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touch213 69M
6990 posts
1/11/2008 10:07 am
Dating Safety


women ... if you are going to date any man.. regardless to what he has to say about what ever..
if he won't allow you to take his picture with your cell phone and e-mail it to yourself, at the start of the date. .. then you should refuse the date.. if, the men want to feel safe.. then he can ask her to send a email reply to him when she is home safe saying thank you for the date.. for her safety.. she should wait till the next day to send that reply.. and everyone knows that she was safe..

I am tired of turning on the news and these crazed men killing these women ..

there are other things you can do.. have him to pick you up at a friends house, so you have a witness, to whom you are leaving with.

set up phone tag.. with a close friend.. that you call before the date.. and after the date.. even if it's just to leave the time stamp on the voice mail.

it's a shame life is this way.. but there are far too many crazy people..

people forcing people to do stuff they don't agree to, drugging them and abusing them and all sorts of stupid stuff; there are women killing husbands, and , men killing wife and , people abducting women, women plotting stuff on men.. so when all this kind of stuff is going on, don't go blindly unprotected in the best ways at your convenience..

so a few safety precaution would not be out of order..

it's like this site.. they build it their safeguards as best they could.. by non real name handles.. and they don't allow posting of e-mails address outside of their program till you know people. and their server can record the Ip address of it's members and other things they have if it's ever needed..to know who's who.

so be safe, be respectful of others and get violence out of your lives and make positive use of the technology to give you an edge on safety .. even if you feel you don't need it, it still may be good to have some data.. those who act crazy in chat rooms, realize that the logs can be copied by any of a host of people in the chat, so be nice and considerate... nothing that is typed in the computer and sent over the internet ever vanishes.. it is in the electronic world of forever.. it may be to your best advantage not to pretend, nor lie about who you are or what you got to say about anything.... because being a fraud can be a detriment to you if ever there is a situation that requires a investigation of any sort.... so there's more incentive to be for real than it is to be full of Bs..

and enjoy meeting and greeting as decent life respecting individuals.

I am writing this after seeing yet another news story that pisses me off.. where someone killed this 20 yr old pregnant Marine, somewhere before the past holidays.. and there's nothing that anyone can say to justify killing this woman..

if you see crazy stuff when you are out and about.. remember.. you do have a camera on your phone and you can take a picture without anyone even paying attention to you do so.. so if you see something stupid and violent, take a picture it may hep catch a criminal.

graceful1969 55F
1021 posts
1/11/2008 10:49 am

Thanks for the info. I take note of this

Just want to say hello, hope you have a great day!


jennipher
(Jennipher Yoon)
45F

1/11/2008 11:54 am

What a beautiful blog and excellent tips, thank you!


victorylee0516
(victoria lee)
41F

1/11/2008 12:20 pm

    Quoting  :

I always meet total stranger (meaning I never meet before in person) at Ming's in Palo Alto or at Yanksing in San Francisco. Lots of people there and I always invite my friends join me too so I not meet him alone. Also I never dating a man alone, never, never, never. Is always in group date and my friends and I get dropped off togehter. I prefer meet him someplace for dance or thing like that. Not want to ride in his car or with his friends. Is too dangerous. I know cause almost bad thing happen to me. Now that bad man is in jail long time.

I like you idea, take picture and email to lots of my friends just in case. I have cousin who working in SFPD so he can do face check for me.


graceful1969 55F
1021 posts
1/12/2008 12:16 am

    Quoting salsataenzerin:
    Nice of you to share these precautionary measures . Thank you.
    Wish you could reach many internet users ......
    More power "touch 213"!
Hallo Mare!

Schön zum lesen oder? nice to see you here, catch u later, muwahhh!

Hugs, Grace


graceful1969 55F
1021 posts
1/12/2008 6:26 am

    Quoting salsataenzerin:
    yuppp,interessanter und geistig verdaulicher. Ich bin eine Fan mittlerweile von Blogs.
    Pass schön auf dich auf.
    ciao
Hmmm, Du bist schön wieder da er hat aber viele interessantes, ich mache jetzt review,

Danke, Dir auch, muwahh!

Liebe Grüsse