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10pjw 71 M
8  Articles
Are all Russian/Ukrainian women on this site Frauds ??   2/7/2011

Anybody else had similar experience ??


3 Comments, 27 Views, 5 Votes ,3.47 Score
fishinglover4u 51 F
1  Article
AFF Cheater - Ladies Pay Attention!   10/18/2009

Ladies,

His profile: csgghh.

If this member contacts you, never respond; if you already communicated with him, RUN away now! He's a liar and cheater. He's here only for free sex. See the message below:

Received this email from a stranger while ago. Just wondering anybody know this guy? If you do, please let me know his profile. Good Luck on your search!

...


7 Comments, 117 Views, 5 Votes ,4.45 Score
baliliebe 65 M
21  Articles
Learn German! 学习德语!   7/28/2009

Who wants to learn German online? I school you at level A1. I am happy to answer questions by email.

谁愿意学习德语考试?俺学校您级格A1 。我很高兴地回答问题的电子邮件。


0 Comments, 9 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
TechMan_1000 61 M
17  Articles
Need some tips and ideas   3/12/2009

I would like to know what other people feel make a date safe.

for example: Have first date in public place. Meet date at location. Have a friend in crowd to monitor. Carry spray mace.

Lets get some good ideas going.


0 Comments, 27 Views, 3 Votes ,3.43 Score
Henry10lakers24 32 M
1  Article
I will definetelt will hear my partner if she want's to take it to the next level.   11/28/2008

Yes will love to wait until my partner says she wants to take it to the next levell but I prefer to wait until we get married.


0 Comments, 6 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
sevenofmine 55 M
1  Article
There are also good experiances   1/7/2008

I chatted to a lady and she mentioned that she was going to my home town for a few days holiday. Spontaneously I offered her bed and breakfast. When I said it, it was to late. I thought about things was what might happen and of course got worried. Especially because I didn't want her to fall for promises I never made. Just bed & breakfast. She finally came with her and we had a nice weekend. We ...


0 Comments, 98 Views, 9 Votes ,3.85 Score
tucxkie 35 F
1  Article
Be yourself   11/29/2007

I think everyone know what is good and what is bad..so if you feel not safe you should stop it......


8 Comments, 88 Views, 11 Votes ,3.17 Score
WoAiNiSweetBabes 107 M
10  Articles
do you feel safe   11/26/2007

drinkng coffe with me?


1 Comments, 30 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
LoneWolf222 45 M
6  Articles
Friends Network Bulletin/ Safety   11/26/2007

Safety 4 My Network Friends



1) "NO GAMES-CONS HERE" This Is What I Am All About!!! I Will Not Tolerate Any Abuse 2 Me Or Any Of My FRIENDS In My Network!!! If I Or Any Of My FRIENDS Tell Me That Somebody Is HARASSING Them (I.E. Sexual, Threats, Jealousy, ETC.), I Will DELETE You From My Network & ...


0 Comments, 15 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
michelle_02 45 F
14  Articles
=_+ 感悟爱情生活   5/14/2007

love you not for whom you are, but who i am when i'm by your side. 我爱你并不是因为你是谁,而是因为我在你身边的时候我是谁!

no person deserves your tears, and who deserves them won't make you cry! 没有人值得你流泪,值得你流泪的人是不会让你哭的!

just because someone doesn't love you as you wi**, ** doesn't mean you're not loved ...


0 Comments, 30 Views, 10 Votes ,4.18 Score
MrStan 58 M
74  Articles
The judge ruled in my favor!!!!!   4/5/2007

As some of you may already know, I have been fighting two extremely stressful legal battles!
One was a civil law suit that I filed against one of the banks I was formerly a of. They broke THE FAIR CREDIT ACT laws.
Without boring you with to much detail, my ex girlfriend watched over my shoulder as I entered my pin number into one of many ATM machines in ASIA ...


19 Comments, 287 Views, 13 Votes ,5.32 Score
cafreracer 47 M
1  Article
A new kind of e-scam?   3/27/2007

Recently I communicated by email with a girl from Ukrania. She told me that she doesn't have a computer and she doesn't speak english, so she applied a translation agency. But after several emails, I received an email from the "agency" explaining me that the girl had financial problems in her family and now she can't pay to stay in contact with me. Of course they offered me the posibility to pay ...


2 Comments, 83 Views, 6 Votes ,3.93 Score
whitedragon1964 53 M
11  Articles
For women I don't think a bar would be a good first date   2/19/2007

Remember it only takes a second to slip something in your drink if your distracted.Don't become a victim of !


0 Comments, 35 Views, 6 Votes ,5.07 Score
whitedragon1964 53 M
11  Articles
Don't give too much personal info too quickly   2/19/2007

You might think you really know the other person by writing or phone conversations and if they're be completely honest then you do.But remember there are a lot of scam artists, psycopaths, and stalkers out there.Be careful!


1 Comments, 51 Views, 8 Votes ,5.10 Score
whitedragon1964 53 M
11  Articles
Women be careful   2/17/2007

I'm an ex Chicago cop and I would advise meeting in a public place such as a mall or restaurant and possibly have the 1st date as part of a group outing so you're not alone with what's basically a stranger


0 Comments, 29 Views, 3 Votes ,4.90 Score
thearcher66 49 M
1  Article
scams lastest name   2/11/2007

singlehope1 i think it is a stolen pic note on the second e-mail > To: thearcher66 > > Date: Feb 11, 2007 9:45 AM EST > > > > Well this is what happened..my dad has a company whch makes sales of electronics internationally.The company makes sales within United States and Nigeria in West Africa.So he thought instead of going and coming he decided to move with his family to Nigeria.So ...


0 Comments, 86 Views, 5 Votes ,1.51 Score
ke5541 33 M
10  Articles
Safety Tips   2/11/2007

1) The girl/boy might be a little crazy. I think not letting them know your home for a few dates.
2) Meet in safe places. Such as restaurants or other places.
3) Drinking. (This is for ladies) I think its best for the first few dates if you like to drink alot, watch yourself. Don't let yourself get drunk.
4) Date in the daytime.
What are some other ...


0 Comments, 73 Views, 3 Votes ,3.92 Score
bb10103 45 M
2  Articles
New kind of e-scam   12/25/2006

Well let me tell you of another e-scam . Some people from ex eastern block countries, especially the poor ones like Georgia and Moldova discovered another way to get cash. From airplane tickets.....Yes exactly airplane tickets. I sent an airplane ticket to some chick in Moldova to visit me for a weekend. The chick never came and the ticket (even though issued in another country and normally ...


2 Comments, 155 Views, 6 Votes ,2.51 Score
CheekeyMonkey 50 M
4  Articles
Dating Safely - KNOW thy SCAM   12/6/2006

Dating Safely without being Scammed I have been disturbed by the number of people I've met in just a week of joining AFF who have pointed out to me that not everyone is as they seem.
In my limited experience I think i can generalise now:
SCAM 1-Russia/Nigeria/SAD STORY or SECS for Money ------------------------ WATCHOUT FOR: ...


5 Comments, 249 Views, 25 Votes ,6.89 Score
MrStan 58 M
74  Articles
Have you encountered Misanthrope's in your life?   11/21/2006

"I have researched various definitions from various sources that I believe in my own personal opinion has the most accurate description based on the few individuals I have encountered. I do not wish to be grim about this article I have written because I have mostly encountered people that were pleasant or indifferent except for a few with whom this article I am referring." -Stan ...


0 Comments, 34 Views, 6 Votes ,4.50 Score
MrStan 58 M
74  Articles
Internet Dating Dafety Tips   11/19/2006

It's always important to date smartly and safely, regardless of how you first meet someone. Before you begin exchanging emails with other singles on, please take a few minutes to review these online dating safety tips.
1. Maintain your anonymity. One of the safety benefits of online dating is the ability to take as long as you want getting to know a ...



18 Comments, 242 Views, 18 Votes ,6.67 Score
procida 68 M
25  Articles
surprise   11/12/2006

after have meet her we go to the hotel she says wait two minutes and she puts her throws its wig in the wall cupboard wait two minutes it throws its glass eye in the wall cupboard wait two minutes and she puts her wooden leg in the wall cupboard
and say
come on baby?

i say : -"where? in the wall cupboard?
be care of dating ...


0 Comments, 46 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
NiceGuy196145 107 M
4  Articles
I don't want to be a millionaire this way!   11/8/2006

Hi everybody,
it's a shame that people are abusing the site again and again. I got this email offering me even more money than in the last scam. The account is already deleted. And again: Whenever you receive scrap like this, post it here and then delete it!
So this is the promissing message I received:
=======================================
Hi, ...


4 Comments, 124 Views, 0 Votes
RichardTTripp 72 M
95  Articles
Let me apologize,   10/28/2006

Let me apologize,
I am a hot headed egocentric fool much of the time acting far to quickly in anger with far too little information.. I want to apologize to SP33DY2 for my insulting remarks about his postings in this magazine. He is a very intelligent man with a kind and forgiving heart, fortunately for me. He could write some very powerful articles in French but not in English. ...


0 Comments, 16 Views, 2 Votes ,1.04 Score
RichardTTripp 72 M
95  Articles
This is crazy to me… And I am angry about it   10/28/2006

This is crazy to me… And I am angry about it
There is a man on this site who posted 10 articles saying nothing but “Hello I’m Here”. He has a new article out now that says, “Maybe” and that is it. Now he holds the rank of 3 most contributing writer in this online magazine. I am outraged by this because there are many serious writers here ...


1 Comments, 22 Views, 6 Votes
SP33DY2 45 M
11  Articles
hello   10/27/2006

i'm here


1 Comments, 12 Views, 3 Votes
Larvaefam 37 F
1  Article
Scam   10/9/2006

He pumped me out and named me the woman of the hole whole Russian scam. Reason ‒ I pointed out that his addressee the girl of 18 years old from the city Yosh kar ola of the former Soviet Republic is the scammer. He named ME scammer, didn’t trust ME and sent to Her a bunch of the money to the ticket.
He is sure, she will arrive, he ...



3 Comments, 264 Views, 18 Votes ,2.58 Score
NiceGuy196145 107 M
4  Articles
Just a warning, if you want to be rich!   9/13/2006

Hi everybody. Just got this first message from "africanqueen". She already deleted her account for good reason. Whenever you receive something like that, do what I did. Delete it!
Read for yourself: It sounds great, but it's scrap!!!
Take care! =========== Hello Dear, How are you today, hope fine dear.I want to let you know a little secret about my family and what i ...


3 Comments, 112 Views, 10 Votes ,4.18 Score
in2play22 55 M
10  Articles
Never leave a drink unattended.   7/18/2006

Anytime you are drinking and w/ someone. never leave that drink unattended. Someone can easily put drugs into it. Especially if not in a place you are very familiar with.


2 Comments, 48 Views, 11 Votes ,3.35 Score
in2play22 55 M
10  Articles
Dont leave personal information laying around   7/18/2006

Careful what you leave laying around. If you meet someone and they are in your car or in your house, don't leave anything around they could steal. Credit cards, even bills can give them information for identity theft.


0 Comments, 27 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
in2play22 55 M
10  Articles
keep info confidential   7/16/2006

dont give out any private info even if the person keeps asking. the more they ask the more suspicious you should be.


0 Comments, 19 Views, 6 Votes ,4.50 Score
mgraeme 53 M
1  Article
Nigerian scams here   7/8/2006

Nigerian scammers are at it again !!
I recently started up a conversation with simplyjess44 (who has since been deleted after I reported the incident). She claimed to be Jessica Draper, an Australian artist and art collector.
I met her online and then within a day or two, she was supposedly travelling to South Africa to buy art. After that, she went to Nigeria . . . and ...


2 Comments, 89 Views, 11 Votes ,3.17 Score
purticutegirl 44 F
2  Articles
PHONE STALKER   6/18/2006

Ladies,
Please be aware that once you give out your number, part of your privacy could be in jepordized. It took me a couple of week to get rid of a crazy member that couldn't take no for an answer. The first call went like this:
Would you please go out to dinner with me. Then afterwards come over to my place?
I of course said no. Why? Because...
#1) ...


3 Comments, 93 Views, 12 Votes ,4.92 Score
ammi23 34 F
1  Article
Let meet at the public place for the first time   5/3/2006

If you don't know about him well you have to meet him at the plublic place at the first time, and you will happy and feel good later for the second time


1 Comments, 46 Views, 6 Votes ,4.22 Score
ABI513 69 M
5  Articles
Internet Dating Scams   4/28/2006

I continue to be amazed at the number of people, especially men, who seem to have a difficult time understanding Internet Marriage Scams. I could understand this at the advent of Internet dating years ago, but not now with the wealth of information available about scams and scammers on the Internet, TV, magazines, books, etc. Even the U.S. Embassy in Russia devotes a Q&A on the ...


2 Comments, 154 Views, 12 Votes ,5.10 Score
WisemanPhD 56 M
124  Articles
Before you meet someone on a first date   4/12/2006

Have them fax you a copy of their State ID or their Drivers License & you can do the same, to insure that you are actually meeting the right person on the first date.
It may seem cautious, but it is better to be cautious then sorry.
Also meet in a public place on your first date.
-Wiseman...


3 Comments, 118 Views, 12 Votes ,3.33 Score
WisemanPhD 56 M
124  Articles
The Benefits of Having AFF Confirmed ID Tag   3/30/2006

I Just Received My AFF Confirmed ID Tag If you want to build a real relationship on the AFF website, you may have fallen in love with a fake photograph, along with a fake name, along with a fake country or city.
After all, you just have to give any credit card and a e-mail address to AFF, then you are a member! That's if you are a paying member.
...


5 Comments, 129 Views, 9 Votes ,4.92 Score
mishy5 38 F
17  Articles
Tips for getting Ready for the Big Date   3/13/2006

A Delicate Balance Tips for getting Ready for the Big Date

It’s Friday night. You’ve got a date worth getting excited about – and worth setting aside some preparation time. So why spend twenty minutes gazing listlessly into your closet? There’s no shortage of options: wow him with an eye-catching halter, or maybe shoot for demurely ...


2 Comments, 89 Views, 9 Votes ,3.64 Score
36ford 75 M
3  Articles
Married women?   3/3/2006

I was at a dance place the other night which I go to often with some friends. There is this Philappino gal there who ask me to dance every so often. She is very attractive. A fellow I know came up to me and said, Do you know she is married. I said no, She isn't wearing no ring. He said I took her out a while back and when I went to drop her off back home she said no don't go to my ...


4 Comments, 209 Views, 11 Votes ,3.54 Score
ThomasPhD 56 M
124  Articles
REJECTION creates INTERNET STALKERS   2/27/2006

It is really creepy, frustrating and violating when someone stalks you over the internet. Why do they do it mostly? REJECTION Rejection is something that is part of life, and we all have been rejected at some point in ourlives. Either the gal or the guy turned us down one to many times. Or we didn't get the job and the other girl or guy did instead of us. People are paying ...


3 Comments, 107 Views, 8 Votes ,2.55 Score
elisa1 39 F
7  Articles
Do not give in for at least 3 months!   2/25/2006

Dating is not about technicalities. When you get technical about dating, the relationship is most likely to become technical. As a rule, I always wait three months before the relationship progresses into an intimate relationship. I know that sounds like I'm keeping a watch in the middle of the relationship but when you really think about it, my advice is correct. <br> If ...


9 Comments, 367 Views, 35 Votes ,3.06 Score
ThomasPhD 56 M
124  Articles
Beware of Drugs?   2/23/2006

These are drugs that are sometimes used to assist a sexual assault. Sexual assault is any type of sexual activity that a person does not agree to. It can include inappropriate touching, vaginal penetration, sexual intercourse, , and attempted . Because of the effects of these drugs, victims may be physically helpless, unable to refuse sex, and can't remember what happened. The drugs often ...


5 Comments, 97 Views, 5 Votes ,4.12 Score
simonchinese 43 M
4  Articles
think as a lady   2/22/2006

as a guy, the dating safty is not a big issue for me. <br> just using common sense , and make most of internet emails, chat whatever before meet.it mainly to avoid wasting time .who will date a lot of people? <br> a lady is different.I will agree with meeting in a public library, offee house etc. do not ask her realy name, address etc... <br> if you are a good ...


0 Comments, 63 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
snowonroof2006 76 M
2  Articles
Dating/general safety   2/7/2006

Dating/general safety <br> Add to this General Safety list these common sense dating safety rules: <br> Don't be afraid to say NO! If you're not comfortable with the way things are headed, run like hell. <br> When you are comfortable enough to meet for the first time. Meet in a busy (read, where there's a LOT of people) public place. <br> Get a picture ...


0 Comments, 111 Views, 6 Votes ,4.22 Score
CrdnAtd 51 M
8  Articles
safety   2/3/2006

Be sure bring no weapon when go for a date


3 Comments, 80 Views, 2 Votes ,1.04 Score
ThomasPhD 56 M
124  Articles
Emotional Safety! Share, Check, Share Method   2/1/2006

Share a litte about yourself and check for the following from your date to see if it is emotionally safe for you to continue to open up your feelings to this person. <br> 1) Share a little bit about yourself and see if they are JUDGEMENTAL? If they are, then stop sharing about yourself because it is not safe and you will get your feelings hurt by their own perceived harsh opinion ...


3 Comments, 94 Views, 8 Votes ,3.25 Score
fireman544 56 M
3  Articles
File a flight plan   1/4/2006

This article is intended for women going on a first date with someone whom they are less than familiar with. I am going out on a limb here, but women will be the focus. Simply because they will be the victim if things go awry. <br> DO NOT meet your date at home or lead them there at a later time. <br> Choose the terrain. You should always plan the first date for a ...


0 Comments, 77 Views, 7 Votes ,4.31 Score
BagelMaker 44 M
10  Articles
You've got mail, and maybe gonorrhea   1/4/2006

You've got mail -- and possibly gonorrhea, HIV or another sexually transmitted disease. <br> E-mail sent through Web sites launched in Los Angeles and San Francisco is providing people with a free, sometimes anonymous, way to tell their casual sex partners they might have picked up more than they bargained for. <br> Los Angeles County health officials launched ...


0 Comments, 59 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
tony7491044 64 M
4  Articles
Can I trust a woman, who is seeking marriage   12/15/2005

I have been in contact with two russian woman that appear to be sincere. However, I am old enough to be their father. One of them, suggested on a three year marriage contract. During which time, she would service my personal sexual needs every night, for three years. Is this Heaven, or just "Drano" for my plumbling? Here is a young sexy woman, attractive and willing to do me a ...


6 Comments, 282 Views, 17 Votes ,1.29 Score
cuteblackchickny 57 F
4  Articles
use ur   10/30/2005

i have yet to meet anyone from the internet world in person. <br> when u meet someone from online one has to be cautious. no matter how goodlooking or beautiful the person appears in your eyes. most importantly NEVER EVER go to anyone's house or apartment after talking with them online. that is a definte NO NO... and let someone know who your are meeting, where you are ...


1 Comments, 67 Views, 7 Votes ,3.04 Score
lartimer 58 M
10  Articles
We are good friend....   8/30/2005

It's a short one but a safe one. <br> Imagine that you meet a guy, it's the second time, you seat near to him, nothing on what you have show say you want to be with this one. It's a gentle guy but no more. Then now you are on the sofa, near to each other then the guy talk, it's quiet a longtime he talk and you still have say nothing, then he put his hand on your knees and say the ...


0 Comments, 252 Views, 5 Votes ,5.10 Score
Chun_17 54 F
14  Articles
An elder brother give will soon become adult of younger sister of letter   8/7/2005

Dear younger sister, I want to tell your words, these all come from my heart. You must find out in addition to love, enable you use the strong station of a feet in the thing on the earth. You have to find out the way for make a living.Consider now not late.I think the educational background to have never what importance, all of the geniuses are not professional trainings, but, is not a ...


0 Comments, 113 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
hui699 35 F
20  Articles
▽L∵不eHadn't you, how I obtained the world to be ableL∵不e▼   8/6/2005

How many roads does a person want to walk to be able to arrive the heaven? Often was the people in rushes toward the heaven on the road only then to see the light suddenly the heaven to miss early by oneself! ~ I like this section of speech very much, it tells the people not to want blindly to pursue the ideal, suitable the trace which stops down has a look oneself to pass ...


0 Comments, 156 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
toukki 43 F
48  Articles
Q&A: Avoid Looking Desperate   7/30/2005

The idea of being "congruent" when you communicate simply means to have all levels of your communication "in alignment" with each other and "saying the same thing." If you're asking a woman for her number, but you're looking around nervously and hesitating, it's not "congruent." On the other hand, if you're saying "Write down your e-mail and number for me" while taking ...


3 Comments, 576 Views, 9 Votes ,4.28 Score
slinky8888 45 M
3  Articles
Playing it safe online   7/29/2005

Don't rush into anything. Meeting someone online and then arranging a date in a relatively short time can be dangerous. Take time to find out who this person really is. If someone is pressuring you to get together before you are ready, this is another warning sign. If anything feels strange as you get to know this person, then it is time to back away and look for another match. ...


0 Comments, 271 Views, 8 Votes ,4.87 Score
slinky8888 45 M
3  Articles
Dating donots   7/29/2005

There are certain guidelines that you should follow in or to have a successful date. Should you not follow one of these guidelines, be prepared to continue the date in an awkward light and do not expect to go out on another date with this individual. If you fail to follow these simple rules, you only have yourself to blame for the dating disaster. <br> Do Not Talk About Your Ex! ...


0 Comments, 314 Views, 4 Votes ,4.41 Score
toukki 43 F
48  Articles
It Is Easy To Get Involved In Online Dating Relationships   7/13/2005

It is easy to get involved in online dating relationships; for some it can lead to an addiction. <br> Some find themselves enjoying the flirtatious advances of the opposite sex, both in chat rooms and with on-line dating services. <br> People get sucked into on-line relationships and become addicted to the world of on-line dating and chat rooms. <br> For ...


0 Comments, 198 Views, 11 Votes ,2.23 Score
bh2004 51 F
8  Articles
A Feeling of Affection   7/9/2005

A Feeling of Affection <br> <br> She came to know her Seppo, an economist from Northern <br> Europe, while having an interview at a place with the aroma of coffee.He was practising for economic reasearch by way of Beijing.Seppo had very thick and fluffy hair with a kind smile on his face.He looked like a fisherman with his dress which was ...


0 Comments, 346 Views, 5 Votes ,2.49 Score
dengshuangbi2 50 F
161  Articles
Hi,glad to meet you!   7/2/2005

Hi, glad to meet you!Thank you for your kindess !Hope we be good friend or more .DO you think so?My mobile phone is¡£Look forward to hearing from you soon! Best withes with you


0 Comments, 193 Views, 5 Votes ,0.53 Score
VeryHandsomeCdn 58 M
12  Articles
Hey be careful   6/6/2005

Great advise yes? Don't you feel like a fool for wasting the second or two it took to read this. <br> Just another chance to get points to contact someone. And I'm sick of seeing that honey chics pic and want mine on top.


1 Comments, 407 Views, 10 Votes ,1.59 Score
chexmix 51 M
1  Article
word of advice   6/1/2005

hey gals, there are definitely some scumbags and jerkoffs lurking in the internet. be careful of who you respond to and what info you give them. if things backfire, they can use that info against you. just be wary! i know you probably know this already but this is just a friendly reminder.


0 Comments, 279 Views, 9 Votes ,3.85 Score
unexploredfantsy 40 M
1  Article
Being Your Self   5/26/2005

I would like to say that all females and guys should act them selves in some respect when their on dates for the first time, ive noticed that in my experience and others, girls worry about the way they look, always checking a mirror when they find one...and eating like there not hungry...!!!!plz i hope im not the only person that thinks this way


0 Comments, 179 Views, 5 Votes ,1.84 Score
nalucy 45 F
1  Article
song of love   4/9/2005

just like a rose of Sharon, a lily of the valleys, My beloved is to me a bag of myrrh that lies between my breasts. My beloved is to me a cluster of henna blossoms in the vineyards of En-gedi Let him kiss me with the kisses of his mouth! for your love is better than wine, Ah, you are beautiful , my belove, truly lovely....... I am my beloved's , and his ...


1 Comments, 506 Views, 15 Votes ,5.73 Score
sgtextreme 48 M
5  Articles
Can you find Love on the internet?   3/23/2005

It seems after reading many of the comments and messages from people that love on the internet is not possible. While I am new at the AFF and I know that things take time, I wonder if I am doing this for nothing. It seems that people have lots of bad stories about finding people online, then it also makes me wonder, if it is so bad then why are these people still looking online? ...


1 Comments, 83 Views, 5 Votes ,3.14 Score
shevybunny04 40 F
1  Article
Too many fakes!   3/15/2005

Hello, I have been a member here for a little while now, and have come to realize how many fake people are on these types of sites. You really have to be careful of who you give your private information to because the person you're talking to, may not be who you think they are! For example, I was chatting by email with a "girl" who had posted a photo, and told me she was interested in me. I ...


2 Comments, 229 Views, 27 Votes ,4.29 Score
keg963 61 M
11  Articles
Travel dating   3/2/2005

Girls, becareful that your evening is planned out with you date on which route you travel, and be aware of your surroundings when traveling especially at gas stations and convienence stores. So if you do not show up police can back track to help you if you get lost or you break down.


0 Comments, 351 Views, 7 Votes ,2.53 Score
Jerry369258147 44 M
3  Articles
does this modus operandi sound familiar to anyone?   1/1/2005

does this modus operandi sound familiar to anyone? have any of you been similarly contacted by these girls? any information that you are able to provide will be appreciated. with your assistance, i wish to steer clear of suspect characters. <br> read: a certain "ghee" got wind of the fact that i am going to be traveling to the philippines. i was right away invited to meet her ...


2 Comments, 366 Views, 9 Votes ,3.00 Score
OnNewPlanet 54 M
46  Articles
YOU HAVE TO BE A ROCK STAR, MILLIONAIRE, OR ATHLETE   12/28/2004

YOU HAVE TO BE A ROCK STAR, MILLIONAIRE, OR ATHLETE TO GET HOT DATES. <br> Guys love to believe that they don’t have what it takes to get laid. And most men use their lack of success as an excuse for not dating and pursuing the women they really want. These men blame the system, society, social issues, and economic realities for their lack of sex–anyone but ...


0 Comments, 288 Views, 6 Votes ,1.66 Score
OnNewPlanet 54 M
46  Articles
how it can be possible...   12/27/2004

I'm a black male living in Italy and working around IT. I speak french, english and Italian fluently, but haven't any knowledge in asian languages. How can be possible to me, found here an asian female as a life partner with whom I can share mutual love & respect to complete my life. [note that : I am a tender, lovely, virtuous, and responsible guy]. Thanks to read me.


0 Comments, 117 Views, 7 Votes ,2.28 Score
areyouserious 62 M
2  Articles
I think I just met a job digger   12/25/2004

Well, after several months of AFF, I think I just met someone that is using AFF for reasons other than a relationship. After instant messaging for 3 days with linghe 1000 it came down to her wanting me to employ her so that she could get a work visa and " find the right man", here in the U.S. I guess this is quite reasonable BUT to post your profile stating you are looking for marraige, ...


7 Comments, 590 Views, 25 Votes ,4.46 Score
CYL_Jocelyn 50 F
6  Articles
Follow your real feelings to find true love...   12/11/2004

One day, my friend asked me to translate an e-mail on AFF from an Italian guy, as she doesn't know English. I found that the guy was asking for help from her - helping him to find a girl in Chongqing who doesn't have a computer and whose e-mail address is not valid and whose mobile phone is difficult to get to; asking her for her address so that he can write to her. <br> I am ...


2 Comments, 362 Views, 25 Votes ,6.23 Score
CYL_Jocelyn 50 F
6  Articles
Find out how sincere and serious she/he is...   12/11/2004

I am upset at my friend who is seeking marriage on AFF. <br> She is very beautiful actually. Through a matchmaking service, she married a man from Taiwan three days after they met. But just before they met, she was staying with her boyfriend. She sought matchmaking service because she wanted to go to Taiwan. After their marriage, the man went back to Taiwan to process relative ...


7 Comments, 773 Views, 34 Votes ,6.74 Score
darling22 47 F
8  Articles
about dating   8/20/2004

Two girl friends are talking to each other: - "You, know, my boy friend is always unshaven when he comes for a dating. " - says one. - "Did you try to come in time? - said another girl.


0 Comments, 170 Views, 63 Votes ,0.85 Score
zhengxing1985 37 M
5  Articles
爱上你不是我的错啊   8/6/2004

大家说网上谈情说爱是没有结果的,也不安全。可我并不是这样想的啊!我认为你如果是真的在网上爱上了一个女孩子的话,只要你跟她真的谈得来,我想也许会有结果的吧。但是,安全问题就不知道了,我想安全这个问题一般是只有女孩子会考虑到的,因为大多数都是男孩子的要求啊,以我的经验看


0 Comments, 742 Views, 68 Votes ,2.74 Score
zhq177 55 M
1  Article
救落水美女注意事项   7/30/2004

1、先确认落水美女的真实性, 不是正在游泳和洗澡的MM, 2、跳水时姿势不要追求“帅”而使用高难度的动作,如107B、207C等,否则会因为不熟悉水的深度而扎入泥中。 3、入水前为了减重可以脱掉一些衣服,但内裤需要穿在身上,不然你的动机就值得怀疑。 ...


0 Comments, 356 Views, 116 Votes ,7.89 Score
abd33 47 M
227  Articles
 怀旧,是今夜的色调。而今夜无主题   7/17/2004

今夜无主题 <br> <br>   今夜,又飘起细雨,隔了幽幽的玻璃窗,雨落无声。我早早地入眠,却于午夜时分遽然醒来,醒来的瞬间有一些恍惚迷离。                   ...


0 Comments, 7 Views, 17 Votes ,5.11 Score
eclipse2004 66 M
1  Article
Your potential mate: learn their true intentions first!   7/10/2004

This article is intended to give you, the reader, advice to use caution in your relationships. <br> I met my ex-wife in the Philippines and we married after only one meeting. After I brought her and her here and upon receiving her "green card" she soon began staying out late. I found that she was spending her time out with her ex-fiancé, who I did not know lived in this city. ...


1 Comments, 356 Views, 81 Votes ,7.27 Score
sillybird2004 57 F
1  Article
是否在第一次约会前调查调查他呢?   7/5/2004

各位姐妹,当你们的哥哥准备飞过半个地球来看你的时候,你们是否和我一样忐忑不安,虽然在网上聊,电话聊,写信聊,视屏聊,认识也两年,但毕竟没有面对面,还有所有关于他的情况都是他告诉我的,虽然我也信任他,但关于网恋的悲喜剧听过、看过不少,因此好担心,我知道有些网站可以提供C


0 Comments, 268 Views, 97 Votes ,5.74 Score
Enrik23 38 M
13  Articles
what is your opinion¿   6/21/2004

I have a "crush" on certain people, and I think that they are using the crush that I have on them as a way to get me to do things. I really try hard to respect myself and bac out, but each time it gets harder and harder to say no; because I like them. What should I do??


0 Comments, 371 Views, 13 Votes ,0.96 Score
Enrik23 38 M
13  Articles
Are latin girls as beautiful as they seen on TV..?   6/21/2004

Hola everybody, <br> I live in china, shangay.As you know shangay isn't a Mediterrain country like Spain and Italy.So we have many same things like weather and foods (I like olive I want to ask a sincere question..When I watch some Spanish on Italian TV channels I always see many beautiful women and girls.I know chinese girls are cool too but they are a little bit different ...


1 Comments, 344 Views, 26 Votes ,0.55 Score
bbxa1 52 F
8  Articles
是不是真的去见他?   6/9/2004

说好了相见,却又怕见,心中还是想着见。就这样一天天地过去,一天天地想念。这是什么呀?


0 Comments, 237 Views, 32 Votes ,4.36 Score
Sweeet01 51 F
1  Article
Be Careful!   9/11/2003

I really don't know how to start this story. I thought that meeting online would be nice & so much fun cause some of my friends found their soulmates online & they're still happy. Probably it's not my luck or whatever, i never meet sincere people online. The funniest thing, once i thought that i met someone special then we become close to each other by email & phone. I prepared myself for ...


0 Comments, 132 Views, 63 Votes ,6.66 Score
hcy1125 38 M
1  Article
请告诉我网络是真实的!   8/2/2002

我们都坐在电脑前,可能相隔万里,可能近在咫尺;我们对着显示器,机械地移动着鼠标,滴滴答答地敲打着键盘,一切似乎都那么冷漠,但我们的心中都激荡着无限的涟漪,眼光中都闪烁着澎湃的浪花,因为我们庆幸着彼此心灵的契合,情感的交流……是网络,把素未谋面的我们紧紧地连在一起。


0 Comments, 365 Views, 4 Votes ,2.86 Score
xiyao20 42 F
1  Article
沉??太平洋底的眼泪   4/23/2002

沉??太平洋底的眼泪 <br> 我猜想所有喜欢看童话书的??几乎都知道《海的女儿》这篇感??至深的童话,而在我身边??发生了一幕戏剧话的故事,??同现代版《海的女儿》。我不是作家,并不会用华丽的词句来描述这段故事,只是用女孩朴实的心??讲述。 ...


0 Comments, 255 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
KAIXINSUO521 104 F
8  Articles
往事??烟   4/23/2002

他走了,??同一缕??烟,永远的离开了我的视线。 他走了,这是我一直都希望的,但是我真的很伤心,因为我意识到,我的爱也将随之远??。 ...


0 Comments, 122 Views, 0 Votes
zswx000 41 F
9  Articles
逝去了还有吗?   1/7/2002

那天是什么日子,竟然鬼出神使地碰见他。傍晚十分,莫名其妙地朝与他常去的那家百货公司走去。说来,也只是想顺便转转看有没合适的衣服,都逛了大半个下午了,一无所获。惟独感到脚底阵阵的酸痛,若是就这样,打道回府,我不甘。 ...


0 Comments, 4 Views, 1 Votes
jasmine-xw 55 F
2  Articles
Yes ,love was beutifulbut also was painful   6/13/2001

Everry time , when you fell in love , you were so happy, you thought you were most happiness woman in the world, and your lover was so handsome in your eyes, you want to do anything that he wanted you to do, even be died for him.but suddenly you lost him , you would never know what was he think, you confused, and don't know what had happened to you even you don't know why that he will not ...


0 Comments, 23 Views, 4 Votes ,3.63 Score
jasmine-xw 55 F
2  Articles
Yes ,love was beutifulbut also was painful   6/13/2001

Everry time , when you fell in love , you were so happy, you thought you were most happiness woman in the world, and your lover was so handsome in your eyes, you want to do anything that he wanted you to do, even be died for him.but suddenly you lost him , you would never know what was he think, you confused, and don't know what had happened to you even you don't know why that he will not ...


0 Comments, 11 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
xiahanjun22 49 F
3  Articles
求婚的男人   6/8/2001

“真的想安定下来了。漂泊那么久,想重温家的感觉。”他装做不经意地又说了一次。他偷偷瞄她,想发现她的回应。她还是没看他。 “你说过啦。”她的目光仍停留在杂志上,一如往昔温柔却平淡地说。 ...


0 Comments, 151 Views, 0 Votes
Princess2001 62 F
1  Article
dangerous cases   5/21/2001

This is a true story about meeting someone in person started online. There was a murder of 2 ladies in Japan. They were killed by the same guy. It occurred separately, but they both told someone about the meeting with this guy before they went out, and this guy is caught. This news scared me off! I have some e-pals, and have some experience meeting them in person. I have no scary experience ...


0 Comments, 217 Views, 37 Votes ,7.13 Score
PassionateAsian 49 M
1  Article
Safety on the Net   1/20/2001

I am a guy and tried the internet meeting situation several times. I have met people offline from chatting on the net as an experiment to satisfy the common question of who is on the other side of the computer. I think women should be more careful than they are. <br> I always make it a point to meet at a public place so that the girl would feel comfortable. There is one girl that ...


0 Comments, 75 Views, 11 Votes ,5.04 Score
boa13 53 M
6  Articles
Safest sex.   5/7/2000

The safest way of having sex is when the girl takes it in her mouth.............................namely the word NO.


0 Comments, 107 Views, 42 Votes ,2.00 Score