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开心果(Happy Fruit)

一个真正的朋友会握住你的手和触动你的心(A ture friend is the one holds your hand and touch your heart.)

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Posted:Dec 8, 2009 7:30 pm
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美国人的待客之道
Posted:Dec 8, 2009 2:13 am
Last Updated:Jan 20, 2010 6:45 pm
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An American friend has invited you to visit his family. You've never been to an American's home before, and you're not sure what to do. Should you take a gift? How should you dress? What time should you arrive? What should you do when you get there? Glad you asked. When you're the guest, you should just make yourself at home. That's what hospitality is all about: making people feel at home when they're not

һλȥҡǰδȥ˵ļң㲻ȷôôһ𣿸ôü㵽ʲôܸ㷢ʡǿˣֻҪʹԼеھͺˡ֮Ȼڼңȴÿбĸо

The question of whether or not to bring a gift often makes guests squirm. Giving your host a gift is not just a social nicety in some cultures--it's expected. But in American culture, a guest is not obligated to bring a present. Of course, some people do bring a small token of appreciation to their host. Appropriate gifts for general occasions might be flowers, candy or--if the family has small --toys. If you choose not to bring a gift, don't worry. No one will even notice

Ƿⳣʹ˲ijЩĻУﲻֻ罻ڡDZҪġĻУ˲һҪȻЩ˵ȷʾлСǵˡһ˵ǹ˵СͿߡ㲻ģû˻ע⵽Ŀֶ

American hospitality begins at home--especially when it involves food. Most Americans agree that good home cooking beats restaurant food any day. When invited for a meal, you might ask, "Can I bring anything?" Unless it's a potluck, where everyone brings a dish, the host will probably respond, "No, just yourself." For most informal dinners, you should wear comfortable, casual clothes. Plan to arrive on time, or else call to inform your hosts of the delay. During the dinner conversation, it's customary to compliment the hostess on the wonderful meal. Of course, the biggest compliment is to eat lots of food!

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When you've had plenty, you might offer to clear the table or wash the dishes. But since you're the guest, your hosts may not let you. Instead, they may invite everyone to move to the living room for dessert with tea or coffee. After an hour or so of general chit-chat, it's probably time to head for the door. You don't want to wear out your welcome. And above all, don't go snooping around the house. It's more polite to wait for the host to offer you a guided tour. But except for housewarmings, guests often don't get past the living room

Աʱʾæӻϴ̡ǿˣ˿ܲġǻҵԵġȲ򿧷ȡĸԼһСʱ͸ȥˣɲϣòܻӭɡҪǣҪĴ̽ٲι۲űȽòǨϲ֮⣬ֻͨڿ

Americans usually like to have advance notice when people come to see them. Only very close friends drop by unannounced. This is especially true if the guests want to stay for a few days. Here's a good rule of thumb for house guests: Short stays are best. As one 19thcentury French writer put it, "The first day a man is a guest, the second a burden, the third a pest." Even relatives don't usually stay for several weeks at a time. While you're staying with an American family, try to keep your living area neat and tidy. Your host family will appreciate your consideration. And they may even invite you back!

ͨϲÿ֪ͨǣֻзdzܵѲſԲ䵱ÿҪüʱˡòҪǸÿ͵ľ̸֮ͬʮһλдģһǿˣڶǸˡʹͨҲһδϼڡס˼ʱ跨ʹסĵطࡣһҽлٴ㣡

Most Americans consider themselves hospitable people. Folks in the southern United States, in particular, take pride in entertaining guests. In fact, "southern hospitality" has become legendary. But in all parts of America, people welcome their guests with open arms. So don't be surprised to find the welcome mat out for you. Just don't forget to wipe your feet

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Posted:Dec 8, 2009 12:48 am
Last Updated:Dec 8, 2009 5:37 pm
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颜色英语大全
  一.红色类
  红色 red
  朱红 vermeil; vermilion; ponceau
  粉红 pink; soft red; rose bloom
  梅红 plum;crimson;fuchsia red
  玫瑰红 rose madder; rose
  桃红 peach blossom; peach; carmine rose
  樱桃红 cherry; cerise
  桔红 reddish orange; tangerine; jacinth; salmon pink; salmon
  石榴红 garnet
  枣红 purplish red; jujube red; date red
  莲红 lotus red
  浅莲红 fuchsia pink
  豉豆红 bean red
  辣椒红 capsicum red
  高粱红 Kaoliang red
  芙蓉红 hibiscus red; poppy red; poppy
  胭脂红 rogue red ; carmine; cochineal; lake
  鲑鱼红 salmon
  玳瑁红 hawksbill turtle red
  海螺红 cadmium orange
  宝石红 ruby red
  玛瑙红 agate red
  珊瑚红 coral
  金红 bronze red
  铁红 iron oxide red
  铁锈红 rust red
  镉红 cadmium red
  铬红 chrome red
  砖红 brick red
  土红 laterite; reddle
  郎窑红 lang-kiln red
  均红 Jun-kiln red
  釉底红 underglaze red
  威尼斯红 Venetian red
  法国红 French vermilion
  茜红 alizarin red; madder red
  洋红 carmine; magenta
  品红 pinkish red; magenta
  猩红 scarlet red; scarlet; blood red
  油红 oil red
  紫红 purplish red; madder red; wine red; wine; carmine;amaranth; claret; fuchsia; magenta; heliotrope; mauve
  玫瑰紫红 rose carmine; rose mauve
  深紫红 prune; mulberry
  深藕红 conch shell
  棕红 henna
  暗红 dark red; dull red
  鲜红 scarlet red; scarlet; bright red; fresh red; blood red;madder; ruby; cerise; cherry
  血红 blood red; incarnadine
  血牙红 shell pink; peach beige
  绯红 scarlet; crimson; geranium pink
  米红 silver pink
  深红 deep red; crimson
  淡红 light red; carnation
  二.橙色类
  橙色 orange
  三.黄色类
  黄色 yellow
  桔黄 orange; crocus; gamboge; cadmium orange
  深桔黄,深橙 deep orange
  浅桔黄,浅橙 clear orange; light orange; rattan
  柠檬黄 lemon yellow ; lemon ; citrine citron
  玉米黄 maize
  橄榄黄 olive yellow
  樱草黄 primrose yellow
  稻草黄 straw yellow
  芥末黄 mustard
  杏黄 apricot; apricot buff; bronze yellow
  蛋黄 vitelline; yolk yellow;egg yellow
  藤黄 rattan yellow
  鳝鱼黄 eel yellow
  象牙黄 ivory
  日光黄 sunny yellow
  石黄 mineral yellow
  土黄 earth yellow; yellowish brown; yellow ocher; golden apricot
  砂黄 sand yellow
  金黄 golden yellow, gold
  铁黄 iron oxide yellow; iron buff
  镉黄 cadmium yellow
  铬黄 chrome yellow
  钴黄 cobalt yellow
  深黄,暗黄 deep yellow
  棕黄 tan
  青黄 bluish yellow
  灰黄 isabel ; sallow ; grey yellow
  米黄 apricot cream ; cream
  嫩黄 yellow cream
  鲜黄 cadmium yellow ; canary
  鹅黄 light yellow
  中黄 midium yellow
  浅黄 light yellow;pale yellow;buff
  淡黄 jasmin(e); primrose
  四.绿色类
  绿色 green
  豆绿 pea green ; bean green
  浅豆绿 light bean green; asparagus green
  橄榄绿 olive green ; olive
  茶绿 tea green ; celandine green ; plantation
  葱绿 onion green ; pale green
  苹果绿 apple green
  原野绿 field green
  森林绿 forest green
  洋蓟绿 artichoke green
  苔藓绿 moss green ; bracken green
  草地绿,草绿 grass green ; meadow green ; oliver green ; olive drab
  水草绿 water grass green
  深草绿 jungle green
  灰湖绿 agate green
  水绿 aqua green
  海水绿 marine green
  酸性绿 acid green
  水晶绿 crystal green
  玉绿 jade green
  石绿 mineral green
  松石绿 spearmint; viridis
  铜绿 verdigris
  铜锈绿 patina green
  镉绿 cadmium green
  铬绿 chrome green
  钴绿 cobalt green
  孔雀绿 peacock green
  威尼斯绿 Venetian green
  巴黎绿 Paris green ;king''''s green
  墨绿 blackish green ; green black; jasper; dark green ;deep green
  墨玉绿 emerald black
  深绿 dark green ;petrol; Chinese green; bottle green
  暗绿 sap green ; dark green ; deep green
  青绿 dark green
  碧绿 azure green; turquoise green ; viridity
  翠绿 emerald green; jade green ;bright green ; verdancy ; viridity
  深翠绿 viridian
  蓝绿 blue green ; aquamarine
  黄绿 yellow green
  灰绿 grey green ; sage green ; hedge green; mignonette; sea spray; celadon
  褐绿 breen
  品绿 light green ; malachite green
  鲜绿 clear green; emerald green ; vivid green
  嫩绿 pomona green ; verdancy
  中绿 medium green; golf green
  浅绿 light green
  淡绿 pale green
  五.青色类
  青色 cerulean blue ; blue ; green
  豆青 pea green; bean green
  花青 flower blue
  茶青 tea green
  葱青 onion green
  天青 celeste; azure
  霁青 sky-clearing blue
  石青 mineral blue
  铁青 electric blue ; river blue
  蟹青 turquoise ; ink blue
  鳝鱼青 eel green
  蛋青 egg blue
  影青 misty blue; white blue
  黛青 bluish
  群青,伟青 ultramarine
  暗青 dark blue; deep cerulean
  藏青 navy blue; dark blue; Ming blue
  靛青 indigo
  大青 smalt
  粉青 light greenish blue
  鲜青 clear cerulean
  浅青 light blue; light cerulean
  淡青 pale cerulean ; light greenish blue
  六.蓝色类
  蓝色 blue
  天蓝 sky blue; azure ; celeste; azure cerulean blue; Parisian blue
  蔚蓝 azure; sky blue
  月光蓝 moon blue
  海洋蓝 ocean blue
  海蓝 sea blue
  湖蓝 acid blue
  深湖蓝 vivid blue
  中湖蓝 bright blue
  浅湖蓝 canal blue
  清水蓝 water blue
  冰雪蓝 ice-snow blue
  孔雀蓝 peacock blue
  宝石蓝 sapphire; jewelry
  粉末蓝 powder blue
  铁蓝 iron blue
  钴蓝 cobalt blue king''''s blue
  普鲁士蓝 Prussian blue
  北京蓝 Beijing blue
  士林蓝 indanthrene blue
  品蓝 reddish blue ; royal blue;king''''s blue
  靛蓝 indigo; indigo blue; benzo blue
  菘蓝 woaded blue
  石磨蓝 stone-washed indigo
  藏蓝 purplish blue; navy blue; navy
  海军蓝 navy blue; navy
  宝蓝 royal blue
  墨蓝 blue black
  绿蓝 turquoise blue
  紫蓝 hyacinth;purplish blue
  浅紫蓝 Dutch blue
  青蓝 ultramarine
  深灰蓝 blue ashes
  深蓝 deep blue; dark blue ; navy blue ; mandarin blue Antwerp blue ; mazarine ; smalt ; ultramarine
  暗蓝 deep blue; dark blue
  鲜蓝 clear blue
  中蓝 medium blue ; azure blue
  浅蓝 light blue
  淡蓝 pale blue ; baby blue ; calamine blue
  七.紫色类
  紫色 purple; violet
  紫罗兰色 violet
  紫藤色 lilac
  紫水晶色 amethyst
  葡萄紫 grape
  茄皮紫 aubergine; wineberry
  玫瑰紫 rose violet
  丁香紫 lilac
  钴紫 cobalt violet
  墨紫 violet black
  绛紫 dark reddish purple
  暗紫 violet deep; dull purple; damson
  乌紫 raisin
  蓝紫 royal light
  鲜紫 violet light
  深紫 amaranth; modena
  浅紫 grey violet
  淡紫 pale purple ; lavender; lilac; orchid
  淡白紫 violet ash
  青莲 pale purple; heliotrope
  深青莲 amaranth purple
  雪青 lilac
  墨绛红 purple black
  暗绛红 purple deep
  浅绛红 purple light
  八.黑色类
  黑色 black
  土黑 earth black
  煤黑 coal black
  碳黑 carbon black ; charcoal black
  古铜黑 bronze black
  铁黑 iron oxide black ; iron black
  橄榄黑 olive black
  棕黑 sepia; brown black
  青黑 lividity
  深黑,漆黑 pitch-black ; pitch-dark
  暗黑 dull black
  九.白色类
  白色 white
  象牙白 ivory white; ivory
  牡蛎白 oyster white
  珍珠白 pear white ; gray lily
  玉石白 jade white
  银白 silver white
  铅白 flake white; lead white; ceruse white
  锌白 zinc white
  锌钡白 lithopone; pearl white
  羊毛白 wool white
  米白 off-white; shell
  乳白 milky-white
  雪白 snow-white; snowy white
  灰白 greyish white; off-white
  青白 bluish white
  纯白 crisp-white;pure white
  本白 raw white; off-white
  粉红白 pinky white
  淡紫白 lilac white
  十.灰色类
  灰色 grey; gray
  银灰 silver grey;chinchilla; gray mom
  铁灰 iron grey
  铅灰 lividity; leaden grey
  碳灰 charcoal grey
  驼灰 doe
  豆灰 rose dust
  藕灰 zephyr
  莲灰 elderberry
  浅莲灰 pale lilac
  鸽子灰 dove grey
  鼠灰 stale grey; mouse
  蟹灰 storm blue
  天灰 sky grey
  土灰 dust grey
  水泥灰 concrete grey
  烟灰 smoky grey; ash
  雾灰 misty grey
  黑灰 grey black; charcoal grey
  紫灰 purple grey;cadet;dove grey
  深紫灰 heron
  淡紫灰 lilac grey
  浅绿灰 eucalyptus
  浅米灰 moon light
  卡其灰 khaki light
  蓝灰 blue grey;slate;steel grey;pike grey
  青灰 lividity; steel grey;balsam green
  白灰 pale grey
  深灰 dark grey; dull grey; Oxford grey
  暗灰 deep grey
  中灰 medium grey
  浅灰 light grey;ash grey
  十一.棕色类
  棕色,褐色 brown
  红棕 umber;chili
  金棕 auburn
  铁锈棕 rustic brown
  桔棕 orange brown
  橄榄棕 olive brown
  十二.褐色类
  赤褐 sorrel; maroon;terra cotta
  棕褐 summer tan
  茶褐 auburn ; umber
  黑褐 black brown
  紫褐 puce
  黄褐 drab; fulvouos;cinnamon;ocher;tawny;russet brown
  栗褐 chestnut brown
  灰褐 taupe;mouse;greige beige;rose beige
  浅灰褐 putty
  橙褐 orange brown
  土褐 clay
  深褐 dark brown;bistre;burnt sienna
  暗褐 deep brown; fuscous;dun
  淡褐 light brown;caramel
  十三.其它类
  咖啡色 coffee
  酱色 caramel;reddish brown
  紫酱色 marron
  茶色 umber;dun;dark brown
  赫色 ocher;auburn;chocolate;sienna;umber;rust
  琥珀色 amber;succinite
  栗色 chestnut;sorrel;marron
  金色 gold
  古金色 old gold
  银色 silver;argent
  铅色 lividity
  锌色 zinc
  铁锈色 rust
  青古铜色 bronze;bronzy
  黑古铜色 dark bronze
  紫铜色 purple bronze
  黄铜色 brassiness
  木色 wood
  土色 lividity;sallow
  驼色 camel;light tan
  米色 beige; buff;cream;gray sand
  卡其色 khaki
  奶油色 cream
  豆沙色 cameo
  浅豆沙色 pale mauve
  藕荷色 bisque
  肉桂色 cinnamon
  肉色 flesh , carnation;incarnadine;pastel peach;yellowish pink
  水晶色 crystal
  荧光色 iridescent
  彩虹色 iris; rainbow
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ѧZhuanzai
Posted:Dec 8, 2009 12:26 am
Last Updated:Nov 8, 2011 10:53 pm
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Today I will be master of my emotions.
The tides advance; the tides recede. Winter goes and summer comes. summer wanes and the cold increases. The sun rises; the sun sets. The moon is full; the moon is black. The birds arrive;the birds depart. Flowers bloom; flowers fade.Seeds are sown; harvests are reaped. all nature is a circle of moods and I am a part of nature and so,like the tides, my moods will rise; my moods will fall.

今天我学会控制情绪。
潮起潮落,冬去春来,夏末秋至,日出日落,月圆月缺,雁来雁往,花飞花谢,草长瓜熟,自然界万物都在循环往复的变化中,我也不例外,情绪会时好时坏。

Today I will be master of my emotions.
It is one of nature's tricks, little understood,that each day I awaken with moods that have changed from yesterday. Yesterday's joy wilI become today's sadness; yet today's sadness will grow into tomorrow's joy. Inside me is a wheel,constantly turning from sadness to joy, from exultation to depression, from happiness to melancholy. Like the flowers, today's full bloom of joy will fade and wither into despondency, yet I will remember that as today's dead flower carries the seed of tomorrow's bloom so, too, does today's sadness carry the seed of tomorrow's joy.

今天我学会控制情绪。
这是大自然的玩笑,很少有人窥破天机。每天我醒来时,不再有旧日的心情。昨日的快乐变成今天的哀愁,今天的悲伤又转为明日的喜悦。我心中像一只轮子不停地转着,由乐而悲,由悲而喜,由喜而忧。这就好比花儿的变化,今天枯败的花儿蕴藏着明天新生的种子,今天的悲伤也预示着明天的快乐。
Today I will be master of my emotions.
And how will I master these emotions so that each day will be productive? For unless my mood is right the day will be a failure. Trees and plants depend on the weather to flourish but I make my own weather, yea I transport it with me. If I bring rain and gloom and darkness and pessimism to my customers then they will react with rain and gloom and darkness and pessimism and they will purchase naught. If I bring joy and enthusiasm and brightness and laughter to my customers they will react with joy and enthusiasm and brightness and laughter and my weather will produce a harvest of sales and a granary of gold for me.
今天我学会控制情绪。 我怎样才能控制情绪,以使每天卓有成效呢?除非我心平气和,否则迎来的又将是失败的一天。花草树木,随着气候的变化而生长,但是我为自己创造天气。我要学会用自己的心灵弥补气候的不足。如果我为顾客带来风雨、忧郁、黑暗和悲观,那么他们也会报之于风雨、忧郁、黑暗和悲观,而他们什么也不会买。相反的,如果我们为顾客献上欢乐、喜悦、光明和笑声,他们也会报之以欢乐、喜悦、光明和笑声,我就能获得销售上的丰收,赚取成仓的金币。

Today I will be master of my emotions.
And how will I master my emotions so that every day is a happy day, and a productive one? I will learn this secret of the ages: Weak is he who permits his thoughts to control his actions; strong is he who forces his actions to control his thoughts. Each day, when I awaken, I will follow this plan of battle before I am captured by the forces of sadness, self-pity and failure-
今天我学会控制情绪。
我怎样才能控制情绪,让每天充满幸福和欢乐?我要学会这个千古秘诀:弱者任思绪控制行为,强者让行控制思绪。每天醒来当我被悲伤、自怜、失败的情绪包围时,我就这样与之对抗:

If I feel depressed I will sing.
If I feel sad I will laugh.
If I feel ill I will double my labor.
If I feel fear I will plunge ahead.
If I feel inferior I will wear new garments.
If I feel uncertain I will raise my voice.
If I feel poverty I will think of wealth to come.
If I feel incompetent I will remember past success.
If I feel insignificant I will remember my goals.
沮丧时,我引吭高歌。
悲伤时,我开怀大笑。
病痛时,我加倍工作。
恐惧时,我勇往直前。
自卑时,我换上新装。
不安时,我提高嗓声。
穷困潦倒时,我想象未来的富有。
力不从心时,我回想过去的成功。
自轻自贱时,我想想自己的目标。
Today I will be master of my emotions.
Henceforth, I will know that only those with inferior ability can always be at their best, and I am not inferior. There will be days When I must IN THE WORLD constantly struggle against forces which would tear me down. Those such as despair and sadness are simple to recognize but there are others which approach with a smile and the hand of friendship and they can also destroy me. Against them, too, I must never relinquish control-
总之,今天我要学会控制自己的情绪。
从今往后,我明白了,只有低能者才会江郎才尽,我并非低能者,我必须不断对抗那限些企图摧垮我的力量。失望与悲伤一眼就会被识破,而其它许多敌人是不易觉察的。它们往往面带微笑,却随时可能将我们摧垮。对它们,我们永远不能放松警惕。 自高自大时,我要追寻失败的记忆。
If I become overconfident I will recall my failures.
If I overindulge I will think of past hungers.
If I feel complacency I will remember my competition.
If I enjoy moments of greatness I will remember moments of shame.
If I feel all-powerful I will try to stop the wind.
lf I attain great wealth I will remember one unfed mouth.
If l become overly proud I will remember a moment of weakness.
If I feel my skill is unmatched I will look at the stars.

纵情得意时,我要记得挨饿的日子。
洋洋得意时,我要想想竞争的对手。
沾沾自喜时,不要忘了那忍辱的时刻。
自以为是时,看看自己能否让步驻步。
腰缠万贯时,想想那些食不果腹的人。
骄傲自满时,要想到自己怯懦的时候。
不可一世时,让我抬头,仰望群星。

Today I will be master of my emotions.
And with this new knowledge I will also understand and recognize the moods of him on whom I call. I will make allowances for his anger and irritation of today for he knows not the secret of controlling his mind. I can withstand his arrows and insults for now I know that tomorrow he will change and be a joy to approach.
No longer will l judge a man on one meeting;no longer will I fail to call again tomorrow on he who meets me with hate today. This day he will not buy gold chariots for a penny, yet tomorrow he would exchange his home for a tree. My knowledge of this secret will be my key to great wealth.

今天我学会控制情绪。
有了这项新本领,我也更能体察别人的情绪变化。我宽容怒气冲冲的人,因为他尚未懂得控制自己的情绪,就可以忍受他的指责与辱骂,因为我知道明天他会改变,重新变得随和。 我不再只凭一面之交来判断一个人,也不再一时的怨恨与人绝交,今天不肯花一分钱买金蓬马车的人,明天也许会用全部家当换树苗。知道了这个秘密,我可以获得极大的财富。

Today l will be master of my emotions.
Henceforth I will recognize and identify the mystery of moods in all mankind, and in me.From this moment I am prepared to control whatever personality awakes in me each day. I will master my moods through positive action and when I master my moods I will control my destiny.
Today I control my destiny, and my destiny is to become the greatest salesman in the world!
I will become master of myself.
I wi1l become great.

今天我学会控制情绪。
我从此领悟人类情绪的变化的奥秘。对于自己千变万化的个性,我不再听之任之,我知道,只有积极主动地控制情绪,才能掌握自己的命运。
我控制自己的命运就是成为世界上最伟大的推销员!
我成为自己的主人。
我由此而变得伟大。
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Posted:Dec 8, 2009 12:18 am
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推荐一种英语听力特效训练方法
Posted:Dec 8, 2009 12:11 am
Last Updated:Dec 8, 2009 5:47 pm
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推荐一种英语听力特效训练方法  这种锻炼办法的实用范畴:假如你听VOA的Special English,觉得本人的了解率还没有能超越50%,那样这种办法有90%的能够性将会对于你大无助于益。即便你的语汇或者浏览程度曾经到达四六级英语或者之上程度,但据说范围比拟雄厚,这种办法仍然不值你去试验。

  我一贯推崇钟传授的逆向法,但我也没有断拥护这套办法中一度主要标语:边听边查字典,直到听懂每一度单纯词。关于一度语汇量无限,或者脑力根底极弱的进修者,这种办法相近于一种自虐,更主要的,这是一种低效的做法。干什么?既是指标是练脑力,正在某个进程中你却花太多的工夫正在查字典、澄清词义范围,后果耳朵失去的锻炼做作就遭到了搅扰和反应,没到达预期的指标。

  然而,我也没有赞许高级阶段过火强调"泛听"的主意,它固然逃避了"抱着字典练脑力"的苦楚、固然把吸收声响信号的工夫应用率晋升到了最大值,然而,你吸收到的声响信号绝大全体是你彻底没有了解的。本人没有了解的声响消息,实践上就是有意思的,对于脑力晋升并无助益。泛听该当是正在脑力程度上了一度根本阳台后才逐步开展。

  我也没有推崇过早看聚珍版影视的进修法。脑力没有上到定然走廊时,花太多的工夫正在影视上,除非能够多学会多少个成语之外,过半是自找波折感。假如语汇量无限,影视中会遇到太多你还没有能了解(指那些即便显现正在字幕里、即便你暂停播放也看没有懂、猜没有出)的成语和一定剧情对于应的生疏语汇,这仍然等于正在吸收有意思的语消息号,有助脑力的进步。假如停上去查字典,那就是正在重蹈"抱着字典练脑力"的老路。此外,看影视真的太占工夫,筑基阶段由于无奈从影视中失去预期的锻炼与进步,这异样是一种低效力动。

  那样,正在英语作文筑基阶段,终究怎样锻炼脑力呢?

  率先,听的形式必需保障是你"彻底了解"的。扫除所有需求你去停止猜想的因素,由于"猜"自身就会分神,并且正在某个阶段猜的身手是极弱的;更没有能查字典,那没有只分神,还极费工夫。为此,咱们该当成心取舍难度没有太高的脑力资料,并且必需是有文本的脑力资料。听事先,先浏览,这叫"听前预备任务":集合工夫查字典消弭生词,而后精读资料,做到通篇了解。因为资料难度没有高,某个预备进程一般没有会花很短工夫。过分取舍附有语汇表的正轨教材作文,这能够罢黜少量的查字典任务。假如想应用上上班的打车工夫习题,听前预备任务要正在头天早晨实现。

  其次,重复地听。重复!重复!重复!重复的位数终究要多少遍,这没有定数,正在后期阶段,一篇作文一般没有少于50遍,多的时分上百遍也没有是没有能够。为了保障反复的位数,脑力作品没有能太长,以1~2秒钟语音长短为宜,最好没有超越3秒钟,这很主要。自己引荐新概念第二册、以中举三册的前两单元。假如你偏偏好美音,用其美音版就是了。

  其三,延续跟读。详细施行:前1-3遍能够边听边看文本,同声跟读,并且要读出声来(假如会反应外人就采纳朗读吧)。假如有些句子跟读没有流利,能够暂耸立音,重复朗读某个句子好多遍。听的时分,定然要集合精神,锻炼本人对于声响信号的间接反就威力,也就是过分逃避中文转译的形式去了解,刻意留神句子的意群和腔调并竭力模拟,精心领会语气和感觉颜色,那样无助于于造就语感。跟读进程中,过分忘掉文字和句子的文章段落图案,手段是扫除保守的浏览式回忆(图式回忆)形式,而间接锻炼对于声响的反响、了解和回忆。假如是用计算机进修,能够正在畸形播放进度下跟读顺畅后,将播放器调成快捷播放,以停止强化锻炼(windows media player的快捷播放性能,提速1.4倍,没有变价,听下去简直没有什么变声的觉得)。

  直到跟读彻底流利无滞、简直能够濒临与原音同步的水平为止,再转入下一课的进修。那时,一般曾经能够背诵通篇了,并且这种背诵是地道基于语音和视觉的,而没有是听觉意思上的背诵。某个进程实在是听、说同步锻炼。通过这种锻炼后,作文中的生词根本被彻底食积,能够构成临时回忆;还能加剧对于文章构造的了解,也无助于于浏览与翻译威力的进步。因为,这是一种全方向的锻炼。

  第四,活期温习。视觉的了解和回忆,异样具有忘记成绩。因为要活期对于后面已学形式调度工夫重温(照旧是边听边跟读,温习一般跟读3~5遍即可),以强固并构成悠久回忆。

  之上是这种办法的次要形式。这种办法有一度最大的特性,那就是很简单短工夫集合精神,这是由于你要维持跟读,你很难没有维持留意力集合于声响消息。

  谈一度有关成绩,那就是叫做的"假听懂"成绩。因为听的形式是你事后曾经了解的对于象,因为你会发觉你只要听三五遍就感觉本人彻底听懂了,很多人就没有想再反复上去了,此外就转入新的形式,那样很快就实现了一本教材的进修,后果发觉本人并没多大退步。谁都明确,某个"懂"实在是读懂的,而没有是听懂的,这就是叫做的"假听懂"成绩,这也是这种锻炼办法遭到质疑的中央。

  既是咱们的指标是脑力筑基,道白了就是买通耳朵的成绩。某个阶段,假听懂是无奈逃避的,并且也是彻底畸形的景象。咱们的手段并没有是要立即听懂多少,而是要通过少量的反复锻炼,安慰中脑对于"成心义的声响信号"(你曾经了解其含意的声响信号)编成间接反响,并逐步顺应、承受、并构成环境反照。每反复一次,假的因素就缩小一分,真的因素就多一分。

  假如你每日能有2时辰内外用来这种锻炼,实现新概念第二册的96篇短文的锻炼,一般只要2~3月。那时,你没有只会发觉本人的脑力根底有了质的飞跃,并且正在实现了96篇语境短文(比照于那些"xxx句"的无语境句子沉积)的"视觉化背诵"(比照于"听觉化背诵"),因为,它对于书面语抒发威力、浏览了解和翻译等范围的威力也有了非同平常的晋升,由于你对于英语(乒坛)的语感曾经全体进步了。这才是真正意思上的"筑基"。

  因为听的形式曾经事后了解了,因为无须局只限慢速语音脑力资料,彻底能够一开端就从常速动手。即便你所选的教材配系的语音是慢速的(过半是那样的),也能够用变速手腕(如WMplayer的快捷播放)转成相近常速来锻炼。

  实现某个筑基进程(我定的规范是,没有刻意的状况下基天性大体80%听懂VOA慢速英语),再退出到规范英语的拼写次序、再扩展泛听锻炼、再多看一些聚珍版影视,你会觉得愈加紧张自若,自傲心会大幅晋升...这个简单的方法很有效果,如果英语作文的学习方法也模范,相信有很多的效用,我相信你也可以举一反三,不用我多说了....
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你对家有什么样的感觉?(What is home for you?)
Posted:Dec 7, 2009 11:05 pm
Last Updated:Dec 8, 2009 5:50 pm
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˵ңĸоǰǺޣdz黹ȫνڼˣĸоΣ׽Զ߳ͻ뻹ӱܣǵļôֱӰǶҸܣӰǵĸ˷չ˵һĵطӵļң

On mentioning home, what do you have on your mind? Love or hate? Full of passion or meaningless? As for family, what is your feeling? Intimate, alienated, or full of conflict? Would you like to get involved or get away? Home will definitely have influence on the happiness of us and the personal development as well. As for you, what kind of place is it? What kind of home would you like to have?
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磬ˣ
Posted:Dec 7, 2009 10:59 pm
Last Updated:Dec 8, 2009 6:09 pm
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婚姻遭遇国界,进还是退?
When marriage confronts border, shall we proceed or retreat?

跨国婚姻不是改革开放后才兴起的新鲜词,其实古已有之,松赞干布迎娶唐朝文成公主成就一段跨国婚姻的佳话,更极大地巩固了唐朝的统治。

The transnational marriage is not a new word which appears after the reform and opening policy, actually it originated in the ancient time. The marriage of Songzanganbu and Princess Wencheng created a much-told tale and greatly consolidated the regiment of Tang dynasty.

据统计,1982年中国跨国婚姻登记数为14193对,而到了1997年已达50773对,涉及53个国家和地区,呈逐年上升趋势。随着跨国婚姻数量的递增,人们对于跨国婚姻利弊的争论也愈演愈烈。

According to the statistics, there were 14193 transnational marriages registered in 1982, and 50773 covering 53 countries and regions in 1997, which is on rise year by year. With the number of transnational marriage mounting, the controversy has become more and more heated.

支持者:每个人都有追求更好生活的权利,反对跨国婚姻是一种很狭隘的国籍限制,如果在国外能获得更好的生活,更完善的福利待遇,感受不同的文化,何乐而不为呢?那些反对者根本就是“吃不到葡萄说葡萄酸”,即使是与中国人结婚也同样会出现矛盾争执,重要的是双方如何来协调。

For: everyone has his right to pursue a better life. This is the narrow restriction of nationality, why not if they can enjoy better life, better welfare and different cultures? The objectors are those “who can’t get the sour grapes”. Even the marriage of two Chinese may have contradictions and conflict, the key point is how to coordinate.

反对者:但凡跨国婚姻必然有一定的利益关联,这样的婚姻基础本身就有问题,况且迥然不同的文化背景和风俗习惯必然导致婚后的矛盾丛生,更有甚者会出现家庭暴力甚至威胁当事人的生命,诸如此类的新闻并不鲜见。所以,婚姻必须找一个和自己有相同的文化背景和风俗习惯的人才可能会幸福。

Against: It is definite that the transnational marriage concerns interest. The foundation of the marriage is wrong and the strikingly different cultural background and customs will lead to contradictions. The household family violence will threaten their life, which is not rare. Therefore, only when you marry a person with the same cultural background and customs can you get happiness.

中立者:托尔斯泰说过:“只有爱情才能使婚姻变得圣洁”,只要彼此的婚姻是建立在爱情的基础上,那么,不管是国内婚姻还是跨国婚姻都无所谓,毕竟鞋子合不合适只有脚知道。

Neutral: Tolstoy once said “Love makes marriage holy and pure.” As long as the marriage is established on love, it doesn’t matter whether it is domestic or transnational. The feet know well whether the shoes are fit.

亲爱的朋友,你觉得呢?

My dear friends, what is your opinion?
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ڷӢﻷӢ(ZhuanZai)
Posted:Dec 4, 2009 8:50 pm
Last Updated:Dec 7, 2009 9:56 pm
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BBCƵWilliamյţԹһν̴ҵӢѧϰɺʵ֡˵ҪѧµʣҪáǶڷӢĻôܾϰأ

WilliamͨһĹ۵㣺

A few years ago I read a very touching article in a magazine. (I think it was by the well-known sinologist Simon Winchester, but I might be wrong.) The article was about a trip he had made deep into rural China many years before. On this trip he didn't meet anyone who could speak English and some people had never seen Europeans before.
ǰһ־϶һƪdz˵¡ҼǵǸĺѧSimon WinchesterдģҲ̫ȷ½˶ǰйƫԶһó̡;УûκһӢˡܶգûмһŷˡ

Then one day this sinologist got off a train at a very isolated spot, and a beautiful young Chinese woman approached him and began to speak in fluent English about great English writers: Austen, Dickens, the Brontes, Swift, Shakespeare. She had taught herself to read English over many years and was desperate for an outlet·ʹӢĻᣩ.

ij죬ѧһdzƫԶĵط˻𳵣һйŮڨӢӢң˹Ҹ˹á˹أעзμߣɯʿǡԭѧӢ꣬һֱܿϰӢĻᡣ

After this brief encounter, the writer of this article and the young woman wrote to each other for many years before losing touch. It was impossible for them to be together: she was already married.
ζݵĽ̸֮ƪµߺλŮʿͨŶꡢʧȥϵDzһΪʱѾˡ

I'm telling you this story because I want to show that it is possible to become really good at a language without being able to practise it with native speakers every day. However, I do also think that this young woman must have had a really astonishing natural ability for language C something most of us don't have.
ҽΪϣ˽⣬޷ĸʹÿսпԼѧһԵġȻͬʱҲλŮʿ϶ӵзǷ츳Ǻܶ˶߱

Somebody who does have an such an ability is my colleague here at the BBC, Feifei Feng. Feifei arrived in England speaking near-perfect English and is one of the most impressive language learners I know. She seems the person best-placed to answer your question. So here are her tips:
ҵͬҲо߱ˣǾǷƷơƷƵӢʱѾ˵һڽӢҲҼѧϰ֮һʺϻشˡԣҪЩСϣ

Learn how to think in English. This is undoubtedly the best way to improve your fluency. When you are thinking about a topic, try to make English sentences in your head. This will also make you aware of what vocabulary you still need to learn in order to express yourself.
ѧӢ˼ԡ˼һ⣬Ӣ֯ԡͬܰ˽㻹ҪЩԼ

You also need to work very hard on your pronunciation. Unlike the young Chinese woman in the story above, you have access to lots of recordings of native English speakers. Go to our website C bbcukchina.com. We have downloadable audio programmes and we make the scripts available. Use your pause button and repeat sentences that you hear, trying to match the pronunciation. If you prefer movies, watch DVDs. This will improve your listening ability too. The message is: expose yourself (ԼӴijµĻ)to as much audio of native English speakers as possible.
ͬʱҲҪú¹ϰͬڹŮʿлܶӢĸʹߵϡǵվbbcukchina.com.ṩصƵӦĵʹáͣظĻȥģ·ϲӰȥDVDɡ⻹ǿءؾǣܶԼӴӢĸʹߵƵ

I would also add something to Feifei's advice. I don't think it's a coincidence that in the story I tell above, the young lady loved to read books. I think that reading can do wonders for (...Ч) your vocabulary and also for your grammar and fluency since books are, after all, full of examples of perfect English sentences. Instead of interacting with English speakers, do the next best thing: interact with English-language books, radio programmes and films.
˷ƷƵĽһһ㣺ҽĹŮʿĺӢĺϰ߲޹ΪĶĴʻ﷨ԴкôΪ鱾ͳӢ䡣ܺӢʹֱӽô˶ΣúӢ鼮ƵĿ͵Ӱɣ

But you should also try hard to meet English speakers, and remember that this doesn't need to be face-to-face. It's great that all of you come to this blog but remember that there are thousands of other English language blogs too. Maybe its time to try out your English skills in 'public'?!
ͬʱҲȷӦŶӢʹ߽סɲҪġǶǵIJ͵ȻܺãȫгǧӢﲩأҲʱҪ԰Ӣչʾˣ

One last thought. Some of my friends work out in the gym. They put a lot of time and energy into developing amazing muscles. I have to say I've never really understood that. Just by leading my normal life, my body develops all the muscles it needs. (It doesn't need many C I have a very sedentary lifestyle!) So, I ask my friends, if you don't need muscles, why go to the gym?
뵽һ㣺һЩѳȥǻ˺ܶʱ侫һü⡣ұҴ⣺Ҿ㲻ȥҲܷչճļѽҲҪ̫༡⡪ҵʽܡլԣҵѣ㲻Ҫõ⣬Ǹȥأ

If you really don't have any contact with English speakers, why learn English?
㲢ҪӴӢʹߣǸѧӢأ

I'll leave you with that question.
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Have a great weekend ĩ
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感悟人生之道 从A到Z的名言(zhuanzai)
Posted:Nov 2, 2009 7:39 am
Last Updated:Dec 8, 2009 6:16 pm
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From A to Z!

  感悟人生之道

  (2006-2007学年第24期)

  Avoid negative people, places, things and habits.

  离开不善之人,远离是非之地,不招惹麻烦,不要养成坏习惯。

  Believe in yourself.

  相信自己。

  Consider things from every angle.

  全面周到地考虑问题。

  Don’t give up and don’t give in.

  不要放弃,不要屈服。

  Enrich your life today, yestoday is history, tommorrow is mystery.

  充实今天的生活,昨日已成历史,明天无法预知。

  Family and friends are hidden treasures, seek them and enjoy their riches.

  家庭和朋友是无形宝藏,全力发掘,并共享幸福。

  Give more than you planned to.

  付出更多,不求回报。

  Hang on to your dreams.

  紧紧抓住梦想。

  Ignore those who try to discourage you.

  漠视那些阻止你的人。

  Just do it.

  放手一博。

  Keep trying no matter how hard it seems, it will get easier.

  不论多么艰难,努力尝试,会让它变得容易。

  Live well, love lots and laugh often.

  善待生活,博爱,笑口常开。

  Make it happen.

  让理想变成现实。

  Never lie, cheat or steal, always strike a fair deal.

  决不撒谎,欺瞒或偷盗,坚守公平交易。

  Open your eyes and see things as they really are.

  睁大眼睛,看清事物的本质。

  Practice makes perfect.

  熟能生巧。

  Quitters never win and winners never quit.

  放弃者决不会成功,成功者决不放弃。

  Read, study and learn about everything important in your life.

  一生中处处留心学问。

  Stop procrastinating.

  做事要果敢。

  Take control of your own destiny.

  掌握自己的命运。

  Understand yourself in order to better understand others.

  了解自己以便更好的了解别人。

  Visualize it.

  充分发挥想像力。

  Want it more than anything.

  急需的东西最重要。

  Xcellerate(accelerate) your efforts.

  加倍努力。

  You are unique, nothing can replace YOU.

  你是独一无二的,没有人能取代你。

  Zero in your target, and go for it!

  从零开始,勇往直前!
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