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Blogs > victorylee0516 > Shy Asian Girl


victorylee0516
(victoria lee) 41F
3081 posts
1/27/2008 4:58 pm
Things To Avoid

My friend [blog SGNohea] in her [post 132135] list some important things to avoid in a relationship.

If you have time then please drop by her blog and share you point of view.

VICKY

victorylee0516
(victoria lee) 41F

2/2/2008 3:36 am
    Quoting  :
Yes, they are. Do you have any suggestions to add to this list?

VICKY


victorylee0516
(victoria lee) 41F

1/29/2008 5:10 pm
    Quoting Doll_Cat3:
    Dangerous obsessions...avoid that too
HI Doll_Cat

That is so true. Can you imagien man has the obsession for you and is always dreaming of ways to abuse you and then one day he decide to make his obsession dream a reality and then that is gonna be your nightmare.

I have man that is like that before always sending me flowers and candy and gifts and I not know how he getting my address and phone numbers and everything like that be he did.

So anyways I have to get the court order to keep him away from me. What is lucky we discover he have the wife and the kids so I think his wife take care of that problem cause he never bother me again.

VICKY


Doll_Cat3 50F

1/29/2008 5:02 pm

 Dangerous obsessions...avoid that too


cheewong123
(sam wong) 50M

1/29/2008 6:17 am

 Hello:

Your 10 golden rules is really interesting. I have not commence then.

For me it's just these set of golden rules:

Guy:
Never choose one that is violent

Girls
Never choose one that is quarrelsome.

As for both Guys & Girls
Neither party should be a control freak.

cheers

chee wai


victorylee0516
(victoria lee) 41F

1/27/2008 5:29 pm

 My response to what she saying to avoiding.

1. Never go into a relationship just thinking about the financial wealth of your partner.
Not worried about the wealth but the debt he bringing cause that is a sign of irresponsibility.

2. Accepting your partner because of his/her educational achievements or status.
Not matter what his status is but his ability to support his wife and children in the future based on his educational abilities.

3. If you cannot tolerate your partner's faith (if different from yours).
This big issues cause I am Catholic so if he not mind that I don't mind. But I sure not wanna marry a muslim cause then I gotta be super submissive and muslim man not really gonna respect my religious.

4. Loving the color of your partner's skin
All is same under the skin just musscle, fat, and blood.

5. Being or having a partner who is not supportive of your dreams.
If not then is gonna be one big nightmare.

6. Having a partner who just cannot exhibit care, warmth, generosity and positive energy.
It gonna be cold day in hell if I having that kinda relationship.

7. Just because the other person submits to your every wish and command.
I not want a slave relationship and I not wanna be somebody mindless robot slave too.

8. Thinking a partner must be treated according to the number of years they have existed on earth.
Oh, if I marry older man not gonna treat him like grandpa and he bettr not try putting me the pampers.

9. Choosing a partner just to ensure you will have a heir to your 'throne.'
My throne have only little heir cause you knowing I am Asian.

10. Enter or be in any relationship other than to truly love and be truly loved!
Woman is most foolish if gonna be exchaning sex for favors in relationship cause not gonna be lasting too long.