KQRBNP

12/5/2008 8:49 am

Quoting biggie66:

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I HAVE READ SOME OF YOUR RESPONSES.AND WOULD LIKE TO ADD THAT A MAN WANT'S A WOMEN THAT IS CONFINDENT AND SURE ABOUT HER SELF,ALSO A MAN WANT'S A WOMEN THAT IS STRONG WITH LEADERSHIP QUAULITIES BUT SUMMISSIVE TO HER MATE.THAT'S WHAT MAKES A WOMEN STRONG STEPPING BACK WHEN SHE KNOWS SHE HAS TO,AND ENCOURAGEING HER MATE WHEN NEEDED FOR THE PROGRESSION OF THEIR RELATIONSHIP WHEN THAT IS DONE FROM BOTH SIDES OF THE RELATIONSHIP YOU BOTH WIN.SORRY IAM AMERICAN AND DON'T SPEAK YOUR LANGUAGE BUT LOVE TO HEAR YOUR RESPONSES AS BEST AS POSSIBLE

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KQRBNP

12/5/2008 8:44 am

Quoting nicezj0yce:

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nicezj0yce

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12/3/2008 9:30 pm

nicezj0yce

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12/3/2008 9:29 pm

aek333

12/3/2008 8:09 am

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KQRBNP

12/3/2008 6:36 am

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biggie66

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12/3/2008 6:00 am

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12/3/2008 3:33 am

KQRBNP

12/2/2008 10:24 am

Quoting Anacronism13:

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As usual, I am joining in late...sorry I was out of town- way out (for details you may see my blog if you wish), so I am first seeing this now; but I still want to contribute my 2 cents worth. To say we understand all men- or women fully, is I suspect impossible. there are as many differences and perspectives as there are people. Still a drive to learn is a worthy quest I agree. Also, we are after all all human- so there are similarities as well- regardless of gender. On open mindedness- again- I agree, it will mean somethng different to almost anyone. So I will say for myself, that I like open a person who is open minded; but no so open minded that their brains fall out( such as in some of the original examples in your starting coments.) I would say the quality should refer to someone who will hold to their own priciples, but be willing to continue to learn about the person they are with, to continue to get to know them and explore the journey they choose to share.

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Yes, sir. I checked your blog and am so happy for you both! Wish everything will work out in your ways.

"their brains fall out"...... hahaha........ I like the way you say it. Yes, to explore the person you are or expect to be with and keep doing so is the best way to achieve the best for a good and long-lasting relationship.

KQRBNP

12/2/2008 10:17 am

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KQRBNP

12/2/2008 10:14 am

Quoting CMAlc66:

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Here is something in English for you. Perhaps it will be a different perspective then most that you have gotten so far. I don't think it is a matter of men knowing women, or vice versa. In most cases, people just don't put enough effort into knowing the person that the are with...regardless of whether they are male or female. Often, people think it is easier to get divorced then to try to make things work.

It takes a lot of effort to make relationships work, and many people can only do it for short time periods before burning out. The people who do understand each other, and make their relationships work, are the same people who believe that the relationship is the most important thing to them in the whole world. These are the people who stay married for 50 years and more, or become life-long friends who will stick with you through thick and thin.

One does not have to understand ANY man or woman, one only has to understand the people that she cares about or come in contact with. There is no substitute for effort, and people who are not willing to put in that effort are not worth worrying about. Those people are too obsessed with themselves to be able to give to someone else on a consistent basis.

Well, this is what I think. What do you all think? I hope I didn't bore you all to sleep. Have a good evening.

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KQRBNP

12/2/2008 10:08 am

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12/2/2008 10:06 am

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12/2/2008 10:03 am

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12/2/2008 10:00 am

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12/2/2008 9:55 am

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12/2/2008 9:49 am

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12/1/2008 9:35 am

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12/1/2008 12:55 am

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11/30/2008 5:54 pm

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11/28/2008 10:17 pm

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11/28/2008 3:38 am

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11/27/2008 7:13 am

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KQRBNP

11/23/2008 8:02 am

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11/23/2008 8:00 am

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11/23/2008 2:00 am

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11/22/2008 8:05 pm

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11/22/2008 7:40 pm

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KQRBNP

11/22/2008 7:37 pm

Quoting jazzblowin:

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Well, not sure if it's too late to get to know man at my age, just feel it's always better than knowing nothing.

"Q", I love you are willing to learn. Find a man with that same quality.

Take the man knows who he is, that man will be easier for you to understand because he understand himself. vs One that has doubts about himself or is not seeking to understand himself. That type of man is all over the map. He may not be a bad man, but understand he is going to be all over the map.

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KQRBNP

11/22/2008 7:23 pm

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11/22/2008 9:27 am

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aek333

11/21/2008 7:41 am

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11/20/2008 12:53 pm

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11/19/2008 1:15 pm

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11/19/2008 1:12 pm

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11/19/2008 1:10 pm

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11/19/2008 1:09 pm

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11/19/2008 4:32 am

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11/18/2008 8:10 pm

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11/18/2008 2:57 am

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KQRBNP

11/17/2008 12:16 pm

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11/17/2008 12:14 pm

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KQRBNP

11/17/2008 12:12 pm

Quoting scipii:

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hi..KQ,

thanks for clarifying my doubts.and i am glad you had a good laugh on this issue with your son.yes i am a chinese male, growing up in an asian country.(but under great influence of the west).a saying goes...you can take a country boy out of the country,but you cannot take the country out of the boy..

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KQRBNP

11/16/2008 1:50 pm

Quoting yonganzl:

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KQRBNP and Bro,
In fact, I'm not that man. Also, I don't approve what he says partly. However, I think his thought may represent some men's thoughts. After all, he is a man. See? Not every man is the same.

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zhuxia2005

11/16/2008 7:46 am

aek333

11/14/2008 7:34 pm

Quoting KQRBNP:

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scipii

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11/14/2008 4:14 pm

Quoting KQRBNP:

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Scipii,

No, your choice of A does not make you a traditional Chinese or Asian. Not at all. Look, I said that before I mentioned your test question for me. I said that because you were with Jpollock and Yonganzl.

Guess what? I asked my son this morning if he would tell me if he were a gay. He looked at me as if I was a strange creature and said, "Mom, where did you get this weird question?" We all laughed hard. Being in USA for quite some time, I've had no hard feeling about homosexual. And I think I am quite open in many issues with my children.

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KQRBNP

11/14/2008 6:24 am

Quoting scipii:

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hi..KQ,

errr..just how would i choose A.."son, gay is cool, as long as you are happy." makes me a traditional chinese or asian?(you kinda twisting the fact aren't you..)

from your answer...if my son has the guts to tell me....(that's why another word for this is call "hiding in the closet".

i'm not poking fun on you bcos i think you son is straight.i am merely testing my own guts feelings that KQ would not take this issue lightly....and my guts feelings seldom let me down...(appreciate your honesty).

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Scipii,

No, your choice of A does not make you a traditional Chinese or Asian. Not at all. Look, I said that before I mentioned your test question for me. I said that because you were with Jpollock and Yonganzl.

Guess what? I asked my son this morning if he would tell me if he were a gay. He looked at me as if I was a strange creature and said, "Mom, where did you get this weird question?" We all laughed hard. Being in USA for quite some time, I've had no hard feeling about homosexual. And I think I am quite open in many issues with my children.

yonganzl

11/14/2008 5:57 am

scipii

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11/14/2008 4:59 am

Quoting KQRBNP:

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Obviously, you are a very traditional Chinese or Asian. I should have known this earlier since you only prefer Chinese gf. But, I shall not say that you are a narrow-minded person from just this point.

As for your test, I would say, son, go get a test to see if any of your genes has mutations.

Just kidding........

First, I shall not speak for the future, even for myself. Who knows what's going to happen or change in 10 years;

Second, it would be not reasonable to say that I am not an open-minded person from just one thing like this;

Third, if my son has the gut to tell me his real seks orientation, that would mean, in his mind, I am open-mind enough to accept him for what he is.

A good test, stimulates one to think......

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KQRBNP

11/14/2008 2:16 am

Quoting scipii:

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hi KO(sorry it's KQ..)

i 'm not tooo late this time...

i actually took the trouble to read thru all others comments before i write to you...see my ÓÃÐÄ.

×÷ΪÄÐͬ־...ÎÒÏëÎҵĹ۵ã»áºÜÓмÛֵŶ!(Š…²»¾ÍÔÚÕ÷ÇóÄÐÐÔÒâ¼ûÂï!)

ÎÒÏëjpollockºÍyonganzlµÄÁôÑÔ×îΪÖпÏ.

i think both men and women appreciate the quality known as "open-minded".that said....the criteria for open-minded differ from one person to another.i 'm kind of "disapproving" when you link open-minded to seks.(if i say i know how to appreciate a woman who is more open-minded means i want to "wham-bam" her on the first date?...come on KQ, you are better than that.)

i have a test for you to see if you are "open-minded" in "my-eyes".(this is what i call my "reasonable-man" test.hi hi..are you ready?)

let say when you son reached the age of say 21.(just a scenario)he come to you and say"mama...i 'm a gay."

would you A."son, gay is cool, as long as you are happy."
B."WHAT????"
c. you fill it up yourself.

let see is KQ a open-minded person

(as for myself...i know my answer is....A)

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Obviously, you are a very traditional Chinese or Asian. I should have known this earlier since you only prefer Chinese gf. But, I shall not say that you are a narrow-minded person from just this point.

As for your test, I would say, son, go get a test to see if any of your genes has mutations.

Just kidding........

First, I shall not speak for the future, even for myself. Who knows what's going to happen or change in 10 years;

Second, it would be not reasonable to say that I am not an open-minded person from just one thing like this;

Third, if my son has the gut to tell me his real seks orientation, that would mean, in his mind, I am open-mind enough to accept him for what he is.

A good test, stimulates one to think......

KQRBNP

11/14/2008 2:08 am

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11/14/2008 1:44 am

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11/14/2008 1:42 am

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scipii

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11/13/2008 5:52 pm

scipii

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11/13/2008 5:21 pm

Quoting yonganzl:

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I agree that we should try to understand more instead of judging too soon. I also judge too fast sometimes.

Some people like to draw a conclusion based on their feelings or sixth sense or whatever. Usually, it cannot convince me. I generally draw a conclusion based on many solid facts and sufficient analysis.

Besides, I am more concerned about great things ( ´óÊÂ ). For example, fulfilling my life goal and so on. I don't like being bothered by trivias and chores. But some women, to the best of my knowledge, are very concerned about trivias and chores, which I find it very dull. Contrarily, things that interest other men and I are boring to some women.

Moreover, some men fear women because some women like controlling ( ¹Ü ) men after getting married. This has been confirmed by a woman who once told me that she must control her husband, including his income. Is it due to women's insecurity or their nature? I understand why some men like controlling ( ¿ØÖÆ ) women. They're probably male chauvinists.

Men and women are very different in many respects. Maybe that's why many men want open-minded wives who don't argue with men irrationally and frequently.

Anyway, I prefer a woman who respects and understands me, gives me enough space and freedom.

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