happy travels to me
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Posted:Sep 22, 2008 7:27 pm
Last Updated:Nov 5, 2008 4:22 pm 7605 Views
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I'm going to Xi'an next week. I want to buy a set of little terracotta warriors, with a included.
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inactive members
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Posted:Feb 23, 2008 1:46 pm
Last Updated:Feb 23, 2008 6:50 pm 8110 Views
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why does asia friend finder leave inactive members who closed their profiles in the active search listing?? it wastes our time to click on them. don't we have enough problems to find a woman as it is already? what a dirty trick this is. shame on you.
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how to choose a good screen name
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Posted:Jun 5, 2007 8:54 pm
Last Updated:Feb 23, 2008 6:57 pm 7633 Views
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They say a name is like a magic spell. You keep repeating it and it will have a certain effect on you. For example, which would you rather contact upon first impression: Dragongirl, or Busgirl? Notice what a big difference just a simple few words can make? I was looking at my screen name, and i think it sucks. i guess it's hard for everyone to come up with a catchy name for thier profile.
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vegetarian dating and desperation
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Posted:Mar 5, 2007 9:31 pm
Last Updated:Mar 7, 2007 4:54 pm 8142 Views
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A lonely vegetarian is the saddest site in the world. You just look at him eating mock peking duck and feel repulsed. He just looks at you like you a millenium starved soul.
How can a vegetarian be so lonely? A vegetarian is doing good for the world and himself. How can he feel so isolated and stigmatized and unwanted especially by good looking women? It should not be this way. Do you see carrots and other vegetables growing alone in a garden? No! So vegetarians eat more vegetables than anyone and so they should be like vegetables and congregate together all the time.
Vegetarian sites are a waste. Through the window of a dating site, there are less than five available vegetarian women in the world. I said the world, not in your neighborhood. Only five women in the whole world who are compatible and I have emailed them to death already but they still never respond. This is existential desperation like you have never seen.
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ode to love's memory
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Posted:Feb 24, 2007 5:23 pm
Last Updated:Feb 24, 2007 5:35 pm 7710 Views
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with love
comes the good
and the bad
choose to remember the good
and to shrug off the bad
let the good carry you through
your loneliest hours
let the bad
make you feel glad
that it's over now
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help for the lonely
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Posted:Aug 24, 2006 6:00 pm
Last Updated:May 12, 2024 2:26 am 8314 Views
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i need some help! how do i help console someone who feels lonely and helpless? what do i say? how do i convey a sense of listening instead of advice giving?
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the fortunate side of unrequited love
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Posted:Aug 22, 2006 9:10 pm
Last Updated:Aug 26, 2006 10:12 pm 8182 Views
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two people don't always feel the same amount of love for each other. is it better to be the one who is loved the most, or the one who loves more than the other? the latest is that it is better to be the more loving than the more loved because it feels better when you give than when you receive. giving makes you forget yourself and your own problems for a while and causes that altruistic feeling that only giving can make you feel. and besides you can't feel what the other person feels so it's better to be the one with more love in you.
the same can be applied to gifts, but when Christmas comes i'd better get my christmas presents.
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the antidote to fear
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Posted:Aug 22, 2006 8:58 pm
Last Updated:Aug 26, 2006 10:06 pm 8051 Views
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the antidote to fear is love. appreciation is the purest form of love. and i just found this out a few hours ago from a doctor, after searching for an anti-fear strategy that would work in social situations all my and adult life. martial arts didn't help. meditating for two hours didn't help. plain positive thinking didn't help. the hearts's mind must be used, not the head mind. love also heals cardiovascular disease by the way.
i don't know if it will work, but i'll try concentrating on what i appreciate about you all and see if that will dissolve the fear of asia friend finding.
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dating for absolute nerds who wear their underwear on the outside
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Posted:Aug 18, 2006 9:36 pm
Last Updated:Aug 26, 2006 10:07 pm 7996 Views
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how can we underdogs make lots of friends and meet a sweet heart of their totally unrealistic dreams?
there is no easy way. sorry.
i have tried shopping for clothes at Macy's instead of Conways. i think that helps a little. and i stopped cutting my own hair with the flowbee and went to different barbers until i could find one that didn't give me a bowl cut when i request something cool looking. a major difference maker was to get braces. so all those little things make large synergistic changes in how we and other people interact with us.
so far though i'm just as alone as before.
but this is where the most important thing comes in handy, PMA. yes PMA positive mental attitude, not PMS. there are studies statistically showing that optimistic people are more productive than pessimistic ones. i need to read the book Learned Optimism.
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more on vegetarian dating
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Posted:Aug 18, 2006 9:19 pm
Last Updated:May 12, 2024 2:26 am 8022 Views
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how to kiss a non vegetarian if you are a vegetarian is to wait until night time when the lady has brushed her teeth and then get all of your daily kissing quotas in before she goes to sleep. you could catch her in the morning too right after she brushes but before she has them sausage breakfast links, and then kiss her like mad before she gets hungry. but it's generally best to kiss at night because that's when the mood is better for her, no? in between brushings you just need to give her hugs that's all.
the rest of the relationship will be smoothe sailing from there. you just need to have a tolerant partner who will accept your crazy non meat eating habbit.
hope that helps. i won't be developing a method for non smokers and smokers because some things just won't work out.
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