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smartgal8888
(Vivian )
46F
15 posts
12/27/2007 11:47 pm
Loving Ourself

We tend to treat other people in the same way as we treat ourselves, & other people tend to treat us according to the silent clues we're giving them about how we expect to be treated.

If we are accustomed to treating ourselves harshly, you will tend to be hard on others. If we cannot trust ourselves, how can we trust other people?

Every judgement we make about others in fact tells us more about ourselves than about them.

Feeling good about ourselves makes we more spontaneous, more authentic. We can give ourselves permission to express ourselves freely.

We cannot please other people all the time. That is not what we are here for. We are here to sing our own song, to be who we are and to enjoy it.

It's better to please ourselves..