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victorylee0516
(victoria lee)
42F
3081 posts
2/8/2008 12:30 pm
What is Singleton to Do?


Singleton is word Bridgett Jones using define herself, a person in no relationship. Valentine’s Day fast approaching and unless I get lucky gonna be another where I just going out with other singletons I know.

When singletons going out often times is hit on by the simpleton guys who not have a date or just wanna chasing the pretty face.

Here is advice many my friends sharing with me. Maybe you have some to share too.

1. Go out with group of friends and go home with same group of friends.

2. Do not accepting drink from total stranger you not order or server did not deliver.

3. If he wants contact you again have him give you his number. Go the ladies room and if you seeing it written on bathroom walls, then knowing he is player.

4. Use cabs when you going out with friends. You not have to worry about parking on dark streets and you not need worry about drunk driver driving you home. Put cab number on your speed dial so you can call for cab before you leaving the club and have them calling you when the cab is at the front waiting for you.

5. Put ID, a credit card, and extra cash inside a pocket or stash in bra. Purse is target for the street thugs to grab and trying to robbing you .

6. Wear shoes you can running in case you have to escape from really bad people. High heels can be used as final defensive weapon if you put spiked heel in eyeball or a solid kick to gonads is gonna change his mind in a heartbeat. In case makes him mad, kick off shoes and run barefoot. Oh, also best to wearing stockings too then if have to run barefoot.

7. Hang out in public places. If some guys invite you to a dark bar or a seedy part of town, tell them “No thanks,” and go on your own way.

8. If meeting a group of guys you never meeting before have them showing you their ID card. Also, if in the club, asking the security peoples or the servers if they knowing the guys helps too cause they can tell you if they are the bad or nice guys.

9. Take a picture with your cell phone of the guys you meeting and sending it to your parents. Take photo of the place where you are clubbing so parents know where you last at. Oh, yeah, maybe you can also take the picture of the ID card so your parents know real name of person you dancing with.

10. Ladies, if the guy wanting to slow dancing with you and he doing to you horizontally what he should be doing vertically and you not like, leave him immediately and go back and sit down with your friends other wise he gonna thinking you "asking for it" and something bad might happen cause of his misunderstanding of you not reacting to his bad intentions.

If you have any more tips on Girl Safety, please share them. And have a very safe Valentine’s Day this year.

VICKY

fedders
(ANDREWS M.S.)
66M
1196 posts
2/11/2008 2:38 pm

Sometimes a girl must take some risk, but to be safe , a chaperrone will do...


TheTravelingABC 43M

2/10/2008 2:49 am

    Quoting victorylee0516:
    WOW!!!!

    Sounds like a proposal to me.

    You wanna meet my auntie? She's cute!!! And she's only 32 years old. She still has a lot of milage left in her.
Sounds tempting

Is your aunt a cougar trying to notch another young mile on the odometer? I don't want to be victimized by the aunt of a girl I met on AFF.

That's right, we have a list too.


promajor 67M

2/9/2008 7:19 am

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土地公公护佑你的美丽小草窝
派了利事口袋空财神爷帮你补
看着人间团圆纳财穷人流口水


victorylee0516
(victoria lee)
42F

2/9/2008 3:21 am

    Quoting TheTravelingABC:
    11. if talking to jerk, bewilder and hypnotize with fake accent and Ph.D. vocab. combo... then swift kick to gonads.
    12. enhance jerk-dar by observing excessive jewelry and overly whitened teeth (two red flags that you're talking to a cologne-dipped jackass).
    13. Get lucky and find a cool date for V-day so you can retire this list and relax in the comforts of candy message hearts and chocolate.

    stay safe!
WOW!!!!

Sounds like a proposal to me.

You wanna meet my auntie? She's cute!!! And she's only 32 years old. She still has a lot of milage left in her.


TheTravelingABC 43M

2/9/2008 2:33 am

11. if talking to jerk, bewilder and hypnotize with fake accent and Ph.D. vocab. combo... then swift kick to gonads.
12. enhance jerk-dar by observing excessive jewelry and overly whitened teeth (two red flags that you're talking to a cologne-dipped jackass).
13. Get lucky and find a cool date for V-day so you can retire this list and relax in the comforts of candy message hearts and chocolate.

stay safe!


cheewong123
(sam wong)
50M

2/9/2008 2:19 am

Going out with your trusted group of friends is the best defence that you can have.

Actually, it depends on how you define valentine's day. If you are going out with your committed fiance, then it's not neccessary. If you are going out with a group of your buddies, not necessary as well.

if it's a party that you were invited, then............, don't bother to attend as if you are not there on the first place, nothing would have happen to you.

If you were chosen as a target by some jerks, then no matter how much gadget you bring, it will be useless. However, it's better to have then not to have. Always have a mixed group, therefore males and females as a group.

cheers

chee wai


Warm_and_nice 70M
818 posts
2/8/2008 5:47 pm

1. Absolutely !
2. Ditto
3. Likewise... never give YOUR number. A gentleman will give you his.
4. Same again.
5. Anywhere safe, but in bra would stop people trying to pick you up anyway, you will look deformed ! (and that is not meant as a slur on those who are not seen as "perfect")
6. Sensible shoes have another benefit.. good posture !
7. See answer 1.
8. & 9. All sensible, but given the paranoia that this suggests I would ask "What guys would agree to this anyway?"... or is this just an American thing ? We, in the UK, do not have to carry ID yet so all this is a little strange to us. (but then again, we don't carry that many guns/knives either so......)
10. I think you mis-printed... don't you mean "doing to you vertically what he wants to do horizontally....." ? But, given that, I totally agree with your reaction.

Life was so much easier when I was your age. There was still an "honesty" about things. I'm not sure I'd like to be "out there" where you are in this day and age. You give plenty of good advice, Vicky, but it seems a shame that you feel the need to have to do it.

I just hope the girls read it... and listen.

May your God go with you.


pickledpigspheet 53M
104 posts
2/8/2008 1:44 pm

Chastity belt with a guillotine feature upgrade.