F E E L of S E C U R E
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Posted:Jan 18, 2008 1:32 am
Last Updated:Mar 6, 2008 5:09 am 7728 Views
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The past is already past.
Don’t try to regain it.
The present does not stay.
Don’t try to touch it.
From moment to moment.
The future has not come;
Don’t think about it
Beforehand.
Whatever comes to the eye,
Leave it be.
There are no commandments
To be kept;
There’s no filth to be cleansed.
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Welcome Europe
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Posted:Mar 10, 2008 9:24 pm
Last Updated:Sep 29, 2010 5:23 am 7888 Views
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EUROPE..I'm coming..
March 11, 2008 - March 24, 2008
Amsterdam, Paris, Lucerne, Brussel, Venice, Proto, Rome
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Do not Believe
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Posted:Mar 4, 2008 10:46 pm
Last Updated:Mar 7, 2008 9:07 pm 8223 Views
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Do not believe in anything simply because you have heard it.
Do not believe in anything simply because it is spoken and rumored by many.
Do not believe in anything simply because it is found written in your religious books.
Do not believe in anything merely on the authority of your teachers and elders.
Do not believe in traditions because they have been handed down for many generations.
But after observation and analysis, when you find that anything agrees with reason and is conducive to the good and benefit of one and all, then accept it and live up to it.
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B E L I E V E
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Posted:Feb 13, 2008 11:13 pm
Last Updated:Feb 15, 2008 8:19 pm 7506 Views
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Decide what you want. Believe you can have it. Believe you deserve it and believe it's possible for you.
Happy Valentine's Day
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What Season of Relationship Are You In?
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Posted:Feb 11, 2008 12:24 am
Last Updated:May 9, 2024 1:32 pm 7317 Views
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1.SUMMER
Summer couples share deep commitment, satisfaction, and security in each other's love
2.SPRING
Spring is a time of new beginnings, new patterns of life, new ways of listening, and new ways of loving.
But spring couples must be on guard for unexpected irritations that have a way of creeping in.
3.WINTER
Winter means difficulty. Relationshio is harder in this season of cold silence and bitter winds.
Find hope for melting the ice and moving toward a warming spring thaw in your relationship.
4.FALL
In Fall, a sense of unwanted change and nagging emptiness appears.
Garry Chapman
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Learn to Love
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Posted:Jan 22, 2008 1:21 am
Last Updated:Mar 6, 2008 5:09 am 7783 Views
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When we are in the right place on the right time, there is an opportunity.
When we meet someone and we interested, it is not a choice, but that is opportunity.
To meet someone in event not a choice, that’s an opportunity.
If we decided to love that person, even with all the minus inside that person, it’s not an opportunity, but that is a choice.
When we choose to live together with someone with all the consequences will happen in future, it’s a choice.
Even we realize that still a lot of person more interesting, smart, rich than your spouse and you still choose to love him, that’s a choice.
Feeling love, emphatic and interesting,
Come like an opportunity to us.
But True love that eternal is a choice.
A choice we had made.
Talk about soul mate,
There is an excerpt from film that maybe appropriate with:
“Faith brings us together, but still depend on us how we make it succeed.”
Soul Mate can really exist and maybe there is somebody
That Create only just for you.
But still back to you to make a choice, what do you do to get it or….
We maybe coincidence to meet our soul mate, but to love and settle with our soul mate, there is a choice we must do.
We are in the world not for looking for someone perfect to love but for learn to love un-perfect person with perfect manner.
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....F A C I N G.....
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Posted:Jan 14, 2008 2:06 am
Last Updated:Jan 16, 2008 11:01 pm 7768 Views
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Facing anger: practise compassion, patience and self-confidence
Facing attachment: look at the disadvantages and temporariness
Facing uncertainty: forgive yourself for being human
Facing fear: practise relaxation and mentally give away whatever is threatened to be taken
Facing greed: practise gratitude for what you have
Facing jealousy: practise rejoicing in others' fortune
Facing pride: practise humility, equanimity and real self-confidence
Facing guilt: act instead of regret
Facing other's pain: gather some courage and allow it to tear your heart open. Have compassion for their suffering and frustrations. Also have compassion for your own helplessness and frustrations.
Facing others' cruelty or rudeness: remember they can only act that way because they suffer themselves.
Facing any negative emotion by myself or others: the quicker I can recognise my own negative emotional patterns, the better I will be able to avoid these actions myself.
Nothing's perfect but we should try to be perfect for ourself
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IF I HAD ONLY ONE MORE YEAR TO LIVE...
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Posted:Jan 3, 2008 9:50 pm
Last Updated:May 9, 2024 1:32 pm 7716 Views
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- Imagine lying on your deathbed, unable to move or to talk to the people around
- Observe all feelings and emotions coming up.
- The doctors have given me up, I do not have any pain, but the end may come any moment
- What did I do so far with my life?
- What help are my best friends now?
- What is the use of my savings and possessions?
- I am still much too young, still so much to do... If I only had...
- Suppose I had one more year to live, what would I do with it?
- What could I do that is reasonably possible?
- Are there any apologies to make, or do I need to tell someone the truth still?
- What would really be useful to do before I die?
- Bring yourself back to the here and now, not on my deathbed.
- But does that change anything about the fact I only have limited time to live?
- I can still die every day in traffic, eat something wrong, get ill.
- Are there any things I can do right now of the things I want to do before I die?
- Are there any things I should do within a few weeks?
- Life is much too uncertain to put things off...
- If I want to die peaceful, without regret, I have the chance right now to make my life useful.
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Loving Ourself
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Posted:Dec 27, 2007 11:47 pm
Last Updated:Dec 30, 2007 7:54 pm 8902 Views
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We tend to treat other people in the same way as we treat ourselves, & other people tend to treat us according to the silent clues we're giving them about how we expect to be treated.
If we are accustomed to treating ourselves harshly, you will tend to be hard on others. If we cannot trust ourselves, how can we trust other people?
Every judgement we make about others in fact tells us more about ourselves than about them.
Feeling good about ourselves makes we more spontaneous, more authentic. We can give ourselves permission to express ourselves freely.
We cannot please other people all the time. That is not what we are here for. We are here to sing our own song, to be who we are and to enjoy it.
It's better to please ourselves..
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Feeling
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Posted:Dec 23, 2007 10:33 pm
Last Updated:Sep 29, 2010 5:27 am 8085 Views
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You can begin right now to feel healthy. You can begin to feel prosperous. You can begin to feel the love that's surrounding you, even if it's not there.
if you start out having a good day and you're in the particular happy feeling, as long as you don't allow something to change your mood, you're going to continue to attract.
Your thought and your feelings create your life. It will always be that way. ~~Secret~~
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