I like good humor.. I don't find myself getting angry at stuff people write it's all life.. and within the irony of life is the joys of living it..
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1/7/2008 12:48 pm |
the one's that are real would have noticed you before... and you are well aware of that fact.. so .. to selectively respond to the mail is reasonable.. at least you are smart enough not to let it get you off balance.. I've seen you here for quite a while.. and I always thought you make very good open speaking comments.. which I find the most of delight.. your new pictures look good.. but as you say.. women like to do their dress up on occassions.. but it's still the everyday woman of person that makes the real difference. You sometimes I teasing people because I need let them know I disagree with them so I use the humor, you know make the funny saying to them so they know maybe is not what they say but how they say is make me confuse or want to question what they saying. By the way I not have anything against Mr. Goldie. I like teasing you too because you are fun to chatting with. See people I not attracted to the handsome man but I do like their sense of humor. They are my friends. Right? VICKY
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1/7/2008 12:43 pm |
Sure! That is what makes the initial connection for most. Sex-appeal. I like to read what people have to say though. Pictures can be fake, but the words, read over time, show the real person. Rich You so right about what you saying. That is why I asking people who want to knowing more about me to share their thoughts with me! Like you say, it is the thoughts that show us the person's mind and what they really are like. Maybe first time impression is important too but over the time when you conversing with the other person you will be discovering more about them cause they easily forget their lies and soon you knowing the truth about them. Vicky
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1/7/2008 12:41 pm |
Ok, so now you is saying that God is a designer, right? Like maybe Alexandra Nea, Bill Blass, Cecelia Yau, Guilano Fujiwara, right? So what kind of fashion statement you think God is making with so many differnt styles to choose from? And then what happen next when two fashion designers joining together to make a new fashion statement. Was that God or who make the new design? Or is just random chaos event?
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1/7/2008 12:36 pm |
Right now I feeling like you hit and run driver just leave a comment but not explain exactly what you meaning. What is the supply you suggesting or thinking about? What is the demand people asking for? Can you please explaing more to me please? Let me understand more your thinking this subject. Vicky
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1/7/2008 12:34 pm |
When my eyeballs see a hottie, my gonads influence my brain and behavior, for sure. I think it would be difficult for a male to not be affected by a very attractive woman. Men are stimulated by what they see to an extent that is more pronounced than in women. This is not negative, but a survival trait. If men did not care about reproduction, then there would be very few people. Thus, men are very easily stimulated. Here is something that is interesting: If a woman is attractive, regardless of her status or income, men will try to mate with her, in very large numbers. The popularity of the woman is totally irrelevant. If a man is attractive, then women will not try to mate with him in large numbers. The visual appearance of males is of a negligible value. Status is more important. A popular male with money will attract large number of women that want to mate. Women, in some ways, have it much easier when finding a mate. Their existence is all that is required. All an attractive woman has to do is exist. A man must do much more than merely exist. Of course, I don't have to prove this to you. The bulging status of your inbox is probably sufficient proof. Now I knowing cannot buy the baby in the supermarket so where they coming from? So I thinking that maybe is not the appearance of the two peoples who make the cute child is most imporant, right? Somehow they find something special to connecting them to making love to sharing the living together to committing to raising a child togehter. So is that meaning that all the mens have a lots of money and easy to attract the woman? Or what is it that brings total strangers together even if not rich and make the family and life together? Vicky
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1/7/2008 12:30 pm |
I like average plus to attractive girls and women most men do,but after that i look inside the person,very important for me to have a nice person for a friend or more.well men are human,like women,women are turned on by nice looking men the same,maybe not all same with men.
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1/7/2008 9:52 am |
the one's that are real would have noticed you before... and you are well aware of that fact.. so .. to selectively respond to the mail is reasonable.. at least you are smart enough not to let it get you off balance.. I've seen you here for quite a while.. and I always thought you make very good open speaking comments.. which I find the most of delight.. your new pictures look good.. but as you say.. women like to do their dress up on occassions.. but it's still the everyday woman of person that makes the real difference.
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1/7/2008 9:48 am |
Sure! That is what makes the initial connection for most. Sex-appeal. I like to read what people have to say though. Pictures can be fake, but the words, read over time, show the real person. Rich    "Lead, Follow, or Stay Out of the Way"
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1/6/2008 8:54 am |
When my eyeballs see a hottie, my gonads influence my brain and behavior, for sure. I think it would be difficult for a male to not be affected by a very attractive woman. Men are stimulated by what they see to an extent that is more pronounced than in women. This is not negative, but a survival trait. If men did not care about reproduction, then there would be very few people. Thus, men are very easily stimulated. Here is something that is interesting: If a woman is attractive, regardless of her status or income, men will try to mate with her, in very large numbers. The popularity of the woman is totally irrelevant. If a man is attractive, then women will not try to mate with him in large numbers. The visual appearance of males is of a negligible value. Status is more important. A popular male with money will attract large number of women that want to mate. Women, in some ways, have it much easier when finding a mate. Their existence is all that is required. All an attractive woman has to do is exist. A man must do much more than merely exist. Of course, I don't have to prove this to you. The bulging status of your inbox is probably sufficient proof.
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