/blog/bmyx2002/index.html?od=asiafriendfinder&pid=p45128 The thoughts, life, and times of an American Chinese guy. Life can be strange. My fraternity brothers always said I should write a book about all the crazy things, ideas, and occurrances in my life. Even in college, my brothers knew my conservative personality and clean cut appearance didn't mean a boring person. I'm not crazy, but I have been places, had experiences, and seen events for many lifetimes in the last 10 years. I have known joy, happiness, the greatest times of my life, and felt extreme pain. I have done good and bad. The good has led to great memories. The bad has led to regrets and some of the most meaningful lessons of life.[COLOR firebrick][B]I CAN ONLY READ ENGLISH COMMENTS ON MY BLOG, BECAUSE OF THE WAY AsiaFriendFinder IS SET UP. PLEASE POST COMMENTS IN ENGLISH. THANKS.[/B][/COLOR] /blog/5402/post_222555.html?od=asiafriendfinder&pid=p45128&m= People believe in the myth of perfect, everlasting romance, and finding "the one" too much.Yes, when you truly love someone (in any form, including the real form of romantic love and not the illusion Tue, 08 Nov 2011 03:38:08 -0800 /blog/5402/post_222555.html?od=asiafriendfinder&pid=p45128&m= /blog/5402/post_222554.html?od=asiafriendfinder&pid=p45128&m= For most....trust is in your mind....it is how you react to what you perceive in the other person's actions that drives the lost of trust.This is not to say cheating and other breaches of trust should Tue, 08 Nov 2011 03:36:53 -0800 /blog/5402/post_222554.html?od=asiafriendfinder&pid=p45128&m= /blog/5402/post_211511.html?od=asiafriendfinder&pid=p45128&m= If God is omnipotent and knows what we will do before he created us, how can we have free will?ANSWER: This paradox is explained by God being outside of time–he knows the future just like he knows t Fri, 26 Nov 2010 00:30:26 -0800 /blog/5402/post_211511.html?od=asiafriendfinder&pid=p45128&m= /blog/5402/post_211433.html?od=asiafriendfinder&pid=p45128&m= I found myself reading about a man who shot his wife. He called it a "mercy killing". Here's a test of whether someone kills a loved one out of truly unselfish motives or for himself ---- ask the per Wed, 24 Nov 2010 01:11:22 -0800 /blog/5402/post_211433.html?od=asiafriendfinder&pid=p45128&m= /blog/5402/post_211407.html?od=asiafriendfinder&pid=p45128&m= The television is a powerful tool for those wishing to instill fear in the hearts of those who watch it. Create your own reality, make heaven on earth, the news can suck you into their reality. Made a Tue, 23 Nov 2010 15:30:43 -0800 /blog/5402/post_211407.html?od=asiafriendfinder&pid=p45128&m= /blog/5402/post_211328.html?od=asiafriendfinder&pid=p45128&m= Men find themselves doing what must be done, when the call goes out and nobody else can in war.In life, men often find themselves in the same situation. We can run or face what is before us. Some say Sun, 21 Nov 2010 23:24:30 -0800 /blog/5402/post_211328.html?od=asiafriendfinder&pid=p45128&m= /blog/5402/post_211126.html?od=asiafriendfinder&pid=p45128&m= The concept of forgiveness is often misunderstood, and often "misunderstood" intentionally by those that don't want to admit and STOP their sin, bad behaviour, wrong doing.For instance, many people li Tue, 16 Nov 2010 12:48:18 -0800 /blog/5402/post_211126.html?od=asiafriendfinder&pid=p45128&m= /blog/5402/post_209723.html?od=asiafriendfinder&pid=p45128&m= "Heart of Darkness" is a literary classic about a captain traveling down a river in Africa (the dark continent), and it is believed that river was the Congo the Belgians had been trading in during the Tue, 19 Oct 2010 01:23:25 -0800 /blog/5402/post_209723.html?od=asiafriendfinder&pid=p45128&m= /blog/5402/post_208525.html?od=asiafriendfinder&pid=p45128&m= Written 2007/2008Oliver Stone's message in all his movies is best reflected in the ending scene of the movie "Platoon".The war was never in Vietnam [or any physical battlefield]. It was in us and will Tue, 21 Sep 2010 22:53:48 -0800 /blog/5402/post_208525.html?od=asiafriendfinder&pid=p45128&m= /blog/5402/post_204070.html?od=asiafriendfinder&pid=p45128&m= "...love knows not its own depthuntil the hour of separation."- Kahil GibranIn this, those that cheap and plan to break their marriages often receive justice in finding out how painful it is to leave Sun, 20 Jun 2010 22:50:14 -0800 /blog/5402/post_204070.html?od=asiafriendfinder&pid=p45128&m= /blog/5402/post_201422.html?od=asiafriendfinder&pid=p45128&m= I've noticed how much more life means, after almost losing it all, or for some after they have lost it all. It makes everything look different, brighter, you appreciate it more. It changes how you see Wed, 05 May 2010 12:39:40 -0800 /blog/5402/post_201422.html?od=asiafriendfinder&pid=p45128&m= /blog/5402/post_200507.html?od=asiafriendfinder&pid=p45128&m= It's so stupid, it's genius. Look at that poor dog, with a cone of shame and a bandage on his butt. Tue, 13 Apr 2010 23:09:18 -0800 /blog/5402/post_200507.html?od=asiafriendfinder&pid=p45128&m= /blog/5402/post_190930.html?od=asiafriendfinder&pid=p45128&m= Aug 19, 2009 6:29 pmLife is strange.Sometimes two people can have so much in common on the immediate surface, but the similarities are so shallow that it's as thin as a veneer.Right now, my girlfriend Mon, 14 Sep 2009 17:02:18 -0800 /blog/5402/post_190930.html?od=asiafriendfinder&pid=p45128&m= /blog/5402/post_190626.html?od=asiafriendfinder&pid=p45128&m= The trick is to stop trying to impose order and let the chaos be. Instead, organize as small a path as possible in the disorder and squeeze on thru, because the harder you try to control something the Tue, 08 Sep 2009 16:46:02 -0800 /blog/5402/post_190626.html?od=asiafriendfinder&pid=p45128&m= /blog/5402/post_190434.html?od=asiafriendfinder&pid=p45128&m= "The truth is I've never fooled anyone. I've let people fool themselves. They didn't bother to find out who and what I was. Instead they would invent a character for me. I wouldn't argue with them. Th Thu, 03 Sep 2009 21:40:00 -0800 /blog/5402/post_190434.html?od=asiafriendfinder&pid=p45128&m= /blog/5402/post_189619.html?od=asiafriendfinder&pid=p45128&m= When I first met her,I was heartbroken over anotherWhen I met her,she knew I liked herWhen we started dating,she knew I cared for herbut was jealous over anotherWhen I won her heart,she cried knowing Tue, 18 Aug 2009 23:17:42 -0800 /blog/5402/post_189619.html?od=asiafriendfinder&pid=p45128&m= /blog/5402/post_189420.html?od=asiafriendfinder&pid=p45128&m= It's in pain that I've learned just how special the small things in this life arefrom the sun shining on our facesto a child's smileIt's just now that I learned how wonderful this world isbecause I've Fri, 14 Aug 2009 23:07:59 -0800 /blog/5402/post_189420.html?od=asiafriendfinder&pid=p45128&m= /blog/5402/post_186113.html?od=asiafriendfinder&pid=p45128&m= What do you deserve?May 26, 2009 2:33 am"Dedicate yourself to the good you deserve & desire for yourself. Give yourself peace of mind. You deserve to be happy. You deserve delight." - Mark VHansenThe Sun, 21 Jun 2009 17:52:46 -0800 /blog/5402/post_186113.html?od=asiafriendfinder&pid=p45128&m= /blog/5402/post_186112.html?od=asiafriendfinder&pid=p45128&m= Running against the wind....you learn when you get older, if you're lucky...otherwise you end up old and life's a bunch of regrets....but the luckiest ones are those that listen to the truth from thos Sun, 21 Jun 2009 17:51:41 -0800 /blog/5402/post_186112.html?od=asiafriendfinder&pid=p45128&m= /blog/5402/post_184236.html?od=asiafriendfinder&pid=p45128&m= What goes around comes around-justice-karma. Why do the scales always balance out? Maybe it's built directly into the individual & society? If someone believes in God, this would make sense. It would Wed, 20 May 2009 14:42:48 -0800 /blog/5402/post_184236.html?od=asiafriendfinder&pid=p45128&m=