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psycho 9/21/2006
I do not know if all women after breaking up got nervous breakdown
but i 've seen içn the past most of this comportement
maybe men can drink until the night and soon it s an other
day
maybe women are more anxious with break up
and need a behavior schyzophrenic to forget past
SINCE THEY ARE THE WOMEN WHO MOBILIZE MORE THE PSYCHIATRISTS
this not a massive attack agains women, but every ...
1 Comments, 47 Views,
7 Votes
,3.04 Score |
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why all the mind Games 9/21/2006
Why is it, that most women have different meanings to things
they say to us males? I find it very difficult to relate,
I have never been good at reading the signs or signals that
you women put out.
I would like to know are there out there any other guys that
are haveing the same problem?
And if so, how do you deal with the mixed reactions your date
gives you near the end of the date, ...
1 Comments, 103 Views,
17 Votes
,3.97 Score |
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Wanted to stay friends but had to cut it. 9/16/2006
He was suddenly with someone else! I cried buckets and it
hurt for over 9 months. But he is that kind of guy. Stay for
awhile, very nice, very sensual, then he start to flirt
and sexually touch other women in front of me. Then gone.
Ok, I was stupid. He called me after he was gone wanting to
talk but hurt me more after he talk about his latest girl.
So I cut it off. So that I could ...
1 Comments, 579 Views,
7 Votes
,3.04 Score |
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How to loss a guy/gal in 10 days? 9/12/2006
Watch that movie? It's just a movie and drama. What
about real world. What ARE the mistakes we must NOT do to
be able to make relationship last. Guys and Gals - would
like to share different perspectives?
2 Comments, 138 Views,
10 Votes
,1.99 Score |
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Intense 9/2/2006
Breaking up can sometimes be the best thing that happens
in a relationship....
I broke up with my girlfriend. Both of us were feeling the
loss and deep sadness so decided to meet for a kind of goodbye
drink. There was no longer the attachment to who was right,
wrong or an agenda. We were just the best of ourselves.
We went back to our old flat that was being sold. The world
seemed ...
0 Comments, 57 Views,
8 Votes
,2.55 Score |
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they say time will heal the hurt inside 8/29/2006
I've always heard that time will heal a broken heart,
and the pain that comes with it, but I'd have to say prove
it. I feel the hurt all the time when I think about everything
that we did and shared. There were happy times even though
very few. My heart begins to hurt when the memories come
flashing by. They say it can take days, months, or even years
to get over the hurt. But I think the ...
0 Comments, 246 Views,
10 Votes
,2.79 Score |
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Living through it and Recovering 8/27/2006
If your partner has broken up with u and u are not happy about
it, there are better and worse ways to get through it. Here
are some suggested better ways:
1) see a psychologist to vent
2) try to get a closure
3) be kind to yourself physically and psychologically
4) take it a day at a time
5) use thought-stopping method
6) expect yourself to have fluctuating emotions
7) reward ...
1 Comments, 51 Views,
7 Votes
,3.30 Score |
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How to Impress a Woman/Man 8/27/2006
HOW TO IMPRESS A WOMAN...
compliment her,
cuddle her,
kiss her,
caress her,
love her,
stroke her,
tease her,
comfort her,
protect her,
hug her,
hold her,
spend money on her,
wine & dine her,
buy things for her,
listen to her,
care for her,
stand by her,
support her,
go to the ends of the earth for her....
HOW TO IMPRESS A MAN...
show up naked,
...
2 Comments, 108 Views,
11 Votes
,3.54 Score |
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Love or habbit? 8/25/2006
I hear lots of people talking about love and true love. .
but i wonder, often we find that people are in a relationship
because its what they are used to, and are afraid or simply
dont want change. this, in turn, makes breaking up very
hard to do. i've noticed lots of people spend 1/2 their
life in a relationship they are unhappy with simply because
they dont really want to break up with a ...
4 Comments, 58 Views,
8 Votes
,4.41 Score |
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The Darker Side of Love. 8/25/2006
Every one speaks of Love of joy and happiness, and how it
caresses you and how wonderful it is to be in LOVE.
Why carn`t people speak for a change about the other side
of what love can do-to a person who is truly in love or was
in love.
My true love was a boy who lived next door to me, and we grew
up together always doing every thing together as we could
never be apart or ...
4 Comments, 126 Views,
14 Votes
,4.58 Score |
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The "Good" Breakup 8/22/2006
So your (my) relationship has ended. The majority of relationships
do! Can we all try to have a good break up by being thankful
for what we have learned and how we have grown by being with
our former partners. An ended relatioship can still be
regarded as a great realtionship that only lasted temporarily.
At the very least can we part ways without making blows to
the other or ...
2 Comments, 92 Views,
10 Votes
,3.39 Score |
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10 Ways to Rekindle your FLAME 8/19/2006
What do u do if u hav neglected your relationship? How do
u jumpstart a relationship that has gone from exciting
to ho-hum, boring?
Here I suggest 10 ways to rekindle your flame:
1. Find your smile
2. Talk about positive thoughts and feelings
3. put fun and play back in your relationship
4. make new love traditions
5. recreate the early days - what has worked before
...
1 Comments, 75 Views,
10 Votes
,4.98 Score |
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Single Occupancy 7/21/2006
So here I sit in my new single apartment, the polished hardwood
floors reflecting the sparse furniture I chose with great
care, alone, at Ikea, surrounded by couples.
I sometimes catch myself about to turn to my ex- and make
a joke, share a quip, ask her how her day was. Then I remember...
9 years and two countries is a lot to go through together.
And it brings a lot of ...
2 Comments, 94 Views,
7 Votes
,3.55 Score |
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THE RIGHT LOVE AND THE RIGHT MAN 7/20/2006
It has been said that a relationship is a two-way street.
It has two lanes, one for the man and one for the woman. Each
person should be a responsible partner. Each one should
be aware of the needs and problems of his or her partner.
Communication is key to a lasting relationship. For me,
if i can tell my problem to my boyfriend and he listens, i
would be very happy. I will feel hurt ...
1 Comments, 79 Views,
10 Votes
,3.78 Score |
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When it is ok to have sex? 7/19/2006
When is it ok to have sex? For me, it depends on your age or
feelings. If you are eighteen and a virgin, you will want
to wait until you are in a committed relationship. If you're
thirty-nine, waiting a month or two can be fine. Of course,
if you feel strongly against premarital sex, you should
wait until you're married. If he loves you, he will
respect whatever decision you make.
...
2 Comments, 100 Views,
14 Votes
,3.94 Score |
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give up / give up not ? 7/19/2006
I have been trying harder than ever, the relationship is
just like the very beginning though : only lust, no communicating,
no sharing, no understanding, no sympathysing. Just
wanna give up not to make things even worse..
Honestly, I really dont wanna lose him. But I can nevr lose
sth that I've never had, rite ?
Im hopeless Wishing some way out of this dark tunnel.
Any one ...
1 Comments, 126 Views,
16 Votes
,3.27 Score |
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Avoiding the Dreaded Rebound Relationship? 7/19/2006
When people are healing from loss, they are usually very
fragile. Their judgment is often faulty due to stress.
Thus it is not the best time to get quickly and intensely
involved with another person. If u do, u may be on the rebound-
that is u are choosing that partner impulsively and reactively
to fill your emotional gap/void, not because the person
is compatible with u in the long-term. ...
0 Comments, 59 Views,
11 Votes
,4.29 Score |
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Sex Before Marriage Can Break a Relationship (Open for Comments) 7/19/2006
I am convinced that every person should have the opportunity
to enjoy this kind of love (passionate love) at some time.
There is no substitute for the deep down love that two people
have for one another. However, passionate love has a way
of shorting out the brain and squashing rational thought.
Be reminded that i am deeply convinced that any two people
who choose to marry need to ...
3 Comments, 171 Views,
23 Votes
,5.00 Score |
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it is sad thing 7/12/2006
Hello,
breaking up it is very hard thing to do. And a sad thing! How
do you that? tell me!
2 Comments, 75 Views,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score |
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How do you build your own blog here? 7/11/2006
Any one knows how to build your own blog here? Do you have
to be gold member or something?
1 Comments, 41 Views,
3 Votes
,1.47 Score |
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When Love Turns Sour 7/11/2006
When lovers break up, things can never be the same between
them again. More than that, things will almost surely be
worse than before they fell deeply into love.
Whenever you fall inlove with someone, please remember
that if the relationship does not work out, the chances
of a smooth break and a pleasant aftermath are extremely
slim. Most likely the break is going to be painful ...
1 Comments, 30 Views,
9 Votes
,3.43 Score |
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Why is it difficult to break-up? 7/8/2006
I have experienced many relationships, however, breaking
up was so difficult. I've been insulted, stalked,
and shamed. For example, I discovered that my last x-girlfriend
was a bad person, dancing, love affairs...etc. She had
so many affairs with friends and neighbors it was an insulting
and disrespectful relationship. I tried to break-up respectfully,
but she spit in my face, and kicked me ...
0 Comments, 283 Views,
11 Votes
,3.73 Score |
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date 7/3/2006
I think the reason why sites like this exist is that all people
search for love and peace. They are doing mistakes thats
right but this mistakes shows us we are all human and nobody
is perfect. No one likes to get hurt. Thats why falling in
love is so difficult.
1 Comments, 68 Views,
6 Votes
,3.08 Score |
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Don't Date A Married Men 6/30/2006
This is just an opinion and suggestion. Dating married
(unavailable) men is not only a waste of time, but also it
is dishonest and stupid. Some women feel it is better than
dating no one, some find the very wrongness and danger of
it fun and exciting, and some hang on to the hope that one
day the men will leave their wives for them.
When you date a married man, you basically spend ...
5 Comments, 118 Views,
16 Votes
,5.63 Score |
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Love Is A Decision 6/30/2006
I personaly believe that love is a decision. I admit that
it is tough to have to exert willpower and determination
to love someone. It is so much easier when love flows naturally.
However, I learned a long time ago that most people, including
me, go through times when we are not very lovable. We get
beaten up by stress, discouraged by our lack of success,
overburdened by work, ...
3 Comments, 81 Views,
12 Votes
,4.39 Score |
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I ,,,LIED 6/27/2006
There is the fellow I know who is trying to get me to meet his
sister. Now we have a lot of the same freinds. A couple of
them told me she isn't a bad person but she is really
really heavy and is missing a few teeth. She doesn't
take care of herself. So I have made every excuse in the world
not to meet her.
Well one day we are all going over to a friends house to play
cards and he ...
3 Comments, 57 Views,
5 Votes
,3.14 Score |
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Forgiveness II: In Restoration 6/11/2006
I have had great deal of input prior to putting up this blog
issue. I do want to expand a little on the issue of unconditional
forgiveness, I am going ot tell you why as human being it
simply doesn't exist.
Think about human relationships for a moment their complexities
and dynamics, no doubt two people, two lovers, two friends
over the course of time will experience conflict ...
1 Comments, 34 Views,
4 Votes
,2.08 Score |
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10 Signs It`s Time to break Up 6/1/2006
10. You no longer look forward to spending time alone with
your partner. You may still have a good sex life (or not!)
but actually talking to your partner seems like a chore.
If spending time alone with your partner seems like a prison
sentence you may be up for a parole.
9. You begin comparing your partner to others. This is particularly
true when other people seem more ...
1 Comments, 119 Views,
23 Votes
,5.93 Score |
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"LOSS" The DVD: "Memoirs of a GEISHSA" 5/29/2006
Regarding the DVD "Memoirs of a GEISHSA"
and how it relates to personal LOSS.
I had to place the DVD on pause for a while in order to write
what I feel here in this article. Some of what I am about to
say here fits with my own personal experience, while in
a relationship with a lady from Japan, while I was 26 years
of age till age 30.
What made me pause the DVD & ...
2 Comments, 93 Views,
14 Votes
,3.46 Score |
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date 5/29/2006
he pomiss me but he don't come
2 Comments, 94 Views,
5 Votes
,0.21 Score |
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