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Do you think anything will ever change ? Do you honestly think anything will change , in the nature of women ? do you see the same game is played whether is women chasing women, or men chasing men, or man and woman or woman and man ? ( do you think the game last only as long as they like bedding each other down?) Once sex is not wanted with the other, how quickly are you ready to end association ? ( you don't need to answer in public, long as you know in yourself, that it seem to carry more weight than people admit to) 1. As long as some know they can bargain, barter and sell- and its been going on since time began, do you think it will change ? 2. Do you think the cycle of the nature of (some)women making relationships filled with contention will ever stop ? 3. Do you think there are any women, who do not bargain sex at some point in some way ? 4. What do you think cause the most relationship failure ? women trying to control it, or men trying to control it ? 5. Can a pretty woman be trusted to be honest in her communications ? 6. Do you think everyone at some point or the other thinks about bedding down someone else, whether they are in or out of a relationship ? 7. Do you think too many people expect others to be a clone of themselves ? 8. Can women enjoy a relationship without trying to make it conform to her fantasy ? 9. Do men think he owns a woman because he has sex with her ? if you say yes, Why do you think he has this obsessive possessive thought ? 10. Do women think she owns a man because she has sex with him ? if you say yes, Why do you think she has this obsessive possessive thought ? "Do you think you can ever do more than share and care ? Do you think the more you share the more you will care ? do you think the more you care, the more you will share? What makes you more possessive ? the thought the other person owes you something, or that you think you are so great, they have to devote themselves to you ? Will you deny yourself the enjoyment of sharing with someone something, for: (a)the want to deprive the other of something, (b) to get paid first ? (c) you think you are too good for them ? (d) you think they should owe you something for doing so? Are you holding out thinking someone with more money will come along in your life ? do you think that makes you (a) "covert "? (b) with set marks (c) "a gamer, looking to be bought" (d) "a gold digger" (e) "willing to be anything for a price" Are you delusional? (yes) / ( no ) / (sometimes) / ( Always) / ( never) / ( I like to be) / ( I don't like to be) Is you claim of love based on ( feeling ) / (conditions ) / ( bargain_ |
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4/11/2009 10:49 am |
a pretty faced and shapely girl already knows, young boys want to play with "it", young women will, older women will, older men, younger men, and everybody likes to hook up a .. pretty faced shapely "happy spirited ", energetic woman.. so many of them will conduct themselves like a commodity... for some it takes a long time, before they choose not to live like a commodity..
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4/11/2009 11:02 am |
I think people treat each other like dirt, when they want to move on, because there is no simple way to break the cycle, of the relationship... eventually what ever was a issue they got pissed about, they eventually come to terms with it, and later they may be able to build a friendship.. but if one or the other, seems like it is too painful for them to be friends, then the cold shoulder remains in tact.. I think its more a easy way to not get into things where one does not want it to go, and to avoid further hurting the other... people really have to "pay attention" to their manner of possessiveness within relating.. and most people don't, they think its their right.. and eventually their possessiveness will suffocate the other. they may still like each other, but they can't bear the pressure of possessiveness and maybe even the pressure of controls.. If we as people can keep in mind that each individual is actually just that.. " an individual".. and the most we can do is "share", we can't own them, nor can we control them... but for some reason people thinks love gives them that right.. but what love really gives, is the right to make enjoyable and interactive use with each other - in sharing with each other.. but not to make abusive use of each other, in being with each other.. they are there for what you like, and you are there for what they like, and when each or the other makes it a mission for that to take place.. of too many pressure points.. they will eventually split..
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4/12/2009 7:22 pm |
Man is the weakest when it come to control their sexuality. both are really the same when it comes to sex...and how sex impacts their living. women depriving themselves of sex, is as frustrating in the natural flow of life, as it is for men engaging things that are not fully satisfying beyond just a physical release. and the physical release does not really satisfy the man as a full person,.. it just take pressure out of the moment.. mans real satisfaction comes from knowing the woman appreciate what he is sharing.. the temporary conquest satisfaction fades like the clouds.. be it in man or womanm and many times it raises more doubts than it does anything, because it is an incomplete cycle.. people no matter what .. deep beneath the surface, really want to be appreciated.. for what they give, what they do and what they share..and whom they are as an individual. if people learn the patience in mind to know and live with that knowing as their motivating force.. they have far less troubles with their relating.
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""people no matter what .. deep beneath the surface, really want to be appreciated.. for what they give, what they do and what they share..and whom they are as an individual"" you said it right Touch, I fully agree with you (just so hard to find at times....   )
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4/19/2009 3:53 pm |
""people no matter what .. deep beneath the surface, really want to be appreciated.. for what they give, what they do and what they share..and whom they are as an individual"" you said it right Touch, I fully agree with you (just so hard to find at times.... ) seriously, people I don't think are really that complicated, many times, if people meet at the right situation, where neither has a great need, they are more open to accept appreciations in general.
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