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chatillion 71M
2300 posts
7/15/2014 3:13 pm
Adultery and doing a good friend wrong...

Something popped into my head today, so I decided to do a poll about it.
Let's say you did something bad to a good friend that caused them trouble...

You went to bed with their spouse.

This sets off a chain reaction and now they are going through a divorce.

Lucky for you, your friend's mate didn't tell your friend it was you they slept with. They don't have a clue you were involved.

Your friend is looking for answers as to why his/her marriage is falling apart and relying on you for support.

(I'm allowing a few simple responses. If the need arises, I will modify the poll.)

(note: on 7-21-2014 I changed the title from Adultery and doing me wrong... to Adultery and doing a good friend wrong...)

Would you:
admit to your friend you are the guilty party and try to work things out
alienate your friend and move on for fear of getting caught
help your friend knowing you could be exposed for being guilty
chatillion, you know I wouldn't cheat on a friend


beyondfantasy3 113M
4740 posts
7/15/2014 4:27 pm

A snake in the grass is not a good thing, nor is being the snake that is in the grass.


chatillion 71M
1567 posts
7/15/2014 4:54 pm

This past week I got into a conversation with someone and we were talking about the hazards of online dating.

I mentioned a woman I met online who claimed to live in my city but was out of town. Long story short... I picked her up at the airport and we went to dinner. The truth was: She wasn't divorced as told to me earlier. She said she is unhappily married, doesn't live in my city and was here to visit a girlfriend. She asked to sleep with me that night. I considered it until her husband called a few times during dinner. It was clear her husband was checking up on her and It didn't really sound like they were fighting.

After dinner, I politely dropped her off at her friends house.


beyondfantasy3 113M
4740 posts
7/15/2014 6:41 pm

I've over the years had various friends whom I knew their woman was giving signals of invitations. I just don't see the point in doing that. I value the men friends I have and that is just not something that is worth the nature of that friendship. Beside, why should I be so frail to compromise my own integrity. When people who claim to be friends do that, it won't be one time, it will be many times, and even if it is one time, you can't undo it. There are not enough words in the world dictionary to explain it.

Betrayal ---- !!!!!! it is quite a deep act of violence

Violence = injury by or as if by distortion, infringement, or profanation


beyondfantasy3 113M
4740 posts
7/16/2014 5:46 pm

There is already a sign on the married individual, " it clearly states, 'engage at your own risk and peril".

A woman or man who leaves their wife or husband in another country and moves away to begins a new life experience in another country. Should simply consider themselves to have abandoned the marriage and pursue a legal divorce and be done with it.
Especially when they have no plans to return and the other has no plans to follow them to the new country.

people confound their lives and then expect some type of sympathetic cycle to encircle them. It's people who make choices. Then they don't want to fully face the choice they made. so they want the options to claim lonely, but at the same time claim they have the security of marriage if things don't pan out for them.

Amazing..... the games people create.

in such case, one should know, if you connect with them, it is probably for a good time that has no long term aims, so, its probably a good time they want, and if the other is in pursuit of a good time, they may be good candidates for each other. If either of them gets screwed over, then, they already knew it was within the mix.