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touch213 70M
6990 posts
9/27/2008 5:02 pm
did you believe yourself ..


did you believe yourself.. when you felt what you felt for someone ??

if you didn't.. that might explain any problems you are having with accepting what you feel about them.. because it's for sure, you can't change them...
so it's a matter of what can you accept and what are you willing to work with?

You might need to know that before you jump into someone else life, because you just might screw it up, and yours too, in the process..

there is no guarantee, and there is no crystal ball, to tell you how it will result.. there is simply, the faith in your own effort, your will, your want, and the openness of each of you to share the same... in ( each ) of your own ways.. and you might just find.. some wonderful things within sharing life.

If you want a clone, you may want to go and visit a genetic engineer, and see if they can create you one.. other than that.. the world is of .."just People"..

if you expect perfect,.. you may want to go to the mirror, and it's quite sure what you will see.. will not reflect perfection, only the reflection of "You".. yes, with your imperfections intermingled with your natural self.. and that is the individual you are Looking at... Now can you accept other's being .. simply an "individual too, with their imperfections"..

Now if you can't ... you may be a fool, looking for a fool.. and you each may trip yourself up in foolishness of delusions, that ignore the natural nature of each of you, as individuals.. trying to pretend you are something other, and assuming they are something other... "than Individuals"...

Yep... Life is pretty much .. that simple... an the truth is even as simple.. it only get complicated, when you try to make the truth something other than what it is.. and generally.. by such.. is where lies are born... and spread..

Now each of you have details about and of whom you are, and you will not know what they are.. until you communicate... and if you are not doing that.. then you are probably... "assuming"... based on how you see yourself... and that just might negate the view of seeing the person whom you are interested in..

did you believe in yourself... and do you believe yourself...

if so... you just might be prepared to share with someone else.. "The individualism of Yourself"..

touch213 70M

9/27/2008 8:13 pm

how much work people put into self defeat.. they even give reasons for their reasons.. and add reasons to that too.... to deny themselves the option of sharing expressions.. and if that is what turn them on... then that is what they will keep doing..

it sometimes amazes me.. listening to people in their late 20's ,30's and 40's...talking about some fairy tale.. "soul mate".. and some "in love" delusional thing, as if it's an object.. they can just grab,.. rather than the nature of relationship they can "build".. and the more honest they are within.. and the more honest they are in expressions when they meet.. the more honest the connection is between them..... and the commonest of hearts can speak and share communion, with each other..

and first it take the simple nature of getting out of our own way.. to do so...stepping past the expectations and deal with what there is simply to respect.. and they might just be open to engage mutual appreciations... and loving then has a pathway of connectivity...

truth is ... we can love anyone, whom we like to love...


Roxannatone 45F
238 posts
9/28/2008 7:37 pm

touch :

most person are confident ,but if it real sang-froid ,it is a question. someone is a ridiculous sure of self .to become real believe self by only this way that after many trial and tribulation in spirit work on a person.


I am unique one! Being as if nothing but everywhere