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Japak 48 M
1  Article
Was I used, Was my partner trying not to be brutally honest?   2/22/2005

This week my partner Told me he is leaving me. Nearly three years I tried so hard to hold the realtionship together. Because we were from different countries I know it was hard for him, but it was harder for me to spend everything I had to set up our flat and pay for his education since he was in my country on a student visa. So everything depended on my paying large fees until we could ...


1 Comments, 2812 Views, 2 Votes ,1.73 Score
VeryHandsomeCdn 58 M
12  Articles
Hang Tough Jilted lovers   7/30/2005

Cry, whine, call them, stalk them, threaten to kill yourself or better still do it that'll show 'em. Don't let go, live in the past, stay in denial, Don't ever leave'm, Don't make a decision. worry constantly what to do. ask/listen to everyone but do nothing. Be afraid very afraid to be alone. Remember there will NEVER be another person. Turn to booze/drugs or better still religion the ...


0 Comments, 1427 Views, 15 Votes ,0.53 Score
ongmcg 61 M
2  Articles
My Girlfriend cheated on me   5/28/2006

I gave her everything - car, condo, school and for a while she said she love me. However, slowly I notice - she was spending more and more time on phone and do suspecious things like - going for sliming session at 10 pm at night. <br> I found out - and told her I know... actually found out she was planning to go to China to work and earn money... <br> I asked her to ...


11 Comments, 1305 Views, 49 Votes ,2.82 Score
creamykitten 38 F
3  Articles
HOW TO BREAK UP WITH SOMEONE YOU ARE NOT REALLY WITH!!!   10/30/2007

Okay now what!!! I dated this guy "one" time. No sex involved but a little kissing and petting and now he thinks we are a couple. I have told him I am not really interested but he keeps calling and send me cards. He does not seem to get it and is apparently obsessed with me. What should I do? Thanks.


39 Comments, 1297 Views, 95 Votes ,2.89 Score
CYL_Jocelyn 50 F
6  Articles
the First Love....(1)   3/6/2005

After graduating from high school, I was 18 years old. I liked to write essays and poems at that time. All were sentimental, though I had never experience love and romantic things. Maybe it was because I never felt being loved and wanted to be loved. <br> One day, my friend borrowed my newly-written essay to read and showed it to her boyfriend. And her bf showed it to his ...


3 Comments, 1115 Views, 20 Votes ,6.44 Score
faithreflection 61 F
2  Articles
about age   11/24/2006

I don't know why some older men who prefer to covering their real age, some gap covered is almost ten years. Most of people don't have a photo posted. For those people, should we be aware of their intention?


3 Comments, 997 Views, 18 Votes ,1.35 Score
Putri26 45 F
5  Articles
Hold on   12/13/2005

I hold on - I hold on even thought I try to let go, of life... Reacting miserably to the torrent of PAIN & Loneliness that seem to control my life & Smite my happiness untill my Heart is Broken & In exile - Banished away to the darkness within me That I loathe - I Hold on for another night & I Fight - Hoping & Praying for a tomorrow that will bring me TRUE LOVE, Devotion & Happiness - And ...


0 Comments, 831 Views, 15 Votes ,2.82 Score
sungodesstemple 55 F
1  Article
Wanted to stay friends but had to cut it.   9/16/2006

He was suddenly with someone else! I cried buckets and it hurt for over 9 months. But he is that kind of guy. Stay for awhile, very nice, very sensual, then he start to flirt and sexually touch other women in front of me. Then gone. Ok, I was stupid. He called me after he was gone wanting to talk but hurt me more after he talk about his latest girl. So I cut it off. So that I could ...


1 Comments, 579 Views, 7 Votes ,3.04 Score
zoyean 42 F
4  Articles
A sadness travel   2/23/2005

We've walked on the avenue hand by hand Wispered on the seaside I'm like a fish, you're the sea We shared the happiness and the sadness <br> But the world changed, all get stranged I couldn't hear you call my name with the flowers, coming to see you the road is so long, I hold the flowers so long forever, so long forever you come prsence, shaking your hand ...


1 Comments, 537 Views, 40 Votes
CYL_Jocelyn 50 F
6  Articles
the Second Love...(2)   8/1/2005

I went to Guangdong before and saw all walks of life. I saw rich men abandoned their families to live with mistresses outside. These facts together with the lesson of my failed first love made me to revise my standard of choosing bf: 1. He must be older than me; 2. He shouldn't be a rich man. <br> We met when one of my friends invited me to his birthday party. He was invited. He ...


0 Comments, 536 Views, 34 Votes ,7.10 Score
OnNewPlanet 54 M
46  Articles
PROXEMICS. . . .?   2/19/2005

On behalf of my last Advice Line Question : WHEN A WOMAN LIKES YOU HER PUPILS WILL DILATE WHEN SHE LOOKS AT YOU . . .
Iwould like to know if anyone know about PROXEMICS.
thanks


1 Comments, 497 Views, 9 Votes ,1.72 Score
Putri26 45 F
5  Articles
dont run!!!   2/13/2005

To run away from the pain would be bliss. To be free of the worries would be great. But to be free from everything you've know and everything you are is hell. Not knowing what to do once you've broken thru it all. Seeing all the sea of faces wondering where the hell you belong now. Live with the comfort that when there was pain there was a place.


0 Comments, 486 Views, 9 Votes ,3.85 Score
tart_monkey 49 F
1  Article
dumping the guy   2/23/2005

Never over the phone, never at a party, never anywhere where his mom can hear you. (trust me on this)


1 Comments, 475 Views, 53 Votes ,3.73 Score
kiethley 43 F
39  Articles
six BIGGEST mistakes we make in the beginning of a relationship   3/23/2005

1. We don't ask enough questions. 2. We ignore warning signs of potential problems. 3. We make premature compromises. 4. We give in to Lust Blindness. 5. We give in to material seduction. 6. We put Commitment Before Compatibility.


3 Comments, 471 Views, 31 Votes ,5.54 Score
sweetieguard0 59 F
11  Articles
We Are Blessed   11/24/2006

*If you woke up this morning with more health than illness, you are more blessed than the million people who will not survive the week.
* If you have never experienced the danger of battle, the loneliness of imprisonment, the agony of torture or the pangs of starvation, you are ahead of 500 million people around the world.
*If you attend a church ...



11 Comments, 468 Views, 21 Votes ,6.10 Score
Putri26 45 F
5  Articles
thread of life   2/19/2005

Sometime I feel like it would be easy for me...so easy for me to let go of the thread, the THREAD of life from which i hang...To just let it go there would be no more pain & loneliness, no more hope & no more dream...NOTHING


1 Comments, 468 Views, 5 Votes ,1.51 Score
kim_shen14344 43 F
14  Articles
its hurting   4/24/2006

i ben in love with some1, , i know his in love with me, , but only the problem is wer far from each other..we only together for 3 days, , then wen he go bck then he told me its better we stop our relationship cuz he cant come back to me anymore...is this all i can get after loving him?now im scared to feel in love...


6 Comments, 456 Views, 38 Votes ,2.91 Score
kiethley 43 F
39  Articles
Seven Wrong Reasons to be in a Relationship   4/26/2005

1. Pressure (age, family, friends, etc.) 2. Loneliness and desperation 3. Sexual hunger 4. Distraction from your own life 5. To avoid growing up 6. Guilt 7. To fill up your emotional or spiritual emptiness.


3 Comments, 446 Views, 22 Votes ,4.21 Score
Putri26 45 F
5  Articles
Happiness   5/30/2005

I know that this sounds a bit RUDE -- because we are human; and we interact with other humans -- find pleasure in them AND pain; and many, many other things. Yet, when we, as humans TRULY REALIZE that WE ARE THE MASTERS OF OURSELVES, THAT WE ARE THE CAUSE OF *EVERYTHING* THAT HAPPENS TO US, *THAT WE CREATE OURSELVES AND HOW WE FEEL*; AND WHEN *WE CHOOSE* (*note: the KEY word here is ...


2 Comments, 440 Views, 21 Votes ,4.86 Score
stratoca7144 56 M
8  Articles
After the breakup... surviving loss.   8/4/2005

No doubt if you have had a recent breakup you are beginning to experience some of the "Oh wow what now?" that attends a relationships end. It's never really the end of the relationship that causes these feelings you understand, but it's the surfacing of all the emotions, expressed and those unexpressed that were not fullfilled during the relationship, perhaps during the first couple of ...


2 Comments, 435 Views, 7 Votes ,5.59 Score
kiethley 43 F
39  Articles
To the ONE Who broke my Heart...   12/13/2005

Please don't think I'm immature if I can't work on being friends with you anymore, although I know it was I who wanted to nurture the friendship in the first place. I have decided that I don't want to have any kind of connection with you. Let me make it clear that I'm not angry with you because you left me. <br> <br> Why should I force myself on someone who doesn't ...


2 Comments, 430 Views, 33 Votes ,6.08 Score
ameriken 65 M
13  Articles
More on how to respond when she walks out on you.....   4/17/2005

I remember when my wife left me, it was the end of my world. Poor response. <br> A counselor told me... <br> "Look, there are soldiers dying in Iraq so people could have the very thing that your wife just gave you" <br> "What is that" I asked. <br> He responded "Freedom! Now go out, get a life, and enjoy the freedom your wife just gave you, ...


2 Comments, 414 Views, 11 Votes ,2.79 Score
ARASIANGUY 49 M
3  Articles
Break up and Move on   9/24/2005

Breaking up is not easy. Many of you, including myself has experienced this heart aching, knife cutting pain. <br> The result of breaking up usually are either happy or sad, or indifferent. But no matter what kind of feeling you may bear, if it is over, then it is over. <br> We shall keep the best memroy, nice experience and move on. It is part of the life experience. ...


1 Comments, 403 Views, 14 Votes ,4.42 Score
koko200026 43 F
1  Article
I am confuse   1/27/2006

After 4 months chat, we considerate meet in person at another country, And we did. He such nice like a gentel, he try his best for company with me while stay there.But I am extreme confuse that he is not as same as while talk in internet . I mean when meet in real he perfer treat me like a friend, like talk with me, like just share things toghter, but he refuse treat me as a gf, Even he ...


4 Comments, 396 Views, 18 Votes ,2.85 Score
jinshyodoru 39 F
1  Article
Learning to leave love   2/23/2005

I believed that everyone had pondered about love at least once in their life. Its mere existence complicates everything there is about life. To me, love is beautiful, bitter, sweet and every bit as painful. <br> I met my ex last summer and although initially I was taken by his good looks, I learned to love him as I start to see all sides of him. From the very first day we met, ...


1 Comments, 396 Views, 41 Votes ,5.20 Score
Ha88y 66 M
4  Articles
What do I do with all the sh_t?   5/1/2005

After the bombs stop falling and the smoke clears, what do you do with all the sh_t? <br> I have closests, drawers and cabinets full of clothes, bags, shoes, and junk. So being the "gutless bastard" I am, I pack all the "stuff" and put it into storage. Or course, the storage cost eventually exceeds the value of the "stuff", but I keep paying in the hopes that she will claim ...


2 Comments, 391 Views, 6 Votes ,1.09 Score
areyouserious 62 M
2  Articles
Bad Pictures   6/7/2005

I am just writing to vent.... I WISH this site would review pics more closely and inform the contributor that they ought to submit a better pic. I am SOOO tired of pics that are like Travel scenes; a whole landscape scene and there in the middle, is a little iddy-biddy person that you can't even tell if they are male of female. The pic was taken when they are 50 feet from the camera. ...


0 Comments, 387 Views, 11 Votes ,2.98 Score
heresloveforyou 53 F
1  Article
Is it love, or typical Internet story? ----My Sweet Pain.   2/23/2005

It was a Sunday morning; I took a break as usual at 9am during the study in library, and surfed Internet for fun. I admitted that was a very nice picture, the great smile lighten my mind at once, the boy in the picture looked health, happy, his eyes shining with pure sights. Just looked at this face, could easily get a good mood. SO I wanted to have a try, dropped him a line, I believed ...


1 Comments, 368 Views, 458 Votes ,9.64 Score
holywoodsman 109 M
11  Articles
What are some good Christmas gift ideas?   2/19/2005

Christmas is the most wonderful an exciting time of the year. However, finding the perfect gifts for those hard to please people can put a damper on your holiday spirit. <br> <br> Infants <br> <br> Gift ideas for infants can include anything from clothing, toys or memorable items. <br> <br> A few suggestions include: <br> ...


1 Comments, 360 Views, 3 Votes ,5.39 Score
geanie_27 43 F
1  Article
Is it possible to love again after your heart has been broken?   1/6/2008

Is it really possible to really love again? The logical answer is YES..But why don't I feel this way?
I ask this because I went through a tough break up with someone whom I loved dearly about 7 mos ago. I feel like the flame I once had inside my heart is now out. This flame is dead...Nothing, no one, not even myself seems to make me truly happy.
Is this like a phase I'll ...


8 Comments, 358 Views, 29 Votes ,3.34 Score
132304300 51 F
3  Articles
The best way to forget the one we love   9/24/2005

To date someone new as soon as possible is the best way to forget the one we love...Is this the best way?


2 Comments, 348 Views, 80 Votes ,0.46 Score
Michael-Mac 62 M
9  Articles
Our human spirit   4/5/2005

A short article by Sssarah caught my attention and when she wrote - The days we stayed together are unforgettable; and the days we are apart are much more ... - it made me think! What she wrote is true. We tend to remember the sadness rather than the joy, the bad times rather than the good, the tears rather than the laughter. Is there something in our human spirit that dictates we ...


1 Comments, 336 Views, 12 Votes ,2.62 Score
bluesky20031 64 F
3  Articles
Be a little bit philosophical   2/3/2008

I realise most people who come in here have some personal issues to deal with. But if you try to be a bit philosophical about the relationships you will be a much happier person. Sometimes there are just no "whys" in life, just "is". Trying to rationalise the emotional issues simply makes you more depressed. So, just accept the outcome and move on, take the "whatever will be will be" ...


1 Comments, 314 Views, 8 Votes ,2.32 Score
doudou_de2 63 F
14  Articles
who can tell me what i should do ?   2/22/2005

I am so like tell you my story and let someone give me the good advice, what I should do to keep my heart to be peace again!!


2 Comments, 312 Views, 3 Votes ,0.98 Score
laughnplay 50 M
1  Article
Surviving infidelity   10/27/2005

I still remember so vividly the moment it was clear my love was involved with another man. Although I saw all the warning signs, I ignored them. How could this woman I've known for so long be unfaithful? We share a beautiful , are blessed with loving families, she was a religious woman, and had strong financial security (both of us being physicians) and lifelong plans. Why would anyone want ...


1 Comments, 311 Views, 14 Votes ,6.02 Score
1sexyaznhunny 37 F
1  Article
Trying To Get Rid of the Pain   9/17/2005

How is it possible to try and get rid of the pain of a 6 year relationship? I just got out of one because i moved to Vancouver, Canada. And i was living in Edmonton, Alberta before. I cant handle ling distance relationships? Who can right? How can they relief the pain that you get when you are madly in love with someone and you cant love someone until if anoher person swept you off your ...


1 Comments, 308 Views, 13 Votes ,3.98 Score
MrStan 58 M
74  Articles
You can't change your intimate partners behavior   2/21/2007

I will tell you a story that will perhaps ring a bell with some people who have experienced this. The story of the FROG & the SCORPION Note: The frog can be either female or male and the scorpion can also be either male or female, for they may represent some of our past or current partners.
The ...


19 Comments, 296 Views, 20 Votes ,3.76 Score
kikaida42 63 M
2  Articles
Why is it difficult to break-up?   7/8/2006

I have experienced many relationships, however, breaking up was so difficult. I've been insulted, stalked, and shamed. For example, I discovered that my last x-girlfriend was a bad person, dancing, love affairs...etc. She had so many affairs with friends and neighbors it was an insulting and disrespectful relationship. I tried to break-up respectfully, but she spit in my face, and kicked me ...


0 Comments, 283 Views, 11 Votes ,3.73 Score
guanxiaorui2 62 M
1  Article
to marry a foreign   5/29/2007

What does a chinese girl think about of marry a foreign?


6 Comments, 275 Views, 11 Votes ,0.55 Score
draco5858 54 M
2  Articles
How to break free?   12/24/2008

I was in a relationship for 2.5 years. It was really the first one where I gave everything to make it work, because it was the first one I really seriously wanted to work. She's a lovely chinese girl and I gave her a lot, both emotionally and materially, because I wanted to! She was a good partner and also made some sacrifices for me, but ultimately it didn't work. Why? <br> Well, ...


6 Comments, 269 Views, 7 Votes ,1.77 Score
ameriken 65 M
13  Articles
What do you do when she walks out on you?   5/17/2005

Yes, I have been victim to this. When a women packs her bags and leaves you, I have heard two ways as to how the man can respond to this. <br> One, send her flowers, tell her how much you love her, 'chase' her to show her you really do love her, write her a poem, etc. <br> From all that I have heard, and from my own experience, this never works, and only leaves the ...


4 Comments, 268 Views, 11 Votes ,4.10 Score
LovelyTune2003 57 F
3  Articles
RE: TO move on or to hold on ...   2/25/2005

I was negatively impressed by the tone of this breaking-up article, because it is somewhat pretentious and not completely honest. I don't know whether it is easier to leave someone than to be left! But there is a saying in a foreign language that says that when you want to get rid of your dog, you say it had rage. It would be more honest to say, one had to break because one were not ...


1 Comments, 268 Views, 9 Votes ,3.64 Score
Ha88y 66 M
4  Articles
My War Story   3/18/2005

How do you end a relationship with someone you love? <br> Yes, we've all gone through this at one time or another. Sometimes by our own doing and at other times as the victim. My most recent was the most painful of all. After nine years of slamming my head against a concrete wall, I finally said enough and got a restraining order and kicked out my ex. She was beautiful ...


1 Comments, 265 Views, 8 Votes ,4.17 Score
meriyaa 40 F
3  Articles
no title   6/19/2009

When you meet relationship problems, remember to " follow your head rather than your heart". 1) Try not to be a success, but rather, become a man of value. 2)Education, therefore, is a process of living and not a prrparation for future living. 3)These days, people seek knowledge, not wisdom, knowledge is of the past, wisdom is of the future. 4)Patience and perseverance have a magical ...


0 Comments, 259 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
draco5858 54 M
2  Articles
What on earth do women want?   9/16/2007

I've notice so many women on AFF write that they are looking for Mr. Right, their prince, knight, Adam, or something like that. Mainly they say that this perfect guy will do everything for them and treat them like a princess. Well, I really do wonder about that and I'd like some opinions, especially from those women. <br> You see, when you talk with other women, they say they will ...


6 Comments, 253 Views, 11 Votes ,3.17 Score
ThomasPhD 56 M
124  Articles
Surviving The Break Up for Ladies   5/9/2006

Surviving the Breakup of A Relationship <br> The breakup of an important love relationship is the most traumatic of human experiences and we have all suffered through at least one I am sure. <br> In many ways we can more easily cope with the death of a loved one. Although we don't understand death, at least we understand its finality. <br> With the breakup of a ...


12 Comments, 250 Views, 19 Votes ,5.76 Score
Babylonchina 45 F
2  Articles
Both forget and remember when love fail   1/6/2008

Now comes the time, goodbye love one more thing to tell before I leave, I'll both forget and memory save.
I'll forget how you leave me alone, in darkness no one hear me groan; how you walk away and slam the door, smiles on your face I see no more; to my tears you give silence in return, let alone cold words on my heart burn; ...


4 Comments, 247 Views, 34 Votes ,3.42 Score
kiethley 43 F
39  Articles
After An Affair Steps to take so you can find each other again...   5/24/2005

Can the heart ever trust again after it has been crushed? Can a couple look at this time as a way of becoming even closer than they had ever been? Can there be romance after an affair? If both parties concerned are willing to work it out, the answers to these questions are, "Yes!" In an age where the chances of getting a divorce are higher than staying together, the likelihood of infidelity ...


1 Comments, 247 Views, 36 Votes ,4.62 Score
1974soulsearcher 43 M
3  Articles
they say time will heal the hurt inside   8/29/2006

I've always heard that time will heal a broken heart, and the pain that comes with it, but I'd have to say prove it. I feel the hurt all the time when I think about everything that we did and shared. There were happy times even though very few. My heart begins to hurt when the memories come flashing by. They say it can take days, months, or even years to get over the hurt. But I think the ...


0 Comments, 246 Views, 10 Votes ,2.79 Score
Jalo05 53 F
4  Articles
Signs of Cheating   12/7/2007

Have you ever caught your partner cheating?

If not, then what are the signs that he/she's cheating on you?

Are you still willing to give him a second chance to improve and change?

If there's no hope to give it one more try, what's your next move?


22 Comments, 230 Views, 12 Votes ,4.92 Score
luckynumber00 40 M
2  Articles
here   7/30/2005

Breaking up is best done quickly. There is no reason to drag it out and make it longer than it has to be. Life is too short to waste time with someone you don't want to be with. On the other hand even if I was in that situation I would want the girl I liked to break up with me quickly.


1 Comments, 230 Views, 8 Votes ,2.32 Score
ThomasPhD 56 M
124  Articles
Why do we SUFFER?   3/15/2006

I am a Buddhist and I believe that suffering comes from several things. <br> A. Ignorance of the mind: Meaning the mind is deluded into thinking that something is true and it is in fact not. Lack of insight or enlightenment can cause us to have false beliefs, which causes us suffering. I will give you one example that is very easy to understand and almost everyone can relate to ...


13 Comments, 227 Views, 9 Votes ,3.00 Score
Assasinator 35 F
1  Article
Over, done, the end   9/24/2005

I usually get over it becuase life is too short to fulfill my dream. Why should i be suffered? Generally i just kept myself busy and persuit my career. Many fishes in the sea... One person doesn't make a different in my world.


0 Comments, 221 Views, 3 Votes ,3.43 Score
dragonheart2002 53 M
1  Article
Had a girlfriend who called me to break up?   9/24/2005

Was this the right thing to do? This ws just after we spent the weekend together and she left out of town after I paid for her plane tickets etc.... <br> She was a student, butn i told it was tacky. she said "what does this have to do with fashion?" <br> <br> =)


1 Comments, 219 Views, 47 Votes ,0.98 Score
MrStan 58 M
74  Articles
"Forgiveness: Giving up all hope for a better past."   3/7/2007

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17 Comments, 217 Views, 18 Votes ,4.63 Score
esprit44 40 M
3  Articles
People 24/24H on asianfind.com   1/12/2007

Why some members(usually over 40)seem to spend all days long adding/answering articles. Do you have nothing else to do than spending all day on your computer? Don't you have a wife and to take care of? Are you not bored of that routine? Don't you have a job? I think you should have a break and breathe fresh air because when I read some of your articles they are pointless, no interest to ...


5 Comments, 208 Views, 14 Votes ,3.30 Score
cuteblackchickny 58 F
4  Articles
when it is over..IT IS OVER....   12/20/2005

after spending alot of time with that "someone special". who was able to but those wonderful butterflies in your stomach..give u a reason for waking everyone morning..the one u could not wait to make passionater love to every single moment of the day...and then have all come to a HUGE HALT..yessssssssssssss..it HURTS...PAINFUL...OUCHHHHHH...u actually feel a lump in ur stomach..u cannot eat ...


0 Comments, 206 Views, 6 Votes ,2.51 Score
liqiufan1968 52 F
2  Articles
揭露爱情骗子的骗术!!!转摘   5/24/2015

"Love liar" on this dating site is very rampant, cheating by hook or by crook. Hope that all the believers' here can understand "love liar" deception, to identify a liar deception tactics, polishing the bright eyes, to find their inner desires satisfied.

Here are some commonly used deceptive tactics: "love liar"

1, "application love liar" rhetoric, cheat feelings, used "the ...


1 Comments, 194 Views, 8 Votes ,3.25 Score
HeartDesire 60 F
2  Articles
Love & Hate   3/6/2007

There is a fine line between love and hate. Let me know what it is, please.


13 Comments, 192 Views, 24 Votes ,3.02 Score
Zenny02 57 F
3  Articles
Accept the break up   12/13/2005

It is really hard to accept the breaking up, if your really love your man.There is some people love to break the heart of a woman.Been hurt a lot of time in my life but breaking my heart is the worse.its hard to recover.Although you had new boyfriend still always the topic of the conversation.


0 Comments, 190 Views, 5 Votes ,2.16 Score
kittykittykitty7 54 F
2  Articles
My first true love   12/13/2005

He is someone I never dated but the first one I truly loved. He is someone from the university I went to. He is a very shy guy with a cute, sweet smile and because of his shyness, he usually kinda looked at his toes when he smiled at me. Maybe it is this shyness that attracted me to him. I have always liked shy guys: the kind that will try to look away the moment our eyes meet, the kind ...


3 Comments, 186 Views, 23 Votes ,3.83 Score
CheekeyMonkey 50 M
4  Articles
Just Walk Away forever or be friends?   8/29/2007

In the past, I have always been strong enough to walk away from a relationship when it was over and never look back. This means no contact forever in any shape of form and having the resolve to be consistent to this.
This approach while tough gave me the following benefits:
1) FREEDOM - No baggage for a new relationship. I was able to meet ...


7 Comments, 181 Views, 22 Votes ,4.33 Score
MrStan 58 M
74  Articles
People have trouble developing trust if they have:   12/9/2006

Experienced a great deal of emotional and/or physical abuse and/or neglect. Been chronically put down for the way they feel or for what they believe. Been emotionally hurt in the past and are not willing to risk getting hurt in the future. Had problem relationships in the past where they were belittled, misunderstood, or ignored. Experienced the ...


6 Comments, 174 Views, 14 Votes ,3.30 Score
Michael-Mac 62 M
9  Articles
What we learn   5/6/2005

You've got to be taught to be afraid Of people whose eyes are oddly made, And people whose skin is a different shade, You've got to be carefully taught.
You've got to be taught before it's too late, Before you are six or seven or eight, To hate all the people your relatives hate, You've got to be carefully taught!
The above lines are from a famous song and they ...


1 Comments, 174 Views, 8 Votes ,3.71 Score
lexxventura 48 M
2  Articles
is it possible to stay friends after the break up?   4/29/2007

I have recently gone through a break up and it was sudjsetes by her to stay friends after. I don't think this is possible to happen because we still have feelings for each other, that will always get in the way of a real friendship, not to mention that eventually we both will find new boy friends, and girlfriends that will not approve of "hanging out with the X" What do other people think ...


6 Comments, 173 Views, 30 Votes ,3.83 Score
MrStan 58 M
74  Articles
Yes most break ups are painful   8/1/2007

This pain can cause anger, emotional or physical sickness, feelings of lack of worth, deep sadness, betrayal, vulnerability, lack of feeling physically attractive or emotionally available (especially if their was infidelity involved)

I have not spoken to my ex-girlfriend for approximately 10 years when she contacted me by e-mail the other day. She lives in South Korea now and is married. ...


9 Comments, 172 Views, 16 Votes ,5.19 Score
beauty_1143 49 F
12  Articles
Sex Before Marriage Can Break a Relationship (Open for Comments)   7/19/2006

I am convinced that every person should have the opportunity to enjoy this kind of love (passionate love) at some time. There is no substitute for the deep down love that two people have for one another. However, passionate love has a way of shorting out the brain and squashing rational thought. Be reminded that i am deeply convinced that any two people who choose to marry need to ...


3 Comments, 171 Views, 23 Votes ,5.00 Score
yayaland 35 F
4  Articles
sad   2/11/2006

broke up with him almost 2 years..hehe...still can't release myself. i raelly wanna being my new life. However, can't. just afraid to love..help!!!


3 Comments, 169 Views, 12 Votes ,3.86 Score
elisa1 39 F
7  Articles
Why is it so hard?   4/22/2006

Why is it so hard to break up a relationship? I've had a few shares of relationships where I dumped men, but on many occasions, it seemed to be the other way around. During those moments when people break up with me, I feel: <br> 1) Insecure 2) I go through about 3 months of depression (Minimum) 3) I can't concentrate on school or work 4) I get into arguments with my family ...


3 Comments, 167 Views, 16 Votes ,4.16 Score
taihaole2000 51 M
1  Article
fall and break   11/17/2005

well, with my own life experience i have learned that from a good thing, we take it and enjoy it. And from a bad experience? we just learn a hell from it. it teaches us a lot about who we are, about our own weaknesses, about what we need and want from life. it teaches us how to become better people. <br> i also believe that the way we see things is very important. for instance, ...


1 Comments, 165 Views, 5 Votes ,3.80 Score
purticutegirl 44 F
2  Articles
What to do?   12/14/2006

What do you do in the situation where you have emailed and talked to someone that you think you may potentailly hit it off. Although you haven't physically met, you feel you have chemistry and a connection. For the past 2 1/2 week I have corresponded with a nice guy. Every moning and every night I would get emails from this person. We made arrangements to meet last week, however ...


8 Comments, 160 Views, 17 Votes ,2.42 Score
ThomasPhD 56 M
124  Articles
SUICIDE   3/9/2006

My lover is the enemy, and at once, my greatest friend. But she did many times betrayed me with my dear and bestest friend. They also planned to kill me, but their plan did not succeed. Don't worry I will help you to my girl and bestest friend, I'll plan my death myself, and put this to an end. <br> You can put your plots and plans, back up onto the shelf, because I'll do ...


9 Comments, 156 Views, 9 Votes ,2.14 Score
MrStan 58 M
74  Articles
UK Marriage Survey   4/14/2007

Here are some interesting marriage statistics from the UK.
Reasons for marriage breakdowns include:
27% - Adulterous behavior
18% - Family strains
17% - Emotional/physical abuse
13% - Mid-life crisis
6% - Workaholism
6% - Addictions (alcoholism, gambling, etc.)
4% - Business problems
4% - Other (communication problems, ...


11 Comments, 153 Views, 14 Votes ,4.42 Score
Kriezl 34 F
8  Articles
which is more painful, men who does the break-up or women who does it?   10/15/2009

I just want to know, which is more painful, man who does the break-up or the women who does it? thank you and cheer up!


3 Comments, 151 Views, 10 Votes ,3.19 Score
toukki 43 F
48  Articles
Is It Time For A Relationship Break?   9/3/2005

Here are some of the most common:
Things are moving too fast (or too slow) She may be pressuring you to commit way too soon. Conversely, you may be waiting for her to show signs that she's as into you as you are her. Either way, your speeds are mismatched and the longer you wait, the more apparent it becomes.


Things are getting stale The same old routine ...


1 Comments, 151 Views, 7 Votes ,3.30 Score
mybluebike 38 F
2  Articles
a dear John letter AND a dear Jane letter   4/26/2008

Dear Husband:
I'm writing you this letter to tell you that I'm leaving you for good.
I've been a good woman to you for seven years and I have nothing to show for it. These last two weeks have been hell. Your boss called to tell me that you had quit your job today and that was the last straw. Last week, you came home and didn't notice that I had gotten my hair and ...


3 Comments, 150 Views, 27 Votes ,4.71 Score
LaRhaine 47 F
1  Article
Breaking up and moving on...   11/12/2007

Breaking up is never fun. The end of a relationship means the beginning of a period of mourning and healing for both people. If the break up was mutual both people will experience a period of adjustment where they are getting used to no longer being together. If the break up was not mutual the person who ended things may be ...


3 Comments, 150 Views, 29 Votes ,5.65 Score
ThomasPhD 56 M
124  Articles
REASON, SEASON or a LIFETIME   3/1/2006

People come into your life for a REASON, a SEASON, or a LIFETIME. When you figure out which it is, you know exactly what to do. <br> When someone has come into your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed outwardly or inwardly. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, ...


7 Comments, 150 Views, 8 Votes ,3.94 Score
_Webo_ 50 M
1  Article
Why?   1/30/2006

I have been chatting with a girl that I tought was the one for almost 1 month and everything was going fine. We use webcam and sometimes we chat very long time, the most was 8.5 houes. From the start she has said that she would move to Sweden if we where right for each other. We started to talk about all kind of relationship things and was getting very close. i was clearly ...


3 Comments, 150 Views, 5 Votes ,3.47 Score
civiclifer 45 M
2  Articles
why?   3/16/2005

why do people try to make bad relationships work when its going to end in deception anyway try making a good relationship work


3 Comments, 150 Views, 7 Votes ,3.80 Score
love_56831 42 F
1  Article
love can be at different level   2/20/2008

in this world, everyone is unique. nobody else can substitute others. the pain and hurt will never be easy. you will never forget him. but, you will find the peace of heart when the time goes by and, you will rebuild up yourself at a different level and open yourself again for the love and the life ahead of you.

After you walked out from the previous relationship, you lost your sleep for ...


5 Comments, 148 Views, 16 Votes ,4.60 Score
okashiigaijin 78 M
5  Articles
a curious fact.   11/12/2004

has anyone noticed there are about 1500 more articles about "breaking up" than there are about "building a relationship"?


0 Comments, 146 Views, 4 Votes ,4.02 Score
ThomasPhD 56 M
124  Articles
REJECTION creates INTERNET STALKERS   5/1/2006

It is really creepy, frustrating and violating when someone stalks you over the internet. Why do they do it mostly? REJECTION Rejection is something that is part of life, and we all have been rejected at some point in ourlives. Either the gal or the guy turned us down one to many times. Or we didn't get the job and the other girl or guy did instead of us. People are paying ...


4 Comments, 145 Views, 16 Votes ,3.72 Score
elisa1 39 F
7  Articles
Breaking up is so hard to do   9/21/2006

I don't think it is ever easy to break up a relationship. It is so difficult to say good bye to all the cherished dreams, aspirations and moments that both of you shared. What event went so wrong to end the relationship? What has happened to the word 'compromise'. The divorce rate today is higer than it has ever been. What is happening to the idea of love- is it just a dream, just ...


1 Comments, 142 Views, 10 Votes ,4.18 Score
happyDragon1234 36 M
2  Articles
real friendship   1/4/2008

Everybody have many friends from here and there.but real friendship between friends is very great, if you smile he smile with you .you cry he would talk with you


1 Comments, 141 Views, 10 Votes ,3.19 Score
ThomasPhD 56 M
124  Articles
Knowing WHEN & HOW to Break Up   3/8/2006

Everyone knows that the break-up of a relationship is emotionally difficult for both parties. There is no easy way to break up with someone, and some will avoid it at all costs. We have even created several stages of being broken up just to avoid those dreaded words. Couples go on "breaks, " "take some time apart, " "see other people, " and "give each other some room." There are also ...


10 Comments, 140 Views, 6 Votes ,3.65 Score
ThomasPhD 56 M
124  Articles
The difficulty in remaining friends after a breakup.......   3/1/2006

(Q)What happens when one person loves the other person more? (A)The person who loves less will be in control of the relationship, therfore, find someone who loves you equally. <br> (Q)What happens if one person happens to be more of a taker than a giver? (A)Then the giver will eventually fell victimized or feel that the relationship is unfair. Thus, avoid selfish partners. ...


3 Comments, 140 Views, 9 Votes ,4.07 Score
lorenzo78 42 M
6  Articles
chinese girl   10/28/2006

never brake up with a chinese girl, i will tell you why in my next article


2 Comments, 139 Views, 14 Votes
breakthru4u 70 M
1  Article
EASY WAY OUT   1/15/2006

this is something that i failed to do in the past.i could never face up to telling that person , it's over. always by email, like a DEAR JOHN letter, the easy way out.the last woman was pissed off, but i didn't care because i was going back with my old girlfriend.the things that i had left at her house, i told her to throw out.i didn't want to go back over there.i could just imagine what ...


0 Comments, 139 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
azn2005 51 F
2  Articles
How to loss a guy/gal in 10 days?   9/12/2006

Watch that movie? It's just a movie and drama. What about real world. What ARE the mistakes we must NOT do to be able to make relationship last. Guys and Gals - would like to share different perspectives?


2 Comments, 138 Views, 10 Votes ,1.99 Score
Sunflower569 54 F
1  Article
When Our Desire Unfulfilled   3/8/2008

Sometimes we will experience the feelings that our desire left there unfulfilled. If the case stands there, what kind of attitudes should we develop?
Learn to calm down first and do some meditation.
If there is trouble in calming down, go doing some sports or find your intimate friends to talk.
Don't develop negative attitudes towards anything or anybody, for it is ...


2 Comments, 137 Views, 15 Votes ,2.52 Score
DarKnight_84 34 M
1  Article
broken up   2/28/2007

So i have broken up with my girl and i am very depressed by it all. I feel angry, frustrated, sad, depressed and upset all at the same time. The worst part of this is she didnt give me any reason why we broke up. We had good times together and she decides to end it. Well this was all over a month ago and in that time I find out why, she still has feelings for her ex, her ex is in a ...


8 Comments, 136 Views, 22 Votes ,3.01 Score
NiceGuy196145 107 M
4  Articles
Shouldn't I have known?   5/19/2009

Hi everybody,
SHOULDN'T I HAVE KNOWN?
Isn't this the question everybody is asking himself when a relationship breaks up?
The answer is easy.
Yes, of course you should have known. There are always more than enough signs you should have seen. In fact, you already knew what would happen. You just simply did not want to realize what is happening.
...


1 Comments, 132 Views, 13 Votes ,3.81 Score
babeinpink 51 F
13  Articles
love sickness symptoms   11/24/2006

Emotions can do funny things to a person. Our emotions and mental health are very tightly connected to our physical health. Our minds are very powerful. The mind controls the body, so we are happy when we are in love, and our body is releasing endorphins, which is good for our hearts. How about being in love and not being able to see that person forever, then it can lead to ...


6 Comments, 132 Views, 22 Votes ,3.37 Score
CarrieZhang 51 F
8  Articles
try to replenish that 100 memories....   3/3/2005

" while snow flowers flying on the shy, can you hear there is a song in heaven?" I said... " I want to meet you." you said... <br> Drawing us on a beach picture with a red kite on sky... <br> " Are you still there? I can't hear you..." I used to say "yes, I am still there..." you used to say. <br> Try to heal a insect bite on your finger.. <br> Think about ...


1 Comments, 132 Views, 5 Votes ,3.80 Score
ThomasPhD 56 M
124  Articles
Dare I Forgive!   4/22/2006

Jesus said to turn the other cheek <br> He also said to forgive 7 times 70 <br> Easy for Him to say <br> He was God <br> Or at least the of God <br> <br> <br> How do I get to the place <br> Where I forgive those <br> Who disrespect me and malign me <br> Those who could care less about my feelings ...


12 Comments, 130 Views, 10 Votes ,3.39 Score
Latina2005 41 F
2  Articles
COLLECTORS   9/12/2005

IM A PHONE CARD COLLECTOR PLEASE CONTACT ME SEND ME A MESSAGE YO MY PROFILE TO SHARE PHONECARDS FROM MY COUNTRY SEEEEEEEEEE YOUUUUUUUU SOOOOOOOOOON


0 Comments, 130 Views, 6 Votes ,1.09 Score
Ben909x 41 M
3  Articles
Leave on good terms! (If Possible)   6/12/2010

Times get tough, things are said, it can get rough. Be the better person and leave without a fight if possible.

I'd rather be known as the guy that was nice even at the end than the guy that you hate because you fought. My two cents.


1 Comments, 128 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
ThomasPhD 56 M
124  Articles
Changing Your Identity to Avoid Crazy Ex-Spouses!   3/8/2006

4 Different Ways to Change Your Identity This information is intended to help people with the following or similar problems and do not encourage people to use this information to become a professional scam artist, or the evade personal responsibilities in their lives. Intended for people with the following problems. Help individuals escape from vindictive ex-spouses, ...


7 Comments, 127 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
chris525 45 M
2  Articles
TRUE: LOVE NEVER FAILS:   11/18/2006

KEY TO LOVE: IS TO LOVE YOURSELF...WE R ALWAYS LOOKING FOR LOVE IN ALL THE RONG PLACES, BEFORE WE FIRST COME TO KNOW WHO WE R . WE MUST FIRST LEARN TO LIKE AN LOVE OURSELF....ITS ONLY THEN CAN YOU GIVE 100% LOVE....LET EACH ONE OF US TAKE THE TIME TO BE THANKFULL FOR THE THINNGS WE HAVE...THAIR ARE MANY WHO HAVE MUCH LESS....I FINE JOY IN HELPING OTHERS....SO TO ALL MY FRIENDS...., ...


2 Comments, 126 Views, 14 Votes ,1.86 Score
wanchi4 37 F
2  Articles
The Darker Side of Love.   8/25/2006

Every one speaks of Love of joy and happiness, and how it caresses you and how wonderful it is to be in LOVE. Why carn`t people speak for a change about the other side of what love can do-to a person who is truly in love or was in love.

My true love was a boy who lived next door to me, and we grew up together always doing every thing together as we could never be apart or ...


4 Comments, 126 Views, 14 Votes ,4.58 Score
7571363 39 F
2  Articles
give up / give up not ?   7/19/2006

I have been trying harder than ever, the relationship is just like the very beginning though : only lust, no communicating, no sharing, no understanding, no sympathysing. Just wanna give up not to make things even worse.. Honestly, I really dont wanna lose him. But I can nevr lose sth that I've never had, rite ? Im hopeless Wishing some way out of this dark tunnel. Any one ...


1 Comments, 126 Views, 16 Votes ,3.27 Score
loveangelalways 42 F
4  Articles
True Friend!!!   10/9/2005

A Friend is someone who speaks to our heart, someone whom we feel a magnetic affinity. Friendship is the coming together of equals even if there is a difference in abilities, roles or position, yet there is a vision of equality which does not create any feeling or superiority or inferiority. This equality of vision permits an acceptance of the other unconditoanlly. This creates ...


1 Comments, 123 Views, 9 Votes ,3.21 Score
wanchi4 37 F
2  Articles
10 Signs It`s Time to break Up   6/1/2006

10. You no longer look forward to spending time alone with your partner. You may still have a good sex life (or not!) but actually talking to your partner seems like a chore. If spending time alone with your partner seems like a prison sentence you may be up for a parole.

9. You begin comparing your partner to others. This is particularly true when other people seem more ...


1 Comments, 119 Views, 23 Votes ,5.93 Score
Jimmy3434a 50 M
11  Articles
Divorce and Be Free!   11/25/2005

Divorce and be free, It's what happenned to me, With new found freedom bought so dear, I found my way To China, from here <br> With love so new, With love so true, To the one who set me free, A thank you, from me


1 Comments, 119 Views, 10 Votes ,2.39 Score
beauty_1143 49 F
12  Articles
Don't Date A Married Men   6/30/2006

This is just an opinion and suggestion. Dating married (unavailable) men is not only a waste of time, but also it is dishonest and stupid. Some women feel it is better than dating no one, some find the very wrongness and danger of it fun and exciting, and some hang on to the hope that one day the men will leave their wives for them.
When you date a married man, you basically spend ...


5 Comments, 118 Views, 16 Votes ,5.63 Score
WhAtSoUnD 48 F
9  Articles
You came too late.   1/21/2006

The hardest things I have done with a man who I once was in madly love with. By put two cards down on the table, (not in action) for him to make a choice in order to put our minds at peace for once of all. He choose the first one to be with someone else to keep from hurting me more. It was a magic moment, I smiled at him and said "Thank you for thinking to stop hurting me so much.". But it ...


1 Comments, 115 Views, 6 Votes ,3.37 Score
ThomasPhD 56 M
124  Articles
Some Unexpected Consequences of CHEATING???   3/8/2006

CAN YOU AFFORD THE PRICE OF INFIDELITY? If you have been following the business news lately, you could not have missed the story about the CEO of a huge airplane manufacturer being forced to resign after an anonymous tip that he was having an affair with another employee. <br> This is a perfect example of the high price of infidelity. Here is a man with a high profile, ...


12 Comments, 113 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
Jimmy3434a 50 M
11  Articles
Breaking Up is So Difficult, But Necessary   11/24/2006

I have come to the end of my rope with one lovely young Chinese girl.
I found that, even though we are compatible physically and emotionally, we are not compatible as to the convergence of our lives, in terms of the future.
The paths we both plan do not cross. I have, for three years, diverged from my path to accomodate hers.
She now wants me never to go ...


2 Comments, 109 Views, 13 Votes ,2.98 Score
Aiko_Ai 30 F
1  Article
How we can in love?   12/24/2008

Do you belive in love on distance? Do you think that can be true. I think yes that's normal. That's nothing special. I think if two people love they can to bear a distance....


4 Comments, 108 Views, 19 Votes ,2.60 Score
DimitriW 37 M
5  Articles
How to Impress a Woman/Man   8/27/2006

HOW TO IMPRESS A WOMAN... compliment her, cuddle her, kiss her, caress her, love her, stroke her, tease her, comfort her, protect her, hug her, hold her, spend money on her, wine & dine her, buy things for her, listen to her, care for her, stand by her, support her, go to the ends of the earth for her....
HOW TO IMPRESS A MAN... show up naked, ...


2 Comments, 108 Views, 11 Votes ,3.54 Score
WisemanPhD 56 M
124  Articles
LOVE is the LAST CHARACTERISTIC NEEDED in a RELATIONSHIP   4/30/2006

CHARACTERISTIC
• adjective typical of a particular person, place, or thing. • noun a feature or quality typical of a person, place, or thing.
-The Compact Oxford English Dictionary
Many people have problems if their relationships because they place love before above everything else. It is a nice ...


3 Comments, 107 Views, 17 Votes ,4.96 Score
WisemanPhD 56 M
124  Articles
Chinese Proverb   4/19/2006

A fool judges people by the presents they give him.


4 Comments, 107 Views, 11 Votes ,1.86 Score
vitas1 47 M
7  Articles
Getting DUMPED   2/22/2005

I know somebody that just got dumped by his girlfriend. I do not know why, but after being separated for two months, she still calls him to hang out with him. I do not know what her motives are. Whether to get back together or walk their separate paths, it may seem someone is being used. Sometimes I believe she is trying to upgrade him, like driving a car. After many years of driving ...


1 Comments, 107 Views, 4 Votes ,4.02 Score
gustoitaliano 55 M
1  Article
DIFFERENT MEAN OF ICONS FOR EASTERN AND WESTERN   8/27/2007

in this days i discover something of very intersting concern the eastern and western mode of use some icons... and in particular that icon: <br> <br> this icon espacially in yahoo messenger where u can see a rotation of the head normally want see OH NO!!! <br> but more asian girls use that icon for say: <br> I'M SURPRISE OF THAT...INCREDIBLE!!! ...


0 Comments, 106 Views, 5 Votes ,2.16 Score
ani53 68 M
1  Article
Thing on the subject?   12/29/2006

why people ask for money to the newly formed friend.? <br> I am a new comer in this website. I have got some good respnse. therefore I am thankful to the AFF.com because the site has given me a chance to me to me on platform infront of the people. <br> But there sre some girls who are asking for help in the form of money, just after two days of my entry! <br> Can ...


2 Comments, 106 Views, 8 Votes ,1.86 Score
my2bigeyes 40 F
1  Article
not in love with u   2/15/2006

dear, i no longer have feelings for you a thousand times you promise will not do any good i will still not love you <br> you ask me to forgive you a million times i will forgive but its not the question <br> love no longer binds us together so why should we carry on further we have shared the good times and the bad <br> each time i started trusting you ...


0 Comments, 105 Views, 10 Votes ,3.39 Score
love_5683 49 F
1  Article
what tell a person 's real personality when it is the time to say good bye   5/8/2008

everybody was ever in the relationship, eveybody is looking for his or her true love. on the way of finding the destiny, bump up with wrong person, wrong timing, wron relationship. have to be mentally strong to stand all these.

but really feel when it is the time to say good bye. how you say that really make people so different. some people decided to say that in a very ugly way, ...


3 Comments, 103 Views, 12 Votes ,3.33 Score
Teddybaier 54 M
2  Articles
why all the mind Games   9/21/2006

Why is it, that most women have different meanings to things they say to us males? I find it very difficult to relate, I have never been good at reading the signs or signals that you women put out. I would like to know are there out there any other guys that are haveing the same problem? And if so, how do you deal with the mixed reactions your date gives you near the end of the date, ...


1 Comments, 103 Views, 17 Votes ,3.97 Score
beauty_1143 49 F
12  Articles
When it is ok to have sex?   7/19/2006

When is it ok to have sex? For me, it depends on your age or feelings. If you are eighteen and a virgin, you will want to wait until you are in a committed relationship. If you're thirty-nine, waiting a month or two can be fine. Of course, if you feel strongly against premarital sex, you should wait until you're married. If he loves you, he will respect whatever decision you make.
...


2 Comments, 100 Views, 14 Votes ,3.94 Score
holywoodsman 109 M
11  Articles
BE GOOD ANYWAY   4/17/2006

"People are often unreasonable, illogical, and self-centered, Forgive them anyway.
If you are kind, people may accuse you of selfish, ulterior motives; Be kind anyway.
If you are successful, you will win some false friends and some true enemies. Succeed anyway.
If you are honest and frank, people may cheat you. Be honest and frank anyway.
...


1 Comments, 100 Views, 7 Votes ,3.04 Score
doudou_de2 63 F
14  Articles
tell me your opoin, please.   4/24/2007

Dear <br> Of course, I am very angry with you yesterday night!! But I try to talk you and communicate with you still!!! Why? Why I do it still? Why I donot stop all contact with you easily? I will tell you the reason here!!!!! <br> I am one person who always want to solve the problem of my life with communication and talking. Easily give up and stop the contact is not my ...


1 Comments, 99 Views, 6 Votes ,1.09 Score
Danni119 49 F
10  Articles
Love   7/31/2007

When a woman falls in love with a man, it's a tragedy, and vice versa. When a the two love each other, that's a blessing. But in this world, there are more tragedy than blessing.


2 Comments, 97 Views, 15 Votes ,3.28 Score
shekinah888 56 F
5  Articles
life is beautiful...pains and all...   10/2/2006

well, what makes us who we are now is the life we've lived through - good or bad. personally, if i have to live my life over, i don't mind goin through the same pains. after all, i am who i am now because of them. word of advise: zero in on your expectations and you'll wake up to a brighter day and find the world a better place to live in...
cheers!


2 Comments, 97 Views, 19 Votes ,2.46 Score
polingchen 35 F
1  Article
my story of friendship, relationship, marriage??   10/30/2007

Hi there,

Although i had 4 relationships before ( including my marriage) I think I have to say it's not EASY to build and maintain a strong relationship. My marriage only last for about one year, got married in the last day of June, but separation started next April, got divorced in Aug. I'm quite happy of being single again.

Don't know why, maybe i'm just too nice and ...


6 Comments, 94 Views, 12 Votes ,3.15 Score
ktownteacher 58 M
1  Article
Single Occupancy   7/21/2006

So here I sit in my new single apartment, the polished hardwood floors reflecting the sparse furniture I chose with great care, alone, at Ikea, surrounded by couples.
I sometimes catch myself about to turn to my ex- and make a joke, share a quip, ask her how her day was. Then I remember...
9 years and two countries is a lot to go through together. And it brings a lot of ...


2 Comments, 94 Views, 7 Votes ,3.55 Score
kron_krit 35 M
5  Articles
date   5/29/2006

he pomiss me but he don't come


2 Comments, 94 Views, 5 Votes ,0.21 Score
mishy5 38 F
17  Articles
HoW tO GeT oVeR LoVe...   2/24/2006

5. Say GOODBYE, ,, but never say HELLo again... <br> 4. FORGET but never REGRET.. <br> 3. Pick up the PIECES OF YOUR HEART but never put the BACK. <br> 2. FEEL the pain, but never KEEP it. <br> 1. MOVE ON!


2 Comments, 94 Views, 8 Votes ,0.93 Score
ladyrhyme 35 F
2  Articles
Magical Feeling   11/24/2006

Magical feeling is a Song. I would like to share it to everyone. The song goes like this..
(Im happy that you left me, Im glad that you hurt me, Its a magical feeling, Knowing that you're not meant for me..) It's true right? Although, there are relationships that, they broke up and then back again.. But mostly, relationships ...


3 Comments, 93 Views, 15 Votes ,2.67 Score
WisemanPhD 56 M
124  Articles
"LOSS" The DVD: "Memoirs of a GEISHSA"   5/29/2006

Regarding the DVD "Memoirs of a GEISHSA" and how it relates to personal LOSS.
I had to place the DVD on pause for a while in order to write what I feel here in this article. Some of what I am about to say here fits with my own personal experience, while in a relationship with a lady from Japan, while I was 26 years of age till age 30.
What made me pause the DVD & ...


2 Comments, 93 Views, 14 Votes ,3.46 Score
marcot1997 49 M
8  Articles
The "Good" Breakup   8/22/2006

So your (my) relationship has ended. The majority of relationships do! Can we all try to have a good break up by being thankful for what we have learned and how we have grown by being with our former partners. An ended relatioship can still be regarded as a great realtionship that only lasted temporarily.
At the very least can we part ways without making blows to the other or ...


2 Comments, 92 Views, 10 Votes ,3.39 Score
speedscenetv 54 M
10  Articles
Going Back In Time..   2/12/2006

If you ever broke up with a guy or a girl in your life (in the past).. and you could go back in time to change something that you said or did during that break up moment, explain to us what that would be and why would you choose that act to go back and change? <br> I find answers interesting because it can help others in thinking about the actions they take with others in ...


0 Comments, 84 Views, 3 Votes ,2.94 Score
martin153 66 M
4  Articles
"Getting over it" is not the same as "falling out of love".   2/24/2005

I think that when you love someone and they reject you, then you go through stages, like there are stages that a person goes through when they are experiencing a loss through bereavement. First of all you feel that everything is hopeless and you feel “empty inside”, then you might attempt (more than once) reconciliation with them, by calling them or even turning up at their ...


1 Comments, 82 Views, 57 Votes ,8.01 Score
MrStan 58 M
74  Articles
Clinging to pain only punishes ourselves   12/26/2007

Painful situations, relationships hurt us, memories of experiences that pinch our nerve endings, need not imprison us.

However, we are seldom very quick to let go of the pain. Instead, we become obsessed with it, the precipitating circumstances, and the longed for, but often missed outcome.

We often wallow in our pain, rather than learn from it. We salt our wounds every time we ...


5 Comments, 81 Views, 10 Votes ,4.38 Score
kim_shen14344 43 F
14  Articles
''SPECIAL''   11/27/2007

"SPECIAL" is a word that is use to descrive something one-of-a kind, like a hug or a sunset or a person who spreads love with a smile or kind gesture.
"SPECIAL"
descrives people who act from the heart and keep ...


4 Comments, 81 Views, 18 Votes ,2.58 Score
down_by_the_sea 61 M
7  Articles
Marriage   10/24/2007

The Husband Store


A store that sells new husbands has just opened in New York City, where a woman may go to choose a husband. Among the instructions at the entrance is a description of how the store operates.
You may visit the store ONLY ONCE! There are six floors and the attributes of the men increase as the shopper ascends the flights.
...


3 Comments, 81 Views, 6 Votes ,3.65 Score
fallschurch74 44 M
1  Article
Question of the day   7/18/2007

How many times will I be able to write random, nonsensicle articles solely for the purpose of getting the points?


0 Comments, 81 Views, 19 Votes ,0.88 Score
beauty_1143 49 F
12  Articles
Love Is A Decision   6/30/2006

I personaly believe that love is a decision. I admit that it is tough to have to exert willpower and determination to love someone. It is so much easier when love flows naturally.
However, I learned a long time ago that most people, including me, go through times when we are not very lovable. We get beaten up by stress, discouraged by our lack of success, overburdened by work, ...


3 Comments, 81 Views, 12 Votes ,4.39 Score
beauty_1143 49 F
12  Articles
THE RIGHT LOVE AND THE RIGHT MAN   7/20/2006

It has been said that a relationship is a two-way street. It has two lanes, one for the man and one for the woman. Each person should be a responsible partner. Each one should be aware of the needs and problems of his or her partner.
Communication is key to a lasting relationship. For me, if i can tell my problem to my boyfriend and he listens, i would be very happy. I will feel hurt ...


1 Comments, 79 Views, 10 Votes ,3.78 Score
bigmac771977 43 M
1  Article
What to do?   8/2/2010

The History: I am in a relationship with a wonderful woman from China. We have been together for a while, and we get along terrific. We do not want to lose each other for we make each otehr very happy. Now she is in China and I've returned to the U.S. and we are still going strong, with plans of me coming back to China for a couple months next year so we can potentially plan a more strong future ...


2 Comments, 78 Views, 6 Votes ,3.65 Score
champion9999 53 M
18  Articles
10 Ways to Rekindle your FLAME   8/19/2006

What do u do if u hav neglected your relationship? How do u jumpstart a relationship that has gone from exciting to ho-hum, boring?
Here I suggest 10 ways to rekindle your flame:
1. Find your smile 2. Talk about positive thoughts and feelings 3. put fun and play back in your relationship 4. make new love traditions 5. recreate the early days - what has worked before ...


1 Comments, 75 Views, 10 Votes ,4.98 Score
jaemin37 44 M
4  Articles
it is sad thing   7/12/2006

Hello, breaking up it is very hard thing to do. And a sad thing! How do you that? tell me!


2 Comments, 75 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
lorenzo78 42 M
6  Articles
brake it   10/28/2006

u have to brake a relationshipwhen all the real feelings are gone


0 Comments, 74 Views, 7 Votes ,1.51 Score
natureswild 53 M
7  Articles
Happy story with sad ending.   10/1/2006

We are one happy couple love & cherish each other till the end of time. humm well wish all the story was like that but that is fairy tale people. I notice one thing about woman once love is gone it is gone which means goodbye don't have the feeling for you anymore when that happens it is good to say nice knowing you hope you will have better life and happiness. Warning don't go after her ...


0 Comments, 70 Views, 14 Votes ,3.62 Score
mitch8822 55 M
3  Articles
hurt?   2/23/2005

I am truely believe that no one can break your heart but yourself. If you can learn your lesson well from your unpleasant experience. No one could hurt you. Agree ?


1 Comments, 70 Views, 32 Votes ,3.71 Score
cbsweety 37 M
1  Article
date   7/3/2006

I think the reason why sites like this exist is that all people search for love and peace. They are doing mistakes thats right but this mistakes shows us we are all human and nobody is perfect. No one likes to get hurt. Thats why falling in love is so difficult.


1 Comments, 68 Views, 6 Votes ,3.08 Score
holywoodsman 109 M
11  Articles
for you !   1/31/2006

This is for my AFF friends, The ones I oh so love. The ones that God has sent, The angels from above. I hope you all know who you are, Every single one of you. I just wanted to thank you all, For helping me to get through. <br> All of you are so dear to me, You've all been ever so kind. <br> <br> You'll all be in my heart And forever on my mind. Thank ...


1 Comments, 66 Views, 3 Votes ,1.96 Score
LizHo827 45 F
1  Article
Try to be nice.   11/12/2006

Appreciate the love and care. So try to be nice.Don't have to be mean or rude or.... Think about the past. Must be some good time.
But only for people who not really into it. Not for the cheater.


1 Comments, 61 Views, 13 Votes ,3.81 Score
springwind00 41 F
3  Articles
Adult breaking up   10/4/2006

It is very normal that couple break up. The problem is how you behave while you break up. Disappear suddenly or honestly telling out what do you feel.


0 Comments, 61 Views, 5 Votes ,1.19 Score
champion9999 53 M
18  Articles
Avoiding the Dreaded Rebound Relationship?   7/19/2006

When people are healing from loss, they are usually very fragile. Their judgment is often faulty due to stress. Thus it is not the best time to get quickly and intensely involved with another person. If u do, u may be on the rebound- that is u are choosing that partner impulsively and reactively to fill your emotional gap/void, not because the person is compatible with u in the long-term. ...


0 Comments, 59 Views, 11 Votes ,4.29 Score
soulsearch888de 37 M
11  Articles
Love or habbit?   8/25/2006

I hear lots of people talking about love and true love. . but i wonder, often we find that people are in a relationship because its what they are used to, and are afraid or simply dont want change. this, in turn, makes breaking up very hard to do. i've noticed lots of people spend 1/2 their life in a relationship they are unhappy with simply because they dont really want to break up with a ...


4 Comments, 58 Views, 8 Votes ,4.41 Score
rachel0678 42 F
1  Article
My Cellphone   10/26/2018

My cellphones beeping sound woke me up one night. used to receiving messages only, i grabbed my cell and sleepily pushed the keys and read the message. "Hi there! care to be my text mate?" not knowing who the sender was, i deleted the message right away and placed the phone on my bedside table, i tried to go back to sleep. I had just closed my eyes when i heard the message tone again. "Hi there, ...


0 Comments, 57 Views, 13 Votes ,2.14 Score
Leoevans 62 M
2  Articles
how to do it   12/7/2009

WHY IS BREAKING UP SO HARD? ITS BETTER TO BE SURE ABOUT THE RELATIONSHIP AND NOT HAVE TO BREAK UP


0 Comments, 57 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
vinuccileo 52 M
5  Articles
Intense   9/2/2006

Breaking up can sometimes be the best thing that happens in a relationship.... I broke up with my girlfriend. Both of us were feeling the loss and deep sadness so decided to meet for a kind of goodbye drink. There was no longer the attachment to who was right, wrong or an agenda. We were just the best of ourselves. We went back to our old flat that was being sold. The world seemed ...


0 Comments, 57 Views, 8 Votes ,2.55 Score
36ford 75 M
3  Articles
I ,,,LIED   6/27/2006

There is the fellow I know who is trying to get me to meet his sister. Now we have a lot of the same freinds. A couple of them told me she isn't a bad person but she is really really heavy and is missing a few teeth. She doesn't take care of herself. So I have made every excuse in the world not to meet her. Well one day we are all going over to a friends house to play cards and he ...


3 Comments, 57 Views, 5 Votes ,3.14 Score
197334 50 F
6  Articles
RE: TO move on or to hold on ...   2/25/2005

Its is an artical nice for the words but hypocritical from your heart! You are the one who only loves yourself I think or you will never just want to blame on the other insteady of CHEAK OF YOU BACK OF YOUR NECK! If your lover left you there was must a reason for her leave. If you cant hold you love tightly then it is reasonable be left by your lover as well. Love is a magic thing, ...


1 Comments, 56 Views, 21 Votes ,3.62 Score
brightheart4 30 M
1  Article
When you are looking for a partner for u   12/1/2009

If you want to find a right and decent partner for you, Than you must understand, That you can't find him or her just by chating or just by watching his or her beautiful face on internet.you must give some time to your choosed partner and try to understan his thinking, feeling and every nature you want to watch in your partner than you should make any decision about her or him But please when ...


0 Comments, 55 Views, 5 Votes ,2.82 Score
annalyn_hot 32 F
1  Article
how to get into a womans heart   5/6/2010

how to get into a womans heart? for me a way to a womans heart is to please her, talk to her, share some happy thoughts and make her smile always.symphatize in her sorrow and heartbreaks and always make her feel comfortable at your side.if you gain her trust that will be easy for you to mingle with her or even to court her.


4 Comments, 52 Views, 15 Votes ,5.27 Score
champion9999 53 M
18  Articles
Living through it and Recovering   8/27/2006

If your partner has broken up with u and u are not happy about it, there are better and worse ways to get through it. Here are some suggested better ways: 1) see a psychologist to vent 2) try to get a closure 3) be kind to yourself physically and psychologically 4) take it a day at a time 5) use thought-stopping method 6) expect yourself to have fluctuating emotions 7) reward ...


1 Comments, 51 Views, 7 Votes ,3.30 Score
terryaki 70 M
11  Articles
internet break up   2/19/2007

Most of the time, my internet contacts ends when the woman just stops writing. Is this considered rude? If you don't want to hurt someone, it is better to be honest, or can that be considered rude?


0 Comments, 50 Views, 11 Votes ,3.17 Score
132304300 51 F
3  Articles
The one you loves just consider you a sex partner   9/5/2005

It's really sad as we have found somebody we love but he/she considers you a sex partner only. If you had such experience, you prefer move on or keep the relationship as for avoiding to loss him/her?


1 Comments, 50 Views, 34 Votes ,5.22 Score
JMan1963 59 M
1  Article
Forgiveness & Acceptance   10/26/2018

How would I ever be able to get over my ex unless I forgave her for breaking my heart and just accepted that it did not work out.

The only other option is time so if you want to suffer from a broken heart for a long period of time then we must forgive and accept.

Ask yourself if you have ever done anything behind someone else s back to break their heart in the past or have you ...


0 Comments, 49 Views, 11 Votes ,3.92 Score
speedscenetv 54 M
10  Articles
Break Up Lines..   2/18/2006

I have heard a lot of pick up lines.. some famous, some not.. but I was wondering.. what type of lines have you gotten yourself, used yourself, or have heard from other people that have been used to get out of a relationship? I'm sure there are some type of reason or excuse that some people give others when they break up.. What are they? Oh, and please say if they came from a girl or a guy ...


0 Comments, 49 Views, 4 Votes ,2.86 Score
asianbeauty20 33 F
1  Article
yes breaking up is really painful..   8/13/2009

its really painful to broke up w/someone.. specially wen your relationship is really serious..then you already build many ups and down ..and suddenly your dream to be together to him/her has Gone! ouch....

but, Hey!! its not the end of the world then.. all we have to do is to think positive.. that always put on our mind that his/her is not better for us..sooner or later someone will ...


2 Comments, 48 Views, 15 Votes ,3.28 Score
procida 68 M
25  Articles
psycho   9/21/2006

I do not know if all women after breaking up got nervous breakdown but i 've seen içn the past most of this comportement maybe men can drink until the night and soon it s an other day maybe women are more anxious with break up and need a behavior schyzophrenic to forget past SINCE THEY ARE THE WOMEN WHO MOBILIZE MORE THE PSYCHIATRISTS this not a massive attack agains women, but every ...


1 Comments, 47 Views, 7 Votes ,3.04 Score
MVPveli 35 M
11  Articles
My party   11/8/2005

Hi, new party is on august 22, 2005. Come to New York City


1 Comments, 47 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
ANVIA_SYAFA 37 F
1  Article
The Deepest Heart   9/12/2005

I will let go, all the things I wanted I will not do them anymore Forgive me, for loving you Forgive me, for I waiting for you Have u ever tried to understand? And see me here Is it possible for I dream? Is it wrong for I wait? Exhausted I won’t, waiting for you Dissappear it won’t, my love for you Until the time, you ever come back I will ...


0 Comments, 47 Views, 5 Votes ,1.84 Score
el_lobo2 74 M
10  Articles
westeners   1/3/2008

Westerners are fools, intruders all where is it written that they know best where in the hell did they take that test why did we lose our land to others not here first, when others fled did they get their house back or did they but start again where they landed Westerners are fools, intruders all my religion is fine by me, oh yes they came changed every thing my god of yesteryear was wrong they ...


2 Comments, 46 Views, 12 Votes
underyoux 57 M
1  Article
test   2/19/2007

this is just a test


3 Comments, 46 Views, 11 Votes ,0.55 Score
rsflener 58 M
19  Articles
I had that before I knew you...   2/28/2008

The song "Breaking up is hard to do" doesn't even scratch the surface. Sure it is a emotional and stressful time. But it is much easier than divorce. There the woman has the advantage. You might think half...but it is more like 80 - 20 in her favor. Forget what you had before you knew here. Thats hers now. Forget about the car you work so hard to get. Hers. You can keep your cloths. Unless you ...


2 Comments, 43 Views, 9 Votes ,2.57 Score
mellisaray 44 F
4  Articles
Seeking the true love   7/11/2011

It's good to get everything about a relationship here, I want to seize this opportunity to post that I'm a young caring & Calm lady I'm looking for a serious relationship .. Is there anyone out there who's willing to make me happy and to put a smile on my face... I'll be pleased to tell you about myself just ask away ... Have a wonderful day

Mellisa


1 Comments, 42 Views, 14 Votes ,2.82 Score
ke5541 33 M
10  Articles
The Crazy Ones   2/19/2007

What is your advice for the really crazy ones? I think many of us have met some girls or boys that were really nice at first. Then the relationship got worse and worse and her/his true personality showed. You try becoming a worse g/f b/f to them to make them break up with you. It doesn't work. They threaten you while keep saying how much they love you.
How do people deal with ...


1 Comments, 42 Views, 3 Votes ,3.43 Score
SP33DY2 45 M
11  Articles
hello   10/31/2006

i'm here


2 Comments, 42 Views, 8 Votes ,1.16 Score
azn2005 51 F
2  Articles
How do you build your own blog here?   7/11/2006

Any one knows how to build your own blog here? Do you have to be gold member or something?


1 Comments, 41 Views, 3 Votes ,1.47 Score
morethanafeeling 59 M
6  Articles
Better sad than sorry   6/19/2009

Goals in life are sometimes very important; Especially when you consider starting a new relationship, it is wise to raise the topic early when you meet someone new. If you decide to go for a relationship anyway, time often proves that the future lies on different paths for both partners. A break-up is more painfull than a decision not to go for a relationship. Often, a fine long-distance friend ...


0 Comments, 36 Views, 11 Votes ,2.79 Score
rsflener 58 M
19  Articles
Leave room for both to break with dignity...   12/2/2007

Leave room for both to break with dignity...

The curiosity was there. The emails where honest and open. Then came the first date. Boy sparks flew! A few more dates later, and you share a private time. Wow, what an experience.





After a few months, things slowly change. You don't care for their political fews. They think you have stinky feet. Their parents are to ...


1 Comments, 35 Views, 7 Votes ,4.06 Score
WoAiNiSweetBabes 107 M
10  Articles
is it some simple   11/26/2007

as it happened to me


1 Comments, 35 Views, 5 Votes ,1.51 Score
RichardTTripp 72 M
95  Articles
Let me apologize,   12/9/2006

Let me apologize,
I am a hot headed egocentric fool much of the time acting far to quickly in anger with far too little information.. I want to apologize to SP33DY2 for my insulting remarks about his postings in this magazine. He is a very intelligent man with a kind and forgiving heart, fortunately for me. He could write some very powerful articles in French but not in English. ...


1 Comments, 34 Views, 7 Votes ,2.79 Score
RichardTTripp 72 M
95  Articles
This is crazy to me… And I am angry about it   10/31/2006

This is crazy to me… And I am angry about it
There is a man on this site who posted 10 articles saying nothing but “Hello I’m Here”. He has a new article out now that says, “Maybe” and that is it. Now he holds the rank of 3 most contributing writer in this online magazine. I am outraged by this because there are many serious writers here ...


2 Comments, 34 Views, 5 Votes ,1.84 Score
stratoca7144 56 M
8  Articles
Forgiveness II: In Restoration   6/11/2006

I have had great deal of input prior to putting up this blog issue. I do want to expand a little on the issue of unconditional forgiveness, I am going ot tell you why as human being it simply doesn't exist.
Think about human relationships for a moment their complexities and dynamics, no doubt two people, two lovers, two friends over the course of time will experience conflict ...


1 Comments, 34 Views, 4 Votes ,2.08 Score
TechMan_1000 61 M
17  Articles
Better to Love?   5/30/2010

To live life to it's fullest spectation. We are told it is better to love and loose then to never love before. Is this true. What happens to the happy person that never really falls in love. Who reaches a prime old age and never finds love. With the odds in life based on numbers. For those who find true love. There are those that must never find it. what if the peace in their life is better by ...


0 Comments, 31 Views, 6 Votes ,2.51 Score
holywoodsman 109 M
11  Articles
American culture for foreigners   2/22/2005

American culture for foreigners! Despite the cultural variations in the country, there are certain characteristics that do mark Americans as Americans. guidebooks usually give a general description of what cultural taboos a traveler will encounter when visiting a foreign country. Handing a gift to an Arab with the left hand, flashing the soles of your feet in Thailand, or raving about the ...


2 Comments, 31 Views, 5 Votes ,5.10 Score
belbeluk 48 M
1  Article
hi   7/31/2007

how are you all ? x


1 Comments, 30 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
beauty_1143 49 F
12  Articles
When Love Turns Sour   7/11/2006

When lovers break up, things can never be the same between them again. More than that, things will almost surely be worse than before they fell deeply into love.
Whenever you fall inlove with someone, please remember that if the relationship does not work out, the chances of a smooth break and a pleasant aftermath are extremely slim. Most likely the break is going to be painful ...


1 Comments, 30 Views, 9 Votes ,3.43 Score
rel1956 56 M
1  Article
its pianfull when we have break ups   10/26/2018

It hurts................


1 Comments, 29 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
missvietlay 28 F
3  Articles
What I should not had done..   7/11/2011

Maybe in the near future I will not worry and gain some experience or valuable lesson and applied it to life.

I should not had spent too much time worrying put too much time into worrying alway had time to worry kept on worrying thought about worrying loved to worry if i didnt worry i would again

So my past relationship help me understand to not worry[/...


2 Comments, 29 Views, 6 Votes ,3.08 Score
camillebobsmith 34 F
1  Article
hi guy wht do you looking a woman...   9/21/2010

hi this camille wht do you looking woman im looking for a man sweet lovely...


0 Comments, 28 Views, 7 Votes ,3.04 Score
bree21 42 F
6  Articles
lessons she learnt   6/24/2007

The stars and trees had reminded her of him. The way they littered the sky in all their shining glory, took her back to when they had sat sometimes in silence and often in warm embrace.

The breeze was different where he was. The trees knew it all along, but not she. Or perhaps she had never taken the time to notice it. How the wind had caressed her face and skin and whispered to her that ...


0 Comments, 28 Views, 10 Votes ,2.99 Score
yourhoney115 52 F
2  Articles
JOMIE - The Luxury Brand For Men   8/21/2010

Our focused consumers will find the Should-Have trends in four seasons with this brand high quality products. From high scope design collections, to color patterns, to average and tall, to casual, jewelry, accessories; JOMIE design collections, JOMIE design stores always satisfy whats in style for men.

The brand positioning, unique shopping experience and focused merchandising ...


2 Comments, 27 Views, 8 Votes ,1.39 Score
d_828 37 M
1  Article
Heartnreak Formula   5/2/2008

It was a cold windy night of December when I saw a figure crying hard in front of me and was losing his sanity. I approached him more closely to ask what was wrong with him. He cried more hysterically and held my hand towards his chest.

“Can you feel anything?” he asked.

At that very moment, I was stoned backright there in shock. I could not feel his heart beating, ...


1 Comments, 27 Views, 5 Votes ,5.10 Score
DimitriW 37 M
5  Articles
BMW engineer vs God   6/4/2007

An engineer, of the BMW Motorrad Corporation died and went to heaven.

At the gates St. Peter told him, "Since you've been such a good man and your motorbikes have changed the world,

your reward is, you can hang out with anyone you want in Heaven".

The Engineer thought about it for a minute and then said, "I want to hang out with God." St. Peter took him to the Throne ...


0 Comments, 26 Views, 7 Votes ,2.02 Score
procida 68 M
25  Articles
with the past   10/19/2006

How many times we need to breaking up with the past some, need no time other they never breaking up with their past after three years i am like a re birth , is seems maybe time is ok for beginning a new life with no ghosts of the past and you


0 Comments, 26 Views, 7 Votes ,2.53 Score
aliceyumi 51 F
6  Articles
I haven't broken up   9/2/2019

Breaking up is when you don't want him in your life no more. I continue in contact and we still think of meeting in real life again. He was here for a 20-day-stay back in 2005. Since then we stayed in contact on and off till we realised that we have the same feelings for one another. Love is unlimited, love is for ever... So if we keep track of each other in a regular basis, that tells us we ...


1 Comments, 21 Views, 6 Votes ,3.93 Score
endoe4 50 M
13  Articles
how many cat lover are on here   2/12/2010

I like dogs but I have three cats and to me there just more lovable. not saying that dogs are not lovable too but cat are less maintance though they can tear shit up too like but not so bad as a dog. what do yall think?


1 Comments, 19 Views, 1 Votes
procida 68 M
25  Articles
breaking up with myself   11/17/2006

i do not know what i want i only know what i do not want either more i must break up with myself, with my past to born again maybe too late now to be a new man i m gonna try to live with...me


1 Comments, 19 Views, 4 Votes ,0.14 Score
looneytunes007 51 M
2  Articles
steps to breaking up   7/19/2007

The Steps To Breaking Up The Steps To Breaking UpWhen you need to do it, do it with as little pain as possible! by owen

Just the words, break up, indicate a situation riddled with impending pain and loss. Even if both parties involved agree it is in their best interests to part romantic ways, there is still a certain amount of loss attached. The best way to approach a break up is to ...


1 Comments, 18 Views, 3 Votes ,3.92 Score
jim101 55 M
20  Articles
life and love   12/5/2011

Love is not about finding the right person, but creating a right relationship. It's not about how much love you have in the beginning but how much love you build till the end.


1 Comments, 17 Views, 9 Votes ,2.78 Score
whitedragon1964 53 M
11  Articles
Be considerate   3/21/2007

Treat others as you want to be treated


0 Comments, 15 Views, 9 Votes ,4.49 Score
RichardTTripp 72 M
95  Articles
Heart or Brain.. Happiness or Pain...   10/25/2006

Shall I follow my heart into happy poverty... Or my brain into sadness and riches.. Love feeds me when there is no food... Love holds me when I am sick And have no medicine.. Love cares not if I only have rags to wear... Without love I can be in the deepest poverty... While surrounded by riches... Forgetting your heart... Makes you walk through life... Dead...


1 Comments, 15 Views, 3 Votes ,4.41 Score
dorishills54 36 F
1  Article
I seeking for man for the rest of my life soon . I need man who can sex me well   2/16/2015

I am new sexy woman here But I'm not. Like all people I have my sins. Life is given to us only once, and I'm taking from it all I can! I am interested in the world of relationships, communication, interested in every person, because all people are unique. I am Always ready to change myself, open to everything new that makes me a more unique person and allows me to develop myself. I have lots of ...


1 Comments, 12 Views, 6 Votes ,4.22 Score
holywoodsman 109 M
11  Articles
Avoid ski injuries   2/22/2005

Skiing is a popular sport, but one which has hazards. Learn how to avoid some of the common ski injuries. The first snow means the ski season has begun. Skiers across the world are packing their equipment and cold weather gear, and heading for the slopes. <br> <br> While skiing is popular and a lot of fun, it is also hazardous. Accidents happen on the slopes, injuring ...


1 Comments, 11 Views, 1 Votes ,1.10 Score
holywoodsman 109 M
11  Articles
Tips for making Hawaiian leis   2/22/2005

Tips for making Hawaiian leis. Great for a special friend or occasion, a hand-strung Hawaiian Lei brings the beauty and warmth of the islands to everyone it touches. The spirit of the Hawaiian Islands travels far and wide with the mythical mysteries and the allure of sandy beaches and lush tropical forests. For ages, Hawaiians have been interpreting that spirit through the ancient art of ...


1 Comments, 11 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score