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Hongyannishang 31F
183 posts
12/29/2012 7:38 am
Why married men seek sex with single women?

Many married men are seeking for a single woman in real life and here in the internet in dating sides.
Married men seeking sex with single woman because they can?
Married men are very caring and experienced when it comes to love?
Because married men love the game with allure of the forbidden?
Married men seeking sex from single women dates back as far as the beginning of relationships?
Because it is in their nature to hunt?
Boredom / curiosity?
Or that only happens if the relationship is already broken?
Of familiarity was indifference?
The passion has remained on the track?
His ego needs a boost?

beyondfantasy3 104M
3960 posts
12/29/2012 9:13 am

Probably because they don't bring a laundry list of "Honey's do's" and try and regulate sex based on the list. Besides most of the time, the single woman is interested in making the shared time a happy experience.

The wife too often thinks because she is the wife, its all about 'what she expects his duty to be', so it becomes a kill joy situations, and more a 'duty and task" based arrangement.

zayphod143 63M
52 posts
12/29/2012 8:24 pm

Most men enjoy being seen as "desirable", as well as enjoy the thrill of the hunt and conquest.

It is also in man's nature to keep a harem, much like a bull or stallion.

beyondfantasy3 104M
3960 posts
12/30/2012 5:29 am

    Quoting zayphod143:
    Most men enjoy being seen as "desirable", as well as enjoy the thrill of the hunt and conquest.

    It is also in man's nature to keep a harem, much like a bull or stallion.
We each have unique views, I do think that many men may have vague fantasy of a harem, but the reality in many men's life is focused upon the woman he chooses as his mate.

Affairs are often started by many many many variable factors, and they involve a combination of converging factors.

The natural laws of male and female attraction is an ever-present realism within the human life. but the choice or options to act on pursuing that attraction is also a situation of many converging elements that bring a situational choice. None is immune to the influence of temptation, but all have the ability to discern their life and know the variables connected to acting on what temptation presents.

Fengjiaoyuyan___ 36F

12/30/2012 12:17 pm

I vote for ego boost it's in the nature of the man that they like to have many woman.

woaini1947 67M  
2545 posts
1/2/2013 1:49 pm

    Quoting Fengjiaoyuyan___:
    I vote for ego boost it's in the nature of the man that they like to have many woman.
Yes, ego boost is part of it but foremost is the need to be appreciated as a best friend and lover. I once explained to a lady friend that if she needed assistance with a project at home or she had a chore she wished me to help her with, ask me on a week day as I preferred my weekends and vacation days be reserved for pleasurable pursuits. I am sure there are men who want just the opposite but to me, if I have days off and they become an extension of my work week, I may as well work 56 hours a week instead of 40 and get paid for my efforts. Did she listen; no. A new girlfriend however, not only does not ask you to perform chores, she will insist that you refrain from those tasks because she desires your attention. Why is it that a woman is almost perfect in nature when the relationship is new, and becomes undesirable as the relationship progresses? Also, if you need a man to complete a task for you, keep him company and talk to him while he is performing free manual labor... Also, allow him a break once in a while and find a way to show your appreciation for his unselfishness and kindness. A smart woman can get a man to do anything if she treats him as a person of value. Most women who desire physical companionship have no trouble obtaining it from their man unless she has caused herself, through her attitude, to become unattractive to him. After all, if a man found you attractive and desirable and you maintained your looks and gave affection in the same frequency as when the relationship was new, why would he jeopardize his home and financial stability with an affair? I have seen men who still loved their woman, cheat, but I have never observed a man who received the same or more affection as the first day together; cheat. If women gave the same thought and ingenuity to maintaining a relationship as they do to initiating one, there would be less divorce and more children would grow up in a two parent household. Years ago it was only men who got fat and dressed sloppy. Now you see more overweight women than men, and women are complaining about the lack of respect from men while they are standing in public using foul language, flaunting their tattoos, wild colored hair, too short dresses, metal nose rings and psychedelic clothing. How many times have you married women gone to work and had to hear from another married woman, how cute the new neighbor, coworker or actor was? Women always blame men for transgressions and always refer to men as dogs when guilt is a two-edged sword. You reap what you sow.

EZglider 60M
449 posts
1/6/2013 9:06 am

It is simple The man wants sex and sex with is wife has become ungratifying so he gets it elsewhere

He chooses single women so he doesn't have to deal with Jealous husbands or boyfriends

A LOT of single women don't care if the man is married especially if she is seeking help with financial problems

They both get what they want

EZglider 60M
449 posts
1/6/2013 9:10 am

Choose the best option

A. No sex

B. Sex with an undesirable wife

C. Sex with a beautiful single woman

D. Sex with someone else's wife or girlfriend

I think there is only one good choice

EZglider 60M
449 posts
1/10/2013 3:24 am

women want travel and lifestyle and once a woman is over 30, most of the affluent men are already married

You won't find many single guys who can take you to Paris for a week but their are lots of married guys who can and will

I think single women, especially over 30 are just realistic

When I meet a 30 something lady and want to set her up, all the nice, affluent guys I know are married or in committed relationships

The single guys are mostly undesireables

seetorick 75M
1 post
3/7/2013 9:22 pm

I don't know about all these other answers but I know if my wife has become sullen and haughty just because I needed her love, I would consider going outside the marriage bed to find my sexual fulfilment.

mgr1734 66M

3/31/2013 10:02 am

Hi everybody. I think the question should be : Why married men seek sex with OTHER women? BECAUSE it is natural for them to do so & ethically speaking it is more or less socially acceptable for the manto have several mistresses, if he could afford it , financially speaking,at least by European standard. Dear Annishang please go to the Blog"CHINA"

local198724 30M
2 posts
4/8/2013 11:40 am

haha, well yes all of us are animals. but married men normally only venture out if they are not being satisfied at home.

Nishangliying 31F

5/11/2013 8:24 am

Married men seeking for their ego boost sex with single woman they are like dogs are always horny and coz no consequences.

harry992008 48M

5/12/2013 12:44 pm

Because it's on our nature is hehehe

Nishangliyin 36F
11 posts
5/13/2013 1:37 pm

Because married men love the game with allure of the forbidden.

KISSwan2 32M
1 post
5/15/2013 12:40 pm


Pittsburgh2 46M
10 posts
8/17/2013 12:28 pm

Right on.

99caucat9 45M
16 posts
10/3/2013 8:40 am

we men are here because we are heart broken.

madderrose 40M
39 posts
2/12/2014 2:38 pm

all of these reasons?

RustySchackelf 49M  
66 posts
3/3/2014 9:44 am

post 233773

Think married men who sleep outside marriage are not true to their spouse and if they want to sleep with someone other than wife, get a divorce and do it right. To cheat on either is wrong no matter how it is justified...

only4ulady 28M
41 posts
6/1/2014 10:57 pm

His ego needs a boost?