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Gentlelvr2 72 M
2  Articles
Going to dinner.   6/3/2015

for me a first date is a chance to get to know one another. Sitting down over dinner in a descent restaurant. Light conversation and hopefully at the end of the night. We can agree to see each other again. Treat the other person with the respect they deserve.


1 Comments, 6 Views, 1 Votes ,1.10 Score
morethanafeeling 59 M
6  Articles
free meal girls   5/30/2015

In thailand there are a lot of beautiful women, many of whom are poor and often have to relate to things they normally wouldn't do just to keep their parents or grandparents fed.

One way for women to deal with that is to date men just for the free meal. During chat, they are kind and interested, and once you are at the table, you get to hear they are not looking for someone. They take ...


1 Comments, 24 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
KamlaiS 42 F
1  Article
farmer   12/17/2010

very happy


0 Comments, 27 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
smilingboy2020 52 M
2  Articles
Couple   8/19/2010

Loving B.F are Hard to Find, Harder to Leave And impossible to Forget …..

Remember… Every minute you ALONE, is sixty seconds of happiness WASTED.!



LOVE is like a DIAMOND, … HARD TO FIND and LUCKY TO HAVE….. Nobody is Perfect Until you Fall In-LOVE with him..



Smile…. Just keep Smiling… You never know who is falling in love with your SMILE ...


2 Comments, 72 Views, 4 Votes ,3.25 Score
Ben909x 41 M
3  Articles
Don't go overboard, just get to know them!   5/17/2010

After all, all a first date is, is a formal interview. Don't worry so much about your own agenda. Just get to know the person. If you're serious about creating a serious relationship you should definitely just get to know them. Knowing how a person is and what they want is most of the battle.


0 Comments, 55 Views, 3 Votes ,3.43 Score
Leoevans 62 M
2  Articles
where to meet the first time   12/2/2009

When i meet a woman the first time i will have early tea, the food is good and if it does not go good you can leave after the meal


1 Comments, 64 Views, 5 Votes ,3.14 Score
baliliebe 65 M
21  Articles
Learn German! 学习德语!   7/28/2009

Who wants to learn German online? I school you at level A1. I am happy to answer questions by email.

谁愿意学习德语考试?俺学校您级格A1 。我很高兴地回答问题的电子邮件。


0 Comments, 5 Views, 1 Votes ,3.70 Score
baliliebe 65 M
21  Articles
In search of ....   7/26/2009

the woman to my heart back to life. So many women there are here and it seems as if only I can find good friends. But the woman who wants more still seems not to be here. Or has she never seen me? And if they do, she says it is not. They do not dare to write about? Believe it not to love? Only those who dare to win.


1 Comments, 10 Views, 2 Votes ,1.04 Score
baliliebe 65 M
21  Articles
Lonely hearts to give away   7/26/2009

Should there be women, to a lonely man to life again, then write me anyway. Everyone needs friends. But without love, the lonely man. Where is the woman who makes me the trial from the solitude to get. Is this woman here?


0 Comments, 13 Views, 2 Votes ,1.04 Score
baliliebe 65 M
21  Articles
Translater   7/18/2009

According to a survey, women from Asia very sociable. Of note here is not much. Even if the woman from Asia is not English or German can be, does not do that. There are Googel Translater, here you can translate many languages, including Chinese, so their women from Asia more contact readiness PLEASE


0 Comments, 7 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
baliliebe 65 M
21  Articles
Why?   7/18/2009

Many women look at profiles but they do not write! Have the women fear only to write?

Why?

It is not important to those who only writes, it's just important that you write, because the only way you can come into contact


1 Comments, 6 Views, 0 Votes
baliliebe 65 M
21  Articles
View profiles   7/17/2009

I can no longer look at profiles, I do not know why. if you are interested in me then write me a mail.


0 Comments, 6 Views, 0 Votes
baliliebe 65 M
21  Articles
Is love just a dream?   7/16/2009

I hope so, or not? I see many women my profile anscheuen, but they do not write and do not want a friendship? Why not? Are women afraid to be the first to write, which is a pity.


0 Comments, 5 Views, 1 Votes ,1.10 Score
baliliebe 65 M
21  Articles
Only those who dare to win   7/16/2009

If you have not tried it you will never find true love! So have courage and writes the ladies and gentlemen to. Vorallem but where do you think the the what could be on your friendship list, because it is then easier


0 Comments, 2 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
baliliebe 65 M
21  Articles
To all the women have more courage   7/16/2009

Why do women fear the men will find it suitable to be a friend and take him to write? Only courage we Beisem not because we are looking for, if you jemang gefaellt then schhreibt him and take him to the friends list, because it is easier for all


0 Comments, 0 Views, 0 Votes
mpalaske 67 M
2  Articles
First Kisses   6/18/2009

First kisses, first embraces, much sweeter than love My hand brushing your shoulder, your fingers on my arm Your dark eyes beckoning, but still we are apart

Our words now in whispers, breathing for each other Our heads inclined in prayer, the night, our holy veil Your hair touching my shoulder, too close, but still too far

Your lips slightly parted, no words coming out Your eyes ...


0 Comments, 25 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
hot_mariane4 38 F
1  Article
my blog   1/15/2009

hi im mariane 23 yrs old from sydney im sexy and hot and im wiling fun when im horny, ,, ,,


3 Comments, 61 Views, 3 Votes ,4.41 Score
misteriosa 53 F
2  Articles
be the driver.....   12/9/2008

If you don't know who you are dating with, make sure not to ride in his car.

Not sure where to go, ask and be in control.

There are some guys who knows what to do, it's better for them to be the passenger than the driver, they are respectful people. Wait, not most of them respects, it's their chance to take advantage while you're busy with your steering wheel AVOID ...


1 Comments, 30 Views, 4 Votes ,3.25 Score
wpgboy1970 50 M
1  Article
Fun   6/22/2008

My view on the First date. the first should ALWAYS be fun! these days the first date feels more like and Interview. If you want to break the ice take her someplace fun that contains an activity. Go-kart racing, mini golf Ect. With places like that there is alway breaks were you can talk have a drink and you have a great time in the proccess. Coffee you end up feeling presured to talk, make an ...


2 Comments, 46 Views, 2 Votes
NekoJZ 40 M
2  Articles
How do you know?   3/7/2008

So, after going on a first date, how can one be sure that the other person is interested in them? Just wondering what other people think. I don't know what I should do if I'm interested in my date, or how I can tell if my date is interested in me??? Any ideas?


1 Comments, 193 Views, 5 Votes ,2.49 Score
WoAiNiSweetBabes 107 M
10  Articles
what is good idea   11/26/2007

on first date


1 Comments, 28 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
Adam_82 35 M
3  Articles
How can you tell if She's not gonna dis me on the First Date?   8/24/2007

I've been seeing this girl I met at Universtiy for the past few months on the first date she payed , i haven't seen her since then , when ever i arange to meet her again she always says she's too busy .

----------------------------------------

I don't think she's interested


0 Comments, 36 Views, 3 Votes ,0.98 Score
eastern06 66 M
1  Article
There Great   8/20/2007

I think first dates are great. If we are adult about them then the sooner you meet face to face the better. The nervous feelings are really quite enjoyable you have to admit I think.


0 Comments, 23 Views, 2 Votes ,1.04 Score
xelerado 31 M
1  Article
First dates   5/27/2007

Do anyone Believe in love from the first sight ??????...or thast not true....just impression..


1 Comments, 44 Views, 2 Votes ,1.04 Score
TechMan_1000 61 M
17  Articles
Perfect date, the Techman way !!!   4/2/2007

The dating game can be frustrating, tricky, and is near impossible to master. The hours and days leading up to a first date are often a roller coaster of mixed emotions culminating in a few hours that more often than not-and please forgive the pessimism that follows-will end in disappointment.
Women tend to take a bad date to heart and ask themselves what she did wrong and why it was so ...


0 Comments, 35 Views, 5 Votes ,3.14 Score
whitedragon1964 53 M
11  Articles
You only get one chance   2/19/2007

First dates are like first impressions, you only get one chance.


1 Comments, 72 Views, 9 Votes ,2.14 Score
lover47911 51 M
2  Articles
can we see   2/12/2007

the date has begun the date has ended in its entirity what is the one thing we fail to recgognize? most of us are so caught up in pleasing our date we have not seen the one communicating factor to which some know how to read. we dont keep enough eye contact! the eyes tell everything if your able one can look into the heart and soul of your mate. true love, true friendship, is carried via ...


0 Comments, 35 Views, 6 Votes ,3.65 Score
ke5541 33 M
10  Articles
What is a Sign of a Great First Date?   2/11/2007

What are the signs of a great first date?
I think going home after feeling really crazy about the person you met. They are always on your mind. Being excited to see them again. Learning they are even better than you expected.
What are some other signs?


1 Comments, 90 Views, 7 Votes ,2.79 Score
gemellime 44 M
1  Article
first date suggestions   1/26/2007

First Date Etiquette Follow these simple first date etiquette tips and you'll greatly improve your chances of securing the all-important second date: Make a Backup Plan The weather can change quickly, restaurants can close for renovations, and your tickets can turn out to be counterfeit. Have a backup plan in mind in case your date takes an unexpected turn.
Plan a Short ...


2 Comments, 148 Views, 19 Votes ,4.57 Score
terryaki 70 M
11  Articles
gift on first date   1/22/2007

I have had a woman break up with me, after the first date, because I did NOT buy her an expensive gift. It was NOT enough to pay for the date and bring a small gift. Some people say that you should NOT buy a gift on the date, because the first date, is just an introduction. This woman is a native of China, but she lives, and works, in the USA. I don't know if this makes any ...


3 Comments, 96 Views, 12 Votes ,3.15 Score
lexxventura 48 M
2  Articles
what do people usually expect on first dates?   12/31/2006

I am curious as to what women usually expect on a first date. I usually just want to go for coffe just to meet the person and see what they are like. It doesn't take too much time or money if you wind up not being interested in the person. That goes either way. so what do women want from a first date, probably every guy out should know this information.


2 Comments, 82 Views, 9 Votes ,3.43 Score
PeterInSurrey 76 M
1  Article
He who dares - wins   12/26/2006

For years I was nervous, and procrastinated about contacting a lady who 'took my fancy'. That was STUPID. "We pass this way but once" is now my own attitude, and since I adopted this approach, I have had the great pleasure of meeting and dating some lovely ladies (including my late Wife).
Be honest, be kind, and be thoughtful. That is what a lady wants to see most in a ...


2 Comments, 92 Views, 15 Votes ,4.82 Score
jfender 107 M
2  Articles
I'm going to Thailand   12/12/2006

Therefore I wonder what Thai women like! I mean is it dinner, or......drink .. What is the best thing to d0 ? Thank you


2 Comments, 147 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
Texas76 41 M
1  Article
Keep it simple   11/20/2006

For a first date do something that is free or does not cost a lot of money. Taking a girl to dinner has been done 1, 000 times. If you don't like each other then you are stuck for 45 minutes with each other.
Guys don't buy expensive things for girls. It makes it look like you are trying to buy her approval. She will either think you are pathetic and leave, or stay around ...


2 Comments, 111 Views, 13 Votes ,3.81 Score
RichardTTripp 72 M
95  Articles
Let me apologize,   10/28/2006

Let me apologize,
I am a hot headed egocentric fool much of the time acting far to quickly in anger with far too little information.. I want to apologize to SP33DY2 for my insulting remarks about his postings in this magazine. He is a very intelligent man with a kind and forgiving heart, fortunately for me. He could write some very powerful articles in French but not in English. ...


1 Comments, 26 Views, 2 Votes ,1.04 Score
RichardTTripp 72 M
95  Articles
This is crazy to me… And I am angry about it   10/28/2006

This is crazy to me… And I am angry about it
There is a man on this site who posted 10 articles saying nothing but “Hello I’m Here”. He has a new article out now that says, “Maybe” and that is it. Now he holds the rank of 3 most contributing writer in this online magazine. I am outraged by this because there are many serious writers here ...


1 Comments, 23 Views, 4 Votes ,2.08 Score
SP33DY2 45 M
11  Articles
hello   10/27/2006

i'm here


1 Comments, 23 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
FAITHFULL1162 55 M
5  Articles
A story to remember   10/18/2006

A man met his old friend one day, after many years. He asked him where he had been all this time. The friend answered : "I went to look for the perfect woman." The man asked : "So, did you find her?" His friend said : "Yes" Then, the man asked :"Well, where is she?" His friend answered : "She was looking for the perfect man..."


2 Comments, 109 Views, 19 Votes ,3.78 Score
tjgurl 39 F
2  Articles
is it important to dress up!?!??! or just dress casually for 1st date   9/28/2006

guys n gals!
how do u dress up when u meet a person for the very first time??

do you dress like a hollywood star? or someone who's just going out for a movies??
ppl said 1st impression is important. how important should we go to the extent of looking drop dead georgeous or just plain jane or tom??


13 Comments, 329 Views, 35 Votes ,3.94 Score
djbear7272 43 M
2  Articles
first time in person   9/22/2006

have you ever chatted for awhile with someone online and really started to like that person. then once you meet in person the attraction is not there anymore or the person seems different somehow.


1 Comments, 98 Views, 11 Votes ,2.98 Score
TechMan_1000 61 M
17  Articles
Morning Noise- Thinking of a First Date ;)   9/20/2006

Morning Noise
Waking in the morning, I hear a distant train. Washing, Thinking, Dressing. The sounds of water running. The sounds of coffee brewing. I put my shoes on. They make a tapping noise on the shinny wood floors. As the tie touchs the shirt it makes a wisking.. sound... I tie it the same way. I have for years. The sound of a female voice from the other ...


2 Comments, 50 Views, 9 Votes ,4.49 Score
natureswild 53 M
7  Articles
We Are Perfect Match! I think NOT!   9/2/2006

Guys and Gals we all know that understanding each others feeling is important but how we suppose to be judge of that? The feelings comes naturally folks for each other to bind togather possibly a natural cause or some sort but anyway lets say you guys known for 1-2yrs on AFF been chatting god knows how long now it is time to meet person to person. The woman point of view is like ' Lets ...


0 Comments, 64 Views, 9 Votes ,1.29 Score
natureswild 53 M
7  Articles
First knocker or last loser   9/2/2006

This topic is most important out of all relationship. Ok lets say you got your sweety already to meet you and both are excited that means you. What comes in my mind what she might look like or what he might look like Wow...stop here people are we talking about appearance judging our looks now what happen to the conversation we had on phone and MSN chat whatever you use for messenger. Hmm ...


1 Comments, 64 Views, 5 Votes ,3.47 Score
babeinpink 51 F
13  Articles
Can someone help me answer this question? Thanks   8/28/2006

What is the good answer for if you're meeting someone at the 1st time, and he/she asks "Have you ever dated anyone or met someone offline after meeting online?"...


12 Comments, 372 Views, 25 Votes ,3.46 Score
just2slim 59 M
12  Articles
(Big Mistake)   8/13/2006

To often two friend's will have this conversation. One say'es a new girl/guy is moving in, the other say'es what does she/he look like? then the first say'es, She/he, must have a great personality, because she's/he's not much to look at.
Very wrong, very sad. our gene's, childhood, lifestye's, stress, and health issue's. Can leave a mark on all of us.but it can also create a ...


0 Comments, 53 Views, 9 Votes ,2.78 Score
champion9999 53 M
18  Articles
10 Tips to successfully pace a new relationship   7/18/2006

Here are 10 tips to successfully pace a new relationship:
1. Don't jump into bed on the first date, 2) Don't spend the entire weekend together, 3) Don't say "I love you" too soon, 4) Do keep your sense of self, 5) Do keep your own life, 6) Do keep dating other people casually, 7) Do keep your thoughts, feelings, and behaviour in sync with reality, Be careful when you are ...


3 Comments, 172 Views, 21 Votes ,4.24 Score
champion9999 53 M
18  Articles
What makes someone compatible?   7/18/2006

The must haves:
1. Honesty 2. Trust 3. Loyalty 4. Monogamy 5. Maturity 6. Psychological health 7. Shared relationship goal 8. Timing
The good to haves: 1. Good communication 2. overall fun and chemistry 3. Compatible intelligence 4. physical attraction 5. sexual attraction and orientation 6. similar interests 7. similar investment/ power in ...


0 Comments, 67 Views, 12 Votes ,3.15 Score
jaemin37 44 M
4  Articles
hello   7/5/2006

What should i write about that, because nobody write me a mail


1 Comments, 44 Views, 0 Votes
chris525 45 M
2  Articles
ASIAN WOMAN WITH BLACK MAN...I WAS HER FIRST   6/28/2006

THE SAYING IS WHEN YOU GO BLACK YOU DONT TURN BACK..SHE CALLED ME , SAID SHE LIKE MY PROFILE & WOULD LIKE TO SEE ME...BUT FROM THE TIME I WALK INTO THE DOOR IT WAS MY BODY SHE WANTED....I WAS SINGLE AN GAVE HER ALL OF ME , AN MORE....SHE SAID SHE HAD NEVER BEEN WITH A MAN WHO WAS AS BIG AS ME IN HER LIFE...HER DREAMS CAME TRUE..., AN WE ARE STILL SINGLE, AN DATING....THAR IS NO RULES TO ...


2 Comments, 318 Views, 23 Votes ,0.21 Score
TheRookie1985 33 M
2  Articles
Special Moments   6/23/2006

This is more of an forum starter than an article, I'd like to know from both men and women: what was the best thing about your favorite first date experience. To be a little clearer, what about the date made that encounter more enjoyable than other, past first dates you had been on?


0 Comments, 45 Views, 6 Votes ,1.94 Score
Rod1357 54 M
1  Article
Lets be fair...   5/20/2006

i am often amused by certain profiles that reads:
no game... no play.. no love affairs.. no man flirting with ladies... mr right.. rich.. white male...
it look we got in a kind of dept store, looking for products, the husband or wife in these cases.. what to say ? Thinking it over and feel pity.. get a smile..
Image you find the Mr. ...


3 Comments, 136 Views, 10 Votes ,3.19 Score
ashtangiyogi 49 F
2  Articles
To Be or not To Be   5/19/2006

Love at First Sight? Anyone? Give me a double! We need no clairvoyant to find out if we think someone is special or not. No amount of make-up or perfume can cover up whatever first impression we have towards another party.
Blind Date? Want a double? Sounds like double trouble to me. I personally think its better to talk to someone or maybe a couple of messages before meeting them. ...


2 Comments, 218 Views, 42 Votes ,4.54 Score
illbeyourpoet 65 M
2  Articles
First dates are like fantasies....   5/17/2006

And... me being a hopeless romantic... my life has become a fantasy... the woman of my dreams... a whisp of warm air passing by... removing the chill in my heart but for a moment....
I have dreamed of having a wonderful relationship with a woman who wnated nothing from me other than my love and was willing to share the same.
Someone who is content with her life, needing no ...


0 Comments, 125 Views, 4 Votes ,3.25 Score
WisemanPhD 56 M
124  Articles
Who should make the first move, the lady or the man?   4/25/2006

Should the lady make the first move or the man? What would the ladies prefer? Sexually that is..


1 Comments, 221 Views, 16 Votes ,2.83 Score
WisemanPhD 56 M
124  Articles
Research Test: How hot should I dress on the first date!!!!   4/12/2006

I love to dress really hot!!!! Shorts only like the stud college boys uniform and hot boxers that can be somewhat revealing, with no top on in cold weather. My question is how should I dress for that important first date. I really want chicks to be attracted to me if I like them but don't want it to seem that we are going to tumble into the bed the first night.
Even though I am ...


5 Comments, 176 Views, 11 Votes ,2.98 Score
WisemanPhD 56 M
124  Articles
Before you meet comeone on a first date   4/12/2006

Have them fax you a copy of their State ID or their Drivers License & you can do the same, to insure that you are actually meeting the right person on the first date.
It may seem cautious, but it is better to be cautious then sorry.
Also meet in a public place on your first date.
-Wiseman...


1 Comments, 52 Views, 4 Votes ,3.63 Score
down_by_the_sea 61 M
7  Articles
be careful   3/19/2006

i was contacted by this tidy chinese girl .petite and really nice. we had dinner then actually slept together on the first date which i have never done before, the next day came her cv and two weeks after she was playing another guy and said if i get some software, a trip to new zealand etc she would marry me and bear . all in four weeks. where do some people get off!!!!


6 Comments, 507 Views, 28 Votes ,3.45 Score
izabela81 36 F
1  Article
where we have to go for a first date???   3/11/2006

Restaurant, cinema, disco, theater, bed-hehe or maby sauna-hehe. If we go to the restaurant-who's gonna pay?i dont have idee wich place is the best for the first date, who's gonna pay for it and if I don't like that person schoud i run-how! HELP


4 Comments, 101 Views, 9 Votes ,0.86 Score
mjs77 40 M
1  Article
What do you think   3/9/2006

So you are on your first date. You are out at dinner or just walking on the beach. Most of the time there is that walking on water type of feeling...hopefully. The both of you are feeling each others energy and catching glimpses of what could be. You both send little messages to each other that you are interested. When the night comes to and end do you make that move for the first kiss, or ...


0 Comments, 32 Views, 3 Votes ,1.96 Score
JIMMYJIM33 45 M
2  Articles
SEX ON THE FIRST DATE   2/26/2006

DO ONE NIGHT STANDS EVER BECOME MORE THAN THAT. IF I HAVE SEX ON THE FIRST DATE WILL WE HAVE ANYTHING MORE?


4 Comments, 364 Views, 17 Votes ,2.56 Score
elisa1 39 F
7  Articles
First date jitters   2/25/2006

I have always had a question: What do men REALLY think on a first date? Does he look at details like the woman subtly requiring him to open the door as a good sign? or a bad one? Is asking more than a nice dinner too much to handle so fast? Would it be bad to go to drink coffee at a nice cafe afterwards? I know that many first dates are a direct result of the personality of the men and ...


2 Comments, 322 Views, 14 Votes ,5.86 Score
yayaland 35 F
4  Articles
sex   2/23/2006

is that the first time meet each other must to make love, and then build the relatiosnhip? a man asked me to, but i rejected it. then he said i was play games with him....that's kinda funny... wat reasonable answer i need to tell him, to let him know i am not playing game???


14 Comments, 872 Views, 60 Votes ,5.45 Score
snowonroof2006 76 M
2  Articles
Sex early in a relatioonship   2/7/2006

Sex on the first date? <br> If you expect sex within a few dates, you aren't looking for a meaningful relationship; you're just looking for a "Quickie". Go down to the corner and pick up your local street slut, she'll get you off with no strings attached (usually after you pay her). Realize a "Quickie" with a is probably going to be cheaper and definitely faster than taking a ...


1 Comments, 296 Views, 14 Votes ,3.46 Score
speedscenetv 54 M
10  Articles
How can you tell if bf or gf?   2/7/2006

For those of us who have close friends of the opposite sex.. What is your view on how to tell if the guy and girl are just friends or if they are going together as more than just friends? <br> The determination is for the person on the outside of the group-of-two people, so that one can figure out whether or not to approach the person s/he is attracted to.. because sometimes the guy ...


1 Comments, 171 Views, 6 Votes ,2.51 Score
speedscenetv 54 M
10  Articles
The Group Approach..   2/7/2006

Finding ways to approach a single girl or guy on her/his own without a bunch of girl/guy friends hanging around them is probably the most sought after moment that we all look forward to.. But there are times when the guy or girl we are interested in doesn't hang around by themselves that much or at least the times that we see them they are always with the same group of friends. <br> ...


3 Comments, 94 Views, 8 Votes ,2.78 Score
speedscenetv 54 M
10  Articles
Dating Nerves..   2/7/2006

When I went out with this really good looking girl.. We went out to eat at this Korean restaurant. She looked great and we had a great time together. She was really nervous though with me.. How she coped with it (I found out from her..) was that she ate and ate and ate to relax her on the date. <br> I'm wondering.. have you ever had the jitters of being soo nervous on the date that ...


1 Comments, 155 Views, 7 Votes ,2.28 Score
speedscenetv 54 M
10  Articles
Bad Blind Dates..   2/7/2006

I've been on a few blind dates. One in particular was kinda scary since my friend met some girl on an internet personals site without seeing her picture and she was bringing her friend along for moral support -so my buddy enlisted me to keep her friend entertained. Little did I know though, I would later become that girl-friends' "fresh meat, " at least that is what I felt like the whole ...


0 Comments, 173 Views, 12 Votes ,2.09 Score
kron_krit 35 M
5  Articles
Frist Kiss   2/6/2006

I met the strange man in the pub then he holded my hand and look in my eyes . I decided kiss him . After that i never see him again


0 Comments, 100 Views, 5 Votes ,2.82 Score
CrdnAtd 51 M
8  Articles
first date   2/3/2006

first date? just go ahead date


0 Comments, 69 Views, 0 Votes
CAFLIFE 48 M
3  Articles
date   2/2/2006

date what you date, don't date up


0 Comments, 33 Views, 2 Votes
creamykitten 38 F
3  Articles
How sexy to dress on the first date!!!!   1/20/2006

I love to dress sexy!!!! Short skirts like a school girls uniform and sexy sheer blouses that can be somewhat revealing in cold weather. My question is how should I dress for that important first date. I really want the guy to be attracted to me if I like him but don't want it to seem that we are going to tumble into the bed the first night. Thanks for your answers.
...


31 Comments, 1157 Views, 81 Votes ,3.82 Score
iqofone 42 M
3  Articles
Is playing the game a necessary part of dating?   1/9/2006

What do I mean by playing games? I mean playing with their minds, ignoring them for about the first half of the night, and full attention the rest. Calling 3 days later. Using the word love alot, but never saying it to them. Ending and leaving first after conversation a conversation finishes. <br> All of these are ment to make her think about you subconsiously. I know that this ...


5 Comments, 192 Views, 13 Votes ,0.79 Score
BagelMaker 44 M
10  Articles
FRIENDS DON'T LET FRIENDS DATE STRANGERS   1/2/2006

Friends don't let friends date guys like Spank Me Frank, who took a gander at Ashley Nichols' derrière during their first and only rendezvous and declared, "I want to spank it later." <br> ADVERTISEMENT <br> Nor do friends let friends meet men like the one who romanced Kristen Howey with a comped "blue-hair hour" buffet at a "cheesy" Las Vegas hotel. "He pulled out ...


0 Comments, 62 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
MVPveli 35 M
11  Articles
Hi   12/13/2005

If you are scared please. Don't come out


0 Comments, 78 Views, 5 Votes ,1.19 Score
MVPveli 35 M
11  Articles
hi   11/11/2005

make the girl that u love very specail


1 Comments, 131 Views, 7 Votes ,3.04 Score
drmyler 62 M
2  Articles
Those Photographs?   11/10/2005

I like AFF because the majority of females who are advertising themselves are honest nice people. However there are some who set out to mislead the potential suiter through a bit of false advertising mainly through their photographs. We know that in China it is a popular past-time to have professional photographs taken in a studio, with the right light and decent clothes to highlight the ...


4 Comments, 411 Views, 29 Votes ,3.94 Score
toukki 43 F
48  Articles
Marketing 101   9/13/2005

You see a gorgeous girl at a party. You go up to her and say, "I'm fantastic in bed." That's Direct Marketing. You're at a party with a bunch of friends and see a gorgeous girl. One of your friends goes up to her, and pointing at you says, "He's fantastic in bed." That's Advertising. <br> You see a gorgeous girl at a party. You go up to her and get her telephone number. The ...


2 Comments, 494 Views, 50 Votes ,7.11 Score
toukki 43 F
48  Articles
4 Helpful Ways To Beat Shyness   8/24/2005

1. Realizing that shyness is a problem for you is the first step in overcoming it. List your good qualities and enjoy the fact that you have many good points that can help you overcome your shyness problem. <br> Pick one thing you'd like to change about yourself and focus on that one thing until you succeed in making positive changes. <br> Systematically dealing with one ...


0 Comments, 325 Views, 24 Votes ,3.93 Score
a1aztours 56 M
1  Article
The "easy" first date..   8/22/2005

I have found that a comfortable first date is at a Borders bookstore for coffee. It allows a person to express interests, and yet is a casual environment. It also doesn't put a typical "time" constraint on the relationship (at least any longer than a cup of coffee). Finally it allows the man to pick up the check without endue expense..and it allows for the option of continued plans ...


0 Comments, 220 Views, 9 Votes ,3.64 Score
hisa_rai_ai_17 31 F
1  Article
never been on a date/lookin for love in all the wrong places   8/12/2005

yes i have never been on a date ever. i have only had 1 boyfriend and i'm a virgin. so it is very hard for me to start looking for someone around my age 18 or 19 to date. most guys only want sex and i'm not ready for that. i'm so shy so it is very hard for me to tell someone that i like them or am interested in them.. i don't really want to just be satisfied with someone who asks for sex ...


2 Comments, 472 Views, 13 Votes ,3.98 Score
saltydog2 70 M
1  Article
No better than Western women?   8/3/2005

You see a photo on-line and immediately take a liking to her features. Soft smile, kind eyes, slim, fit body.
Then you look for the date of the photo. Was it taken yesterday or two years ago yesterday? Can you trust the person on the other end? What does it really matter?
Why do so many women make their first (and sometimes only) impressions on whether or not you have a ...


0 Comments, 192 Views, 6 Votes ,2.80 Score
xXinfernoXx 40 F
1  Article
Getting a second date...   7/3/2005

First date for me is a HUGE impression. If i dont have fun the first time....im likely to not have fun the second time. <br> I'd like to see a guy who doesnt show up in sweats and dirty tshirt. Opening doors and such are bonus points. haha. <br> i HAVE to laugh. if i dont bust out laughing at least once...thats a bad sign. laughing is a sign of enjoyment <br> ...


4 Comments, 482 Views, 38 Votes ,2.82 Score
matt467 59 M
1  Article
What to wear   7/1/2005

I think a frist date should be a casual meet so you can wear what you go out and about in, i think a fancy resterant, trying to wear the right thing just puts to much stress on a stressful meeting already.poeple are more relaxed if thay feel comfitable what their wearing.


1 Comments, 220 Views, 11 Votes ,3.73 Score
guitarman1964 60 M
8  Articles
first dates and all dates   6/24/2005

u should always treat each other with respect it will bring you closer together and it will benifit the relationship.


0 Comments, 527 Views, 4 Votes ,3.25 Score
Pompey2005 47 M
5  Articles
Why go for a homerun on the first date?   6/11/2005

I find it fascinating how some guys manage to achieve a homerun (sex) on the first date. You can say that YES I am envious. But at the same time, I get upset because the girl is used like a piece of meat (I didn't put that very well, but you do understand what I mean right?). <br> I personally prefer the chase as in making progress with a girl. The first date can be dinner and ...


5 Comments, 486 Views, 31 Votes ,5.35 Score
paris42 61 F
1  Article
Is it really the first impression is so important? Because men are visual?   6/9/2005

I've heard so many times men are visual. So what do you mean by that? Do women should understand the men's characters and they should behave accordingly? <br> Whenever men emphasize that men are visual, women feel like that women should impress men by the best look with sensible dress/outfit, hair with color, thin body shape. <br> Then I read some books about how to ...


5 Comments, 331 Views, 20 Votes ,2.61 Score
VeryHandsomeCdn 58 M
12  Articles
The most stupid thing I did on a first date was.......   6/6/2005

Tell her I participated in both reading and writing articles in a forum for TFL's, Hi Honey Chic only 10 left to tie you. If you want you can THINK it stands for Terribly Frustrated Lovers But......never mind.


0 Comments, 118 Views, 5 Votes ,1.84 Score
muffles 48 M
3  Articles
What to do on a first date ?   4/30/2005

What is the thing we should do on a first date? I hear many people in different cultures that they kiss right away or even more. I am not like that and I am wondering if I am alone in the department. I still believe in the old-fashioned (so it seems) values of opening the door, go to a restaurant and paying for the food. Afterwards maybe going to a cinema or club and generally talk, just ...


0 Comments, 276 Views, 18 Votes ,3.26 Score
power52d 47 M
1  Article
Why people shouldn't go on first dates:)   3/30/2005

If you meet a person you should generally find a common meeting place not necessarily a date persay just have a great time doing whatever it is the two people decided to do and then several guards or lines of questioning don't seem as pressing for conversation it may just seem like you are talking to a friend this way A line of communication is then resolved and you lose track of the ...


0 Comments, 279 Views, 7 Votes ,1.77 Score
sgtextreme 48 M
5  Articles
Does it have to be so hard?   3/23/2005

After being in a long term relationship I have found that dating is harder then I remember. Maybe it is just me, but I feel people are too sensative today. <br> Who is to know what works? <br> Have been back in the dating world for 1 year, I have been on 54 first dates, is it just me or do people not like to go that far these days?


2 Comments, 3964 Views, 9 Votes ,0.86 Score
ameriken 65 M
13  Articles
The Starbuck's solution   3/19/2005

With online dating, I wont date anyone I have never physically met. So, before a first date, I always ask her to meet for coffee in a Starbucks or other public place. <br> When I first started online dating, I had email/IM chats that lasted weeks. Wow, we like the same things! We think the same! It seems like God carved us from the same piece of wood! <br> But none ...


1 Comments, 326 Views, 18 Votes ,4.76 Score
keg963 61 M
11  Articles
things you'll always remember   3/8/2005

Hopefully, the case of your first date ends is a blissful moment. Not always does this occur. The first date I reemember was a good time at a fourth of july celebration until my car took its last breath. Needless to say we had to walk home 2 miles, but because we had such a good time she didnt mind the long haul. 6 months later we were married and her with . It may not be everything when ...


0 Comments, 302 Views, 7 Votes ,2.53 Score
keg963 61 M
11  Articles
First dates must be good friends   2/24/2005

One must be alert when you have sought out the one that may end up being your wife or long term relationship. Body language and mental awareness are important on a first date friends may be a good resource as a first date. show the individual your not a penny pinch plan it out but dont go crazy if she wants to do something else. I've had women pay my way, or buy me a drink. Dont let ...


0 Comments, 514 Views, 6 Votes ,3.08 Score
OnNewPlanet 54 M
46  Articles
People like to talk about themselves!   1/30/2005

People like to talk about themselves! <br> <br> Most of us would rather talk about our life than listen to someone else talk about theirs. There is nothing wrong with that, it's just human nature. With that in mind the conversation starters I give you later in this article purposely focus the conversation on the other person.


1 Comments, 184 Views, 13 Votes ,3.14 Score
OnNewPlanet 54 M
46  Articles
On first dates conversation can be uncomfortably slow at times.   1/30/2005

On first dates conversation can be uncomfortably slow at times. You don't know much about the person and you have no history with them so it can be difficult to find things to talk about. Add a little bit of nervousness and tension to the situation and things are downright awkward.


0 Comments, 900 Views, 8 Votes ,4.41 Score
scottishman2 51 M
5  Articles
exciting   1/27/2005

First dates are exciting, everything is new and fresh.A world that was once mute becomes like the first day of spring when the flowers are starting to bloom.Suddenly there is a burst of colour in your life and the sun feels warm on your face.You can't help, but smile!You feel like a different person.You feel like you could walk on water, but you still say to yourself foolishly, that your ...


0 Comments, 472 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
AngelChiou 37 F
4  Articles
First meeting   1/14/2005

Well.... I remember every details about the first meeting. I know the man from AFF, it was a great night Because he is a foreigner and its a good chance to practice English. I was late so I sent SMS to him. We met at Shilin Nightmarket and he asked me if he can kiss me. I thought its weird, but maybe its ok to foreigners. Then I agreed. I did love him a lot and I've thought ...


2 Comments, 788 Views, 30 Votes ,2.95 Score
OnNewPlanet 54 M
46  Articles
YOU HAVE TO BE A ROCK STAR, MILLIONAIRE, OR ATHLETE   12/28/2004

YOU HAVE TO BE A ROCK STAR, MILLIONAIRE, OR ATHLETE TO GET HOT DATES. <br> Guys love to believe that they don’t have what it takes to get laid. And most men use their lack of success as an excuse for not dating and pursuing the women they really want. These men blame the system, society, social issues, and economic realities for their lack of sex–anyone but ...


0 Comments, 175 Views, 8 Votes ,2.09 Score
OnNewPlanet 54 M
46  Articles
YOU HAVE TO BE A ROCK STAR, MILLIONAIRE, OR ATHLETE   12/28/2004

YOU HAVE TO BE A ROCK STAR, MILLIONAIRE, OR ATHLETE TO GET HOT DATES. <br> Guys love to believe that they don’t have what it takes to get laid. And most men use their lack of success as an excuse for not dating and pursuing the women they really want. These men blame the system, society, social issues, and economic realities for their lack of sex–anyone but ...


0 Comments, 878 Views, 12 Votes ,1.74 Score
mprice300 65 M
1  Article
Is what you see, what you get?   9/22/2004

Most people, male and female, act more like what they think you want than how they really are. However, first dates are always special, so you should act special if you want to see the person again. American's are taught not to hurt other people's feelings for no reason. But, is telling a girl you had a great time and will call "being polite" when you have no intention to do so? Not ...


0 Comments, 290 Views, 17 Votes ,1.43 Score
mitch9922 55 M
13  Articles
It never fails...   8/27/2004

It never fails that the first date is always enjoyable and I am having a good time and he seems to be doing the same. The evening is over we have spent 3 or 4 hours talking and having a good dinner. We walk out together, give each other a hug and he says, We will do this again. I never hear from him again. <br> Why do guys do that. If they didn't have a good time they should ...


0 Comments, 1072 Views, 29 Votes ,3.64 Score
mitch9922 55 M
13  Articles
For the women   8/27/2004

What is a woman looking for in a man? Someone that is kind, old romantic, and honest. See I was raised to be a gentleman at all times being considerate and maybe too old fashion if one may say. What are your expatiations of a man on the first date? .


1 Comments, 968 Views, 21 Votes ,4.24 Score
mitch9922 55 M
13  Articles
On Time   8/27/2004

I've always thought it was important to be on time for a first date. It shows you are competant and can tell time. .


1 Comments, 209 Views, 26 Votes ,6.26 Score
zhengxing1985 37 M
5  Articles
第一次约会须知   8/7/2004

男女双方都应准时赴约, 这样才会使彼此感到对方的诚意.如遇意外迟到, 理应致谦, 说明原因.会晤后, 神情应落落大方.过分羞涩, 会引起对方拘束;而过分洒脱, 也往往惹对方猜疑.在倾听对方言谈时, 切忌心不在焉, 或目不转睛盯住对方打量, 应以自然的神色为宜. ...


0 Comments, 114 Views, 25 Votes ,5.34 Score
gothicdragon 38 F
1  Article
delightful   7/22/2004

1. You should ask for a date before you make plans. 2. Ask where the person you are interested in where they would like to go. 3. You should also ask who they prefer to pay. 4. If you have questions about them ask first. 5. If you going to take someone to dinner that doesn't mean to take them to a fast food restaurant. 6. If you can't get it right the first time you may need to do ...


0 Comments, 316 Views, 32 Votes ,2.21 Score
abd33 47 M
227  Articles
遇见爱情的时候,你准备好爱了吗?……   7/17/2004

遇见爱情的时候,你准备好爱了吗? <br> <br> ...


0 Comments, 2 Views, 28 Votes ,6.73 Score
abd33 47 M
227  Articles
妗르   7/17/2004

我要的幸福 <br> <br>   每个人对幸福的理解都不同。                     有一种幸福的诠释是:能自由地支配生活。 ...


0 Comments, 4 Views, 7 Votes ,5.84 Score
abd33 47 M
227  Articles
想见你   7/10/2004

想见你 思绪 可以看得见你的背影 消瘦而令人心痛的身形里 那颗疲惫的心 却看不到我的伤怀 <br> 想念 默默地吞噬着 我的寂寞 这黑黑的夜啊 就可以如此赤裸了我的心吗? 没有你的夜里 那一点伤 阻隔着爱与悲伤的胶合 <br> 也许我 永远只能驻长在你的心底 ...


0 Comments, 292 Views, 27 Votes ,5.98 Score
abd33 47 M
227  Articles
也曾有過心灵悸动的一刻   7/10/2004

也曾有過心灵悸动的一刻   看惯了身旁围城中上演的一场场闹剧, 听多了城中人咬牙切齿的恨声, 也就失去了攻城的勇气.试想想:自己在公司中拼命厮杀后, ...


0 Comments, 398 Views, 18 Votes ,6.54 Score
Alice634 39 F
2  Articles
真失敗   7/1/2004

我認識了一個男生, 他長得還可以吧我, 我會天天想著他, 有時我一整天晚上都睡不著, 我想我是不是真的愛上他了, 他從來沒有找過我的, 因此我急了我就約他出去玩他也真的跟了出去, 我跟他說了一些話我不知道是不是太氣他, 他一氣之下走了, 剩下我一個人在街上.請問各位我和他還有沒有說將來嗎?


0 Comments, 271 Views, 21 Votes
039cm 38 M
2  Articles
她...為她...跟她...和她...   6/10/2004

你只會在這個時候找我陪你 到底, 跟她在一起快不快樂 我自己也不知道 對她來說 我似乎只是當她心情不好或是她的他沒空時陪著她的那ㄍ人 有時候一想到這個 總覺得自己很卑微 從什麼時候開始自己竟然會去扮演這樣的角色 那是以前從來沒想過的 她老是說 自己也喜歡我阿... ...


0 Comments, 551 Views, 17 Votes ,0.86 Score
asd1231948 75 F
3  Articles
选择   4/23/2004

我抱着极大的好奇心,想试试网上究竟有什么。也许就象钱钟书写的《围城》,“城外的人”想冲进城里。 来到网上首先是选择,选择网址,选择我的需要,我去软件下载软件,我去硬件看价格,我去游戏下载游戏秘笈,我去看书。。。。。真是什么都可以去看。需要用心的是选择。 ...


0 Comments, 86 Views, 58 Votes ,5.11 Score
yanshicai 42 M
4  Articles
爱就恨   4/23/2004

首先, 做我的朋友最需要的是真诚!我不接受谎言, 任何的, 善意的谎言也是慌!其次, 我的朋友要宽容, 因为我...嘿嘿, 说话有时候真的是没有经过大脑的喔.如果不是"大肚子"一定会被气得死翘翘的!所以如果你官拜"宰相"的话,成为我的朋友应该是比较安全的!


1 Comments, 79 Views, 29 Votes ,2.34 Score
knightquixotic 59 M
2  Articles
The First Date Interview   8/3/2003

A first date should be a learning experience. This is where you look for mutual attraction and common ground. You also look for early warning signs. Someone who wants to be physical immediately or asks about money all the time will probably fall in love with you body or your bank, nothing else. From your side, you should ask about what they like and who their friends are. A person who ...


0 Comments, 70 Views, 121 Votes ,6.67 Score
197334 50 F
6  Articles
all the dream will disappear no matter sweetdream or nightmare   11/6/2002

dream is dream . it does not existing in the virtual world , only an illusion , so no matter sweat dream or nightmare , they will all disappear as soon as you waking up .


0 Comments, 97 Views, 39 Votes ,2.83 Score
Helan34 50 F
2  Articles
I want see your a photo   7/30/2002

I want meet with you, first I want see your photo.


0 Comments, 262 Views, 79 Votes ,1.94 Score
angel_girl724 40 F
2  Articles
网恋,如春天里偶尔飘零的落叶   7/27/2002

  依燃是芸芸众生中一个极为平常的过客, 要不是网络, 依燃也不会去体味那次刻骨铭心的网恋.但人生就是这样充满着戏剧性, 依燃接触了网络, 也就无法避免的陷如其中, 那份美丽的网恋让依燃迷失其中, 模糊的忘了来时的路. 上班 下班 休息, 偶尔的时间里也去处理一下日常生活中的琐碎, ...


0 Comments, 21 Views, 3 Votes ,1.96 Score
shabi_250nmd 52 M
1  Article
internet is fantastic   9/6/2001

i have ever known a girl, of course via internet. We chat with each other so often and some time forget to sleep and eat. Then we all have the strong desire to see each other so we had a date. That was a rainy day. I stood in the rain, watching a girl with a small, red umbrella come. She is the girl i love. I have to say internet is really fantastic. It helps me to find my true love.


0 Comments, 120 Views, 37 Votes ,3.32 Score
gjh1979 44 M
1  Article
你知道我在等你吗   6/25/2001

我等了你很久,本想得到你的一句话,反反复复,而你就是那一句表白,而我并不想你总是那样的言语,让我伤心。我等了你很久,而你总是那句话,我两只有靠缘分,我不相信什么缘分,而你总是的推脱,让我怎么能不伤心?我不停的去问,我不停的去追顺,你到底是怎么? <br>


0 Comments, 297 Views, 6 Votes ,0.80 Score
zz2001mm 59 M
1  Article
最难忘的一次约会   6/25/2001

那是今年五月二十日的一个晚上,我正在一个网吧上网,我寻找到了一位女士,年龄大约在三十岁上下,我俩谈了三个多小时,当聊得投机时发现这位女士正和我处在同一网吧,我俩见面了,她提出要去我家玩,我同意了,就在这天晚上我俩就……我觉得她真够劲, 她回家时拒绝我送她, ...


0 Comments, 1362 Views, 5 Votes ,2.49 Score
zhangyu01 40 M
1  Article
甜美回忆   6/11/2001

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0 Comments, 92 Views, 2 Votes ,3.12 Score
TakHingEng 47 M
1  Article
Top Man and Super Man!   4/25/2001

I hope so be good men. Like to be Top! Happy day at this aisa.friendfinder.com. This sky is so beautiful. Man and lady will have good lover. Time to go into internet! I have e-mail at www.elong.com, lovesky.china.com, www.china.com, www.yahoo.com, and www.hotmail.com. Do it what whatevery you want to do. No more bad thing to say. My dear friends is into my heart. I will like to read books, ...


0 Comments, 96 Views, 22 Votes
Mr_Omoshiroii 50 M
1  Article
I realized...if you want to have a stable relationship with a new woman...   1/12/2001

...YOU SHOULD NOT HAVE SEX WITH HER ON THE FIRST DATE!!! I had this experience (twice!!) and it really made an unstable relationship... The first time this happened to me...the condom broke...and then all hell broke loose!! We had to go go through so much crap...and I was worried that I might have gotten my ex-girlfriend pregnant!! We only continued our relationship because we ...


0 Comments, 144 Views, 26 Votes ,1.62 Score
luo_shen 53 F
1  Article
Tiny list of do's and don't   1/9/2001

Do: <br> 1 Try and at least be friendly, if you can't have "love atfirst sight" 2 Offer to go dutch, regardless if you are male or female 3 Relate to each by mentioning things you've discussed in email, to bring a sense of "reality" and familiarity <br> Don't: <br> 1 Just go see a movie. It's dark and hard to talk 2 Go "all out". Be casual, as if you were ...


0 Comments, 151 Views, 24 Votes ,2.79 Score
Sushi_Roll 52 M
1  Article
Blind Dates on AFF   10/17/2000

Would you go on a blind date if you did not see their picture? <br> Personally i used to think that, it was really important to know what they looked like before i would go and meet them. Granted this is still somewhat true, however i have come to the realization that life is too short to be shallow about appearance only. I mean what is worse thing that can happen? You have a bad ...


0 Comments, 689 Views, 62 Votes ,1.54 Score
Drew32 58 M
1  Article
Step-by-step, how to and what to do's!   9/24/2000

The first date! To be sure it's an anxious time for both people. Especially when you meet someone over the net sight unseen. Even if you see get a picture of the other person, it's still not the same as when you meet someone face-to-face like in the traditional manners of meeting others. <br> So what should you do to help alleviate the fear and anxiousness? <br> Well, ...


0 Comments, 283 Views, 46 Votes ,6.24 Score
1unusual1 42 M
6  Articles
Do you mind if I smoke?   7/26/2000

when getting acquainted with someone for the first time, - it is better not to expose any vulnerabilities you have...unless of course they are shared by theother person. <br> Take smoking for example, - if she (or he) does, - then you can too. If they do not, = you're reaching for that nicotine fix may be a turn off! <br> The other person will be polite, of course, but ...


0 Comments, 121 Views, 16 Votes ,2.54 Score
idolz 54 M
1  Article
*SEX and the first date*   5/8/2000

*SEX and the first date* This is the hardest thing to know when is the rite time for it in any relationship and there is no set rules for it for either party, but for the guy it is best to try and read the girl if she really wants to have sex then go a head and make her happy, BUT if she somehow suggests that she doesnt want to do it then by NO means try it on her , ...


0 Comments, 168 Views, 52 Votes ,3.16 Score