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ally4love 48F
16 posts
9/5/2008 8:54 am
Do you believe in long distance love? ;)
From the internet,we open the window,then see the world,meet different people,all kind,all race....
Have you think of became the host of "you've got mail"?
What if you guys are far far away from each other?and you already FALL IN LOVE without meeting in person.Hm....
It did happen,you gave him you heard,and what u gain is a broken heart in return.
So,how many ppl. believe in long distance love?
Yes,Will try it.
No,just a game.


misteriosa 54F

9/5/2008 5:19 pm

 At first yes, but now no.


graceful1969 55F
1021 posts
9/5/2008 11:23 pm

 Yes, it is possible but like normal relationships, needs extra effort on both parts.


touch213 69M

9/7/2008 1:36 pm

 sadly, half the people don't believe in the love they have right their in their homes... when they are not being patronized, they are ready to go,. when they can't manipulate the other with guilt games they are ready to do.. and for sure, soon as the money gets low, they are ready to go..

what matters about love, is what people give the least of matter about.. and that's developing .. compassionate understanding"..

most of the people as it appears in this site.. are only concerned about getting some ego elation, with hope it gets them someone else money... or someone to play suck up games to them.. while they play stand offish games.


Ojames 74M

9/7/2008 8:28 pm

 How about you and I . Let's see how this will works. This all looks to be 99% B> S. probally designed to entertain us in an unreal world of no promise for our dollars. Asiafriendfinder being our soul benefactor


Ojames 74M

9/7/2008 8:29 pm

 How about you and I . Let's see how this will works. This all looks to be 99% B> S. probally designed to entertain us in an unreal world of no promise for our dollars. Asiafriendfinder being our soul suvivior


BradQatar 52M
1 post
9/11/2008 6:23 am

 hi,
I think it can be hard i have tried it and it didn't work out but i was very young at the time. More of a holiday romance. It can work friends of mine have work around living far a part.

All best
B


victorylee0516
(victoria lee) 41F

9/11/2008 8:17 am

 I think it is extremely difficult to have a long distance relationship if it is with a total stranger. In the cybernet you can hide behind anyone's pictures and claim to be someone you are not. I have several friends who met someone on line who in the end was not what they pretended to be. Lots of people just want to kill time or fulfill their fantasy by chatting with a total stranger and pretenting to be someone they are not. It is a shame because many woman, especially those in China or other Asian countries are so trusting of western men.

VICKY
glad she's got a real boy friend she can hug when she needs hugging


Joey_B 75M

9/12/2008 12:52 am

 I'll preface my answer with this quote; "The eyes cannot see what the heart feels".

I've now gone through the Asia Friendfinder thoroughly for about 8 months, had my share of looks, emails, questions, answers, I love you, and the bottom line seems to always be the same, when are you coming to visit, I have a child, I will come penniless into the relationship, and the I love you comes much too quickly. The other posters have "made light of" telling someone you love them without actually seeing them. My answer to that is, they are many kinds of love, we love our pets, we love our children, we love foods, we love art, perhaps using the word love is just a way of expressing a feeling you have for what you see and hear thus far.

Real love is not something that happens very often in a person's life, in fact if you have been in love one time in your life, it is rare. I was fortunate in having been in love once.
Now I like what I see in a great deal of the opposite gender, but can it be love without being or interacting with this person, it's possible, the heart will never lie and it tells the mind and eyes what it feels, we then pursue based on the heart's interpretation.

I would base my feelings on what I see and hear, while it may seem like love, it is probably some sort of infatuation for this person, but given time it could possibly turn into genuine love. If you set your sights too high, you may become bitter and disappointed, conversely if you let the heart rule your actions, you may be surprised of the results.

Most chance meetings, without proper development, are likened to the affair being the "honeymoon" before the marriage. It's all too beautiful for words, but then reality sets in: What the hell did I just do?

Good Post.

JJB
"Once you've tasted love, its just the beginning of a new world"