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love_56831 42 F
1  Article
love can be at different level   2/20/2008

in this world, everyone is unique. nobody else can substitute others. the pain and hurt will never be easy. you will never forget him. but, you will find the peace of heart when the time goes by and, you will rebuild up yourself at a different level and open yourself again for the love and the life ahead of you.

After you walked out from the previous relationship, you lost your sleep for ...


5 Comments, 148 Views, 16 Votes ,4.60 Score
bluesky20031 64 F
3  Articles
Be a little bit philosophical   2/3/2008

I realise most people who come in here have some personal issues to deal with. But if you try to be a bit philosophical about the relationships you will be a much happier person. Sometimes there are just no "whys" in life, just "is". Trying to rationalise the emotional issues simply makes you more depressed. So, just accept the outcome and move on, take the "whatever will be will be" ...


1 Comments, 314 Views, 8 Votes ,2.32 Score
geanie_27 43 F
1  Article
Is it possible to love again after your heart has been broken?   1/6/2008

Is it really possible to really love again? The logical answer is YES..But why don't I feel this way?
I ask this because I went through a tough break up with someone whom I loved dearly about 7 mos ago. I feel like the flame I once had inside my heart is now out. This flame is dead...Nothing, no one, not even myself seems to make me truly happy.
Is this like a phase I'll ...


8 Comments, 358 Views, 29 Votes ,3.34 Score
Babylonchina 45 F
2  Articles
Both forget and remember when love fail   1/6/2008

Now comes the time, goodbye love one more thing to tell before I leave, I'll both forget and memory save.
I'll forget how you leave me alone, in darkness no one hear me groan; how you walk away and slam the door, smiles on your face I see no more; to my tears you give silence in return, let alone cold words on my heart burn; ...


4 Comments, 247 Views, 34 Votes ,3.42 Score
happyDragon1234 36 M
2  Articles
real friendship   1/4/2008

Everybody have many friends from here and there.but real friendship between friends is very great, if you smile he smile with you .you cry he would talk with you


1 Comments, 141 Views, 10 Votes ,3.19 Score
el_lobo2 74 M
10  Articles
westeners   1/3/2008

Westerners are fools, intruders all where is it written that they know best where in the hell did they take that test why did we lose our land to others not here first, when others fled did they get their house back or did they but start again where they landed Westerners are fools, intruders all my religion is fine by me, oh yes they came changed every thing my god of yesteryear was wrong they ...


2 Comments, 46 Views, 12 Votes
MrStan 60 M
74  Articles
Clinging to pain only punishes ourselves   12/26/2007

Painful situations, relationships hurt us, memories of experiences that pinch our nerve endings, need not imprison us.

However, we are seldom very quick to let go of the pain. Instead, we become obsessed with it, the precipitating circumstances, and the longed for, but often missed outcome.

We often wallow in our pain, rather than learn from it. We salt our wounds every time we ...


5 Comments, 81 Views, 10 Votes ,4.38 Score
Jalo05 54 F
4  Articles
Signs of Cheating   12/7/2007

Have you ever caught your partner cheating?

If not, then what are the signs that he/she's cheating on you?

Are you still willing to give him a second chance to improve and change?

If there's no hope to give it one more try, what's your next move?


22 Comments, 230 Views, 12 Votes ,4.92 Score
rsflener 58 M
19  Articles
Leave room for both to break with dignity...   12/2/2007

Leave room for both to break with dignity...

The curiosity was there. The emails where honest and open. Then came the first date. Boy sparks flew! A few more dates later, and you share a private time. Wow, what an experience.





After a few months, things slowly change. You don't care for their political fews. They think you have stinky feet. Their parents are to ...


1 Comments, 35 Views, 7 Votes ,4.06 Score
kim_shen14344 43 F
14  Articles
''SPECIAL''   11/27/2007

"SPECIAL" is a word that is use to descrive something one-of-a kind, like a hug or a sunset or a person who spreads love with a smile or kind gesture.
"SPECIAL"
descrives people who act from the heart and keep ...


4 Comments, 81 Views, 18 Votes ,2.58 Score
WoAiNiSweetBabes 107 M
10  Articles
is it some simple   11/26/2007

as it happened to me


1 Comments, 35 Views, 5 Votes ,1.51 Score
LaRhaine 47 F
1  Article
Breaking up and moving on...   11/12/2007

Breaking up is never fun. The end of a relationship means the beginning of a period of mourning and healing for both people. If the break up was mutual both people will experience a period of adjustment where they are getting used to no longer being together. If the break up was not mutual the person who ended things may be ...


3 Comments, 150 Views, 29 Votes ,5.65 Score
creamykitten 38 F
3  Articles
HOW TO BREAK UP WITH SOMEONE YOU ARE NOT REALLY WITH!!!   10/30/2007

Okay now what!!! I dated this guy "one" time. No sex involved but a little kissing and petting and now he thinks we are a couple. I have told him I am not really interested but he keeps calling and send me cards. He does not seem to get it and is apparently obsessed with me. What should I do? Thanks.


39 Comments, 1297 Views, 95 Votes ,2.89 Score
polingchen 35 F
1  Article
my story of friendship, relationship, marriage??   10/30/2007

Hi there,

Although i had 4 relationships before ( including my marriage) I think I have to say it's not EASY to build and maintain a strong relationship. My marriage only last for about one year, got married in the last day of June, but separation started next April, got divorced in Aug. I'm quite happy of being single again.

Don't know why, maybe i'm just too nice and ...


6 Comments, 94 Views, 12 Votes ,3.15 Score
down_by_the_sea 61 M
7  Articles
Marriage   10/24/2007

The Husband Store


A store that sells new husbands has just opened in New York City, where a woman may go to choose a husband. Among the instructions at the entrance is a description of how the store operates.
You may visit the store ONLY ONCE! There are six floors and the attributes of the men increase as the shopper ascends the flights.
...


3 Comments, 81 Views, 6 Votes ,3.65 Score
draco5858 54 M
2  Articles
What on earth do women want?   9/16/2007

I've notice so many women on AFF write that they are looking for Mr. Right, their prince, knight, Adam, or something like that. Mainly they say that this perfect guy will do everything for them and treat them like a princess. Well, I really do wonder about that and I'd like some opinions, especially from those women. <br> You see, when you talk with other women, they say they will ...


6 Comments, 253 Views, 11 Votes ,3.17 Score
CheekeyMonkey 50 M
4  Articles
Just Walk Away forever or be friends?   8/29/2007

In the past, I have always been strong enough to walk away from a relationship when it was over and never look back. This means no contact forever in any shape of form and having the resolve to be consistent to this.
This approach while tough gave me the following benefits:
1) FREEDOM - No baggage for a new relationship. I was able to meet ...


7 Comments, 181 Views, 22 Votes ,4.33 Score
gustoitaliano 55 M
1  Article
DIFFERENT MEAN OF ICONS FOR EASTERN AND WESTERN   8/27/2007

in this days i discover something of very intersting concern the eastern and western mode of use some icons... and in particular that icon: <br> <br> this icon espacially in yahoo messenger where u can see a rotation of the head normally want see OH NO!!! <br> but more asian girls use that icon for say: <br> I'M SURPRISE OF THAT...INCREDIBLE!!! ...


0 Comments, 106 Views, 5 Votes ,2.16 Score
MrStan 60 M
74  Articles
Yes most break ups are painful   8/1/2007

This pain can cause anger, emotional or physical sickness, feelings of lack of worth, deep sadness, betrayal, vulnerability, lack of feeling physically attractive or emotionally available (especially if their was infidelity involved)

I have not spoken to my ex-girlfriend for approximately 10 years when she contacted me by e-mail the other day. She lives in South Korea now and is married. ...


9 Comments, 172 Views, 16 Votes ,5.19 Score
Danni119 49 F
10  Articles
Love   7/31/2007

When a woman falls in love with a man, it's a tragedy, and vice versa. When a the two love each other, that's a blessing. But in this world, there are more tragedy than blessing.


2 Comments, 97 Views, 15 Votes ,3.28 Score
belbeluk 48 M
1  Article
hi   7/31/2007

how are you all ? x


1 Comments, 30 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
looneytunes007 51 M
2  Articles
steps to breaking up   7/19/2007

The Steps To Breaking Up The Steps To Breaking UpWhen you need to do it, do it with as little pain as possible! by owen

Just the words, break up, indicate a situation riddled with impending pain and loss. Even if both parties involved agree it is in their best interests to part romantic ways, there is still a certain amount of loss attached. The best way to approach a break up is to ...


1 Comments, 18 Views, 3 Votes ,3.92 Score
fallschurch74 44 M
1  Article
Question of the day   7/18/2007

How many times will I be able to write random, nonsensicle articles solely for the purpose of getting the points?


0 Comments, 81 Views, 19 Votes ,0.88 Score
bree21 42 F
6  Articles
lessons she learnt   6/24/2007

The stars and trees had reminded her of him. The way they littered the sky in all their shining glory, took her back to when they had sat sometimes in silence and often in warm embrace.

The breeze was different where he was. The trees knew it all along, but not she. Or perhaps she had never taken the time to notice it. How the wind had caressed her face and skin and whispered to her that ...


0 Comments, 28 Views, 10 Votes ,2.99 Score
DimitriW 37 M
5  Articles
BMW engineer vs God   6/4/2007

An engineer, of the BMW Motorrad Corporation died and went to heaven.

At the gates St. Peter told him, "Since you've been such a good man and your motorbikes have changed the world,

your reward is, you can hang out with anyone you want in Heaven".

The Engineer thought about it for a minute and then said, "I want to hang out with God." St. Peter took him to the Throne ...


0 Comments, 26 Views, 7 Votes ,2.02 Score
guanxiaorui2 62 M
1  Article
to marry a foreign   5/29/2007

What does a chinese girl think about of marry a foreign?


6 Comments, 275 Views, 11 Votes ,0.55 Score
lexxventura 48 M
2  Articles
is it possible to stay friends after the break up?   4/29/2007

I have recently gone through a break up and it was sudjsetes by her to stay friends after. I don't think this is possible to happen because we still have feelings for each other, that will always get in the way of a real friendship, not to mention that eventually we both will find new boy friends, and girlfriends that will not approve of "hanging out with the X" What do other people think ...


6 Comments, 173 Views, 30 Votes ,3.83 Score
doudou_de2 63 F
14  Articles
tell me your opoin, please.   4/24/2007

Dear <br> Of course, I am very angry with you yesterday night!! But I try to talk you and communicate with you still!!! Why? Why I do it still? Why I donot stop all contact with you easily? I will tell you the reason here!!!!! <br> I am one person who always want to solve the problem of my life with communication and talking. Easily give up and stop the contact is not my ...


1 Comments, 99 Views, 6 Votes ,1.09 Score
MrStan 60 M
74  Articles
UK Marriage Survey   4/14/2007

Here are some interesting marriage statistics from the UK.
Reasons for marriage breakdowns include:
27% - Adulterous behavior
18% - Family strains
17% - Emotional/physical abuse
13% - Mid-life crisis
6% - Workaholism
6% - Addictions (alcoholism, gambling, etc.)
4% - Business problems
4% - Other (communication problems, ...


11 Comments, 153 Views, 14 Votes ,4.42 Score
whitedragon1964 53 M
11  Articles
Be considerate   3/21/2007

Treat others as you want to be treated


0 Comments, 15 Views, 9 Votes ,4.49 Score