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Jimmy3434a 50 M
11  Articles
Get to Know One another.   7/26/2009

In order to build any relationship, you have to get to know one another. This will be your whole foundation for a relationship, and will determine 1) if you like each other 2) do you get along with each other 3) can you trust each other 4) can you love each other 5) can you respect each other
The more contact and the more honest you are, the quicker and more smoothly things ...


0 Comments, 34 Views, 2 Votes ,3.12 Score
baliliebe 65 M
21  Articles
where is my dream woman   7/25/2009

there is this here? if so please send me a mail. so that we can plan our future


1 Comments, 21 Views, 5 Votes ,2.49 Score
baliliebe 65 M
21  Articles
Hello I'm looking for true love.   7/25/2009

Do you believe in true love? If yes then write me so we can find herraus whether we both are destined for each other! I hope you register so we can learn


1 Comments, 8 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
wyteanjal 43 F
3  Articles
Asian males and white females   5/30/2009

How often do you look around and see an am/wf relationship? Even more how often do you see a married am/wf couple? It is not often and I can not understand why. You can just look accross the street to see an af/wm couples.

I wonder why this is? Is it that asian males are not attracted to white girls as much as asian girls? Is it that asian males can not take an interracial relationship ...


10 Comments, 153 Views, 14 Votes ,5.06 Score
yaya_bonita 33 F
4  Articles
young lady vs. middle age man   5/17/2009

i know that too many asian women who are young be with or get marry with the middle age american man. some of them have a really good happy family. However, some of them have to choose divorce to end the relationship. most of the middle age guys love to get together with the , and most of the young asian women would like to take the risk.i belive that they do have love, but it's the age gap and ...


5 Comments, 331 Views, 17 Votes ,3.55 Score
HeartDesire 60 F
2  Articles
How do you cope if your partner is more successful than you?   4/19/2009

A male friend said that he was always the one in control in his past relationships. He is worried in a relationship with a lady who is more successful than him.
Everyone, please be generous in offering a help.


8 Comments, 138 Views, 8 Votes ,3.71 Score
bhushans 63 M
2  Articles
Send mail to me   4/4/2009

Seen you in my Friend network, and think of you whether you would like to call on me or not.Hope you would like to become my friend.If yes send me mail for further association seen in your profile


0 Comments, 39 Views, 1 Votes
fateweaver 54 M
4  Articles
Overcoming Fear of Rejection   1/15/2009

I am indebted to a friend who taught me "don't be scared of rejection. It's not that you are not good enough; it's only because the other person is looking for someone different". Armed with this wisdom, I am unstoppable and unbreakable . It make perfect senses for me that the other person has the right to choose just as much as I do, and if she doesn't connect with what I have to offer, then ...


3 Comments, 98 Views, 10 Votes ,4.38 Score
Adam_82 35 M
3  Articles
blind girl   1/5/2009

There was a blind girl who hated herself just because she was blind. She hated everyone, except her loving boyfriend. He was always there of her. She said that if she could only see the world, she would marry her boyfriend. One day, someone donated a pair of eyes to her and then she could see everything, including her boyfriend. Her boyfriend asked her: “now that you can see the world, ...


1 Comments, 43 Views, 7 Votes ,4.57 Score
newbie1299 52 M
1  Article
Setting expectations   12/24/2008

I find that one of the biggest issues in building a relationship is setting expectations. Now, for this brief post, I know I'll be accused of platitudes. But this time-tested advice seems to make sense with my personal experience.

1. First few dates? Don't set your own expectations high, but expect that you don't know what the other person's expectations are. Look, you're meeting someone ...


1 Comments, 61 Views, 6 Votes ,2.51 Score
Investigationss 72 M
1  Article
The internet illusion   12/24/2008

Chatting on internet seems to be often like an optical illusion. There is a gap between what we imagine and the reality. But due to the direct communication we tend to forget the gap. It becomes an illusion. What we see is not what we should see. What we see is first the result of our imagination. Often it does not correspond exatly to the reality. We are naturally prone to consider the ...


0 Comments, 79 Views, 6 Votes ,3.65 Score
Jiethomas007 49 M
34  Articles
11 Warning Signs a Woman Isn't Worth Your Time   12/24/2008

1. She's a chronic complainer. She nitpicks over the least important things in life such as a cup left on the dining room table or a crumb found on the carpet. Things will only get worse with this type of woman because she's an obsessive clean freak. Avoid this type. <br> 2. She pays more attention to her pet than she does you and she lets her pet sleep in her bed. If she likes ...


4 Comments, 630 Views, 8 Votes ,1.86 Score
shyangel1955 63 F
1  Article
For a successful relationship   8/9/2008

Hi, to you all. This is just my thoughts. I feel that if you want a successful relationship or marriage, both you and your partner need to be open and honest at all times, no-matter how bad the situation is, be open and honest. In my relationships, if my partner is open and honest about everything, then I know that I do not need to waste my time trying to find out what he might be hiding. It ...


0 Comments, 20 Views, 2 Votes ,0.34 Score
Alsooking 48 M
6  Articles
True Friendship   8/9/2008

Every relation needs to start as friends. Through this bond trust Is built. There always has to be trust In order for friendship to remain strong. A strong, loving relation thats based on true friendship Is one relation that will never die and always remain strong. Alot of factors are the base of a relation. I do value all of them. Even when relationship Is not In sight true friendship Is always ...


2 Comments, 42 Views, 7 Votes ,2.28 Score
Riccimoon 50 F
1  Article
Slow & be careful   5/11/2008

a Relationship depends on two person and two heart to will be join in the live but do not easy to share and building a relationship if still not meet right person to spend good time of life together.. So the time is important of building relationship a long time as slow and be careful.Must build relationship from ur inside, of love, of caring, good heart, of feeling..other things follow ...


4 Comments, 210 Views, 21 Votes ,3.13 Score
Adam_82 35 M
3  Articles
How to tell if your partner is Cheating on you   4/24/2008

Sometime you can tell if your partner is Cheating on you there are tell tale signs , and your gut feeling


4 Comments, 87 Views, 8 Votes ,3.01 Score
LoneWolf222 45 M
6  Articles
Free Spirit & Visionary   3/31/2008

I am a Free Spirit & Visionary Thinker who can Imagine & See the Future and Plot out a Strategy for getting there. I Have chosen My Own Path in Life and I don't do things Simply to Please Other People. I am Creative, Intelligent, Opinionated, Imaginative, Curious, Shrewd, Mysterious, and filled with Surprises. Some People Misinterpret My Insight and Independence and see ...


0 Comments, 12 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
wyteanjal 43 F
3  Articles
Fights that can be easily avoided!   3/31/2008

I see a lot of people fight over the silliest things. Especially when they are fights easily avoided.

You have the overbearing partner: The person who expects you to check in with them every minute just to tell you where they are and what they are doing. ^^^ This kind of person is just completely smothering and can be quite irritating.

People trust your partner, sure ask them to ...


0 Comments, 34 Views, 5 Votes ,4.12 Score
AmericanGeishaPy 54 F
3  Articles
Can You Be a Lady and a for your Good Man?   3/23/2008

The American expression “a lady in the livingroom and a in the bedroom, ” and the Korean expression “a lady in the day time and a at night” perhaps represent an international men’s fantasy of what they want from their women.
My question for you is: Can You Be a Lady and a for your Good Man? Is it possible?


11 Comments, 320 Views, 21 Votes ,4.98 Score
xoxMARTINxox 40 M
4  Articles
Is it works?   3/23/2008

Can INTERNET LOVE turn true? Hmmn.. my first time to write here, but i've been an active member for a long time here, i am spending much of my time talking to my close friends in the chatroom.


2 Comments, 49 Views, 2 Votes ,3.12 Score
WoAiNiSweetBabes 107 M
10  Articles
how do you find   12/14/2007

aff has helped build a relationship?


2 Comments, 29 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
touch213 70 M
21  Articles
why choice of an Asian woman   12/13/2007

well, for me, I don't know about others.
I like Asian women because they have a generalized, courteous demeanor, they have a generalized grace of and about their being.. Like they way they loook physically, I like their hair, I like their skin, I like their generally thin figure, and I like they are generally neat in appearance.. I don't much like some of them and their ...


3 Comments, 195 Views, 19 Votes ,2.60 Score
Jalo05 54 F
4  Articles
Fake marriage   12/11/2007

Do you believe in ffake marriages. I've been to Japan as a Overseas Performing Artist for 18 years. We must go under lots of processes just to return to Japan. The long line waiting for the interview. Dance practice because we have to show our performance in front of many , many judges.
Three years ago Japan immigration won't allow unprofessional talents here in Japan ...


16 Comments, 245 Views, 16 Votes ,3.72 Score
AmericanGeishaPy 54 F
3  Articles
Are Asian women better in bed and good wives?   12/11/2007

Is it true that the Asian women are more willing to do all the houseohold chores and not complain, more wiling to have \bsexo?\b when their man wants, and the position he wants. Asian women have feminine attitudes toward their men?
Is it true that Asian women are better \bsexo?\b partners and better marriage partners?
Is it true that there is a difference between those raised in the ...


6 Comments, 343 Views, 14 Votes ,2.66 Score
fateweaver 54 M
4  Articles
AFF - 1st Month Results   11/3/2007

Here's the hard facts for those who had read my articles and wondering if and how well my approach of positive expectations works in practice. The statistics below is the summary of my experience here in AFF for the first month :-

115 - Total emails sent out by me 48 - Total emails received (excluding autoreplies, bulks) 62 - Total number of women I wrote to 18 - Total number of women ...


7 Comments, 142 Views, 8 Votes ,1.86 Score
bree21 42 F
6  Articles
Accidents and intersecting footpaths   11/1/2007

I believe that people come into your life for a reason. However brief and fleeting the moment is, it is a lesson to be learnt.

About life, about others and more importantly about yourself.

Intersecting footsteps are no mere accidents; it is a moment that was meant to happen. Some may ask what life would be then, if everything has already been predetermined. I think life would ...


3 Comments, 60 Views, 11 Votes ,4.10 Score
CuteLenny 57 M
2  Articles
Is it hard or easy??   10/9/2007

Yes, what are you think of building a relationship? It´s hard or easy for you?


4 Comments, 98 Views, 3 Votes ,2.94 Score
gdaryl3 52 M
3  Articles
是我尝试对艰苦   9/18/2007

如此如果一次人尝试对艰苦交朋友, 他转动夫人去? 他惊吓他们吗? 他是对憎恨吗? 什么会是最佳的方式? ...


0 Comments, 14 Views, 0 Votes
mdkoofia 47 M
3  Articles
From Heaven to Hell---2(Dedicated to a special girl)   9/15/2007

I strongly believe i have recently lost a true love with a true girl(Through AFF).I want to admit it and i want to blame me.But i'm unable to understand chinese culture.I don't know how i lost it.When i fall in love im totally unorganised.I think, that what love should be.I failed to make her understand how much i loved her.Anyway, i still have to wait for my true love but who is she i don't ...


1 Comments, 74 Views, 6 Votes ,3.08 Score
MrStan 60 M
74  Articles
How important is the nurturing factor in your relationship?   9/8/2007

Personally I think it is very important to me when in those times of doubt, my partner can remind me that I am able and capable of doing what needs to get done. It is also nice to be validated once in a while and told I am a kind man or that I’m attractive. I think we are similar to flowers or trees that need to be watered, fed and have plenty of sunshine.

A flower wilts without ...


5 Comments, 109 Views, 9 Votes ,3.85 Score