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victorylee0516
(victoria lee)
42F
3081 posts
1/15/2008 12:35 pm
Whimpy Emails


I get lots of emails from total stranger want me to knowing them.

How silly of them cause what they say is gonna make me want to knowing more abouts them?

Why they cannot saying something catch my attention, right?

They not have time to answer my questions in my blog but they wanting me to chat with them.

That kinda talk is waste my time cause is only gonna be tiny talk, you know, just say hi, you cute, you nice, marry me, do nasty talk with me here.

NO WAY I gonna do IM chat with total stranger.

I want meeing somebody who willing to stick neck out for me to cut and willing to give me good conversation and educate me and opening my mind.

Anyways, I sent them automatic reply to engaging me in good conversation.

Only few mans has the nerve doing so.

TOUCH is interesting guy he has lots to say about everything but he challenge me about Black peoles and Asians.

So anyway I make post to see what he gonna do and we engage in really long discourse about one topic.

He educate me from his point of view and experience but I challenge him to looking at my point of view from my experience and education.

Some peoples email me say Vicky you too tough on Touch but you know if man cannot stand the heat then why he trying to turn me on, right?

So in the end Touch and I have good conversation and he learing my point of view and we still friends.

So you guys, you wanna know me, not gonna be knowing me by email or im or whatever else you think you gonna be using.

My blog is my open forum to protecting me from nasty email and way for me to learning more about you.

So I am too serious now. I want to find a nice person who is smarter then me but he has to be able to engaging me in good conversation over any topic and not run away when he thinking I angry cause I really not just trying get my point across to you, ok?

Bye Bye and engaging me in good conversation. Maybe you the one I gonna choosing for engaging later.

victorylee0516
(victoria lee)
42F

3/3/2008 11:24 pm

    Quoting James00733:
    The price of tea? That is not the disease it is only the symptom. I like green tea it is very healthy. Sometimes drink black tea because I am used to it but green tea is better.
I like the white tea. It has less caffine, a much more lighter taste. You should try it sometimes.


James00733 51M
40 posts
3/3/2008 11:02 pm

The price of tea? That is not the disease it is only the symptom. I like green tea it is very healthy. Sometimes drink black tea because I am used to it but green tea is better.


victorylee0516
(victoria lee)
42F

2/8/2008 9:59 am

    Quoting rsflener:
    I don't drink tea and I am very kind and respectful to all woman. This my father taught me.
    If you want to put me in a category from the exchange of a few words, that is your prerogative. But I still think you are intelligent and pretty

    Rich
Actually, you are a very nice person and I enjoy reading your blog and your comments. So please come back for more and please share more.

VICKY


rsflener 61M

2/8/2008 9:06 am

    Quoting victorylee0516:
    Why don't you give me example to correct the problem with the price of tea in china? You know how to keep the city wanna be boy on the farm so he can pick the tea for cheap so price not go up.

    Or you can explain to me why have a nasty boy database is good or not good idea. I know TOUCH not wanna have that database cause his name gonna be top of the list for being bad to girls in AFF.
I don't drink tea and I am very kind and respectful to all woman. This my father taught me.
If you want to put me in a category from the exchange of a few words, that is your prerogative. But I still think you are intelligent and pretty

Rich

"Lead, Follow, or Stay Out of the Way"


victorylee0516
(victoria lee)
42F

1/17/2008 4:26 pm

CANDY

Good luck big sister.

She not really big, is expression cause she is older then me. I usually call them auntie.

VICKY


victorylee0516
(victoria lee)
42F

1/17/2008 4:25 pm

    Quoting lasearching4asia:
    I find that almost all women that have anything to say here stupid or positive get a free pass.The only time there seems to be a disagreement with them is when race and religion is discuss.If you care to be argumentative just stick with these two subjects. If you just want to be pacified and cute go with the flow and you'll receive the usual treatment, she's so cute and silly.
Well, you forgot to adding to that polictics, economics, and child rasing, and education, and gay/lesbian/bisexual topics. Anyway you wanna swing is ok with me. But you gots to get my attention first and cutsy is not gonna cut it with me.


victorylee0516
(victoria lee)
42F

1/17/2008 4:23 pm

    Quoting  :

You know is not game I playing but I am saying to them, hey you wanna talk to Vicky then this what I wanna talk about. You can give me your insight to that. Or if not then just fire away with wahtever you wanting and we can chat about that. But not interested in pretty lady or nice personality or nice smile conversation, No sir, not at all.


victorylee0516
(victoria lee)
42F

1/17/2008 4:21 pm

    Quoting rsflener:
    Maybe you have it all wrong. Maybe you are not so pretty. Maybe you are not so smart.

    Maybe I am wrong...

    I think you are very smart. You have staked out your territory, and have invited others to come to your comfort zone. You have control. That is what I find interesting about you.

    What would you like to talk about? I would like the same as you. I stepped into your territory. I accept your challenge.

    Are you up to it?

    Richard
Why don't you give me example to correct the problem with the price of tea in china? You know how to keep the city wanna be boy on the farm so he can pick the tea for cheap so price not go up.

Or you can explain to me why have a nasty boy database is good or not good idea. I know TOUCH not wanna have that database cause his name gonna be top of the list for being bad to girls in AFF.


victorylee0516
(victoria lee)
42F

1/17/2008 4:19 pm

    Quoting  :

DEALER

No way I wanna be a trophy for someone to win. You know I knows lots of woman who have husband thinking they have trophy wife and they not want their wife have a life of own cause they thinking maybe trohy wife can be catch for someone else so the man is sooooo jealous to her.

HO, I just honest and saying you want to catch me then you have to catching my attention firstly with your mind and engaging me in really goon conversation before I even consider engage with you.

And is ture, song say, after you get what you want you don't want it, and I don't wanna a man do that to me and say, hey vicky you one nice trophy so you just staying on my wall.

Not way, not gonna happen that way at all.


rsflener 61M

1/15/2008 8:45 pm

By the way, I had emailed you to thank you for your posting in my blog and to compliment your english

Richard

"Lead, Follow, or Stay Out of the Way"


rsflener 61M

1/15/2008 7:14 pm

Maybe you have it all wrong. Maybe you are not so pretty. Maybe you are not so smart.

Maybe I am wrong...

I think you are very smart. You have staked out your territory, and have invited others to come to your comfort zone. You have control. That is what I find interesting about you.

What would you like to talk about? I would like the same as you. I stepped into your territory. I accept your challenge.

Are you up to it?

Richard

"Lead, Follow, or Stay Out of the Way"


touch213 70M

1/15/2008 5:44 pm

    Quoting lasearching4asia:
    I find that almost all women that have anything to say here stupid or positive get a free pass.The only time there seems to be a disagreement with them is when race and religion is discuss.If you care to be argumentative just stick with these two subjects. If you just want to be pacified and cute go with the flow and you'll receive the usual treatment, she's so cute and silly.
really everything has a bit of controversy because life has so many contradicting things within it.. any subject can have dynamic within it..

on here.. I think if people just talk real.. and not talk to these women as if they want to be appeasing to get excited about her panties.. then there can be good engaging conversations.. it's nothing wrong with expressing the complimentary aspect of individuals within such.. but that maybe should not be the main theme say for instance.. we are discussing if water dries up , or become part of what the next clouds are that circle above

most of the women already know.. that if a guy could get to them and get it.. that he more than likely will... they are way smart on that point.. I think they want to share and express their views and thoughts about things and stuff.. and it's good finally to see one here that is open to talk about things, stuff and life.. including race and religion... cause I'll talk about those and politics.. and whatever... it's all life... if it did not exist to be thought about, it would probably not be possible to talk about.. so if it can be thought, it can be talked about.. I like to write silly stuff too..

and I got no reserve talking about what pretty is and how cute impacts.. it's subject matter too.


lasearching4asia 67M

1/15/2008 5:23 pm

I find that almost all women that have anything to say here stupid or positive get a free pass.The only time there seems to be a disagreement with them is when race and religion is discuss.If you care to be argumentative just stick with these two subjects. If you just want to be pacified and cute go with the flow and you'll receive the usual treatment, she's so cute and silly.


touch213 70M

1/15/2008 2:16 pm

I find you delightfully engaging.. I really like that you stand your ground and state your point.. and I appreciate that you equally so open my eyes to look into something that I had not pondered beyond the scope of my environmental collective. This is what I like in a woman, one who is self expressive and has something to say in what she is saying.. and don't fade away at the first segment of opposite concepts but can stick with it to bring it to a point where we both see more in the expanse of what it is..

in my younger years.. I even then knew that a big part of my relationship break ups was beacuse I wanted the women to have and express their point of view , however different from mine.. and work with it till we both gain something from each other.. and thus we each become more thru the process.

I gather from some of you comments in blogs that you are expressive and truly appreciate someone that can engage you in exchanges about what is life..

Not only was the conversation good for those reason..but for the grasp of the challenges that Asians face from blacks in the generalized economic variable of community life challenges.. I also would like to know more and find ways that Asian can challenge the systems of life to confront this issue... It also made me think about the political climate of this run for presidency.. of why the current racial issues are even a matter when we have so many races that need to be acknowledged and addressed in the over-all of this drive for office.. No person who is in office or who gets office can overlook the expanse of the Asian population and they need to find ways to embrace it ... I thing public embrace can help also with the disparity of conflicts that many Asian face within the communities .. not just from blacks but from whites and others..

there are links that people can find across varied ethnic presentations and appearances if they simply make the effort to engage one another..

victorylee, your comment here is true to form the way I think about things.
I want to find a nice person who is smarter then me but he has to be able to engaging me in good conversation over any topic and not run away when he thinking I angry cause I really not just trying get my point across to you, ok?

( except; I don't care if they are smarter than me or not, I care they are willing to investigate subject matter )