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追逐美麗的臉 (Chasing Pretty Face) 為什麼男子只是想美麗的女人？男子只說： "你是美麗的，你是很可愛，你是性感的" 。為什麼不喜歡聰明女人？ 對此你有何看法？ ============================================= I notice that some guys only chasing the pretty face and just leave remark like "you're cute" or "you're the prettiest woman in AFF." Now why is pretty face important to them and not the mind of the woman? Just wondering. |
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馬上就要跨年了、雖然沒看到你上網 但我還是要誠心的對你說聲 新 年 快 樂 ！
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2/6/2008 11:50 pm |
I think on a website like this looks are the first thing a lot of people go by..men and women. I know that I can't date a guy without talking to him and getting to know him before hand (in groups). I think its great your getting your PHD! never stop learning! Johns Hopkins? American University? Georgetown University? George Washington University? University of Maryland?
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2/6/2008 11:48 pm |
I think on a website like this looks are the first thing a lot of people go by..men and women. I know that I can't date a guy without talking to him and getting to know him before hand (in groups). I think its great your getting your PHD! never stop learning! I agree it is always safest to meet a total stranger in the presense of your friends or at a large gathering where you know the people. VICKY
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I think on a website like this looks are the first thing a lot of people go by..men and women. I know that I can't date a guy without talking to him and getting to know him before hand (in groups). I think its great your getting your PHD! never stop learning!
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2/5/2008 7:54 pm |
真诚的祝福永远都不会多！ 希望我的祝福带去永恒！ 新年快乐！ meier  VICTORY LEE
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2/5/2008 7:40 pm |
真诚的祝福永远都不会多！ 希望我的祝福带去永恒！ 新年快乐！ meier A Good Heart to Lean On.
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Oh, we not design the chasity belts, yet. VICKY  A new theme for a SAW movie.
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2/5/2008 10:49 am |
LOL! And a guillotine 2 feet down. VICKY
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Or finger cutter.
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Actually, the photo was of me when I was way too over weight and I was just a stack of falbby love handles stacked 5'4" high. I could not walk through a door, they needed to shove me through an open patio door. And when I fall, I don't just lay there, I bounce too. So now you knowing how bad I can get, you still wanna try to putting your arms around me? I don't think your finger tims gonna touch but I know they might finding the bra straps and I ano sure if is save for you to be there with your fingers. VICKY
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2/4/2008 3:31 am |
And the photo censor happens to be in Stanford Medical right now undergoing a triple-bypass. That pic has the entire Palo Alto community talking and everyone on University Avenue running for cover. Beauty in extreme form can be deadly. So now you knowing how bad I can get, you still wanna try to putting your arms around me? I don't think your finger tims gonna touch but I know they might finding the bra straps and I ano sure if is save for you to be there with your fingers. VICKY
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2/3/2008 7:10 pm |
Hi.... Lee... Oh- la-la !!!! do you know my match besides Apostle named Dealer ? he is also my brother in Christ. I remember that he used to comment in your posts, right ? why is he not showing up?What happens ? But,now he came to my post My wish be true and blink eyes to me.  Quick !!!Babe, tell me what to do ? chop him or flush him ?Help...... God Bless  Rejoicefrance  Vicky
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2/2/2008 12:33 pm |
I think the mind is the sexiest part of the female anatomy a student of life 
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2/2/2008 11:27 am |
HI, and welcome to my blog. I hope you come back and share more with me. Actually, I have gotten less judgemental about the comments since I understanding now is just a guy's way of saying "Hi" and they not really wanting to say too much. But also I learning that the guys are doing the mass marketing sending the same message to as many peoples as they can if they allowed to do the email. But I am also flattered to learning that some guys actually using the points they earning just to send me an email. So now I reading them and the more interesting ones I answer, but only after they posting here so that I know they have interest. Otherwise, I still getting too many emails in one day. But again, thank you for sharing your thoughts with me here first. VICKY
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2/1/2008 12:40 pm |
Hi..... Lee.... Oh....mine, You look like my daughter from this pic, I am serious.  I like all your pics here, this one is soft and sweet as an angel.The others are sharp with free- spirit, The one which I believe was in the light pink ski-jacket kneeling down was very cute, too. I like your multiple type pics which has shown your intelligence and world -wide knowledges for your young age. Bravo!!!! girl . Tu es geniale !!!!! With love... God Bless Rejoicefrance I looking like your daughter? You thinking maybe you could be long lost relation? VICKY
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2/1/2008 10:27 am |
HI, Review Mirror and welcome to my blog. I understand what you mean when people first see a photograph and I guess it would be natural for them to compliment a woman that way. Maybe I should not be too sensitive of that fact. You know, though, I wish they would then add something else to break the ice. For instance, if you had send me this letter I would have read it and felt very comfortable with it. It tells me a little something abouty you. Of course, I have too been know to turn to my girlfriends when we are in a public place and say in a very loud stage wishper, he's good looking, which one of you girls is going to ask him to join us? But, honestly, this is one of the best comments that I have received in a long time. Thank you for dropping by and sharing your thoughts. Do you want to share more with me, here or in the other posts? I look forward to hearing more from you. VICKY
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2/1/2008 1:02 am |
Hi Victorie, I'm a late comer. I'm sorry to read you are being chased by so many men on this site. Guess there are a lot of frustrated men out there. There are some excellent tips given by some responses to reduce the possibility of receiving cyber bully/ harassing mails. I feel lucky for not sharing your experience. The mails i receive are considerate, sincere and complimentary. Good luck with your excellent post and mails. Jen I remember chatting with you in the chat room several years ago when you were in the Netherlands. You were kind to me the first time I was chatting. You know is difficult for me to sometimes express my outrage over how men see women here in AFF. Sometimes I get very nice letters introducing the person to me but most of the times is just some sort of smart remark that I take offense too and report to AFF. You are very fortunate to have people write you nice letters. Anyways, I remember the guy from Hawaii who you said you liked one tme in the chatroom he write to me recently. I hope he is not cheating on you. VICKY
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Oh, I did indeed post a very ugly picture but you know Asia Friendfinder denied the photo cause the photo censor had a stroke upon viewing it. VICKY
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1/31/2008 6:00 am |
Hi Victorie, I'm a late comer. I'm sorry to read you are being chased by so many men on this site. Guess there are a lot of frustrated men out there. There are some excellent tips given by some responses to reduce the possibility of receiving cyber bully/ harassing mails. I feel lucky for not sharing your experience. The mails i receive are considerate, sincere and complimentary. Good luck with your excellent post and mails. Jen    Dreams will come true
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1/30/2008 4:02 pm |
Oh, I did indeed post a very ugly picture but you know Asia Friendfinder denied the photo cause the photo censor had a stroke upon viewing it. VICKY
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The problem is , I socialize, I smile and I laugh a lots.At times, when I see men look at me and say Hi on the street, I respond. I smile and hi back. So, do you think that it is an invitation as a blink of an eyes without verbally addressing to men ? I am sure you have more knowledge than me at this point.Teach me more about it,please !!!! and I will explain to you in return about women from my point of view. Rejoice, I can't speak for others except myself. When a woman says "hi" to me with a smile, I'll say "lo" back with a grin. It's only polite to return a greeting. For you to do likewise to a male stranger, it shows your civility and doesn't mean an invitation for more. However, if the guy is interested in you, he can seize the opportunity to dive beyond superficial courtesy. And that's where initial attraction leads to further exploration. If you were to simply blink an eye as return courtesy, to me, the optical gesture implies a flirtatious invite. I would interprete it as a come-on with sexual connotations. That will throw me off, for a second, embarrass my prudishness, increase my heartbeat and cause me to be infatuated with you. In one silent fell swoop, you'll get your man and steamy mating partner. The mind reading exercise can wait.
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I thought that men and women should know the basis courtesy to interacting with one another. The respect doesnt have to be told all the time, especially at the early stage of encounter or friendship. This is how it amazes me that some men still blame on women for their faults. Rejoice, Unless we're meeting face to face, in the flesh with fragrances and breath steaming point blank, it's difficult for a man to precisely read the body and facial language of a woman, which are unspoken. Even the kind of perfume you use or the lack of it can help us. Some communication techniques do not require words or verbal cues, just a blink of an eye or gestures of a hand will do. No amount of sophistry in cyber technology and emoticons online are going to change that. Bonjour.
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"Anyway, you should think about that sometime when you are trying to figure out the mind of a woman cause I think half the women probably was a man in their prior life and they are being punished. And what happened to that half of woman who used to woman? I think they are in Buddhist heaven laughing their pretty little butts off at the man in the woman's body." Vicky, Funny and creative. If I were reborn as a woman, I would most likely be appreciating and exploring the bodily assets I missed most when I was a man. There will be much time spent in the bathroom, and this may explain why women milk the clock when they get the chance to have some privacy.  But frankly, after the initial shock, I would be terrified of my new body, so much so that prior obsession in the previous life to those assets which were not my own now turns to confusion... and to some degree abhorrence. "Yikes! My chest is growing and my appendage is gone!"
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1/29/2008 7:01 pm |
Bonjour..... Jack.... Sorry, I dont like to talk with someone in the first mail, if you are open - minded , then you will read my opinion before you decide to talk with the person. Unless you just want to flirt.The same reason. you dont do the chating with someone in the street whenever you feel like to.If this is the case, then this person is considerated as a shallow one , not a open-minded in my opinion. The email is closed. I dont think you are an open-minded man. --------------------------------------------------- > Sender: xxxxx > To: rejoicefrance > Date: Jan 27, 2008 > > > sorry,,i don't like chating with lot of people,,i want chating only with you.Lets go talk on msn.--------------------------------------------------- > > Sender: rejoicefrance > > To: xxxxxxx > > Date: Jan 27, 2008 > > > > > Please go the Blogs on your right upper side of the page- highlight on red color, the blogger handle is victorylee0516.-------------------------------------------------- > > > Sender: xxxxx > > > To: rejoicefrance > > > Date: Jan 27, 2008 > > > > > > > what your msn?--------------------------------------------------- > > > > Sender: rejoicefrance > > > > To: xxxxxxx > > > > Date: Jan 27, 2008 > > > > > > > > > Thank you. If you are also a open minded man, please go to victorylee0516 about the topic (chasing pretty face) which was posted in 1/16/08. > > > > We have sooooo much fun chitchating. From there, you might still want to talk with me in msn.--------------------------------------------------- > > > > > Sender: xxxxxxx > > > > > To: rejoicefrance > > > > > Date: Jan 27, 2008 > > > > > > > > > > Hi,My name is Igor.if you open mind women ,i'll be gled talk to you by msn mesenger.You look nice on the picture. I was using Lee method to be more approachable and less demanding in choosing the like -minded people. I dont mind if they have big talk or small talk, but I do mind and make sure that she has the right to express her liking and unliking. Voila..... my attempt to this one is useless to make acquaintance.I thought I had bad luck, then I tried the following one within the same day, same problem, but at least he only kept asking me what is victorylee0516. He might thought that it is a victory secret.  The reason which I paste these proves here is to show you how Lee's feeling and her opinions.She doesnt have the right on other people's choice, but she definitely has the right to voice out hers.Period. I report this email about him and I is not for abuse purpose. It is just a way to show that she is not a girl of just me , me and meee... However, you might not agree with me.If it is the case,then I must say that you have forgotten to put your comment as such boy, not all...... me..... Please share more of your input for us to learn the least courtesy between girl and boy.Thanks ..... Good day God Bless Rejoicefrance Also I gettings lots of the really bad words letters and some calling me very bad names cause I don't wanna answer their letters. Is most obvious who they are cause sometimes I getting maybe 20 letters from them and the subject more and more abusive so I just blocking them but I can see them in the filtered file. Is one guy who changing his handle several times cause I thinking that Asia Friendfinder delete his handles cause he is abuser so now I just block his IP address. Oh, why can't guys be nice like the ones chatting here with us and shring their points of view? VICKY
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1/29/2008 6:55 pm |
i understand that fingers can be intimate instruments, but that's not what i meant. i mean putting fingers to the keyboard. and btw, it'll be tough to figure out the mind of a woman on the street. appearance can be deceiving. it will require one coffee to find out what she likes, but one lifetime to understand her. So now you have a lifetime trying to figure out in one body why the heck you are a woman and once a month you are inconvenienced for a few days and it's not safe to wear white that week. Anyway, you should think about that sometime when you are trying to figure out the mind of a woman cause I think half the women probably was a man in their prior life and they are being punished. And what happened to that half of woman who used to woman? I think they are in Buddhist heaven laughing their pretty little butts off at the man in the woman's body. VICKY P.S. that was a pretty good answer and it make me a headache to come up with a creative answer. Thanks
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