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OnNewPlanet 54 M
46  Articles
I've got your solution... Proxemics.   1/24/2005

The term "Proxemics" was coined by researcher E.T. Hall when he investigated man's use of personal space. Basically, it's studying how people interact with other people in close proximity to each other (such as on an elevator).
What on earth does this have to do with detecting interest ?

Well, what E.T. found was that individuals subconsciously ...


1 Comments, 231 Views, 9 Votes ,4.49 Score
OnNewPlanet 54 M
46  Articles
This is how it happens-- it is PROVEN.   1/24/2005

It makes sense... if a woman likes you then she will want you to be closer whereas the opposite is, of course, also true. The more she likes you the less of a boundary she will place on you.
When you are talking to a woman the space between both of you is where the two of you are comfortable. If you move in a little closer to her she will either be fine with it and ...


0 Comments, 280 Views, 12 Votes ,4.74 Score
tod_b2 50 M
1  Article
meeting first time   1/9/2005

I have been emailing a friend I meet here for 2 weeks and everything seems to be going fine. I have now suggested that we meetup but he seems a little unsure. What should I do?


0 Comments, 1504 Views, 1 Votes
OnNewPlanet 54 M
46  Articles
5 tips to be successful with women   1/6/2005

1 - If you are interested in a girl you should shower her with every drop of attention you can spare.
2 - If you want to keep a girl from cheating you should monitor her contact with other guys and threaten to beat any guys ass that so much as holds the door for her.
3 - If you want to get laid you should let a girl know that's what you want and what you feel. ...


0 Comments, 196 Views, 2 Votes ,1.73 Score
rovenion 39 M
1  Article
Are we similar or different?   1/3/2005

I am a Spanish boy, and would like to know if Chinese or Japanese girls are similar to Spanish ones. Here girls usually wait till the boy approaches them. Don't give the first step, though maybe this is changing nowadays, fortunatelly, if you ask me.


0 Comments, 1152 Views, 3 Votes ,3.92 Score
ernestruan 56 M
3  Articles
闲梦江南   12/30/2004

闲梦江南 <br> ...


0 Comments, 247 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
OnNewPlanet 54 M
46  Articles
YOU HAVE TO BE A ROCK STAR, MILLIONAIRE, OR ATHLETE   12/28/2004

YOU HAVE TO BE A ROCK STAR, MILLIONAIRE, OR ATHLETE TO GET HOT DATES. <br> <br> Guys love to believe that they don’t have what it takes to get laid. And most men use their lack of success as an excuse for not dating and pursuing the women they really want. These men blame the system, society, social issues, and economic realities for their lack of ...


0 Comments, 261 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
OnNewPlanet 54 M
46  Articles
Ever feel like the invisible man around women ?   12/28/2004

you want to get noticed for something positive (good attention) and not because everyone is laughing at what a fool you are (bad attention). The trick to getting noticed is to stand out from other people through subtle, yet unique, differences in, first, your physical appearance and, second, your personality. <br> STEP 1: Getting noticed physically… <br> ...


0 Comments, 267 Views, 4 Votes ,2.86 Score
OnNewPlanet 54 M
46  Articles
how it can be possible...   12/27/2004

how it can be possible... I'm a black male living in Italy and working around IT. I speak french, english and Italian fluently, but haven't any knowledge in asian languages. How can be possible to me, found here an asian female as a life partner with whom I can share mutual love & respect to complete my life. [note that : I am a tender, lovely, virtuous, and responsible guy]. ...


0 Comments, 66 Views, 6 Votes ,1.94 Score
Looking4aLover 51 M
1  Article
What's Really Going On with Finding Love   11/23/2004

OK, it's 2004 going on 2005. Have we reached a point were we should just tell our dates the whole truth and nothing but the truth? For example: Fellas say, "Baby, I'm a playa" or Ladies say, "I realy just want to be held, and haven't been in a while. I want security." <br> Just crossed my mine while browsing the site. Holla back!


0 Comments, 191 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
latibb 41 F
1  Article
how to fall in love?   9/11/2004

when i will fall in love with a guy? and we love eachother. who is that guy and i'd give my heart and everything? i don't care who you are, i hope you do really love me from the bottom of your heart, let me trust & depend on you! i hope everything don't happen too fast, just take it slow. i need a long-term relationship! i need promise until someday we meet! that's it! that will be ...


0 Comments, 1178 Views, 16 Votes ,4.16 Score
wangru35 49 F
1  Article
I am looking for my love.   9/2/2004

I long so much for a special partner to spend my life with. I long to come home to that person every night, and share the evening, the warmth of the fireplace, the laughter at the dinner table, a long walk in the evening. And to travel sometimes to unknown parts of the world, and see them through his wonderous eyes. <br> To me love is having someone who you would die for, whose ...


1 Comments, 174 Views, 52 Votes ,5.50 Score
132304300 51 F
3  Articles
People are getting selfish   8/29/2004

I have found that people have changed a lot as it's difficult to find somebody who is willing to commit for relationship. Why people do have hesitation about that? Afraid of being hurt? Especially men have much more hesitation to make commitment. Why?


1 Comments, 316 Views, 23 Votes ,5.11 Score
ytfiaxa 49 F
4  Articles
好想和自己所爱的人做完以下50件事   8/7/2004

好想和自己所爱的人做完以下50件事 <br> 幸福 也许没有一个人不想,当然我也不另外,而且我还好想和自己所爱的人一起做完以下50件事情你说有多幸福的梦想啊~!就不知道那个人有没有在这个世界??你也想在一生里和你爱的人完成这50件事情吗? (“我所爱的人”以下简称“你”) ...


0 Comments, 60 Views, 25 Votes ,6.45 Score
fayecwt 41 M
1  Article
爱情的真理   8/7/2004

女人无所谓正经,正经是因为受到的引诱不够;男人无所谓忠诚 ,忠诚是因为背叛的筹码太低。 我的朋友告诉我一句话:人过了17, 18岁之后还谈什么真感情呢. 我想只有那时候的我们谈的爱情才是真正的爱情.以后的感情都只有了目的, 朋友们不是吗?


0 Comments, 2 Views, 7 Votes ,4.31 Score
sexboomboom 40 M
1  Article
一个城市,一种欲望   7/27/2004

一个城市就是一片欲望生长的土地, 鬼魅是他们摇曳的身躯和不羁的灵魂, 不安的是他们的浮华赖以生存的土壤! 那些PUB BAR, 酒吧, 迪吧以及那些充斥着声色的昏暗不明处, 大多只是一个空虚的幻影, 活动在这里的人, 有着最原始的野兽的本能, 却又无法突破囹圄, ...


0 Comments, 212 Views, 5 Votes ,0.53 Score
yan19807929 43 M
30  Articles
人间还有信任?   7/27/2004

也许,比起文博…我应该算是"可以"的了…有源对我不 <br> 错,有那小孩对我还好,有朋友的陪伴…我还有什么奢求 <br> 的呢?我已经算是"幸福"的了…不该有忧虑的…但为什么 <br> 我还是笑不出来呢… <br> 她和源彼此那么相爱,今天确是这种结果… <br> ...


0 Comments, 52 Views, 9 Votes ,3.00 Score
yan19807929 43 M
30  Articles
郁闷的心灵   7/27/2004

天气总是那么阴沉沉的, 要下雨又不下. <br> 有时候好羡慕一条小鱼, 因为它能在水中自由的游动. <br> 它是那么的单纯, 而且水总是那么了解它. <br> 有时候好羡慕一只老鹰, 因为它能在天空自由的飞翔. <br> 它是那么的伟大, 而且天空总是那么了解它. <br> ...


0 Comments, 102 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
holly26bj 49 F
1  Article
[转贴]吵架之后,如果对方打你手机,一定要接!   7/25/2004

   有那么一对情侣. 女孩很漂亮, 非常善解人意, 偶尔时不时出些坏点子耍耍男孩. 男孩很聪明, 也很懂事, 最主要的一点.幽默感很强.总能在2个人相处中找到可以逗女孩发笑的方式.女孩很喜欢男孩这种乐天派的心情.    他们一直相处不错, 女孩对男孩的感觉, 淡淡的, 说男孩象自己的亲人. ...


0 Comments, 155 Views, 13 Votes ,5.66 Score
Enrik23 38 M
13  Articles
mr wonderfull   7/23/2004

So at the advice of many of my friends here I called and left Peter a message - I kept it very light-hearted (I kept it about basketball.) and the next day as I am getting ready to DD a group of Marines - - - HE CALLED!!!! <br> We talked basketball for a few minutes and then he said that he had to go and he would call me back. He called back promptly the next day and said he ...


0 Comments, 300 Views, 23 Votes ,2.43 Score
Enrik23 38 M
13  Articles
is it wrong?   7/23/2004

Is it wrong to go out with a cousin in law? I really like one of my cuz-in-laws, she's really cute, and we're pretty cool with each other, i dont know if she would like to go out with me but i never really pushed anything because I dont know if everyone else would see it being ok...


0 Comments, 131 Views, 30 Votes ,0.49 Score
blackdragon03 68 M
1  Article
frustrations running wild turning into racism and hatred   7/22/2004

The other day I was in the English chat room and saw that some visitors had troubles with messages from chatter. So I asked what was going on, that this particular visitor was called a racist. Turned out that he was being very nasty and disrespectful to Chinese women in particular and Asian women in general. To get a clear picture of the situation. I addressed this visitor and asked him ...


0 Comments, 193 Views, 51 Votes ,7.71 Score
lele1006 38 M
1  Article
你们有谁相信网恋,给我出个注意!   7/18/2004

你们有谁相信网恋,给我出个注意! <br> -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- ...


0 Comments, 567 Views, 9 Votes ,2.78 Score
haitang1 59 F
3  Articles
网络交友可靠吗   7/18/2004

登上亚洲交友中心的网络,一些人不期而至。有聊天的,有交友的,一时让人心动。然而,这种交友方式能有什么结果呢?同在一个城市或许有机会见面,远在异国他乡只凭网上信息及交流,如何呢?朋友们,如果感兴趣,请将你的想法、看法告之一二。


0 Comments, 6 Views, 3 Votes ,5.39 Score
If_if 40 F
11  Articles
女人是否喜欢做第三者? 做第三者的女人有什么心态?   7/17/2004

  女人的愿望,从小就不会是当一名第三者。女人的愿望,是好好拥有一个男人,也让一个男人好好拥有她。当上第三者,只是过渡性的事,相信大部分女人,假若成为第三者,都希望此身份有个限期,不是无了期地偷一个男人。 ...


0 Comments, 207 Views, 6 Votes ,1.66 Score
abd33 48 M
227  Articles
遇见你是我最无能为力的意外   7/17/2004

遇见你是我最无能为力的意外 <br> 六月, 空气中没有了潮湿的味道, 晒过的棉被有太阳的味道.  我们的经历没有什么精彩的不同, 但是, 那些琐碎的过往我一直记得. <br> 爱或者不爱, 相聚或者离开.如果都是命运的手在随意摆弄, 我也会学着释 <br> 然, ...


0 Comments, 413 Views, 4 Votes ,2.86 Score
abd33 48 M
227  Articles
男人最害怕的是承诺{我个人感觉}   7/17/2004

男人害怕承诺 <br> <br> 男人害怕承诺,是因为他不是太爱那个女人,也是因为他太爱那个女人。 <br> ...


0 Comments, 293 Views, 7 Votes ,4.31 Score
freesky200086 43 F
1  Article
我们彼此都走失了,走失在迷惘的夜里。谨以此文游在网络纪念你……   7/16/2004

走失的鸟 <br> ...


0 Comments, 470 Views, 12 Votes ,3.68 Score
kll1985 38 F
5  Articles
各奔东西   7/16/2004

我现在想说的并不感情, 而是友情. 虽然我们都明白如今是个人吃人, 互相利用的世界.但是我仍然想去相信它.毕业那天我并没有哭, 因为我觉得很幼稚.但是当我们都准备着为今后打算而各奔东西时, 我独自哭了. 我觉得自己好好笑, 我默默的问自己为什么----原来在我们各自利用的同时多了一种珍惜, ...


0 Comments, 129 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
yan19807929 43 M
30  Articles
真爱难求   7/10/2004

 恋爱中的男女有时候会自己都弄不清楚两个人之间到底是爱,还是一时的激情! 说爱有太多无奈,说激情有太多的伤心! 只有真的伤了,痛了,才懂了,其实我们想要的并不是当初自己所希望的! 在时间的冲击后,回头在想想,我们所要的真的只是一段情吗? ...


0 Comments, 1709 Views, 9 Votes ,5.35 Score