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Warm_and_nice 70M
133 posts
2/4/2009 12:21 am

Last Read:
2/7/2009 5:25 am

Ken - Bingqilinren

It is a couple of weeks since I was able to sign on to Asia Friendfinder as I have been in China and am unable to log in from there, but more on that in another post.... first things first.

While I was away the sad news of the passing of our friend KenBingqilinren came through.



Ken had been ill for some time with a failing liver and, as I was preparing to travel, had dropped into a coma. He came round from that sufficiently enough to, with help from his family, be able to have some last contact with his love Phuong sweetie170575.

Then, as great swathes of the world's population began celebrating the Lunar New Year, Ken went to a better life, his ordeal was over.

We are inclined to use the word "love" too flippantly... "I love that programme", "I love ice-cream". Ken loved life. Ken had a genuine love for people that he shared with those whose lives he touched and for which we are all blessed.

I feel in some way honoured that the last blogpost he put on here was directed at me. Thank you, Ken.

I will remember you as a "laughing Cavalier", someone who could always see the funny side of any situation but would stand up, say "No", and fight if they saw something wrong with the world.

You kept fighting Ken, right to the end. Fighting the wrong in the world, fighting for your dear Phuong and your family, and fighting for life. Oh that there were more like you in this world.

There is an emptiness now in the hearts of all your friends, both in A-F-F and out there in the real world.

We will miss you dearly.

Our thoughts, prayers and continual good wishes are with Phuong and your family. We have not met them but our love reaches out to them. We pray for you and them.

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Bloodybuggersodpot !


Your words, mate, not mine.......

R.I.P.

May your God go with you.


Warm_and_nice 70M
818 posts
2/7/2009 5:25 am

    Quoting graceful1969:
    Warm & Mahal, your words are sweet, thank you for always remembering our dearest friend and brother Ken. We all missing him

    ""Ken will always be the one who will come to the rescue to his friend even how sick he is""

    You`re right Mahal, whenever I talk to him, he always offer a help, even simple things in life, like if you have fish smelly hands while ooking, will give you tip how to get rid of it or if I need a new recipe for kids, will offer his self made pumpkin soup or while waiting for my food to get cook and too engrossed with the our talk, he says, Grace, I think I smell something! or remind me if it`s already 16:00 0`clock, Grace, time to pick up the kids, etc. My daily routine that he became part of it...

    There was a time when I shared to him, got speechless in my court hearing and he gave me pieces of advises how to react or things that I should be ware of. Why he knows? because he`d been there and he had experience such promiscuities...Oh, and he was right! all that he told me had just happened.

    Just some thoughts that came to my mind and his memory will remain.....We miss you our dearest friend Ken
Hi Grace

Having time for others and showing that you care about them is a great gift, and Ken was certainly blessed in that respect.

Have yourself a good weekend

May your God go with you.


graceful1969 55F
1021 posts
2/6/2009 1:52 pm

Warm & Mahal, your words are sweet, thank you for always remembering our dearest friend and brother Ken. We all missing him

""Ken will always be the one who will come to the rescue to his friend even how sick he is""

You`re right Mahal, whenever I talk to him, he always offer a help, even simple things in life, like if you have fish smelly hands while ooking, will give you tip how to get rid of it or if I need a new recipe for kids, will offer his self made pumpkin soup or while waiting for my food to get cook and too engrossed with the our talk, he says, Grace, I think I smell something! or remind me if it`s already 16:00 0`clock, Grace, time to pick up the kids, etc. My daily routine that he became part of it...

There was a time when I shared to him, got speechless in my court hearing and he gave me pieces of advises how to react or things that I should be ware of. Why he knows? because he`d been there and he had experience such promiscuities...Oh, and he was right! all that he told me had just happened.

Just some thoughts that came to my mind and his memory will remain.....We miss you our dearest friend Ken


Warm_and_nice 70M
818 posts
2/5/2009 12:13 am

SGN, if Ken had any enemies then they are people that I would not want to have dealings with. Not my kind of people at all.

May your God go with you.