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Female brain / male Brain MEN AND WOMEN: TWO DIFFERENT SPECIES? WOMEN Left brain (+ right; more important callous body) Less lateralized: all the brain works Directed in time Good direction and verbal logic, verbal memory As of 9 years: 18 months in advance verbal on the boys On 24.000 pupils: exceptionally gifted in maths: 0 girl To nourish the offspring (mother) A balloon on the ground: takes in the arms Oestrogens, progesterone, oxytocin, prolactin Broad sight (great angle) Co-operation Reserves (greases); muscles: 25% Calm and patience One hour of sleep moreover Less strong, but more expressed emotivity Externalization Developed and erotized hearing (words, music) Perceives more nuances of colors (cones) Smell (up to 100 times more! ) Seek the contact of close (odors) The woman locates herself (details of the road) Need for intimacy for sexuality Need to speak and to be heard Need for safety (brooded) Balance and stability of the race (conservation) Left-handeds person: 4%; 90% of the compulsive eaters Commit suicide: many attempts; little death X chromosome = largest of all With the design: 140 boys for 100 girls Strong immunizing defenses (left brain) Serotonin: excite the woman The stronger sex MEN Right brain More lateralized = specialized, compartmentalized Directed in space Space logic, orientation, mental rotation Gift for mathematics 63 exceptionally gifted boys in maths To drive out the game (hunter and warrior) A balloon on the ground: shoote it Testosterone (hormone of conquest) Sight by far (teleobjective - zoom) Competition Power (muscles: 40% ); cicatrization Speed and impulsiveness Need movement More emotive but retained (not expressed emotions) Interiorization (autists: 4 men for 1 woman) Developed and erotized sight (clothing, make-up) Perceives better the forms and the movement Little developed smell (in general) Contact by far (seen) The man is directed (finds North without reference mark) Need for sexuality for intimacy Need to act and seek solutions Need for adventure and risk (combat) Experiment and ventures > geniuses and insane (creation) Left-handeds person: 10%; Less attempts; more successful suicides Y chromosome = smallest of all At 20 years: 95 H / 100 F; at 80 years: 58 H / 100 F Weak immunizing defenses Serotonin: calm and inhibits the man The weaker sex To conclude The many ones seek contemporary in neurosciences confirm thus and specify certain well-known traditional data. They as well direct moreover daily work in psychotherapy (or counseling), of course, as the work of accompaniment of couples: Here now, to finish this exposed brief, some concrete examples of the impact of the neurosciences. They encourage the psychotherapists thus with: • To listen patiently to a woman who complains, rather than to try to help it to solve its problems (attitude of the male, too directed towards the action: instead of the “maternal attitude”, he becomes his “father”!); • To stress with the woman the erotic importance of the glance at the man; • To stress with the man the importance of the sound environment and olfactive for her partner, the erotic effect of the music and the voice, the richness of the division by the word; • To stimulate the patients: they cure more quickly when they are close to a window, (open on the world) and, to stimulate the old people (a retirement with passivity induced a fast ageing); • To exploit in psychotherapy the intimate and reciprocal bonds between the two fundamental impulses: sexuality and aggressiveness (managed in particular by the hypothalamus and testosterone); • To treat with prudence the memories of sexual abuse the first childhood: indeed, the memory of a scene, that it is real or imaginary, presents the same cerebral localization and generates the same mental processes (40% of false memories - unconsciously rebuilt, starting from fears or of desires). • To mobilize the frontal lobes, sits of the responsibility and the autonomy (to say “not”  - from where the richness of the paradoxical therapy. Lastly, some remarks and recalls: • to make love accelerates the cicatrization of the wounds (testosterone); • An emotion is necessary to memorize; an entry of charge afterwards will allow the later recall of the memory; • Long-term memorizing is carried out, mainly, during the dream: from where, in the event of psychic traumatism (attack, , catastrophe), the interest of a debriefing in urgency, before the first dream; • One deplores 10 times more suicide attempts among women (they express their emotion) but a high rate of suicides successful at the men (setting in motion); • The women speak without reflecting! The men act without reflecting! • A woman who is not happy in her relations, has evil to concentrate on its work; a man who is not happy in his work, has evil to concentrate on his relations. • The woman needs intimacy to appreciate sexuality; the man needs sexuality to appreciate the intimacy. Finally, it is essential to keep up to date with research in neurosciences and genetics - which are far from to have said their last word. No matter what sometimes one says of it, it is not uninterested in therapy, that a man receives a woman - or that a woman receives a man. Our perception of the world is, indeed, extremely different… but sweetly complementary 
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All fascinating stuff. It certainly confirms some of my thoughts as to why my last relationship broke up. Good work.  May your God go with you.
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3/4/2008 1:02 pm |
The problem is not the size of the brain or the differences in the brain between man and woman. It is how the brain is used that matters most. So if man only wants to sit back, drink, make babies, not work that is his choice. If woman has husband like that and then decides to throwm him out and then goes out and makes a fortune that is her choice. But I think the woman is more smarter then the man. If she find the right man chasing her she is going to slow down and let him catch her. VICKY (Drop by and visit when you have time)
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