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ongmcg 61 M
2  Articles
My Girlfriend cheated on me   5/28/2006

I gave her everything - car, condo, school and for a while she said she love me. However, slowly I notice - she was spending more and more time on phone and do suspecious things like - going for sliming session at 10 pm at night. <br> I found out - and told her I know... actually found out she was planning to go to China to work and earn money... <br> I asked her to ...


11 Comments, 1305 Views, 49 Votes ,2.82 Score
ThomasPhD 56 M
124  Articles
Surviving The Break Up for Ladies   5/9/2006

Surviving the Breakup of A Relationship <br> The breakup of an important love relationship is the most traumatic of human experiences and we have all suffered through at least one I am sure. <br> In many ways we can more easily cope with the death of a loved one. Although we don't understand death, at least we understand its finality. <br> With the breakup of a ...


12 Comments, 250 Views, 19 Votes ,5.76 Score
ThomasPhD 56 M
124  Articles
REJECTION creates INTERNET STALKERS   5/1/2006

It is really creepy, frustrating and violating when someone stalks you over the internet. Why do they do it mostly? REJECTION Rejection is something that is part of life, and we all have been rejected at some point in ourlives. Either the gal or the guy turned us down one to many times. Or we didn't get the job and the other girl or guy did instead of us. People are paying ...


4 Comments, 145 Views, 16 Votes ,3.72 Score
WisemanPhD 56 M
124  Articles
LOVE is the LAST CHARACTERISTIC NEEDED in a RELATIONSHIP   4/30/2006

CHARACTERISTIC
• adjective typical of a particular person, place, or thing. • noun a feature or quality typical of a person, place, or thing.
-The Compact Oxford English Dictionary
Many people have problems if their relationships because they place love before above everything else. It is a nice ...


3 Comments, 107 Views, 17 Votes ,4.96 Score
kim_shen14344 43 F
14  Articles
its hurting   4/24/2006

i ben in love with some1, , i know his in love with me, , but only the problem is wer far from each other..we only together for 3 days, , then wen he go bck then he told me its better we stop our relationship cuz he cant come back to me anymore...is this all i can get after loving him?now im scared to feel in love...


6 Comments, 456 Views, 38 Votes ,2.91 Score
elisa1 39 F
7  Articles
Why is it so hard?   4/22/2006

Why is it so hard to break up a relationship? I've had a few shares of relationships where I dumped men, but on many occasions, it seemed to be the other way around. During those moments when people break up with me, I feel: <br> 1) Insecure 2) I go through about 3 months of depression (Minimum) 3) I can't concentrate on school or work 4) I get into arguments with my family ...


3 Comments, 167 Views, 16 Votes ,4.16 Score
ThomasPhD 56 M
124  Articles
Dare I Forgive!   4/22/2006

Jesus said to turn the other cheek <br> He also said to forgive 7 times 70 <br> Easy for Him to say <br> He was God <br> Or at least the of God <br> <br> <br> How do I get to the place <br> Where I forgive those <br> Who disrespect me and malign me <br> Those who could care less about my feelings ...


12 Comments, 130 Views, 10 Votes ,3.39 Score
WisemanPhD 56 M
124  Articles
Chinese Proverb   4/19/2006

A fool judges people by the presents they give him.


4 Comments, 107 Views, 11 Votes ,1.86 Score
holywoodsman 109 M
11  Articles
BE GOOD ANYWAY   4/17/2006

"People are often unreasonable, illogical, and self-centered, Forgive them anyway.
If you are kind, people may accuse you of selfish, ulterior motives; Be kind anyway.
If you are successful, you will win some false friends and some true enemies. Succeed anyway.
If you are honest and frank, people may cheat you. Be honest and frank anyway.
...


1 Comments, 100 Views, 7 Votes ,3.04 Score
ThomasPhD 56 M
124  Articles
Why do we SUFFER?   3/15/2006

I am a Buddhist and I believe that suffering comes from several things. <br> A. Ignorance of the mind: Meaning the mind is deluded into thinking that something is true and it is in fact not. Lack of insight or enlightenment can cause us to have false beliefs, which causes us suffering. I will give you one example that is very easy to understand and almost everyone can relate to ...


13 Comments, 227 Views, 9 Votes ,3.00 Score
ThomasPhD 56 M
124  Articles
SUICIDE   3/9/2006

My lover is the enemy, and at once, my greatest friend. But she did many times betrayed me with my dear and bestest friend. They also planned to kill me, but their plan did not succeed. Don't worry I will help you to my girl and bestest friend, I'll plan my death myself, and put this to an end. <br> You can put your plots and plans, back up onto the shelf, because I'll do ...


9 Comments, 156 Views, 9 Votes ,2.14 Score
ThomasPhD 56 M
124  Articles
Some Unexpected Consequences of CHEATING???   3/8/2006

CAN YOU AFFORD THE PRICE OF INFIDELITY? If you have been following the business news lately, you could not have missed the story about the CEO of a huge airplane manufacturer being forced to resign after an anonymous tip that he was having an affair with another employee. <br> This is a perfect example of the high price of infidelity. Here is a man with a high profile, ...


12 Comments, 113 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
ThomasPhD 56 M
124  Articles
Knowing WHEN & HOW to Break Up   3/8/2006

Everyone knows that the break-up of a relationship is emotionally difficult for both parties. There is no easy way to break up with someone, and some will avoid it at all costs. We have even created several stages of being broken up just to avoid those dreaded words. Couples go on "breaks, " "take some time apart, " "see other people, " and "give each other some room." There are also ...


10 Comments, 140 Views, 6 Votes ,3.65 Score
ThomasPhD 56 M
124  Articles
Changing Your Identity to Avoid Crazy Ex-Spouses!   3/8/2006

4 Different Ways to Change Your Identity This information is intended to help people with the following or similar problems and do not encourage people to use this information to become a professional scam artist, or the evade personal responsibilities in their lives. Intended for people with the following problems. Help individuals escape from vindictive ex-spouses, ...


7 Comments, 127 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
ThomasPhD 56 M
124  Articles
The difficulty in remaining friends after a breakup.......   3/1/2006

(Q)What happens when one person loves the other person more? (A)The person who loves less will be in control of the relationship, therfore, find someone who loves you equally. <br> (Q)What happens if one person happens to be more of a taker than a giver? (A)Then the giver will eventually fell victimized or feel that the relationship is unfair. Thus, avoid selfish partners. ...


3 Comments, 140 Views, 9 Votes ,4.07 Score
ThomasPhD 56 M
124  Articles
REASON, SEASON or a LIFETIME   3/1/2006

People come into your life for a REASON, a SEASON, or a LIFETIME. When you figure out which it is, you know exactly what to do. <br> When someone has come into your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed outwardly or inwardly. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, ...


7 Comments, 150 Views, 8 Votes ,3.94 Score
mishy5 38 F
17  Articles
HoW tO GeT oVeR LoVe...   2/24/2006

5. Say GOODBYE, ,, but never say HELLo again... <br> 4. FORGET but never REGRET.. <br> 3. Pick up the PIECES OF YOUR HEART but never put the BACK. <br> 2. FEEL the pain, but never KEEP it. <br> 1. MOVE ON!


2 Comments, 94 Views, 8 Votes ,0.93 Score
speedscenetv 54 M
10  Articles
Break Up Lines..   2/18/2006

I have heard a lot of pick up lines.. some famous, some not.. but I was wondering.. what type of lines have you gotten yourself, used yourself, or have heard from other people that have been used to get out of a relationship? I'm sure there are some type of reason or excuse that some people give others when they break up.. What are they? Oh, and please say if they came from a girl or a guy ...


0 Comments, 49 Views, 4 Votes ,2.86 Score
my2bigeyes 40 F
1  Article
not in love with u   2/15/2006

dear, i no longer have feelings for you a thousand times you promise will not do any good i will still not love you <br> you ask me to forgive you a million times i will forgive but its not the question <br> love no longer binds us together so why should we carry on further we have shared the good times and the bad <br> each time i started trusting you ...


0 Comments, 105 Views, 10 Votes ,3.39 Score
speedscenetv 54 M
10  Articles
Going Back In Time..   2/12/2006

If you ever broke up with a guy or a girl in your life (in the past).. and you could go back in time to change something that you said or did during that break up moment, explain to us what that would be and why would you choose that act to go back and change? <br> I find answers interesting because it can help others in thinking about the actions they take with others in ...


0 Comments, 84 Views, 3 Votes ,2.94 Score
yayaland 35 F
4  Articles
sad   2/11/2006

broke up with him almost 2 years..hehe...still can't release myself. i raelly wanna being my new life. However, can't. just afraid to love..help!!!


3 Comments, 169 Views, 12 Votes ,3.86 Score
holywoodsman 109 M
11  Articles
for you !   1/31/2006

This is for my AFF friends, The ones I oh so love. The ones that God has sent, The angels from above. I hope you all know who you are, Every single one of you. I just wanted to thank you all, For helping me to get through. <br> All of you are so dear to me, You've all been ever so kind. <br> <br> You'll all be in my heart And forever on my mind. Thank ...


1 Comments, 66 Views, 3 Votes ,1.96 Score
_Webo_ 50 M
1  Article
Why?   1/30/2006

I have been chatting with a girl that I tought was the one for almost 1 month and everything was going fine. We use webcam and sometimes we chat very long time, the most was 8.5 houes. From the start she has said that she would move to Sweden if we where right for each other. We started to talk about all kind of relationship things and was getting very close. i was clearly ...


3 Comments, 150 Views, 5 Votes ,3.47 Score
koko200026 43 F
1  Article
I am confuse   1/27/2006

After 4 months chat, we considerate meet in person at another country, And we did. He such nice like a gentel, he try his best for company with me while stay there.But I am extreme confuse that he is not as same as while talk in internet . I mean when meet in real he perfer treat me like a friend, like talk with me, like just share things toghter, but he refuse treat me as a gf, Even he ...


4 Comments, 396 Views, 18 Votes ,2.85 Score
WhAtSoUnD 48 F
9  Articles
You came too late.   1/21/2006

The hardest things I have done with a man who I once was in madly love with. By put two cards down on the table, (not in action) for him to make a choice in order to put our minds at peace for once of all. He choose the first one to be with someone else to keep from hurting me more. It was a magic moment, I smiled at him and said "Thank you for thinking to stop hurting me so much.". But it ...


1 Comments, 115 Views, 6 Votes ,3.37 Score
breakthru4u 70 M
1  Article
EASY WAY OUT   1/15/2006

this is something that i failed to do in the past.i could never face up to telling that person , it's over. always by email, like a DEAR JOHN letter, the easy way out.the last woman was pissed off, but i didn't care because i was going back with my old girlfriend.the things that i had left at her house, i told her to throw out.i didn't want to go back over there.i could just imagine what ...


0 Comments, 139 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
cuteblackchickny 58 F
4  Articles
when it is over..IT IS OVER....   12/20/2005

after spending alot of time with that "someone special". who was able to but those wonderful butterflies in your stomach..give u a reason for waking everyone morning..the one u could not wait to make passionater love to every single moment of the day...and then have all come to a HUGE HALT..yessssssssssssss..it HURTS...PAINFUL...OUCHHHHHH...u actually feel a lump in ur stomach..u cannot eat ...


0 Comments, 206 Views, 6 Votes ,2.51 Score
Putri26 45 F
5  Articles
Hold on   12/13/2005

I hold on - I hold on even thought I try to let go, of life... Reacting miserably to the torrent of PAIN & Loneliness that seem to control my life & Smite my happiness untill my Heart is Broken & In exile - Banished away to the darkness within me That I loathe - I Hold on for another night & I Fight - Hoping & Praying for a tomorrow that will bring me TRUE LOVE, Devotion & Happiness - And ...


0 Comments, 831 Views, 15 Votes ,2.82 Score
kittykittykitty7 54 F
2  Articles
My first true love   12/13/2005

He is someone I never dated but the first one I truly loved. He is someone from the university I went to. He is a very shy guy with a cute, sweet smile and because of his shyness, he usually kinda looked at his toes when he smiled at me. Maybe it is this shyness that attracted me to him. I have always liked shy guys: the kind that will try to look away the moment our eyes meet, the kind ...


3 Comments, 186 Views, 23 Votes ,3.83 Score
kiethley 43 F
39  Articles
To the ONE Who broke my Heart...   12/13/2005

Please don't think I'm immature if I can't work on being friends with you anymore, although I know it was I who wanted to nurture the friendship in the first place. I have decided that I don't want to have any kind of connection with you. Let me make it clear that I'm not angry with you because you left me. <br> <br> Why should I force myself on someone who doesn't ...


2 Comments, 430 Views, 33 Votes ,6.08 Score