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"Learning "Trust" and How to engage it If... in your relationships.. you have doubts about " Trust" and what may be possible within relationship... in part you may be right, because no-one, can fully know anyone, but we also have to give people the benefit of their capabilities, therefore, to allow the option for them- to have potential in their ability to trust. As to life- people harm and hurt each other everyday, temptation is ever present in living, and the human reality of wants desires, and pursuits, as well as sexuality, : 'NO ONE" is above or beyond being tempted. so reality is, Trust should never be blind, but reasonable. and being reasonable, is to acknowledge that things happen, and the potential of it happening is a reality - therefore we have the gift of communication, to work with reasoning and understanding. tolerance and acceptance, and knowing when to walk away.. so anyone expecting some "Replications of Impenetrable Purity in anyone, is going to be disappointed from the start. Now on a religious note: If, an I say If.. people Put God before one another, then God become the "filter" within their love, but when they try to put each other before God... they will find problems a plenty.. because they are trying to make each other Usurp God..therefore - they try and find their salvation in each other, rather than in God, when what they should seek, is to 'share the salvation they find through God Graces with each other. which means simply, Try and do what they feel is right in Gods light, not each others.. and they may have a better chance to understand of what to trust in and of each other, and how to trust each other |
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5/17/2010 3:24 pm |
perspective(s) matter 
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5/23/2010 9:18 am |
great you understood the message- love is always love, but we often times, try to take God out of the equation, and wonder why it goes the way it goes. We often times, think we are owed something for loving, when the gift of loving, is the simple reality of the opportunity to give and share it, that makes Love, and Loving, it's own reward. Our lives become strained for the desire we hold, to want to give and share it, and then we turn quickly and put expectations all around it as to what we expect it to do, be, and even how we expect the person loved to respond to our mental expectations. so much so, until we forget to appreciate the fact we have the Opportunity to give and share the love we feel the want to give and share. We put material measure in it, around it and many times over the top of it, yet, life has every basic convenience afforded to us, by simply working to provide the comforts that we claim to want, if we are willing to work to get it. But we deny that, by pursuing name brands, and what's advertised in the media, which tell us, it has to be this way, it has to look this way, or it has to be the most advertised products or service.. and we forget, to appreciate the basic function that we actually want a thing for. exp, we want transportation, then we forget that the basic is transportation, then we want this kind and that kind, we want this attribute and that attributes, until we make it unattainable, without taking on extra work to afford it, or we have to manage the other things in life to make room to afford it. but then with the new car, comes the want of new clothes, the want to be out and about, to dine and shop and many other things, suddenly the transportation, has become a whole series of things, that have nothing to do with the basic want of transportation. We do the same thing with Love... and wonder why we create troubles in our loving, and most troubles become connected to our wants. We know life is filled with temptation, but we try to assume it does not exist when we love, but everyday in every place, there is always temptation... when we see it, we get afraid, and jealously takes hold and then we want to watch, measure and monitor each other so much so, that we forget to live our own lives, and appreciate the things within our own lives, we become paralyzed with being detectives, uncovering things we can't bear to face or deal with. until we forget that, our want to love, was based on our want to give and share it, and appreciate the opportunity that we have to do so. the maturity of that is a things, we find hard to develop to that degree... we want to own whom we love, and forget that, loving is about being able to share with someone the love we feel... but what we may do well to do, is learn that daily love is learning, love is growing, love is understanding, and making efforts to e understood, and learning how to live with another person, sharing in their loving with our loving, and two people, will never think everything the same, nor will they see to measure everything the same, yet, people still seek out clones, but no one would accept a clone if a labatory delivered one to our homes. but we also forget quickly, that God made each person and Individual, and their individual lives shaped whom they are because their experiences have not and never will be the exact same as any other person on the planet, therefore.. they will always be an individual, and at not time will they become a replica of you, nor will you become a replica of them... you each will continue as long as you live to be individuals,.... now, then does the opportunity to give and share love, seem so much simpler as an opportunity to give and share, that which we all seek.... "communicate"... is the great gift we have, which we often under-utilized...
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