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Emails From Total Strangers
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Sep 14, 2008 11:46 pm
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My goodness, gracious. My mailbox keeps getting full every few days from total strangers who don't even match what I'm looking for. I wonder if these men are smart enough to read a profile written in English that I'm not here looking for romance, just some friends to exchange thoughts and ideas with.
Besides, if I'm looking for friends to hang out with, why would I be interested in someone on another continent or a distant city that I have no desire to travel to visit? In addition, why would I even want to waste my own money to meet a total stranger who might or might not be what they claim to be? On the other hand, why would I be foolish to place myself in harm's way to visit a total stranger?
Most men who write to me don't even share the same interests that I have nor can they even keep up with me in discussing the things that interest me most. I'm not interested in hearing about whatever it is that interests them, I can google it and probably get a better understanding then wasting time listening to their lame-brained explanations.
Anyway, I really don't want to waste what few opportunities that I have to send an email, courtesy of Asia FriendFinder to people, I will never meet, nor do I have the desire to be in the same space with. I save the opportunity to send emails to people I've grown to trust and whose conversation and ideas that I respect here in AFF.
However, I'll probably use this venue to post some of these emails and maybe it will shame them enough so that why won't even bother to send me an email or anyone else an email if they know that others are going to be reading what they write.
Or, for those of you who don't know how to write a letter, maybe you might find inspiration in how not to write a letter from these posted examples.
In the meantime, enjoy yourselves. I do enjoy reading some of the individuals who freely share their thoughts through these blogs. I feel sad, though, that some of my favorite bloggers are no longer posting.
Enjoy
VICKY
Killing time this evening 'cause I am waiting prepping some lab rats for an experiment tomorrow.
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Annoying White Boys
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Sep 12, 2008 12:53 am
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You know who they are. They are the ones who cannot seem to take "No" for an answer. They are the ones who think that just because they have "white skin" and live in the USA that they are "God's gift" to "desperate" Asian women who want to escape from Asia.
Anyway, there is one annoying little ignorant white boy who seems to enjoy playing his little stalking game here in AFF. Every time he is banned, he just comes up with a new handle.
Therefore, here is the final answer for the stupid little white boy.
No, I am not interested in you at all. You are dumb. Stupid. Uneducated. You work at minimum wage. There is no future at all with you.
VICKY
just venting
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I restore myself when I am alone
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Sep 9, 2008 10:41 am
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I read Alone or not Alone? and How poor can love make us!... from two of my favorite bloggers and the comments added about being alone.
The first time I saw her I was walking home from school and saw her standing over an iron grate and her dress floating almost above her waist with just a hint of what lies beneath. Of course, that was a poster hanging inside a window. The title of this post is a quote from her.
She is an iconic reminder of what people thought beauty and sexy was from the 1950s. She is also representative of what happens when one is full of self-doubt about her talent and turns to drugs and alcohol to escape her own self-perceived failings.
She died in 1962, but interest in her life and her story continues in popular culture and in feminist studies. She was born Norma Jean Mortensen in 1926, starred in many popular films, married Arthur Miller and Joe DiMaggio, and died of an overdose of barbiturates.
From the eulogy by Lee Strasberg, She had a luminous quality -- a combination of wistfulness, radiance, yearning, that set her apart and yet made everyone wish to be part of it, to share in the childlike naοvete which was at once so shy and yet so vibrant....In her lifetime she created a myth of what a poor girl from a deprived background could attain. For the entire world, she became a symbol of the eternal feminine.
Her ex-husband, Arthur Miller, said, To have survived, she would have had to be either more cynical or even further from reality than she was. Instead, she was a poet on a street corner trying to recite to a crowd pulling at her clothes.
Maybe she played a "dumb blond," however; she does not sound like one to me.
1956 interview about her childhood: Looking back, I guess I used to play-act all the time. For one thing, it meant I could live in a more interesting world than the one around me.
A career is wonderful thing, but you can't snuggle up to it on a cold night.
Creativity has got to start with humanity and when you're a human being, you feel, you suffer.
Everyone's just laughing at me. I hate it. Big breasts, big ass, big deal, Can't I be anything else? Gee, how long can you be sexy?
Goethe said, 'Talent is developed in privacy,' you know? And it's really true. There is a need for aloneness which I don't think most people realize for an actor. It's almost having certain kinds of secrets for yourself that you'll let the whole world in on only for a moment, when you're acting.
Husbands are chiefly good as lovers when they are betraying their wives.
I am invariably late for appointments ... sometimes, as much as two hours. I've tried to change my ways but the things that make me late are too strong, and too pleasing.
I love to do the things the censors won't pass.
I'm for the individual as opposed to the corporation. The way it is the individual is the underdog, and with all the things a corporation has going for them the individual comes out banged on her head. The artist is nothing. It's really tragic.
In Hollywood a girl's virtue is much less important than her hairdo. You're judged by how you look, not by what you are. Hollywood's a place where they'll pay you a thousand dollars for kiss, and fifty cents for your soul. I know, because I turned down the first offer often enough and held out for the fifty.
It's better for the whole world to know you, even as a sex star, than never to be known at all.
It's better to be unhappy alone than unhappy with someone.
It's woman's spirit and mood a man has to stimulate in order to make sex interesting. The real lover is the man who can thrill you by touching your head or smiling into your eyes or just staring into space.
Men who think that a woman's past love affairs lessen her love for them are usually stupid and weak. A woman can bring a new love to each man she loves, providing there are not too many.
People had a habit of looking at me as if I were some kind of mirror instead of a person. They didn't see me, they saw their own lewd thoughts, then they white-masked themselves by calling me the lewd one.
People respect you because they feel you've survived hard times and endured, and although you've become famous, you haven't become phony.
That's the trouble, a sex symbol becomes a thing. But if I'm going to be a symbol of something, I'd rather have it sex than some other things we've got symbols of.
What good is it being Marilyn Monroe? Why can't I just be an ordinary woman? A woman who can have a family...I'd settle for just one baby. My own baby.
VICKY
thanking microsoft for its grammar checking program
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Where is the blogger misteri puteri ayu
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Sep 8, 2008 1:24 am
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I am wondering what ever becamse of the blog 'misteri puteri ayu' cause sometimes I looking at other blogs and it says that if people like that blog then this blog is one that others like too.
What happens when people disappear? And I am wondering, since she is gone since July 30, 2007 how she be affording to still have the gold membership.
VICKY
thinking how can I get the gold membership for free since I too cheap to pay money to Asia FriendFinder for something I can do for free now.
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Does Size Matter?
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Sep 4, 2008 12:30 am
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The only population smaller than Wasilla is the attendance at the 2008 Republican National Convention.
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Sarah Palin -- Beauty Queen
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Sep 3, 2008 10:54 pm
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Wonder what McCain sees in her.
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censored 3 September
censored 4 September
censored 5 September
It was such a great picture of what America stands for but I guess Asia FriendFinder has different ideas. I've seen even more racier pictures of women in profiles compared to the picture that I tried to post tonight.
Oh, well. Asia FriendFinder at it's best again censoring these blogs.
I wonder how many people really spend money to try to find love and romance here. I must admit, I'm really cheap and have never ever thought about paying to be a member here.
VICKY
counting her pennies so she can buy lunch tomorrow
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Liberal Quiz
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Sep 3, 2008 10:50 pm
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For my "Left Wing" friends, here is an opportuntiy for you to impress me with your knowledge of what your liberal laaders are thinking. Enjoy!!!
1 Q: Who said, "I sometimes feel that Alfred E. Neuman is in charge in Washington"?
A. Sen. Hillary Clinton
B. Jon Stewart
C. Bill Maher
D. House Minority Leader Nancy Pelosi
2 Q: Who said, "I think with a lifetime appointment to the Supreme Court, you can't play, you know, hide the salami, or whatever it's called"?
A. DNC Chairman Howard Dean
B. Sen. Ted Kennedy
C. Rep. Barney Frank
D. Former President Bill Clinton
3 Q: When asked if he would have gone to war against Saddam Hussein if he refused to disarm, who said, "You bet we might have"?
A. Sen. John Kerry
B. Sen. John Edwards
C. Former President Bill Clinton
D. Former Vice President Al Gore
4 Q: Who said, "George Bush giving tax cuts is like Jim Jones giving Kool-Aid. It tastes good but it'll kill you"?
A. Rev. Al Sharpton
B. Al Franken
C. Bill Maher
D. Jon Stewart
5 Q: Who said, "Many of you are well enough off that...the tax cuts may have helped you. We're saying that for America to get back on track, we're probably going to cut that short and not give it to you. We're going to take things away from you on behalf of the common good"?
A. Sen. Hillary Clinton
B. House Minority Leader Nancy Pelosi
C. Senate Minority Leader Harry Reid
D. Sen. John Kerry
6 Q: Who declared on national television, "George Bush doesn't care about black people"?
A. Rapper Kanye West
B. Rev. Al Sharpton
C. Rapper Kanye West
D. New Orleans Mayor Ray Nagin
7 Q: Who said, "I would like to apologize for referring to George W. Bush as a 'deserter.' What I meant to say is that George W. Bush is a deserter, an election thief, a drunk driver, a WMD liar, and a functional illiterate. And he poops his pants"?
A. Michael Moore
B. Howard Stern
C. Sean Penn
D. Bill Maher
8 Q: Speaking about criticism of the local authorities' relief efforts in the wake of Hurricane Katrina, who said, "If one person criticizes them, or says one more thing, including the president of the United States, he will hear from me -- one more word about it after this show airs and I -- I might likely have to punch him -- literally"?
A. Louisiana Sen. Mary Landrieu
B. Louisiana Gov. Kathleen Blanco
C. New Orleans Mayor Ray Nagin
D. Geraldo Rivera
9 Q: Who said, "We have a voice now, and we're not using it, and women have so much to lose. I mean, we could lose the right to our bodies. We could lo -- if you think that rape should be legal, then don't vote"?
A. Cameron Diaz
B. Whoopi Goldberg
C. Susan Sarandon
D. Barbra Streisand
10 Q: Who got in the face of a reporter and told him off by saying, "You said something I didn't say. Now shove it!"?
A. Teresa Heinz Kerry
B. Sen. Hillary Clinton
C. DNC Chairman Howard Dean
D. James Carville
11 Q: Referring to President Bush, who said, "The man's father is a wonderful human being. I think this guy is a loser"?
A. Senate Minority Leader Harry Reid
B. Former President Bill Clinton
C. DNC Chairman Howard Dean
D. House Minority Leader Nancy Pelosi
12 Q: Who said, "The Iraqis who have risen up against the occupation are not 'insurgents' or 'terrorists' or 'The Enemy.' They are the REVOLUTION, the Minutemen, and their numbers will grow -- and they will win"?
A. Michael Moore
B. Sean Penn
C. Cindy Sheehan
D. Al Gore
13 Q: While looking at an Incan mummy on display in Washington, D.C., who said, "You know, if I were a single man, I might ask that mummy out. That's a good-looking mummy"?
A. Bill Clinton
B. Al Gore
C. John Edwards
D. Robert Byrd
14 Q: While dressed as Barney the Dinosaur at an office Christmas party, who said, "They don't call me Tyrannosaurus Sex for nothing"?
A. Ted Kennedy
B. Jesse Jackson
C. Former New Jersey Gov. Jim McGreevey
D. Bill Clinton
15 Q: Who said, "I've looked on many women with lust. I've committed adultery in my heart many times. God knows I will do this and forgives me"?
A. Jimmy Carter
B. Ted Kennedy
C. Janet Reno
D. Bill Clinton
VICKY
enjoying the fact that President Bush is not the only idiot in Washington, D.C.
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Just Words
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Sep 3, 2008 10:12 pm
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Barak Obama apparently needs a podium to speak from. When he's with the "little people" he seems to, well, you can read for yourself.
"I'm here with the Girardo family here in St. Louis." --speaking via satellite to the Democratic National Convention, while in Kansas City, Missouri, Aug. 25, 2008
"Let me introduce to you the next President -- the next Vice President of the United States of America, Joe Biden." --slipping up while introducing Joe Biden at their first joint campaign rally, Springfield, Illinois, Aug. 23, 2008
"Just this past week, we passed out of the out of the U.S. Senate Banking Committee -- which is my committee -- a bill to call for divestment from Iran as way of ratcheting up the pressure to ensure that they don't obtain a nuclear weapon." --referring to a committee he is not on, Sderot, Israel, July 23, 2008
"Let me be absolutely clear. Israel is a strong friend of Israel's. It will be a strong friend of Israel's under a McCain...administration. It will be a strong friend of Israel's under an Obama administration. So that policy is not going to change." --Amman, Jordan, July 22, 2008
"How's it going, Sunshine?" --campaigning in Sunrise, Florida
"On this Memorial Day, as our nation honors its unbroken line of fallen heroes -- and I see many of them in the audience here today -- our sense of patriotism is particularly strong."
"Hold on one second, sweetie, we're going to do -- we'll do a press avail." --to a female reporter for ABC's Detroit affiliate who asked about his plan to help American autoworkers (Watch video clip)
"I've now been in 57 states -- I think one left to go." --at a campaign event in Beaverton, Oregon (Watch video clip)
"Why can't I just eat my waffle?" --after being asked a foreign policy question by a reporter while visiting a diner in Pennsylvania
"It's not surprising, then, they get bitter, they cling to guns or religion or antipathy to people who aren't like them or anti-immigrant sentiment or anti-trade sentiment as a way to explain their frustrations." --explaining his troubles winning over some working-class voters
"The point I was making was not that Grandmother harbors any racial animosity. She doesn't. But she is a typical white person, who, if she sees somebody on the street that she doesn't know, you know, there's a reaction that's been bred in our experiences that don't go away and that sometimes come out in the wrong way, and that's just the nature of race in our society."
"Come on! I just answered, like, eight questions." --exasperated by reporters after a news conference
"You're likeable enough, Hillary." --during a Democratic debate
"In case you missed it, this week, there was a tragedy in Kansas. Ten thousand people died -- an entire town destroyed." --on a Kansas tornado that killed 12 people
~Compiled by Daniel Kurtzman
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Obama Fan
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Sep 2, 2008 1:05 pm
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A man died and went to heaven. As he stood in front of St. Peter at the Pearly Gates, he saw a huge wall of clocks behind him. He asked, "What are all those clocks?"
St. Peter answered, "Those are Lie-Clocks. Everyone on Earth has a Lie-Clock. Every time you lie the hands on your clock will move."
"Oh," said the man, "whose clock is that?"
"That's Mother Teresa's. The hands have never moved, indicating that she never told a lie."
"Incredible," said the man. "And whose clock is that one?"
St. Peter responded, "That's Abraham Lincoln's clock. The hands have moved twice, telling us that Abe told only two lies in his entire life."
"Where's Obama's clock?" asked the man.
"Obama's clock is in Jesus' office. He's using it as a ceiling fan.
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