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victorylee0516
(victoria lee)
41F
3081 posts
4/10/2008 2:00 am
Looks and Marriage

Read my post, Why pretty women like ugly men first and then answer these questions.

I would be interested in knowing what you think. Are looks really that important?
Looks the most important factor when it comes to finding a suitable partner.
Good-looking people have better chances of finding love or a spouse.
Plain’ people have good-looking partners is a myth.
Plain people have good-looking parthers is a reality.
It really doesn't matter what they look like as long as it is a warm body.
It's not looks, it's all about chemistry, whatever that is.
Opposites attract, I am positive about this negative view..
None of the above (please add your reason for having an ugly husband.


victorylee0516
(victoria lee)
41F

4/25/2008 2:42 pm

    Quoting  :

My elder sister is very homely and needs someone to love her who is very near sighted or almost blind. Would you be interested?


victorylee0516
(victoria lee)
41F

4/16/2008 1:58 pm

    Quoting  :

I think you said it best. Face or Heart. The face ages and loses all resemblence to what we looked like when young. The heart never changes.

Thank you for a wonderful comment.

VICKY


victorylee0516
(victoria lee)
41F

4/16/2008 12:42 am

    Quoting  :

That is so true. Can you imagine a world without mirrors and never really knowing what you look like? All you can see is the other person's face and you can only judge what you look like from the reaction of others.

Thank you for sharing and I hope to hear more from you.

VICKY


cuddleboy69
(cuddle )
57M

4/14/2008 8:16 am

    Quoting rejoicefrance:
    Hi......Anacron...

    In specific speaking, Woman dont usually attracted to man who has no back bones regardless how she wants to feel safe or not.

    With it's mother nature, women tend to do things a little bit toooo much for men when a bad relationship occured. When a man tell a woman that he is miserable and hurted in his sentimental life. Woman would stand up and fix whatever it takes to heal him or to give him the happiness which he has losed.However, she doesnt understand that man will easily go back to his nature while at the time raising by his mother. Therefore, the consequences is that, once the woman found out it was actually her own fault not letting the man taking charge. This is why women have filed divorce or wanting to stay single, becoz nowaday, man dont feel it is unconfortable for him to have an executive female as partners.

    No offendre meant. only my opinion, just sharing....

    God Bless
    Rejoicefrance
Rejoice,

I think you experience with women in relationships is very different from mine.

Cuddles.


touch213 69M

4/12/2008 9:02 am

a good weekend spent.. would be the perfect prescription I'd prescribe for you.... see what all that creativity, is all about


rsflener 61M

4/12/2008 6:36 am

    Quoting victorylee0516:
    You want chemistry? Try this one.

    ingredients
    Glass of vinegar (dilute ethanoic acid [CH3COOH])
    Piece of chalk (50+% Calcium Carbonate [CaCO3])

    1) Pour a glass of vinegar, and drop the chalk in.
    2) Wait a few hours.

    ENJOY the chemical reaction
Place it in a champaign bottle and re-cork it

Rich

"Lead, Follow, or Stay Out of the Way"


victorylee0516
(victoria lee)
41F

4/12/2008 4:30 am

    Quoting cr3m3pi3l0v3r:
    I voted for the second option. Attractive people have a better chance of an initial attraction, an initial contact, which means they meet more people and their chances of a successful match increase. That's not to say, though, that they're necessarily better lovers or anything.

    Personally, I would like to be with someone I'm attracted to. Everyone has different tastes, and a range of tastes, so there's enough overlap in the world that most people could potentially be with someone who attracts them; but it doesn't happen as much as people would like. In my case, I'm attracted to many people whom others might not consider attractive, and I'm not too interested in many of the most popular celebrity beauties as they're not really what I'm attracted to.

    But for me, it's never the most important thing, it never ranks above several other factors (except in rare special cases, where my attraction to a person is purely physical--but I would never marry in those cases). External beauty is only superficial, and fleeting--true beauty is in the mind.

    Anyway, the article gives me some hope. I don't consider myself ugly, but I'm not that attractive either. Unfortunately, I'm also not rich. So it's with my mind, my personality, my creativity, as well as my interests, that I hope to attract someone. Perhaps even someone I find beautiful, inside and out.
If you know your limitations then you can work on your positives. Good luck to you.


victorylee0516
(victoria lee)
41F

4/12/2008 1:11 am

    Quoting  :

How about his for a chemistry reaction.

Take one bag of powdered cement and place in a 55 gallon drum.
Get in and stand inside the drum.
Add water.

You will soon notice the cement getting hot as it goes through a chemical reaction creating heat as it changes from power + liquid to a very solid form.

Would you call this the kind of chemistry you want to last forever?

VICKY


victorylee0516
(victoria lee)
41F

4/12/2008 1:06 am

    Quoting  :

You sound so much like my sunday school teacher


victorylee0516
(victoria lee)
41F

4/12/2008 1:04 am

    Quoting rsflener:
    None of the above.

    People have different perceptions of beauty. Beauty is subjective and only generalized by models and such. When you meet a person who moves your senses and makes you feel weak, that is true beauty for you. In fact, I believe that to say someone is beautiful is a stereotype. How many look like Cameron Diaz or Brad Pitt? I see everyday people who I find more attractive. But then again I don't follow the norm in anything I do .

    I want the feel that some call chemistry. Everything else is someone else's attempt to drive a market for make up, clothes and hundreds of other products. I am not impressed with a woman who looks like an advertisement Unless I personally met them and I got those good feelings...

    One mans trash IS another man's treasure

    Rich
You want chemistry? Try this one.

ingredients
Glass of vinegar (dilute ethanoic acid [CH3COOH])
Piece of chalk (50+% Calcium Carbonate [CaCO3])

1) Pour a glass of vinegar, and drop the chalk in.
2) Wait a few hours.

ENJOY the chemical reaction


victorylee0516
(victoria lee)
41F

4/12/2008 12:55 am

    Quoting  :

Ah, attraction, just like two magnets, or maybe a velcro set. Once stuck together, can't get rid of the other.


victorylee0516
(victoria lee)
41F

4/12/2008 12:53 am

    Quoting  :

Hmmm, I know of several examples right now where a pretty woman ended up with an ugly man and was very happy with her choice. And I think the ugly guy was very happy with her choice too.

But I know some very ugly people in the insides of outside pretty people and you discover very quickly who they are.

Vicky


victorylee0516
(victoria lee)
41F

4/12/2008 12:51 am

    Quoting dabing20085:
    I looked: When the important attribute talked about finds a suitable partner. The people have the good-looking partner instinct!
Quick, choose one.

Marry for pretty but she has no money.

Marry for ugly and she is very rich.

Which one would you choose?

And thank you for dropping by. Come again.

VICKY


victorylee0516
(victoria lee)
41F

4/12/2008 12:50 am

    Quoting  :

HI, and thanks for dropping by.

You are so funny. I agree, why should we punish ourselves with our bad choices.

VICKY


victorylee0516
(victoria lee)
41F

4/12/2008 12:46 am

    Quoting  :

Yes, I agree with you. 20 years ago I was very much attracted to a very cute boy in kindergarden but I grew out of that relationship. Now, I'm more interested in what a person has to offer in the way of conversation and not in the way the way he looks.

And thank you for dropping by my blog. Hope to see you again.

VICKY


victorylee0516
(victoria lee)
41F

4/12/2008 12:06 am

    Quoting touch213:
    I want a pretty, fine, smart and funny,like to have some time to be freakily creative... "period" !!!
So you want that kind of woman during that time of the month only? Strange, really strange.


victorylee0516
(victoria lee)
41F

4/12/2008 12:04 am

    Quoting touch213:
    the ugliest one's are the one's who are so hung up on their looks they are stuck up, tripped up and egotistically delusional, think they are so special they can't choose anything but themselves...and think they are better than others, and want their butts kissed...
hmnmm, strange, but my friend said he saw something scrawled on a bathroom wall in San Francisco, "for a really good time, call ..." Was that really your phone number?


victorylee0516
(victoria lee)
41F

4/12/2008 12:01 am

    Quoting soph2007:
    Good-looking is important for the first sight, if the first impression is not good, you won't contact with that person anymore.

    In the future, the education, the culture, the family background, the inside-beauty can be getting more and more important.
Hi, Thanks for dropping by my blog.

I agree that something needs to attract us at first to a person and the most easiest without knowing the person would be the outward appearance. And it is true, that eventually we will know more about the person and will be the most important in our decision to continue the relationship.

VICKY


soph2007 51F
111 posts
4/11/2008 9:46 pm

Good-looking is important for the first sight, if the first impression is not good, you won't contact with that person anymore.

In the future, the education, the culture, the family background, the inside-beauty can be getting more and more important.


touch213 69M

4/11/2008 1:32 pm

the ugliest one's are the one's who are so hung up on their looks they are stuck up, tripped up and egotistically delusional, think they are so special they can't choose anything but themselves...and think they are better than others, and want their butts kissed...


touch213 69M

4/11/2008 1:29 pm

I want a pretty, fine, smart and funny,like to have some time to be freakily creative... "period" !!!


dabing20085 55M

4/11/2008 2:28 am

I looked: When the important attribute talked about finds a suitable partner. The people have the good-looking partner instinct!


rsflener 61M

4/10/2008 9:21 am

None of the above.

People have different perceptions of beauty. Beauty is subjective and only generalized by models and such. When you meet a person who moves your senses and makes you feel weak, that is true beauty for you. In fact, I believe that to say someone is beautiful is a stereotype. How many look like Cameron Diaz or Brad Pitt? I see everyday people who I find more attractive. But then again I don't follow the norm in anything I do .

I want the feel that some call chemistry. Everything else is someone else's attempt to drive a market for make up, clothes and hundreds of other products. I am not impressed with a woman who looks like an advertisement Unless I personally met them and I got those good feelings...

One mans trash IS another man's treasure

Rich

"Lead, Follow, or Stay Out of the Way"