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procida 68 M
25  Articles
psycho   9/21/2006

I do not know if all women after breaking up got nervous breakdown but i 've seen içn the past most of this comportement maybe men can drink until the night and soon it s an other day maybe women are more anxious with break up and need a behavior schyzophrenic to forget past SINCE THEY ARE THE WOMEN WHO MOBILIZE MORE THE PSYCHIATRISTS this not a massive attack agains women, but every ...


1 Comments, 47 Views, 7 Votes ,3.04 Score
Teddybaier 54 M
2  Articles
why all the mind Games   9/21/2006

Why is it, that most women have different meanings to things they say to us males? I find it very difficult to relate, I have never been good at reading the signs or signals that you women put out. I would like to know are there out there any other guys that are haveing the same problem? And if so, how do you deal with the mixed reactions your date gives you near the end of the date, ...


1 Comments, 103 Views, 17 Votes ,3.97 Score
sungodesstemple 55 F
1  Article
Wanted to stay friends but had to cut it.   9/16/2006

He was suddenly with someone else! I cried buckets and it hurt for over 9 months. But he is that kind of guy. Stay for awhile, very nice, very sensual, then he start to flirt and sexually touch other women in front of me. Then gone. Ok, I was stupid. He called me after he was gone wanting to talk but hurt me more after he talk about his latest girl. So I cut it off. So that I could ...


1 Comments, 579 Views, 7 Votes ,3.04 Score
azn2005 51 F
2  Articles
How to loss a guy/gal in 10 days?   9/12/2006

Watch that movie? It's just a movie and drama. What about real world. What ARE the mistakes we must NOT do to be able to make relationship last. Guys and Gals - would like to share different perspectives?


2 Comments, 138 Views, 10 Votes ,1.99 Score
vinuccileo 52 M
5  Articles
Intense   9/2/2006

Breaking up can sometimes be the best thing that happens in a relationship.... I broke up with my girlfriend. Both of us were feeling the loss and deep sadness so decided to meet for a kind of goodbye drink. There was no longer the attachment to who was right, wrong or an agenda. We were just the best of ourselves. We went back to our old flat that was being sold. The world seemed ...


0 Comments, 57 Views, 8 Votes ,2.55 Score
1974soulsearcher 43 M
3  Articles
they say time will heal the hurt inside   8/29/2006

I've always heard that time will heal a broken heart, and the pain that comes with it, but I'd have to say prove it. I feel the hurt all the time when I think about everything that we did and shared. There were happy times even though very few. My heart begins to hurt when the memories come flashing by. They say it can take days, months, or even years to get over the hurt. But I think the ...


0 Comments, 246 Views, 10 Votes ,2.79 Score
champion9999 53 M
18  Articles
Living through it and Recovering   8/27/2006

If your partner has broken up with u and u are not happy about it, there are better and worse ways to get through it. Here are some suggested better ways: 1) see a psychologist to vent 2) try to get a closure 3) be kind to yourself physically and psychologically 4) take it a day at a time 5) use thought-stopping method 6) expect yourself to have fluctuating emotions 7) reward ...


1 Comments, 51 Views, 7 Votes ,3.30 Score
DimitriW 37 M
5  Articles
How to Impress a Woman/Man   8/27/2006

HOW TO IMPRESS A WOMAN... compliment her, cuddle her, kiss her, caress her, love her, stroke her, tease her, comfort her, protect her, hug her, hold her, spend money on her, wine & dine her, buy things for her, listen to her, care for her, stand by her, support her, go to the ends of the earth for her....
HOW TO IMPRESS A MAN... show up naked, ...


2 Comments, 108 Views, 11 Votes ,3.54 Score
soulsearch888de 37 M
11  Articles
Love or habbit?   8/25/2006

I hear lots of people talking about love and true love. . but i wonder, often we find that people are in a relationship because its what they are used to, and are afraid or simply dont want change. this, in turn, makes breaking up very hard to do. i've noticed lots of people spend 1/2 their life in a relationship they are unhappy with simply because they dont really want to break up with a ...


4 Comments, 58 Views, 8 Votes ,4.41 Score
wanchi4 37 F
2  Articles
The Darker Side of Love.   8/25/2006

Every one speaks of Love of joy and happiness, and how it caresses you and how wonderful it is to be in LOVE. Why carn`t people speak for a change about the other side of what love can do-to a person who is truly in love or was in love.

My true love was a boy who lived next door to me, and we grew up together always doing every thing together as we could never be apart or ...


4 Comments, 126 Views, 14 Votes ,4.58 Score
marcot1997 49 M
8  Articles
The "Good" Breakup   8/22/2006

So your (my) relationship has ended. The majority of relationships do! Can we all try to have a good break up by being thankful for what we have learned and how we have grown by being with our former partners. An ended relatioship can still be regarded as a great realtionship that only lasted temporarily.
At the very least can we part ways without making blows to the other or ...


2 Comments, 92 Views, 10 Votes ,3.39 Score
champion9999 53 M
18  Articles
10 Ways to Rekindle your FLAME   8/19/2006

What do u do if u hav neglected your relationship? How do u jumpstart a relationship that has gone from exciting to ho-hum, boring?
Here I suggest 10 ways to rekindle your flame:
1. Find your smile 2. Talk about positive thoughts and feelings 3. put fun and play back in your relationship 4. make new love traditions 5. recreate the early days - what has worked before ...


1 Comments, 75 Views, 10 Votes ,4.98 Score
ktownteacher 58 M
1  Article
Single Occupancy   7/21/2006

So here I sit in my new single apartment, the polished hardwood floors reflecting the sparse furniture I chose with great care, alone, at Ikea, surrounded by couples.
I sometimes catch myself about to turn to my ex- and make a joke, share a quip, ask her how her day was. Then I remember...
9 years and two countries is a lot to go through together. And it brings a lot of ...


2 Comments, 94 Views, 7 Votes ,3.55 Score
beauty_1143 49 F
12  Articles
THE RIGHT LOVE AND THE RIGHT MAN   7/20/2006

It has been said that a relationship is a two-way street. It has two lanes, one for the man and one for the woman. Each person should be a responsible partner. Each one should be aware of the needs and problems of his or her partner.
Communication is key to a lasting relationship. For me, if i can tell my problem to my boyfriend and he listens, i would be very happy. I will feel hurt ...


1 Comments, 79 Views, 10 Votes ,3.78 Score
beauty_1143 49 F
12  Articles
When it is ok to have sex?   7/19/2006

When is it ok to have sex? For me, it depends on your age or feelings. If you are eighteen and a virgin, you will want to wait until you are in a committed relationship. If you're thirty-nine, waiting a month or two can be fine. Of course, if you feel strongly against premarital sex, you should wait until you're married. If he loves you, he will respect whatever decision you make.
...


2 Comments, 100 Views, 14 Votes ,3.94 Score
7571363 39 F
2  Articles
give up / give up not ?   7/19/2006

I have been trying harder than ever, the relationship is just like the very beginning though : only lust, no communicating, no sharing, no understanding, no sympathysing. Just wanna give up not to make things even worse.. Honestly, I really dont wanna lose him. But I can nevr lose sth that I've never had, rite ? Im hopeless Wishing some way out of this dark tunnel. Any one ...


1 Comments, 126 Views, 16 Votes ,3.27 Score
champion9999 53 M
18  Articles
Avoiding the Dreaded Rebound Relationship?   7/19/2006

When people are healing from loss, they are usually very fragile. Their judgment is often faulty due to stress. Thus it is not the best time to get quickly and intensely involved with another person. If u do, u may be on the rebound- that is u are choosing that partner impulsively and reactively to fill your emotional gap/void, not because the person is compatible with u in the long-term. ...


0 Comments, 59 Views, 11 Votes ,4.29 Score
beauty_1143 49 F
12  Articles
Sex Before Marriage Can Break a Relationship (Open for Comments)   7/19/2006

I am convinced that every person should have the opportunity to enjoy this kind of love (passionate love) at some time. There is no substitute for the deep down love that two people have for one another. However, passionate love has a way of shorting out the brain and squashing rational thought. Be reminded that i am deeply convinced that any two people who choose to marry need to ...


3 Comments, 171 Views, 23 Votes ,5.00 Score
jaemin37 44 M
4  Articles
it is sad thing   7/12/2006

Hello, breaking up it is very hard thing to do. And a sad thing! How do you that? tell me!


2 Comments, 75 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
azn2005 51 F
2  Articles
How do you build your own blog here?   7/11/2006

Any one knows how to build your own blog here? Do you have to be gold member or something?


1 Comments, 41 Views, 3 Votes ,1.47 Score
beauty_1143 49 F
12  Articles
When Love Turns Sour   7/11/2006

When lovers break up, things can never be the same between them again. More than that, things will almost surely be worse than before they fell deeply into love.
Whenever you fall inlove with someone, please remember that if the relationship does not work out, the chances of a smooth break and a pleasant aftermath are extremely slim. Most likely the break is going to be painful ...


1 Comments, 30 Views, 9 Votes ,3.43 Score
kikaida42 63 M
2  Articles
Why is it difficult to break-up?   7/8/2006

I have experienced many relationships, however, breaking up was so difficult. I've been insulted, stalked, and shamed. For example, I discovered that my last x-girlfriend was a bad person, dancing, love affairs...etc. She had so many affairs with friends and neighbors it was an insulting and disrespectful relationship. I tried to break-up respectfully, but she spit in my face, and kicked me ...


0 Comments, 283 Views, 11 Votes ,3.73 Score
cbsweety 37 M
1  Article
date   7/3/2006

I think the reason why sites like this exist is that all people search for love and peace. They are doing mistakes thats right but this mistakes shows us we are all human and nobody is perfect. No one likes to get hurt. Thats why falling in love is so difficult.


1 Comments, 68 Views, 6 Votes ,3.08 Score
beauty_1143 49 F
12  Articles
Don't Date A Married Men   6/30/2006

This is just an opinion and suggestion. Dating married (unavailable) men is not only a waste of time, but also it is dishonest and stupid. Some women feel it is better than dating no one, some find the very wrongness and danger of it fun and exciting, and some hang on to the hope that one day the men will leave their wives for them.
When you date a married man, you basically spend ...


5 Comments, 118 Views, 16 Votes ,5.63 Score
beauty_1143 49 F
12  Articles
Love Is A Decision   6/30/2006

I personaly believe that love is a decision. I admit that it is tough to have to exert willpower and determination to love someone. It is so much easier when love flows naturally.
However, I learned a long time ago that most people, including me, go through times when we are not very lovable. We get beaten up by stress, discouraged by our lack of success, overburdened by work, ...


3 Comments, 81 Views, 12 Votes ,4.39 Score
36ford 75 M
3  Articles
I ,,,LIED   6/27/2006

There is the fellow I know who is trying to get me to meet his sister. Now we have a lot of the same freinds. A couple of them told me she isn't a bad person but she is really really heavy and is missing a few teeth. She doesn't take care of herself. So I have made every excuse in the world not to meet her. Well one day we are all going over to a friends house to play cards and he ...


3 Comments, 57 Views, 5 Votes ,3.14 Score
stratoca7144 56 M
8  Articles
Forgiveness II: In Restoration   6/11/2006

I have had great deal of input prior to putting up this blog issue. I do want to expand a little on the issue of unconditional forgiveness, I am going ot tell you why as human being it simply doesn't exist.
Think about human relationships for a moment their complexities and dynamics, no doubt two people, two lovers, two friends over the course of time will experience conflict ...


1 Comments, 34 Views, 4 Votes ,2.08 Score
wanchi4 37 F
2  Articles
10 Signs It`s Time to break Up   6/1/2006

10. You no longer look forward to spending time alone with your partner. You may still have a good sex life (or not!) but actually talking to your partner seems like a chore. If spending time alone with your partner seems like a prison sentence you may be up for a parole.

9. You begin comparing your partner to others. This is particularly true when other people seem more ...


1 Comments, 119 Views, 23 Votes ,5.93 Score
WisemanPhD 56 M
124  Articles
"LOSS" The DVD: "Memoirs of a GEISHSA"   5/29/2006

Regarding the DVD "Memoirs of a GEISHSA" and how it relates to personal LOSS.
I had to place the DVD on pause for a while in order to write what I feel here in this article. Some of what I am about to say here fits with my own personal experience, while in a relationship with a lady from Japan, while I was 26 years of age till age 30.
What made me pause the DVD & ...


2 Comments, 93 Views, 14 Votes ,3.46 Score
kron_krit 35 M
5  Articles
date   5/29/2006

he pomiss me but he don't come


2 Comments, 94 Views, 5 Votes ,0.21 Score