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MrStan 60 M
74  Articles
"Forgiveness: Giving up all hope for a better past."   3/7/2007

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17 Comments, 217 Views, 18 Votes ,4.63 Score
HeartDesire 60 F
2  Articles
Love & Hate   3/6/2007

There is a fine line between love and hate. Let me know what it is, please.


13 Comments, 192 Views, 24 Votes ,3.02 Score
DarKnight_84 34 M
1  Article
broken up   2/28/2007

So i have broken up with my girl and i am very depressed by it all. I feel angry, frustrated, sad, depressed and upset all at the same time. The worst part of this is she didnt give me any reason why we broke up. We had good times together and she decides to end it. Well this was all over a month ago and in that time I find out why, she still has feelings for her ex, her ex is in a ...


8 Comments, 136 Views, 22 Votes ,3.01 Score
MrStan 60 M
74  Articles
You can't change your intimate partners behavior   2/21/2007

I will tell you a story that will perhaps ring a bell with some people who have experienced this. The story of the FROG & the SCORPION Note: The frog can be either female or male and the scorpion can also be either male or female, for they may represent some of our past or current partners.
The ...


19 Comments, 296 Views, 20 Votes ,3.76 Score
terryaki 70 M
11  Articles
internet break up   2/19/2007

Most of the time, my internet contacts ends when the woman just stops writing. Is this considered rude? If you don't want to hurt someone, it is better to be honest, or can that be considered rude?


0 Comments, 50 Views, 11 Votes ,3.17 Score
ke5541 33 M
10  Articles
The Crazy Ones   2/19/2007

What is your advice for the really crazy ones? I think many of us have met some girls or boys that were really nice at first. Then the relationship got worse and worse and her/his true personality showed. You try becoming a worse g/f b/f to them to make them break up with you. It doesn't work. They threaten you while keep saying how much they love you.
How do people deal with ...


1 Comments, 42 Views, 3 Votes ,3.43 Score
underyoux 57 M
1  Article
test   2/19/2007

this is just a test


3 Comments, 46 Views, 11 Votes ,0.55 Score
esprit44 40 M
3  Articles
People 24/24H on asianfind.com   1/12/2007

Why some members(usually over 40)seem to spend all days long adding/answering articles. Do you have nothing else to do than spending all day on your computer? Don't you have a wife and to take care of? Are you not bored of that routine? Don't you have a job? I think you should have a break and breathe fresh air because when I read some of your articles they are pointless, no interest to ...


5 Comments, 208 Views, 14 Votes ,3.30 Score
ani53 68 M
1  Article
Thing on the subject?   12/29/2006

why people ask for money to the newly formed friend.? <br> I am a new comer in this website. I have got some good respnse. therefore I am thankful to the AFF.com because the site has given me a chance to me to me on platform infront of the people. <br> But there sre some girls who are asking for help in the form of money, just after two days of my entry! <br> Can ...


2 Comments, 106 Views, 8 Votes ,1.86 Score
purticutegirl 44 F
2  Articles
What to do?   12/14/2006

What do you do in the situation where you have emailed and talked to someone that you think you may potentailly hit it off. Although you haven't physically met, you feel you have chemistry and a connection. For the past 2 1/2 week I have corresponded with a nice guy. Every moning and every night I would get emails from this person. We made arrangements to meet last week, however ...


8 Comments, 160 Views, 17 Votes ,2.42 Score
MrStan 60 M
74  Articles
People have trouble developing trust if they have:   12/9/2006

Experienced a great deal of emotional and/or physical abuse and/or neglect. Been chronically put down for the way they feel or for what they believe. Been emotionally hurt in the past and are not willing to risk getting hurt in the future. Had problem relationships in the past where they were belittled, misunderstood, or ignored. Experienced the ...


6 Comments, 174 Views, 14 Votes ,3.30 Score
RichardTTripp 72 M
95  Articles
Let me apologize,   12/9/2006

Let me apologize,
I am a hot headed egocentric fool much of the time acting far to quickly in anger with far too little information.. I want to apologize to SP33DY2 for my insulting remarks about his postings in this magazine. He is a very intelligent man with a kind and forgiving heart, fortunately for me. He could write some very powerful articles in French but not in English. ...


1 Comments, 34 Views, 7 Votes ,2.79 Score
ladyrhyme 35 F
2  Articles
Magical Feeling   11/24/2006

Magical feeling is a Song. I would like to share it to everyone. The song goes like this..
(Im happy that you left me, Im glad that you hurt me, Its a magical feeling, Knowing that you're not meant for me..) It's true right? Although, there are relationships that, they broke up and then back again.. But mostly, relationships ...


3 Comments, 93 Views, 15 Votes ,2.67 Score
babeinpink 51 F
13  Articles
love sickness symptoms   11/24/2006

Emotions can do funny things to a person. Our emotions and mental health are very tightly connected to our physical health. Our minds are very powerful. The mind controls the body, so we are happy when we are in love, and our body is releasing endorphins, which is good for our hearts. How about being in love and not being able to see that person forever, then it can lead to ...


6 Comments, 132 Views, 22 Votes ,3.37 Score
faithreflection 61 F
2  Articles
about age   11/24/2006

I don't know why some older men who prefer to covering their real age, some gap covered is almost ten years. Most of people don't have a photo posted. For those people, should we be aware of their intention?


3 Comments, 997 Views, 18 Votes ,1.35 Score
sweetieguard0 59 F
11  Articles
We Are Blessed   11/24/2006

*If you woke up this morning with more health than illness, you are more blessed than the million people who will not survive the week.
* If you have never experienced the danger of battle, the loneliness of imprisonment, the agony of torture or the pangs of starvation, you are ahead of 500 million people around the world.
*If you attend a church ...



11 Comments, 468 Views, 21 Votes ,6.10 Score
Jimmy3434a 50 M
11  Articles
Breaking Up is So Difficult, But Necessary   11/24/2006

I have come to the end of my rope with one lovely young Chinese girl.
I found that, even though we are compatible physically and emotionally, we are not compatible as to the convergence of our lives, in terms of the future.
The paths we both plan do not cross. I have, for three years, diverged from my path to accomodate hers.
She now wants me never to go ...


2 Comments, 109 Views, 13 Votes ,2.98 Score
chris525 45 M
2  Articles
TRUE: LOVE NEVER FAILS:   11/18/2006

KEY TO LOVE: IS TO LOVE YOURSELF...WE R ALWAYS LOOKING FOR LOVE IN ALL THE RONG PLACES, BEFORE WE FIRST COME TO KNOW WHO WE R . WE MUST FIRST LEARN TO LIKE AN LOVE OURSELF....ITS ONLY THEN CAN YOU GIVE 100% LOVE....LET EACH ONE OF US TAKE THE TIME TO BE THANKFULL FOR THE THINNGS WE HAVE...THAIR ARE MANY WHO HAVE MUCH LESS....I FINE JOY IN HELPING OTHERS....SO TO ALL MY FRIENDS...., ...


2 Comments, 126 Views, 14 Votes ,1.86 Score
procida 68 M
25  Articles
breaking up with myself   11/17/2006

i do not know what i want i only know what i do not want either more i must break up with myself, with my past to born again maybe too late now to be a new man i m gonna try to live with...me


1 Comments, 19 Views, 4 Votes ,0.14 Score
LizHo827 45 F
1  Article
Try to be nice.   11/12/2006

Appreciate the love and care. So try to be nice.Don't have to be mean or rude or.... Think about the past. Must be some good time.
But only for people who not really into it. Not for the cheater.


1 Comments, 61 Views, 13 Votes ,3.81 Score
SP33DY2 45 M
11  Articles
hello   10/31/2006

i'm here


2 Comments, 42 Views, 8 Votes ,1.16 Score
RichardTTripp 72 M
95  Articles
This is crazy to me… And I am angry about it   10/31/2006

This is crazy to me… And I am angry about it
There is a man on this site who posted 10 articles saying nothing but “Hello I’m Here”. He has a new article out now that says, “Maybe” and that is it. Now he holds the rank of 3 most contributing writer in this online magazine. I am outraged by this because there are many serious writers here ...


2 Comments, 34 Views, 5 Votes ,1.84 Score
lorenzo78 42 M
6  Articles
brake it   10/28/2006

u have to brake a relationshipwhen all the real feelings are gone


0 Comments, 74 Views, 7 Votes ,1.51 Score
lorenzo78 42 M
6  Articles
chinese girl   10/28/2006

never brake up with a chinese girl, i will tell you why in my next article


2 Comments, 139 Views, 14 Votes
RichardTTripp 72 M
95  Articles
Heart or Brain.. Happiness or Pain...   10/25/2006

Shall I follow my heart into happy poverty... Or my brain into sadness and riches.. Love feeds me when there is no food... Love holds me when I am sick And have no medicine.. Love cares not if I only have rags to wear... Without love I can be in the deepest poverty... While surrounded by riches... Forgetting your heart... Makes you walk through life... Dead...


1 Comments, 15 Views, 3 Votes ,4.41 Score
procida 68 M
25  Articles
with the past   10/19/2006

How many times we need to breaking up with the past some, need no time other they never breaking up with their past after three years i am like a re birth , is seems maybe time is ok for beginning a new life with no ghosts of the past and you


0 Comments, 26 Views, 7 Votes ,2.53 Score
springwind00 41 F
3  Articles
Adult breaking up   10/4/2006

It is very normal that couple break up. The problem is how you behave while you break up. Disappear suddenly or honestly telling out what do you feel.


0 Comments, 61 Views, 5 Votes ,1.19 Score
shekinah888 56 F
5  Articles
life is beautiful...pains and all...   10/2/2006

well, what makes us who we are now is the life we've lived through - good or bad. personally, if i have to live my life over, i don't mind goin through the same pains. after all, i am who i am now because of them. word of advise: zero in on your expectations and you'll wake up to a brighter day and find the world a better place to live in...
cheers!


2 Comments, 97 Views, 19 Votes ,2.46 Score
natureswild 53 M
7  Articles
Happy story with sad ending.   10/1/2006

We are one happy couple love & cherish each other till the end of time. humm well wish all the story was like that but that is fairy tale people. I notice one thing about woman once love is gone it is gone which means goodbye don't have the feeling for you anymore when that happens it is good to say nice knowing you hope you will have better life and happiness. Warning don't go after her ...


0 Comments, 70 Views, 14 Votes ,3.62 Score
elisa1 39 F
7  Articles
Breaking up is so hard to do   9/21/2006

I don't think it is ever easy to break up a relationship. It is so difficult to say good bye to all the cherished dreams, aspirations and moments that both of you shared. What event went so wrong to end the relationship? What has happened to the word 'compromise'. The divorce rate today is higer than it has ever been. What is happening to the idea of love- is it just a dream, just ...


1 Comments, 142 Views, 10 Votes ,4.18 Score