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victorylee0516
(victoria lee)
41F
3081 posts
4/16/2008 9:00 pm
Paris - Irma La Douce


I saw a movie, "Irma La Douce." It's a old movie set in Paris about a "" who makes loves for money on the streets in a seedy part of Paris.

So of course, I have to ask the question, "Why do women become prostitutes?" I found this on Wikianswers. Do you have something to add?

Why do women become prostitutes?

Answer
Although this was a tough concept for me to understand as well, I however as a female, understand, in some situations. Some girls when they are younger have either been sexually molested or abused in some way as a , and becoming something that would better themselves doesnt seem like an option all the time. Instead they make themselves feel unworthy of the life they have. Even though it wasnt their fault it happened. And in some other cases, women just dont want or feel unable to get a job, so they mix what they like (sex) with what they need (money), to either provide for themselves or for their . Also in other cases, its not the women that make the choices, men are the center of the world in our day and time, and they are forceful when it comes to women. Some men force or take it upon themselves to make the decision of a woman making money for him ,and what are women to do except accept it unless runaway, and suffer the consequences if all else fails. So you see in most cases, it isnt the women that make the stupid choices, however there are the exceptions of women making stupid and dumb choices just to get a little pleasure and money. hope i helped you understand this a little better.
LOVE-Kristin D.

Answer
--Some have been sexually abused as either or adults, and see sex in exchange for money as the fair deal. They feel that if they are going to be be mistreated or used by people, they think it's better to get paid for it.

--Some have drug habits, left at a young age from bad home situations or are manipulated into working as prostitutes by boyfriends or other people in order to support that person's parasitic lifestyle. Without an address/driver's license/car/resume, it's hard to find any employment, and they are often desparate.

--Some are regular people who enjoy sex and don't have an issue with earning money for it. Obviously no one was forced to work for Heidi Fleiss or at the legal brothels in Nevada.


Sex Answer
Sometimes this is their best option for making money because they are seriously impoverished or in some way unemployable (addiction etc). This is very sad and no woman should ever have to resort to . On the other hand some women choose to be prostitutes and I think you will have to go to Nevada or some other place where it is legal and ask in person.

cuddleboy69
(cuddle )
57M

4/30/2008 1:00 pm

    Quoting rejoicefrance:
    Hi.....Cuddleboy....

    The sugar mama is a prestige title for me to be crown, I am afraid that I am too young to be qualified...

    So,You better go for a post doctoral and make $$$$ as fast as you can so that you can be a sugar daddy, I will find a pretty young ambitious girl to be A VOS ORDRES.

    Got you !!!!

    Cheerios...

    God Bless
    Your non-sugar mama , Rejoicefrance
Ok Rejoice,

You win ... this time ok??
Next time ... next time

Cuddles


cuddleboy69
(cuddle )
57M

4/28/2008 12:49 pm

    Quoting rejoicefrance:
    Hi.... Cuddles....

    No control, no insanity, you silly

    We just need mutuel respect, this is how we can survive regardless.

    God Bless
    Your master, Rejoicefrance
Rejoice,

Hehe ... ok so maybe when you said you can be my MASTER, you meant you can be my MASTERCARD. Ok I accept you as sugar mama ... haha

Cuddles


cuddleboy69
(cuddle )
57M

4/25/2008 3:50 pm

    Quoting  :

Nikon,

Perhaps in the same way you can't understand anything not American.


Cuddles,


cuddleboy69
(cuddle )
57M

4/25/2008 3:43 pm

    Quoting rejoicefrance:
    Hi..... Cuddles....

    Based on what I want to discuss the issue of my role as MASTER.

    Learning from Nikon, I cant merely tell you to go get the resource without assistance . Therefore, to be able to qualify this title,I need to deserve your respect first.So far, I am not ready to prove these resources which I had provided is deligent , they are not authoritative and productive.Therefore, I esteem that each one owe his own need to life and knowledge. I found my pleasure to read and learn about the communication skills ,but it works for one, it may not work for others.

    Only my opinions, just sharing.

    Btw,what should be included in the contract according to your point of view ? My pleasure to learn from other perspective.As you had mentioned before at other thread.I agree with you again in this aspect. That is, we are somewhat different from one another, but we can also embrace the difference. Otherwise, life will be soo boring. Dont you think so ????

    Hey, come to think about your question here, are we talking on the same issue? Or, are your talking about the marriage contract ? I must be honest with you. I have no experience in this yet.

    God Bless
    Rejoicefrance
Haha,

Since you were said you might accept being my MASTER, I thought you might have something particular in mind. I am just other half of MASTER/(other thing) relationship ... so ... isn't the MASTER supposed to be the one in control??

Cuddles


victorylee0516
(victoria lee)
41F

4/25/2008 2:10 pm

    Quoting  :

Gee, Nikon, I hope you are not putting down poor Rejoice because she was not born in the USA. Hmmmm, or are you?

Let her express her opinion anyway she wants. It's her point of view. It's what she observes and how she digests what she learns that is important, not trying to please your own narrow point of view that is intolerant of what you think is acceptable.

So cut the crap and talk about something else.

VICKY


victorylee0516
(victoria lee)
41F

4/25/2008 2:03 am

    Quoting  :

NIKON

This is not an academic environemnt where what ever we say needs to be correct 100% of the time. Now does anyone need to agree with your narror point of view of the world as you see it.

Let people express their opinions the way they wish do so, especially if English is not their primary language. As you know, English is not my primary language, Chinese is, and I have difficulty expressing myself correctly. If it were not for MS spell check there would be all kinds of errors in what I write.

VICKY


cuddleboy69
(cuddle )
57M

4/23/2008 9:50 am

    Quoting rejoicefrance:
    Hi....Cuddles....

    No way !!!!!!

    Whoever is right or wrong, the best is not getting it too much in a way.

    I have learnt some communication skills from my own blog
    [post 79380] . It was an inspiration from a wise man.

    I must admit that I still need more improvements.

    I will accept you call me MASTER.... hahahahaa

    Cheerios...

    God Bless
    Rejoicefrance
Rejoice,

What should be included in the contract?

Cuddles


cuddleboy69
(cuddle )
57M

4/22/2008 3:07 pm

"What I have learnt in life as I agree with Cuddles. Who is right and who is wrong?"

Rejoice,

I accept you call me teacher ... hahahaha

Cuddles


Longstory_ 50F

4/19/2008 5:29 pm

very interesting, thank you for sharing.Happy weekend.


cuddleboy69
(cuddle )
57M

4/17/2008 8:05 am

What counts as prostitution anyway?
Suppose someone says, "You should buy something for me before I have sex with you." If you buy them something and then have sex does that count?

A friend of a friend of mine's mother was a prostitute. I guess some kinds of normal people are postitutes, it's not just drug addicts, sex addicts and abuse victims.

I guess that in many situations prostitutes have been cooerced or forced into it, however in developed countries where it's legal I guess that this is less common. (Because then it's regulated).

A related question is who would become a stripper? Who would become a waitress in a topless bar? (How about a waitress in a nudist colony? ) Who would lie to sell something?
Lots of different people will do lots of different things for money, and depending on their situation and way of looking at the world.

Cuddles


victorylee0516
(victoria lee)
41F

4/17/2008 1:46 am

    Quoting  :

A lot of the women say the men have no skill at all to produce the effects the women want and need. But they fake their pleasure so the guy will come (pun intended) back again for more.


victorylee0516
(victoria lee)
41F

4/16/2008 11:08 pm

    Quoting  :

One of our clients today suggested that maybe the woman just doesn't want to wake up with the guy in the morning, and by the way, why not charge the for his pleasure. Hmmmmmmmmmmmm