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LA VIE EN ROSE--玫瑰人生,注册亚友的时候正在听这首法文歌,于是没多想就用了这个名字.
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天使的祝福(ZT) May 11, 2008 4:36 am
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一位天使這樣說:

許多朋友進出你的生命,

但是只有真正的朋友會在你的心灵留下腳印。

要操控自己,用你的頭﹔

要指揮別人,用你的心。

如果別人背叛你一次 ,那是他的錯﹔

如果他背叛你二次,那是你的錯。

胸怀遠大的人談理想﹔

一般的人批評事情﹔

心胸狹小的人道人長短。

失去金錢的人,失去很多﹔

失去朋友的人,失去更多﹔

失去信心的人,失去所有。

美麗年輕是天然形成,

你和我是朋友

你帶來另一位朋友

我們就有三個朋友

我們開始成為一個团体

沒有開始也沒有結束

這裡有一位天使派來守護您

為了讓天使能做好他的工作

願你每天過得愉悅.充滿驚喜.

你愛的人.愛你的人一切如意....
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What rules the World? May 10, 2008 9:20 am
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What rules the World? -- BY William Ross Wallace

They say that man is mighty,

He governs land and sea;

He wields a mighty scepter

O’er lesser powers that be;

But a mightier power and stronger,

Man from his throne has hurled,

And the hand that rocks the cradle

Is the hand that rules the world.

都说人力无穷,

支配着陆地与大海,

行使着至高无上的王权,

统治着弱小的生灵。

然而还有更强大的力量,

将人从宝座上掀起,

是那双轻推着摇篮的手,

主宰着整个世界。


MOTHER "母亲"的含义

"M" is for the million things she gave me,
"O" means only that she's growing old,
"T" is for the tears she shed to save me,
"H" is for her heart of purest gold.
"E" is for her eyes ,with the love-light shining,
"R" means right,and right she'll always be,
Put them all together, they spell "MOTHER",
A word that means the world to me.

“M”代表她所给予我的无数,
“O”的意思是她在日渐老去,
“T”是她为抚育我洒下的泪,
“H”指她有像金子一般的心灵,
“E”就是她的眼睛,里面洋溢着爱的光芒,
“R”的意思是正确,因为她永远是对的。
将以上字母串在一起就是“母亲(mother)”,
这就是我的整个的世界。
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老外的“傻”与国人的“精”(ZT) May 1, 2008 4:38 am
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出国归来的同胞大多津津乐道于外国人的傻,并且自以为聪明。比如,有人在美国的商场里碰到类似国内的“买一送一”的促销活动,你买一件衬衣,商家会赠送你一件,倘若不满意的话,可以无条件包退(赠送的那件可以留用)。于是,精明的中国人就想出一个钻空子的办法,买了退,退了买,从中乐得白捡一件衣服穿。相比之下,傻乎乎的美国佬就缺乏这样的智商。

  又比如,在欧洲的某些国家,手机可以随便拿,不用花钱买。天上掉馅饼,有这等好事,据说一些国内的观光客,逮着这个机会一口气地拿了十几、二十部免费手机,恨不得浑身上下都是口袋,弄个满载而归,搞得人家老外侧目而视,百思不得其解。

  再如,我们的近邻泰国人据说也很“傻”,在他们的商场里,可以看到满是虫眼的蔬菜,堂而皇之地摆在货架上卖,居然天天有人买。那里的菜农连既便宜又高效的剧毒农药都不会用,更别说其他高科技手段,诸如陈粮翻新、泔水油回收,避孕药养鱼之类,人家连听都没听说过。

  而德国人的“傻”更是出了名的,有人做了个试验,分别在两部公用电话亭贴上男士和女士专用的提示语,结果令人不可思议的一幕出现了,男士们排着长长的队伍等着打电话,而旁边的女士电话亭空无一人,却没有一个人去打。

  看起来外国人是够“傻”的,可人家“傻”出了生活质量,“傻”出了现代文明,“傻”出了难能可贵的品质。在他们眼里,规则和原则是不能破的,无论遇到什么情况,都得依照规则行事。正是这种近乎于教条、机械、刻板,对制度规则怀有的深深的敬畏之心,才建立了良好的社会秩序和人际关系。因而“傻”得可爱,“傻”得可敬。

  按说,人越是聪明,生活的质量就越高。但,人若是聪明过了头,生活质量反倒越低。在当下能够显示我们的脑袋瓜比别人聪明的,可能要算是如火如荼的全民造假了。在中国这片土地上,能够拍胸脯说自己没有上过当、受过骗的恐怕不多。有人抱怨活得太累,焉知这“累”的背后是因为有人聪明过度的缘故,逼得一些人不得不学聪明,用“聪明”去应对“聪明”,进而越来越累。买菜要带弹簧称,我怕你短斤少两,你怕我用假钞。打开电视,专家们喋喋不休地在教你怎么去识别“苏丹红”、注水肉、毒大米、假烟、假酒、假食品,恨不得把全民都驯化成消费专家,否则,一不小心就会掉进深不见底的陷阱。甚至为了获得医疗事故的赔偿,能把一个只有小学文化的农民逼成通晓医药和法律的专家,焉有不累之理?

  “傻”,很多时候传递的是一种本真,是一种难能可贵的品质。从某种意义上说,能称之为“傻”的人,多半脑筋不会急转弯,往往只认死理,不会灵活变通,他们遵守规则,严守诚信。倒是那些自视聪明,自以为是的人,时不时地逾越道德、法制的底线,而在践踏、破坏规则,利用“潜规则”的同时制造“潜规则”更是聪明人的拿手绝活。一个社会,攻于心计,爱耍小聪明的人多了,绝不是一件好事。作家冯骥才说过:“一个民族冒傻气的时候,往往是有希望的时候;一个过于精、灵、鬼的民族,往往没有希望。”当然,这里的“傻”,并非装疯卖傻。装疯卖傻者,不是真傻是假傻,比如国产的“指鹿为马”,进口者如“黄帝的新衣”等等,那可是要祸国殃民的傻。
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因为喜欢你,所以要你嫁给我. Apr 30, 2008 10:02 am
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因为喜欢你,我为人也很好.所以要是愿意请你嫁给我.

遗憾的是今天我不再是十八岁......
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...... Apr 13, 2008 3:32 pm
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曾经的快乐要感激

今天的不快要道歉

未来的生活要珍重

每一天依然要快乐

现在唯有遗憾说再见
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你也在井里吗??(ZT) Apr 2, 2008 4:34 am
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有一天某個農夫的一頭驢子,不小心掉進一口枯井裡,農夫絞盡腦汁想辦法救出驢子,但幾個小時過去了,驢子還在井裡痛苦地哀嚎著。
最後,這位農夫決定放棄,他想這頭驢子年紀大了,不值得大費周章去把牠救出來,不過無論如何,這口井還是得填起來。
於是農夫便請來左鄰右舍幫忙一起將井中的驢子埋了,以免除牠的痛苦。農夫的鄰居們人手一把鏟子,開始將泥土剷進枯井中。
當這頭驢子瞭解到自己的處境時,剛開始哭得很悽慘。但出人意料的是,一會兒之後這頭驢子就安靜下來了。
農夫好奇地探頭往井底一看,出現在眼前的景象令他大吃一驚:當剷進井裡的泥土落在驢子的背部時,驢子的反應令人稱奇──牠將泥土抖落在一旁,然後站到剷進的泥土堆上面!
就這樣,驢子將大家剷倒在牠身上的泥土全數抖落在井底,然後再站上去。
很快地,這隻驢子便得意地上升到井口,然後在眾人驚訝的表情中快步地跑開了!
就如驢子的情況,在生命的旅程中,有時候我們難免會陷入「枯井」裡,會被各式各樣的「泥沙」傾倒在我們身上,而想要從這些「枯井」脫困的秘訣就是:將「泥沙」抖落掉,然後站到上面去!
事實上,我們在生活中所遭遇的種種困難挫折就是加諸在我們身上的「泥沙」,然而,換個角度看,它們也是一塊塊的墊腳石,只要我們鍥而不捨地將它們抖落掉,然後站上去,那麼即使是掉落到最深的井,我們也能安然地脫困。
本來看似要活埋驢子的舉動,由於驢子處理厄境的態度不同,實際上卻幫助了牠,這也是改變命運的要素之一。
如果我們以肯定、沉著穩重的態度面對困境,助力往往就潛藏在困境中。一切都決定於我們自己,學習放下一切得失,勇往直前邁向理想。
我們應該不斷地建立信心、希望和無條件的愛,這些都是幫助我們從生命中的枯井脫困並找到自己的工具。
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Present(ZT) Mar 19, 2008 1:41 am
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THINGS ARE NOT ALWAYS WHAT THEY SEEM
有些事並不像它看上去那樣
Two travelling angels stopped to spend the night in the home of a wealthy family. The family was rude and refused to let the angels stay in the mansion's guestroom. Instead the angels were given a small space in the cold basement. As they made their bed on the hard floor, the older angel saw a hole in the wall and repaired it. When the younger angel asked why, the older angel replied, "Things aren't always what they seem."
兩個旅行中的天使到一個富有的家庭借宿。這家人對他們並不友好,並且拒絕讓他們在舒適的客人臥室過夜,而是在冰冷的地下室給他們找了一個角落。當他們鋪床時,較老的天使發現牆上有一個洞,就順手把它修補好了。年輕的天使問為什麼,老天使答到:“有些事並不像它看上去那樣。”

The next night the pair came to rest at the house of a very poor, but very hospitable farmer and his wife. After sharing what little food they had the couple let the angels sleep in their bed where they could have a good night's rest. When the sun came up the next morning the angels found the farmer and his wife in tears. Their only cow, whose milk had been their sole income, lay dead in the field. The younger angel was infuriated and asked the older angel how could you have let this happen? The first man had everything, yet you helped him, she accused. The second family had little but was willing to share everything, and you let the cow die.

第二晚,兩人又到了一個非常貧窮的農家借宿。主人夫婦倆對他們非常熱情,把僅有的一點點食物拿出來款待客人,然後又讓出自己的床鋪給兩個天使。第二天一早,兩個天使發現農夫和他的妻子在哭泣--他們唯一的生活來源,一頭奶牛死了。年輕的天使非常憤怒,他質問老天使為什麼會這樣,第一個家庭什麼都有,老天使還幫助他們修補牆洞,第二個家庭儘管如此貧窮還是熱情款待客人,而老天使卻沒有阻止奶牛的死亡。
"Things aren't always what they seem," the older angel replied. "When we stayed in the basement of the mansion, I noticed there was gold stored in that hole in the wall. Since the owner was so obsessed with greed and unwilling to share his good fortune, I sealed the wall so he wouldn’t find it."
“有些事並不象它看上去那樣。”老天使答道,“當我們在地下室過夜時,我從牆洞看到牆裏面堆滿了金塊。因為主人被貪欲所迷惑,不願意分享他的財富,所以我把牆洞填上了。
"Then last night as we slept in the farmers bed, the angel of death came for his wife. I gave him the cow instead. Things aren't always what they seem."
“昨天晚上,死亡之神來召喚農夫的妻子,我讓奶牛代替了她。所以有些事並不像它看上去那樣。”
Sometimes that is exactly what happens when things don't turn out the way they should. If you have faith, you just need to trust that every outcome is always to your advantage. You might not know it until some time later...
有些時候事情的表面並不是它實際應該的樣子。如果你有信念,你只需要堅信付出總會得到回報。你可能不會發現,直到後來…….

Some people come into our lives and quickly go…
有些人走進我們的生活然後很快就離開了…

Some people become friends and stay awhile...
leaving beautiful footprints on our hearts...
有些人成為朋友並稍作停留… 在我們的心裏留下美麗的足印。

and we are never quite the same because we have made a good friend!!

因為有了一個好朋友,我們會變得跟從前不一樣!!

Yesterday is history. 昨天是歷史。
Tomorrow is a mystery. 明天是一個謎。
Today is a gift. 今天是一個禮物。
That's why it's called the present!
因此它才被稱爲present!(present同時具有當前、目前和禮物的意思)

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遺憾(ZT) Mar 13, 2008 9:57 am
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遺憾
有對老夫妻年逾五十,經濟條件不錯,理當是安享退休生活的時候,卻相偕到律師那兒要辦離婚,原因是自從結婚以來,兩人爭吵不斷,老是意見不合,個性上又南轅北轍十分不和階,二十多年的婚姻生活,要不是為了孩子著想,早就勞燕紛飛了。
好不容易總算盼到孩子們成年,再不需要父母操心,為了讓彼此在晚年能自由的生活,不用再忍受那麼多無謂的爭吵,決定辦離婚。
這一刻在律師面前,讓律師也面有難色,律師費都有點不好意思收了,於是他提議辦完手續後,三人一起吃頓飯。老夫妻想了想,雖然離了婚,兩人又沒什麼深仇大恨,吃頓飯總可以吧!餐廳裡三人氣氛非常尷尬(想也難怪,陌生的律師和兩個剛離婚的人),正巧服務生送來一道烤雞,老先生馬上挾起一塊雞腿給老太太說:「吃吧!你最喜歡吃的雞腿。」律師眼精一亮,心想事情也許有了轉機哦!未料老太太紅著雙眼說:「我很愛你,但你這個人就愛自以為是,什麼事都自已說了就算,從來不管別人的感受,難道你不知道,我這輩子最討厭吃的就是雞腿嗎?」這時老先生也有點>哽咽的說:「你‥總是不了解我愛你的心,時時刻刻我都在想,要如何討你的歡心,總是把最好的留給你,你知道嗎?這輩子我最喜歡吃的就是‥雞腿。」律師看在眼裡,不免鼻頭一酸,兩個如此深愛著彼此的人,卻因為溝通出了問題而面臨分開的局面。
這一晚兩人心中都有著無限的感慨,這麼多年的感情卻要面對如此殘酷的結局。老先生整晚翻來覆去睡不著,心中陣陣如火燃燒般的痛在心底無情的煎熬著。他考慮了很久,強忍著痛苦打電話給老太太,想要表達他內心的後悔,他想告訴老太太,他是多麼的愛她。電話聲響了,老太太知道一定是老先生打來的,但是她心中充滿了恨,她覺得是老先生負了她一生,她不想再聽到他的聲音。電話不知響了多久,老太太就是不接,婚都離了,面子重要,怎能接電話,甚至她把電話線都拆了。老先生手握著冰冷的話筒,聽不到老太太的聲音,心中有如刀割一般,久久無法釋懷。其實這一天晚上老太太也是在傷心中輾轉難眠,而且她忘了...老先生他有心臟病。
隔天,老先生被發現死在自已家客廳,手裡還緊握著電話筒。老太太知道這個消息後簡直無法相信,為了賭一口氣,竟然讓自已深愛的人在心碎中死去,這時候任她如何大聲的呼喊也喚不回老先生的回眸一笑;老太太柔腸寸斷的整理老先生的遺物,突然發現抽屜裡的一張保險單,投保日期就是當年他們倆的結婚日,受益人當然是老太太的名字,雖然金額只有100萬元,但是當中夾著一張字條:「親愛的,當你發現這張保單時,也許我已經不在這人世了,但我愛你的心不會改變,照顧你的責任更不會終止,這些保險金將代替我,繼續給你無微不至的愛與關懷,一如我仍然在你身旁,永遠愛你的......」看到這裡老太太早已淚如雨下,她真的沒看走眼,他是真心願意照顧自已一輩子的人。」
朋友,千萬不要讓生命中有這樣的遺憾,早早放下心中無謂的面子、成見,用愛與包容,真心的對待,否則你可能錯過這一生深愛你的人,最後一次說「我愛你!」到時再多的悔恨也無法挽回這樣的遺憾。更提醒您,要把握住機會,讓心愛的人知道你有多在乎她,勇敢的說出來吧!假若你真的說不出「我愛你」這三個字,只要你用心,總有一天她終會了解的。
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The Life Mar 9, 2008 8:47 am
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Have you ever, at any one time, had the feeling that life is bad, real bad, and you wish you were in another situation? You find life
make things difficult for you, work sucks, life sucks, everything seems to go wrong...

Read the following story... it may change your views about life:
After a conversation with one of my friends, he told me despite taking 2 jobs, he brings back barely above 1K per month, he is happy as
he is. I wonder how he can be as happy as he is considering he has to skimp his life with the low pay to support a pair of old parents,
in-laws, a wife, 2 daughters and the many bills of a household. He explained that it was through one incident that he saw in India... that happened a few years ago when he was really feeling low and touring India after a major setback. He said that right in front of his very eyes, he saw an Indian mother chop off her child's right hand with a chopper. The helplessness in the mother's eyes, the scream of pain from the innocent 4-year-old child haunted him until today.
You may ask why did the mother do so; had the child been naughty, had the child's hand been infected?? No, it was done for two simple words -- -TO BEG!
The desperate mother deliberately caused the child to be handicapped so
that the child could go out to the streets to beg. Taken aback by the
scene, he dropped a piece of bread he was eating halfway. And almost instantly, a flock of 5 or 6 children swamped towards this small piece of bread, which was covered with sand, robbing bits from one another. The natural reaction of hunger.
Stricken by the happenings, he instructed his guide to drive him to the nearest bakery. He arrived at two bakeries and bought every
single loaf of bread he found in the bakeries. The owner was dumbfounded but willingly sold everything.He spent less than $100 to obtain about 400 loaves of bread (this is less than 0.25 per loaf) and necessities.Off he went in the truck full of bread into the streets. As he distributed the bread and necessities to the children (mostly handicapped) and a few adults, he received cheers and bows from these unfortunate. For the first time in his life he wondered how people can give up their dignity for a loaf of bread, which cost less than $0.25.
He began to tell himself how fortunate he is. How fortunate he is to be able to have a complete body, have a job, have a family, have the chance to complain what food is nice and what isn't, have the chance to be clothed, have the many things that these people in front of him are deprived of...Now I begin to think and feel it, too! Was my life really that bad? Perhaps... no, I should not feel bad at all...What about you Maybe the next time you think you are, think about the child who lost one hand to beg on the streets.
"Contentment is not the fulfillment of what you want, it is the realization of how much you already have."
When the door of happiness closes, another opens, but often times we look so long at the closed door that we don't see the one which has
been opened for us.
It's true that we don't know what we've got until we lose it, but it's also true that we don't know what we've been missing until it arrives.

Giving someone all your love is never an assurance that they'll love you back!

Don't expect love in return; just wait for it to grow in their heart but if it doesn't, be ontent it grew in yours.

It takes only a minute to get a crush on someone, an hour to like someone, and a day to love someone, but it takes a lifetime to forget
someone.
Don't go for looks; they can deceive. Don't go for wealth; even that fades away.
Go for someone who makes you smile because it takes only a smile to make a dark day seem bright. Find the one that makes your heart
smile.
There are moments in life when you miss someone so much that you just want to pick them from your dreams and hug them for real!

Dream what you want to dream; go where you want to go; be what you want to be, because you have only one life and one chance to do all the things you want to do.
May you have enough happiness to make you sweet, enough trials to make you strong, enough sorrow to keep you human, enough hope to make you happy. .

Always put yourself in other's shoes. If you feel that it hurts you, it probably hurts the other person, too.

The happiest of people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the most of everything that comes along their way.

Happiness lies for those who cry, those who hurt, those who have searched, and those who have tried, for only they can appreciate the
importance of people who have touched their lives.

Love begins with a smile, grows with a kiss and ends with a tear. The brightest future will always be based on a forgotten past, you
can't go on well in life until you let go of your past failures and
heartaches.
When you were born, you were crying and everyone around you was smiling. Live your life so that when you die, you're the one who is smiling and everyone around you is crying.
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用了十年的邮箱,突然间不明所以然的被清除的干干净净.迫不及待的给网站写了邮件询问求助,想来是恢复无望了,但还是会抱一线希望.
十年间不断删选,累积下来的几百封邮件,一直不忍删除的记忆,一下子成为一片空白.
人的一生中或多或少都会有些现在来说对我们已无足轻重,却不愿删除的记忆.未必是美好,未必是痛苦,可是却是我们不想去忘记的,只因那是那时的一些情感,一片记忆......
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