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A Better Ending... A short story, someone wrote, ( I found it on the internet) I went to Thailand the first time not knowing anything. I was ripped off by the taxi driver (7000 baht) and ripped off by hotel (pre-booking). Then I met my first Thai bar girl Dang (name changed) I stayed with her for four days then decided it was a big world out there. She treated me really well and I had a wonderfull time. I paid her the going rate and said I was going. She had a screaming and shouting fit but I paid no attention and thought it was all really a show. I went to another bar with my bag in hand. There I met an english man. I had a few beers with him, unknown to me he had put something in my drink, well I ended up down Jomtien beach for two days completely out of my mind. I'm surprised that I never got picked up by the police, then a baht bus driver took me to thehospital. I was still halucinating and was convinced I was going to the Bangkok Hilton hotel. I was discharged the next day after having all sorts of fluids pumped into me, the Embassy paid the fee, I had on me the total sum of 100 baht and the clothes I stood in. Needless to say all my belongings had gone passport, money, cards, tickets, everything. All I had was what I stood in. After going from hotel to hotel to cool down and drink water from the toilets. I decided to go and see Dang, it was afternoon at that time. I went to her bar. Luckily for me, she was there. Immediately when she saw me, she could tell the state that I was in. She sat me down and gave me a drink. Then She went and got the bar owner. I told him my story. He took me to the police station to report it, nothing ever came of it. Anyway, Dang took me to a hotel. She paid for three nights and put me to bed. She went shopping for clean clothes for me. I woke up hours later to find her sitting on the bed looking at me. She had bought me clothes, toiletries, food and even two Singha beers. She had also been back to the bar to barfine herself. She then stayed with me and paid for everything. I needed much to the disgust some of the other girls, who said that she should have just left me. A week later I had managed to get some money through western union. I purchased a ticket and paid Dang back what I owed her, plus a bit more for helping me. There was enough for her to go back home and stay till I returned, which would be as soon as possible. She thought that I would never come back but I did. I rented a condo for a year and had her checked out by a well known agency. It all turned out to be true what she had told me. I went on to buy a lovely villa unknown to her then took her to see it. She was over the moon, because when she worked at the bar, she had even slept on the pool table before. We have been together now for some time and everyday gets better there have been no huge demands for money. I bought her family beds, a TV and fridge. I also send them 4000 baht a month which is what she was sending them, when she worked. I now live in Thailand with Dang. She treats the house like a palace everywhere is spotless even the gardens. People would stop to admire the house. She has made many friends in the village mostly ex-bar girls themselves, and we have a great crowd of Farangs/Thais who are always popping in to see one another. I could not wish for a better partner. We really love each other. There is not a huge age gap and I'm not a fat Farang, which probably helps a lot. So yes, there are many out there who will rip you off and there are some that won't. If you are one of the lucky ones. Well, you will know now what life is all about. |
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what a beautiful story, thanks for sharing Touch I`m convince that there are many Dangs out there, obviously doing the job to support the family but dreaming to get out, hoping to meet mr. nice guy, luckily, she found him, at the "right" circumstance and there`s a chemistry..
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8/15/2009 5:51 am |
I like the story .. I think it's great.. It lets me know how right I was about the girls I met In Thailand.. everyone that I met and shared time with were very good women, and we talked about a lot of things. I always like their determination and each of them have dreams, if the guys stop and take time to listen. I met one girl who worked at a car rental place, she took me everywhere that I wanted to go by car, what ever I needed, she knew someone who provided the service, she had one of the guys who work for her, to come and pick up my clothes, they had them washed and ironed and folded, and she continually wanted to share in the cost of things, she had no interest to try to rip me off. I had the same experience with the girls I met at the Bar.. One thing, I know they have their own lives going on long before they met me, so I did not trip trying to play some game as if she had to be with me every minute, she would go do what she needed to do, and she always came back at the time she said she would. If I went some place, she did not ask me a thousand questions about it. I think if men approach them as if they are objects, they have every right to rip you off, because that's what he is doing to here, so they rip each other off. but if you talk to them as real people, they are less likely to try to rip you off. I think what many guys don't get is the understanding that many of these women are way smarter than the guys they entertain. Because they'd already seen it before, and when it comes to sex, none of the men, have ever had as much nor will he ever get as much as she can, so they can either share it, use it or look right through it and see the guy much clearer than he can see her. She already knows if you want more of her than sex, by the way you engage her. if you act like a fool behind sex, she will let you bounce up and down on top of her, until you hook yourself.  so it's great when people get real with each other. Every one I've met, always watched out to make sure other vendors of products was not ripping me off. they'd give me the eye movement, if someone was trying to charge me too much, or they'd go and cut the deal, and it always saved me more money than I could have saved if I'd negotiated. I don't know about others, but I like the women of Thailand. They certainly know how to smile and laugh easy about things, and they are very clean and neat.. I wish more places had women like that.
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