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peach08, 51 F

10/25/2008 12:21 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
Too Sick of Being Harrassed !!!
I've been online off and on for all these years. As a human, I do believe that we all have right to choose our mates but many men didn't give me that right. They harassed me when they didn't get my ...
6    50    12    3.68    10/25/2008 12:21 am   

Lovemygsd, 44 F

5/26/2008 10:28 pm
1 Article, Score 0.0
How hard is that?
Tell the truth like it is. How hard is that? Anything less and your dignity would go under. So rise above. Live in the light with the truth. Plus, it's easier to remember the truth, than the multiple ...
0    12    2    5.20    5/26/2008 10:28 pm   

SonnyDay2, 37 M

5/24/2008 4:21 pm
23 Articles, Score 0.0
No is your right
Saying no to a person that does not fit with what you thought you where going to get does not make you a bad person. If the person appears to be different than what you have invisioned, ...
3    26    2    5.20    5/24/2008 4:21 pm   

deanom72, 37 M

2/28/2008 4:26 am
2 Articles, Score 0.0
now you have agreed to meet... first time
What do you do?

1. dinner date 2. coffee date 3. lunch date 4. ask to invite her/his friends to meet with your friends 5. go to the movies 6. other

I ask this as sometimes and ...
2    23    4    2.08    2/28/2008 4:26 am   

FUN69FUN, 49 M

1/3/2008 2:30 am
2 Articles, Score 0.0
(Water Sports)
I am alway hungry after eating Chineez food - why's that ...
1    47    6    0.80    1/3/2008 2:30 am   

Londo_Cat, 46 M

12/14/2007 4:37 pm
7 Articles, Score 0.0
You email and then.... nothing??
I think every man on here has gone through this, but for the sake of those that haven't, this article is for you.

You're on AFF to find someone. You check out the profiles, find one that you ...
8    144    20    1.85    12/14/2007 4:37 pm   

WoAiNiSweetBabes, 98 M

11/26/2007 4:05 pm
10 Articles, Score 0.0
its easy
"No ...
1    35    2    2.42    11/26/2007 4:05 pm   

laowai0282008, 57 M

11/15/2007 12:26 pm
9 Articles, Score 0.0
Read the profile first
I know that many people here are not native English speakers, but I am amazed at how many people seem to not read my profile or not pay attention. So I have tried to be as explicit as possible, ...
0    17    2    4.50    11/15/2007 12:26 pm   

rsflener, 47 M

10/3/2007 10:56 am
19 Articles, Score 0.0
Leave room for both to break with dignity...
The curiosity was there. The emails where honest and open. Then came the first date. Boy sparks flew! A few more dates later, and you share a private time. Wow, what an experience.

After a ...
2    53    7    3.80    10/3/2007 10:56 am   

imthereforyou, 36 M

6/16/2007 5:25 am
4 Articles, Score 0.0
whats the interest
of saying "No ...
1    23    4    0.92    6/16/2007 5:25 am   

brataylor, 29 M

5/4/2007 12:37 pm
9 Articles, Score 0.0
do not do things you know you ought not to do
Most peole do not know how to say no to drugz! Please say no to drugz. drugz will ruin your life and you might end up dead or in prison or looking very guly or broke or sick.

Most do not how ...
6    43    16    1.22    5/4/2007 12:37 pm   

procida, 55 M

2/26/2007 5:42 am
25 Articles, Score 0.0
no thanks
no thanks ....no mercy ...
3    66    17    0.16    2/26/2007 5:42 am   

ke5541, 25 M

2/11/2007 6:43 pm
10 Articles, Score 0.0
What is the Best Way to Say NO?
What are some of the classic lines you have used to turn people down? ...
12    167    58    1.27    2/11/2007 6:43 pm   

Adel88, 37 M

2/11/2007 9:36 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
How Can You say No Thanks?
I don't know if it happened with you as well, but it did with me. On your first date and you are so excited about it, then....the one how shows up is totally different to what in your mind..oops, ...
3    77    19    1.67    2/11/2007 9:36 am   

luv2surf_japan, 38 M

1/29/2007 6:53 am
10 Articles, Score 0.0
Get a hint.
If someone tells you no thanks then take it as is and stop basically stalking ...
4    80    28    3.14    1/29/2007 6:53 am   

bb10103, 36 M

12/25/2006 10:09 am
2 Articles, Score 0.0
New kind of e-scam
Well let me tell you of another e-scam . Some people from ex eastern block countries, especially the poor ones like Georgia and Moldova discovered another way to get cash. From airplane ...
14    194    106    1.35    12/25/2006 10:09 am   

jfender, 98 M

12/12/2006 7:15 am
2 Articles, Score 0.0
I never say no
Cannot, everygirl is a moment of maybe the future! How is it possible to stop what you ...
1    66    14    0.90    12/12/2006 7:15 am   

MrStan, 45 M

11/19/2006 2:08 pm
74 Articles, Score 0.0
You have the following rights to say NO
It's always important to date smartly and safely, regardless of how you first meet someone. Before you begin exchanging emails with other singles on, please take a few minutes to ...
5    122    35    6.06    11/19/2006 2:08 pm   

Heng239, 35 M

11/7/2006 3:11 am
8 Articles, Score 0.0
Liars and Cheaters
No thanks to all the people with fake profile/photo/video.
You waste everyone time.
How many percentage of the IDs here are fakes?
Should AFF impose fee for all? ...
16    176    166    2.81    11/7/2006 3:11 am   

procida, 55 M

11/4/2006 11:00 pm
25 Articles, Score 0.0
logique
If, after reviewing the sender's profile and email, you decide that you're not a good match, saying "No, thanks" can mean a lot to the other member. It will provide closure and let them know it's ...
3    30    5    2.82    11/4/2006 11:00 pm   

KillerSmile, 24 M

11/2/2006 7:33 pm
9 Articles, Score 0.0
whats the best way to say no?
thanks for ur ...
8    99    33    1.95    11/2/2006 7:33 pm   

RichardTTripp, 58 M

10/28/2006 11:55 pm
95 Articles, Score 0.0
Let me apologize,
Let me apologize,
I am a hot headed egocentric fool much of the time acting far to quickly in anger with far too little information.. I want to apologize to SP33DY2 for my insulting ...
1    41    6    3.08    10/28/2006 11:55 pm   

phenix1955, 51 M

10/28/2006 11:20 pm
3 Articles, Score 0.0
scams online
I want to discuss certain scams that occur online with some countries such as Russia and Africa. Dont get fooled by flattery or an instant romance, because some people from countries such as ...
10    110    50    2.29    10/28/2006 11:20 pm   

SP33DY2, 36 M

10/27/2006 4:02 pm
11 Articles, Score 0.0
hello
i'm ...
2    44    7    1.00    10/27/2006 4:02 pm   

KillerSmile, 24 M

10/19/2006 11:13 pm
9 Articles, Score 0.0
Why gals always say no?? 1 and last??
dont know ...
4    69    3    0.98    10/19/2006 11:13 pm   

RichardTTripp, 58 M

10/18/2006 5:10 pm
95 Articles, Score 0.0
I'm having fun with these no thank yous...
We all live in this world together and we need to act like it. I like much about you and would like you for a friend. I would like you to join my circle and have sent you an invitation to it. ...
0    12    2    3.81    10/18/2006 5:10 pm   

RichardTTripp, 58 M

10/18/2006 3:43 pm
95 Articles, Score 0.0
I want to thank you
I want to thank you for adding me to your hotlist. I am honored by your attention. I would like to offer you my friendship and find out how your doing. In our search for love we can not forget to ...
1    19    5    4.12    10/18/2006 3:43 pm   

RichardTTripp, 58 M

10/18/2006 12:51 pm
95 Articles, Score 0.0
Some of us love spinach.
Some of us love spinach. Some of us hate it It is not that spinach is good or bad It is we all have specific likes and dislikes That we can not control Can you make yourself like ...
0    10    3    2.94    10/18/2006 12:51 pm   

RichardTTripp, 58 M

10/18/2006 12:33 pm
95 Articles, Score 0.0
Please forgive me ..
Please forgive me .. I am a foolish old man chasing younger women.. I will probably pay in hell for this.. I wish you luck in all you do ...and hope you find love. ...
0    20    3    2.45    10/18/2006 12:33 pm   

RichardTTripp, 58 M

10/18/2006 8:45 am
95 Articles, Score 0.0
[COLOR blue][/COLOR][SIZE 5]I am not sure that love will find us[/SIZE]
I am not sure that love will find us.. My heart seeks another... But friendship can bind us... Forever in this ...
0    6    3    3.43    10/18/2006 8:45 am   

RichardTTripp, 58 M

10/17/2006 5:25 pm
95 Articles, Score 0.0
Funny ways to say no....
This was posted in the general section by another member and if you did not see it here you got to check it out...it is so funny... WAYS TO TURN DOWN UNWANTED MEN !!!! HE : Can I buy you a ...
3    46    9    3.64    10/17/2006 5:25 pm   

IrishDragon1000, 41 M

10/15/2006 10:34 am
23 Articles, Score 0.0
Just Ease into Things
Okay, saying "no thanks."
Yes, there are times it must be done. Never be pressured into something, or rush into something for the wrong reason.
A person who is dating you ...
2    30    4    4.02    10/15/2006 10:34 am   

ru4me76, 41 M

10/2/2006 8:21 pm
1 Article, Score 0.0
Just say no thanks
All of us have experienced it at one time or another. We come home from a first date, swimming in euphoria, sure that we've just spent the first night of the rest of our lives with our true soul ...
3    62    16    2.83    10/2/2006 8:21 pm   

aayeboah, 43 M

10/1/2006 9:18 am
5 Articles, Score 0.0
Politeness
I have come to relealise that people dont see it even a previlege for someone to stop over to read thier profile.This website have thousands of people, so for someone to stop over your profile to ...
5    99    17    2.28    10/1/2006 9:18 am   

Mstrshelby69, 40 M

9/24/2006 11:13 pm
6 Articles, Score 0.0
The Africa Scam
Anyone telling you they are stranded there or have medical bills and can't leave etc.. is a part of a big scam, had it tried on me 3 times ...
4    54    23    2.43    9/24/2006 11:13 pm   

platzband, 47 M

9/16/2006 5:34 pm
7 Articles, Score 0.0
NApoleon
Napoleon sayed when you want leave a woman, the best way is the escape ...
4    50    10    1.99    9/16/2006 5:34 pm   

platzband, 47 M

9/16/2006 11:59 am
7 Articles, Score 0.0
always the same women
many women on this site use same answers to all men, they just change the name but sometimes they forget to change it! it s very sad to see tis manner to do like a job with a copy and paste i ...
6    100    47    3.58    9/16/2006 11:59 am   

terryaki, 55 M

9/7/2006 7:52 am
11 Articles, Score 0.0
regarding asking for the first date...
People need to be more careful in the work place today. If someone asked you out, on a first day, you may want to give this careful consideration before saying "no thanks". This is because ...
2    47    13    2.14    9/7/2006 7:52 am   

stevv06, 40 M

8/30/2006 11:30 am
2 Articles, Score 0.0
Why our email is censer?
Please help me out?...why can we pass on email...
Do we allow to give our phone#?
...
4    76    24    1.88    8/30/2006 11:30 am   

mat1314, 29 M

8/20/2006 8:07 am
2 Articles, Score 0.0
Say no with out feeling guiltly
I know that it can be difficult for some people to say no. They may feel guilty, or they may fear saying no. Well personally I think that there is no need to feel any guilt. You are not ...
4    46    16    1.36    8/20/2006 8:07 am   

Ihab52, 34 M

7/28/2006 1:51 pm
1 Article, Score 0.0
Welcome 2 Syrian Airlines
Welcome 2 Syrian Airlines Hello everybody

This is your captain 揑hab Welcoming both seated & standing passengers on board of Syrian Airlines.

We apologize ...
1    71    9    1.93    7/28/2006 1:51 pm   

in2play22, 45 M

7/18/2006 3:05 am
10 Articles, Score 0.0
Ladies, do it w/ class
Lots of times, ladies just ignore emails. Plz at least say a simple not interested to let people know you received the email. This will cut down the repeat emails sent to ...
7    108    33    2.87    7/18/2006 3:05 am   

soulsearch888de, 28 M

7/14/2006 6:30 am
11 Articles, Score 0.0
how many guys say it?
i'm wondering, how many guys will actually turn a girl down for intent on being honourable ?
(I would, and i ...
2    83    12    2.62    7/14/2006 6:30 am   

laowai0282008, 57 M

7/11/2006 8:15 am
9 Articles, Score 0.0
Age is not a perversion
Most of the people on this site are young, and the women especially seem to react negatively to older men. Why can't they just say "no thanks" instead of calling people ...
7    286    60    2.64    7/11/2006 8:15 am   

diablojones28, 32 M

6/8/2006 11:37 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
What has happend to common courtesy?
I posted this on my blog but didn抰 get the response I was looking for so I decided to try this forum. Not only related to email, this is something I have noticed in other areas of life since high ...
5    116    20    3.25    6/8/2006 11:37 am   

WhAtSoUnD, 34 F

5/26/2006 1:48 am
9 Articles, Score 0.0
How dare!
One night, I went out clubbing with my very good friends. All females. I had met this young girl who came from New Orleans, LA. I had no idea what kind of person she is. Until few of us, include ...
5    157    26    2.16    5/26/2006 1:48 am   

Zyonights, 35 F

5/23/2006 1:38 pm
126 Articles, Score 0.0
Tip / zyonights - Saying "No Thanks" ....
Hello to ALL,
What can I say for General Tips and Thoughts.
I think I抎 like to talk about MONEY.
Don抰 SEND ANY to ANYONE.
If someone asks for MONEY, 揇o ...
2    104    16    4.60    5/23/2006 1:38 pm   

98CSVTua, 24 M

5/23/2006 6:21 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
So you have to be, that, upfront?
I took this girl to prom, and ever since then, she won't quit calling. Even before prom, I told her where I stood on dating. She seemingly agreed and it was cool....for a couple of days. What ...
0    34    1    2.40    5/23/2006 6:21 am   

Zyonights, 35 F

4/16/2006 4:31 pm
126 Articles, Score 0.0
Thoughts / zyonights - Thank you all .....
I had written this to hopefully help someone. I think it may help others so I am posting it here... Read it but open your mind, heart and soul up to what is really is saying and what it will say ...
1    114    10    3.58    4/16/2006 4:31 pm   

cuocdoivanvay, 29 M

4/9/2006 2:29 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
niha
why?
0    58    4    0.00    4/9/2006 2:29 am   

aprille, 32 F

4/8/2006 3:01 pm
1 Article, Score 0.0
Why do women stop saying "no thanks" sometimes...
I've seen some discussions here on the lack of common courtesy to a friendly hello. I, too, am a believer in that, though there are just some bad cookies out there to bully on the niceness and ...
2    87    9    3.64    4/8/2006 3:01 pm   

LondonGreg, 39 M

4/8/2006 12:37 pm
1 Article, Score 0.0
Nigerian scams
It will come as no surprise to anyone to discover that there are some people here who are not who they claim to be.
Different country to the one they claim to reside in for instance. ...
4    124    23    3.01    4/8/2006 12:37 pm   

kiss712, 29 F

4/4/2006 4:31 pm
1 Article, Score 0.0
online dating?
Safe?
35    409    285    0.91    4/4/2006 4:31 pm   

Zyonights, 35 F

4/4/2006 12:07 pm
126 Articles, Score 0.0
Tip / zyonights - Saying "No Thanks" ....
Hello to ALL,
OK, Simple. Ask yourself this question
HOW DO I WANT TO BE TREATED ?
Then, simple do unto others.
* * * * * * * * *
Remember Never ...
0    86    5    3.47    4/4/2006 12:07 pm   

Zyonights, 35 F

4/4/2006 12:01 pm
126 Articles, Score 0.0
Tip / zyonights - Saying "No Thanks" ....
Hello to ALL,
Now here is sometime we all Hate to Do, yet sometimes it is for the best.
Like I always say, 揃e true to yourself and honest with others.
If you are in a ...
1    57    5    4.12    4/4/2006 12:01 pm   

Zyonights, 35 F

4/4/2006 12:00 pm
126 Articles, Score 0.0
Tip / zyonights - Saying "No Thanks" ....
Hello to ALL,
Well here is a topic we all male and female may have. Especially if we have or they have traveled to another country.
My Best advice to all is Simple. BE true to ...
0    86    6    3.08    4/4/2006 12:00 pm   

Zyonights, 35 F

4/1/2006 1:38 pm
126 Articles, Score 0.0
How to Read Between the Lines... Keep AFF SAFE and FUN
Hello,
I HATE to do this, BUT, I Believe my Open Comment will help with the Below Comment. Please do take a moment to read this in full I think it speaks Volumes to this ...
0    137    4    3.25    4/1/2006 1:38 pm   

Zyonights, 35 F

4/1/2006 1:36 pm
126 Articles, Score 0.0
WORTH A READ... JUST SAY, "NO" & Keep this site Fun and Nice...
Hello,

I am not sure what is going on, but
FIRST, I LOVE Asia Friend Finder and Their Other Sites. It is the BEST ONE I HAVE EVER HAD the PLEASURE to ...
0    147    4    2.47    4/1/2006 1:36 pm   

Zyonights, 35 F

4/1/2006 12:03 pm
126 Articles, Score 0.0
WORTH A READ... JUST SAY, "NO" & Keep this site Fun and Nice...
Hello,

I am not sure what is going on, but
FIRST, I LOVE Asia Friend Finder and Their Other Sites. It is the BEST ONE I HAVE EVER HAD the PLEASURE to ...
0    121    4    2.86    4/1/2006 12:03 pm   

Zyonights, 35 F

4/1/2006 10:58 am
126 Articles, Score 0.0
WORTH A READ... JUST SAY, "NO" & Keep this site Fun and Nice...
Hello,

I am not sure what is going on, but
FIRST, I LOVE Asia Friend Finder and Their Other Sites. It is the BEST ONE I HAVE EVER HAD the PLEASURE to ...
0    123    5    3.14    4/1/2006 10:58 am   

down_by_the_sea, 49 M

3/22/2006 7:02 pm
7 Articles, Score 0.0
Why would people single out a member and dis him???
Why would members single out Wiseman phd for instance and dis him????...
4    125    19    4.84    3/22/2006 7:02 pm   

Gordie1976, 33 M

3/3/2006 11:14 pm
4 Articles, Score 0.0
If u send email or wink!
If u send and email or a wink, the women should atleast reply or say no thanks not interested, not just ignore u! <br> Thats what i ...
13    199    51    2.50    3/3/2006 11:14 pm   

A_COMMON_LATIN, 30 M

2/28/2006 5:15 pm
1 Article, Score 0.0
THANKS FOR SHOWING UP
I DO LIKE ASIAN GIRLS, I DON'T KNOW, ALL OF THEM HAVE SOME EXCITING MISTERY THAT DRIVES ME CRAZY. I ALSO LIKE (HOT) PICTURES EXCHANGE WITH ASIAN GURLS BUT, SOMETIMES THERE ARE SOME THAT JUST DON'T ...
0    88    6    1.66    2/28/2006 5:15 pm   

ThomasPhD, 45 M

2/27/2006 9:26 am
124 Articles, Score 0.0
REJECTION creates INTERNET STALKERS
It is really creepy, frustrating and violating when someone stalks you over the internet. Why do they do it mostly? REJECTION Rejection is something that is part of life, and we all ...
4    184    21    3.37    2/27/2006 9:26 am   

taks3369, 35 M

2/20/2006 12:24 pm
10 Articles, Score 0.0
Whats the best way to get out of relationship?
I needed to know if you meet someone, and your not a rude person, what is the best way for a man/woman to say im not interested and you really don't want to be there for the date, how do you get ...
5    152    26    0.98    2/20/2006 12:24 pm   

ThomasPhD, 45 M

2/9/2006 10:07 pm
124 Articles, Score 0.0
What don't you understand?
ABOUT THE WORD ...
8    196    18    2.17    2/9/2006 10:07 pm   

WhAtSoUnD, 34 F

2/8/2006 4:30 pm
9 Articles, Score 0.0
***Ladies*** .... men can share opinions.
*Sigh* This guy who lives in another state, I have chat with him online for over 5 yrs now and never have met in person. We became close friends when both of our relationships with other were ...
4    204    22    3.37    2/8/2006 4:30 pm   

speedscenetv, 40 M

2/7/2006 4:46 am
10 Articles, Score 0.0
Creative Ways of Saying No Thanks
I think to some degree we all get in to those bad relationship experiences that sometimes require a little finese or creative ways of saying "Thanks for the great time, but no thanks - I don't ...
0    100    4    2.86    2/7/2006 4:46 am   

Kriezl, 25 F

1/26/2006 8:35 pm
8 Articles, Score 0.0
When would you say NO?
Hey guyz... <br> Just wondering if there is already an instance when you say no and then regret it after??? Have you experienced that already? So when would be the best time to say NO and ...
5    142    17    2.14    1/26/2006 8:35 pm   

dltctncm, 58 M

1/24/2006 3:46 pm
7 Articles, Score 0.0
Do Chinese women prefer no reply to a negative reply?
Perhaps this should be a question for the advise section. Technicalities. <br> At AsianFriendFinder I receive one or more unsolicited emails from Chinese women. <br> That is ...
2    190    15    1.91    1/24/2006 3:46 pm   

WhAtSoUnD, 34 F

1/23/2006 7:59 pm
9 Articles, Score 0.0
Common situation to say it
A guy offer me a drink at club, I accept it without doubts but second one, it's always "no thanks". <br> Mom give me money, I say "No thanks, mom" <br> <br> A cat bring ...
2    118    11    2.79    1/23/2006 7:59 pm   

jackie509th, 49 M

12/25/2005 10:41 am
10 Articles, Score 0.0
My mother always said , When in doubt,.... tell the Truth!
Life to too short to lead someone on. Some people like to have a "stop gap guy/gal" until the find the "real one". This is just a waste of time, energy and money for all. People usually in 5 - 10 ...
0    118    11    3.35    12/25/2005 10:41 am   

Annlynn, 57 F

10/28/2005 9:54 pm
16 Articles, Score 0.0
Sorry........
Were do I begin to say those words..... maybe when you first said "your picture look blurry" ....What can I do at those moments .There are moments that we don't think at all only for what we see ...
3    157    22    3.13    10/28/2005 9:54 pm   

sunshine_03, 37 F

10/14/2005 3:37 am
4 Articles, Score 0.0
treat me like a princess?
“ I can do anything to make you happy.” “Anything? Even if what you disgust?” “If it is YOU, yes.” “But if you disgust what you do, how can you feel happy? It can only be fake ...
10    366    83    2.62    10/14/2005 3:37 am   

robert12342, 25 M

9/27/2005 3:10 pm
2 Articles, Score 0.0
DO NOT DO THIS TO THEM
do not just say its is over and walk off this will get em very upsat and mad and prosibly lead to a sick man to tak advantage of her and u dun wan that so dun do it u got it if anyone did this to ...
1    90    9    1.93    9/27/2005 3:10 pm   

robert12342, 25 M

9/27/2005 3:07 pm
2 Articles, Score 0.0
IT'S SO EASY
ok ppl all u have to do is sit em down tell em that it isit woking out and if u wan to we can still be good friend ill still take u out as a friend if it hurt's em bad just hug em sit em down hold ...
0    473    2    2.42    9/27/2005 3:07 pm   

DarkNite2000, 34 M

9/4/2005 12:10 pm
18 Articles, Score 0.0
Don't hate me for saying this but...
Do Asian girls or do they not who knows... Who cares, Asian girls and western girls they're all the same they just don't know it yet, Asian girls live in the past and western girls live too much, ...
8    415    31    0.00    9/4/2005 12:10 pm   

DarkNite2000, 34 M

9/4/2005 12:10 pm
18 Articles, Score 0.0
Don't hate me for saying this but...
Do Asian girls or do they not who knows... Who cares, Asian girls and western girls they're all the same they just don't know it yet, Asian girls live in the past and western girls live too much, ...
0    144    5    0.53    9/4/2005 12:10 pm   

DarkNite2000, 34 M

9/4/2005 12:09 pm
18 Articles, Score 0.0
Don't hate me for saying this but...
Do Asian girls or do they not who knows... Who cares, Asian girls and western girls they're all the same they just don't know it yet, Asian girls live in the past and western girls live too much, ...
0    128    5    1.84    9/4/2005 12:09 pm   

DarkNite2000, 34 M

9/4/2005 12:02 pm
18 Articles, Score 0.0
Don't hate me for saying this but...
Don't hate me for saying this but come on why do Chinese girls always say they like the older men! this in 2005 and woman don't have to respect a man just because he's old, that's sick, the ...
0    113    1    2.40    9/4/2005 12:02 pm   

DarkNite2000, 34 M

9/4/2005 12:01 pm
18 Articles, Score 0.0
Don't hate me for saying what I feel..
Don't hate me for saying this but come on why do Chinese girls always say they like the older men! this in 2005 and woman don't have to respect a man just because he's old, that's sick, the ...
3    139    14    0.42    9/4/2005 12:01 pm   

zorgnot2, 98 M

8/26/2005 8:08 pm
1 Article, Score 0.0
Is any reply too much to ask?
This may have been brought up before- I can't imagine that it hasn't- but what about a polite..."No, thank you". We're all here because we want to meet people. Maybe not in person for a variety ...
5    257    8    3.71    8/26/2005 8:08 pm   

Zyonights, 35 F

8/23/2005 2:24 pm
126 Articles, Score 0.0
Tip / zyonights - Saying "No Thanks" ....
Hello, <br> This is a Simple Tip to all... <br> I posted this under an Uncalled for Comment to Someones Article. The Comment they made was not about the article, but was ...
1    148    11    2.23    8/23/2005 2:24 pm   

lartimer, 46 M

8/14/2005 3:42 pm
10 Articles, Score 0.0
Automatic reply, short sentences reply....
I need to admit that I don't like to read an automatic answer or reply. "No thank you". I prefere to have no answer, I can understand that you are busy or simply not interrested, great, no trouble ...
0    89    7    2.79    8/14/2005 3:42 pm   

Zyonights, 35 F

8/14/2005 10:39 am
126 Articles, Score 0.0
Tip / zyonights - Saying "No Thanks" ....
Hello to ALL, <br> I saw this article and had to share it <br> yes i have never been on a date ever. i have only had 1 boyfriend and i'm a virgin. so it is very hard for me to ...
3    103    10    3.98    8/14/2005 10:39 am   

ValentinaM55, 27 F

8/14/2005 4:16 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
Hehe
At first date meaning part is the fealling inside of u. U should be shure that this man is for u. If u dont feal this way ...so u wouldnt meet with him any more in future. But some ladyes wanna ...
1    199    15    1.45    8/14/2005 4:16 am   

Zyonights, 35 F

8/13/2005 9:38 am
126 Articles, Score 0.0
Tip / zyonights - Saying "No Thanks" ....
Hello to ALL,
Well here is a topic we all male and female may have. Especially if we have or they have traveled to another country.
My Best advice to all is Simple. BE true to ...
2    422    6    1.94    8/13/2005 9:38 am   

midnightsnow, 32 F

8/10/2005 7:31 am
3 Articles, Score 0.0
Saying
Those that are polite and straight forward will say no thanks. Those that don't care will just say nothing and ignore the other individual until the other person realizes that you are not ...
2    195    22    3.13    8/10/2005 7:31 am   

sharpcookie, 46 F

8/6/2005 4:14 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
Protocol
Firstly, men do not say "no thanks, " either.
There is no protocol for women or men to say "no thanks." It'd be nice, but that is not the protocol.
It's like sending in your ...
2    266    12    0.50    8/6/2005 4:14 am   

credibility, 59 M

8/3/2005 5:05 pm
1 Article, Score 0.0
is common courtesy and being polite a problem with female members
it seems as though that most female members selected as matches to male members don, t seem to understand or realise that both parties receive the cupid mail ...therefore if you receive mail from ...
1    345    9    2.78    8/3/2005 5:05 pm   

brian793, 43 M

7/27/2005 7:13 pm
1 Article, Score 0.0
I have sent alot of hello's
Hello Ladies <br> I know everyone is busy with there lives. What I do not understand is why women on here never say no thanks when they feel they would not like to talk to you after you ...
13    347    35    3.15    7/27/2005 7:13 pm   

guitarman1964, 45 M

6/28/2005 7:07 pm
8 Articles, Score 0.0
politeness
when saying no thanks or im not interested you should be as polite as possible as others have feelings to and and its not nice to uneccisarily hurt anothers feelings after all you wouldnt want ...
1    235    7    3.30    6/28/2005 7:07 pm   

VeryHandsomeCdn, 44 M

6/6/2005 9:22 pm
12 Articles, Score 0.0
Can I buy you a drink
No thanks but you can give me the 5 bucks and get ...
0    634    13    1.97    6/6/2005 9:22 pm   

mystiqe, 34 F

5/13/2005 1:32 pm
1 Article, Score 0.0
saying no
why do some guys think that when you say no that you mean yes when a person any person men or women say no they mean no no ifs ands or but a bout ...
1    538    10    2.59    5/13/2005 1:32 pm   

ohnamkim5, 43 M

5/13/2005 12:21 am
4 Articles, Score 0.0
Give a mercy on me
Usually man is known as lusty wolf keeping running after angel, usually referred to nice ladies... "...and so I like to say in the lovely site You are angel flying high abovethe sky while I am a ...
0    348    7    2.53    5/13/2005 12:21 am   

fudpuckr, 53 M

5/4/2005 6:54 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
Can a man say no?
Yes, why not.Usually we are the driving force in the sex departmen, but that dont mean we are ready at all times. When we say no we will be looked at with suspicios ...
0    369    10    2.19    5/4/2005 6:54 am   

CandleMeister, 63 M

4/18/2005 6:29 pm
2 Articles, Score 0.0
There should be a section entitled "Common Courtesies"
I have noticed a problem with the members of the FriendFinder system (I am only an active member of two of them). The people therein, notably the female of the species, seem to have forgotten the ...
13    543    72    2.95    4/18/2005 6:29 pm   

Michael-Mac, 54 M

4/15/2005 6:27 am
9 Articles, Score 0.0
Easier for men
Because there are at least 10 men here to every woman (my own rough non scientific estimate), it follows that women will recieve a lot more messages than men.
While I agree that it would ...
0    541    21    2.88    4/15/2005 6:27 am   

he01234, 45 M

4/10/2005 12:41 am
25 Articles, Score 0.0
Tell the truth.
Telling the truth and being honest is always appreciated and you won't feel bad either. Playing games is the worst thing you can do to the person facing you and to yourself. Honesty is the best ...
1    122    17    3.55    4/10/2005 12:41 am   

moontears22, 46 M

3/23/2005 11:22 am
4 Articles, Score 0.0
replies
should one always reply, even if not interested...or by not replying does that send a message? I always try to reply at least once if someone messages ...
1    288    13    2.30    3/23/2005 11:22 am   

keg963, 47 M

3/8/2005 2:45 pm
11 Articles, Score 0.0
You never know the person you tell no thanks could have been the one you seek
When you say no thanks unless the person is rude you may be thinking this person really sucks, but remember this if you do not chat and get to know them that may be you prince charming. We get so ...
0    415    8    1.39    3/8/2005 2:45 pm   

livetorun, 45 M

3/5/2005 6:50 pm
6 Articles, Score 0.0
Everyone deserves a "No Thanks"
I have this seemingly crazy view that when someone sends you a mail indicating interest, they are giving a compliment. Therefore it deserves a thank you. That doesn't mean you have to continue ...
2    263    14    3.30    3/5/2005 6:50 pm   

avalondaze, 47 M

2/23/2005 4:55 pm
1 Article, Score 0.0
Submission is sensuous
It's not possible to say "No Thanks" when you are ...
2    131    11    0.74    2/23/2005 4:55 pm   

Quick3033, 34 M

1/24/2005 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
No thanks
No Thank is what has been said, peace , love and ...
1    498    5    0.53    1/24/2005 12:00 am   

V1ncenz0, 36 M

1/21/2005 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
Reality
The reality everyone reacts differently to rejection. Those who are strong will take it on the chin and move on or may proceed to keep trying. These people you need to be pretty straight up even ...
0    234    6    3.08    1/21/2005 12:00 am   

AngelChiou, 22 F

1/14/2005 12:00 am
4 Articles, Score 0.0
Thank you dear
Thanks for giving me heartbreak Thanks for letting me feel so bad Thanks for rejecting me Thanks for ignoring my tears Thanks for making me strong Thanks for putting me in the rain Thanks ...
11    564    41    3.47    1/14/2005 12:00 am   

acertainage, 24 F

12/5/2004 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
How to deal with a situation properly
Personally i don't know how to deal with a situation properly so sorry!. All i've found is that is a lot easier when it comes to you saying no thanks or them saying it to you to think about it ...
1    564    19    3.26    12/5/2004 12:00 am   

pinzgauer,

11/2/2004 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
I don't want to get married - really means "not to you"
I read a book a women friend of mine insisted I read titled "He's Just Not That Into You : The No-Excuses Truth to Understanding Guys" In the book one of the ideas was that when a guy says "I do ...
0    1032    10    2.99    11/2/2004 12:00 am   

eternaloptimize, 64 M

9/15/2004 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
How do you say No to young woman coming on to older married man.
Very unexpected event. Should not have been. Refused - do not use condoms -posiblity of deasese - wife could walk in any moment (happened once before athough it went undetected) Lady sad and ...
5    248    29    0.00    9/15/2004 12:00 am   

mitch9922, 40 M

8/25/2004 12:00 am
13 Articles, Score 0.0
Never be what you cannot deliver
Well, I used to be one of those prissy-type girls. You know, the ones that wear nail polish, wear really cute little clothes and fling my "oh so silky" hair about. I attracted those kind of people ...
1    67    22    5.65    8/25/2004 12:00 am   

ZippityDay, 58 M

8/19/2004 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
Not my type
I met a woman in a nice little bar for our first meeting. She seemed nice over emails. She was waiting for me at the hostess stand, when she saw me, she squeeled loudly. I was embarassed. I ...
1    340    34    3.69    8/19/2004 12:00 am   

chojojo, 27 M

7/30/2004 12:00 am
2 Articles, Score 0.0
扮演了一回爱情玩偶
他的真爱被一个有夫之妇当做报复丈夫的筹码,扮演了一回爱情玩偶。 <br> ...
0    96    13    2.14    7/30/2004 12:00 am   

yexiaojun725, 25 M

7/16/2004 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
我依然爱你
栾/ <br> 我想起我们共度的时光是我最美好 ...
0    146    30    2.75    7/16/2004 12:00 am   

abd33, 29 M

7/10/2004 12:00 am
227 Articles, Score 0.0
没有感受,因为我是无心之人
心碎 一缕缕的思念轻掸着我的心房 一丝丝的苦恼缠绕着我的神经 一庄庄的故事摇曳着我的记忆 风吹乱了我的发髻 吹散了我的思绪 任凭雨水在脸上拍打 品不出口中的是泪水还是雨水 请不要这样残酷 ...
0    132    25    5.23    7/10/2004 12:00 am   

1111111111111135, 25 M

7/9/2004 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0

现在终于想放下了一个谁都不愿意 去过的日子~`为什么当我准备好开始从 新生活的时候却会在这个时候给我一个磨练呢,难道我真的不适合去象正常人一样的去好好的过一过正常人该过的日子吗? ...
0    152    12    2.27    7/9/2004 12:00 am   

2587758521yi, 24 M

7/7/2004 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
我爱一个人好难!
我爱她很长时间了,可我无论用什么方法都不能使她来到我的身边呀!为什么,我对他那么的好呀,我不知道呀!水可以把我带走。离开她这上心地。 ...
0    214    20    0.83    7/7/2004 12:00 am   

kll1985, 24 F

6/25/2004 12:00 am
5 Articles, Score 0.0
你比我幸福
寂寞当然有一点,你不在我身边,总是特别想念你的脸,距离是一份考卷,测验相爱的誓言,最后会不会实现!!!!!!!天气转凉了,我要送你一件外套∶ 口袋叫温暖;领子叫关怀; 袖子叫体贴;扣子叫思念;让这件 ...
0    269    32    5.68    6/25/2004 12:00 am   

Enrik23, 29 M

6/21/2004 12:00 am
13 Articles, Score 0.0
I NEED YOUR HELP!!!! PLEASE
I have aa close friend to me, but lately I have been very concerned about her. He hangs out with people who smoke(smoke other things along with that)and make stupid idiodic choices in their ...
2    979    31    1.32    6/21/2004 12:00 am   

bill_8843, 45 M

6/4/2004 12:00 am
3 Articles, Score 0.0
curious about reasons for marriage
Hi everyone. I am writing this in response to a email reply that I just recieved. While thankful to even receive the reply it made me very curious as to the motives of some of the members. In the ...
6    1094    91    6.69    6/4/2004 12:00 am   

dalatvn, 42 F

4/24/2004 12:00 am
9 Articles, Score 0.0
Profile
I get turned off by someone who listed their wealth on their profile. For instance, the man says he owns a 4 bedroom, 3 TVs, nice car, and a job with over $100, 000 salary, should I be impressed?. ...
15    3305    140    6.90    4/24/2004 12:00 am   

belindawei, 33 F

1/7/2004 12:00 am
7 Articles, Score 0.0
ぃ稲惠璶瞶パ盾
常弧稲ぃ惠璶瞶パㄤ龟稲惠璶び瞶パτぃ稲穦Τ瞶パぃ稲()临Τゲ璶()弧瞶パ盾璶禗()и⊿Τ稰谋碞ì镑常ぃゲ弧狦だも临
0    91    53    6.22    1/7/2004 12:00 am   

ricoswave2000, 25 M

12/30/2003 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
Its Ok, Don't Be Afraid "To Diss" somebody
Well I'm going to make this short and sweet. When you are contantly harassed by somebody whether you're in your favorite club or in the mall or maybe just walking down the street you're obligated ...
0    155    50    1.95    12/30/2003 12:00 am   

mm_yong, 33 M

8/11/2003 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
老婆面前应该说“不”?
我真想不出在老婆面前,应不应该说“不”,有道理时候说“不”她不高兴,说“是”又很能难受。 ...
0    64    14    3.62    8/11/2003 12:00 am   

1unusual1, 34 M

2/10/2003 12:00 am
6 Articles, Score 0.0
Reply to
I read the "Pic not what expected" article and offer the following advice: I too received a number of responses to my profile and the pics I received were not the problem... It was the distance! ...
0    1529    68    6.72    2/10/2003 12:00 am   

Rodney948, 42 M

12/10/2002 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
Be careful not to offend any of these girls families
My exp. so far is, I have met a wonderful Phillipiano girl, who is currently living with her aunt and uncle in singapore, as a domestic worker.me and this girl are very much in love, and have ...
0    469    85    5.14    12/10/2002 12:00 am   

zaqwsxcde2833, 27 F

11/18/2002 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
千万要记住拒绝
爱上他是由于网络,、、 ...
0    45    7    2.79    11/18/2002 12:00 am   

tanned77, 43 M

8/15/2002 12:00 am
2 Articles, Score 0.0
bad experience with an sg woman
today, i was on aff, and had the ill luck of answering a page from a female whose abode said "singapore". my profile was off, so she asked me to turn it on. ok, i did, and she started ...
2    403    150    7.95    8/15/2002 12:00 am   

shaangdi5188, 33 F

8/12/2002 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
我心依旧
人这一生,唯一可以自由的生活、自由的选择自己的生活方式的机会,也不过就是这么短短的几年,所以当我们年轻的时候,要抱着“豁出去干”的心态勇敢地去追求、去实现梦想中的一切,让自己的心自由的飞翔吧,不要给他
0    30    10    4.18    8/12/2002 12:00 am   

huangmiaosen11, 33 M

8/9/2002 12:00 am
22 Articles, Score 0.0
找寻20---30岁之间的性伴侣
有的人恋爱也许很容易,而有些人恋爱往往很难。 当然有很多的原因,初次约会有的人不知道说什 么好,或者该不该扦恋人的手都不知道, 让我告诉你们的第一次恋爱是什么样的?我在杭州25岁,精力充沛,经验丰富 ...
0    151    12    0.86    8/9/2002 12:00 am   

huangmiaosen11, 33 M

8/9/2002 12:00 am
22 Articles, Score 0.0
找寻性伴侣
我想寻求那种真诚、甜美的感觉!请您不要戏弄我.....另外,您身边如有动人、曲折、真实的故事,需要渲泄,或需要我力所能及的帮助,请和我联系,我或许将成为您真挚的、有一定品味的好朋友!您千万不要以为我是一个
0    10    10    2.99    8/9/2002 12:00 am   

huangmiaosen11, 33 M

8/9/2002 12:00 am
22 Articles, Score 0.0
寻性伴侣
...
0    187    4    1.30    8/9/2002 12:00 am   

chy510515, 27 M

6/11/2002 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
当你不想做这份工的时候你应该怎么说出口?
朋友!当你不想做这份工的时候你应该怎么说出口? 怎么样这个问题怎么样??????????? ...
0    138    6    0.00    6/11/2002 12:00 am   

ahuidada, 33 M

6/10/2002 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
快乐的缘分
我在河北的省会城市,这可以说是我的第三故乡,因为我常在这里工作。你如果也在这里,我相信,缘分会让我们感到很快乐。 阿辉 ...
0    3    3    1.47    6/10/2002 12:00 am   

BestAsiaGuy, 56 M

5/28/2002 12:00 am
2 Articles, Score 0.0
Picture is not what you expected ....
I have received over 200 inquiries to my profile to date and I am flattered beyond belief. <br> Sheer dumb luck I think I would call it. Right place at the right time. I feel so bad for ...
1    2167    140    7.22    5/28/2002 12:00 am   

sunny000003, 39 M

5/24/2002 12:00 am
7 Articles, Score 0.0
女人如酒
女人如酒 <br> ——谨以此文献给有品味的每一个人! <br> ...
0    513    0    0.00    5/24/2002 12:00 am   

pipilong20, 28 M

5/24/2002 12:00 am
2 Articles, Score 0.0
拒绝!~!`
呵呵,不成熟的意见也不知道可不可以往这里边写呀 ,我知道我很弱。 可是随便说点也好吧~!~! 如果拒绝别人起到的效果是不一样的,如果你的拒绝方式合适,可以事半功倍,如果不合适就只有事倍功办了~!~! ...
0    91    0    0.00    5/24/2002 12:00 am   

pipilong20, 28 M

5/24/2002 12:00 am
2 Articles, Score 0.0
拒绝!~!`
呵呵,不成熟的意见也不知道可不可以往这里边写呀 ,我知道我很弱。 可是随便说点也好吧~!~! 如果拒绝别人起到的效果是不一样的,如果你的拒绝方式合适,可以事半功倍,如果不合适就只有事倍功办了~!~! ...
0    101    1    3.70    5/24/2002 12:00 am   

huangzhengwei20, 26 M

5/20/2002 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
爱你好难
你知道我爱你好难,因为你心理有别人,可是我不怪你,我 知道你有你自己的选择,我多么希望你不要想他,那要我会好伤心的!不论你长的倩不倩我是真心爱你的,我只在呼你,因为你才是我的最爱! ...
0    51    0    0.00    5/20/2002 12:00 am   

liling-ly, 84 F

5/19/2002 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
还来不及看
哎!抱歉! ...
0    144    0    0.00    5/19/2002 12:00 am   

GMNLB125, 31 F

5/17/2002 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
亚洲交友中心是骗局
难到不是,请你们告诉我如何获取进入网站的密码 ...
0    1228    1    5.00    5/17/2002 12:00 am   

lqsshu123888888, 63 M

4/27/2002 12:00 am
12 Articles, Score 0.0
为爱为幸福值得等待
在茫茫??海里, 寻??真心相爱, 共结连理的另一半, 是不能随随便便的, 因为今后一辈子的生话完??在这次的决策中产生, 选择马虎造成憾事是痛苦的, 再想挣扎出来也是留下难堪的回忆, 因此, 为??真正的??感, ...
0    78    3    2.45    4/27/2002 12:00 am   

lqsshu123888888, 63 M

4/26/2002 12:00 am
12 Articles, Score 0.0
有真爱才能幸福
有真正的感??基础才能结出真正爱??之果, 这就是我的看法, ??果没有真爱, 只为名利得来的爱??是不会有幸福可言的, 既使可以获得, 也是暂时的, 决不能长久, 这是我的??为;爱是双方都必须付出真??, 才能同心同德, ...
0    288    1    1.10    4/26/2002 12:00 am   

coolboysunway, 29 M

4/23/2002 12:00 am
2 Articles, Score 0.0
北京女??
首先说说外表,北京女??漂亮吗?走在北京大街上欣赏女??时最大的感想就是满目疮遗,套句流行语是:漂亮是1%,丑陋是满大街,美女是恐龙。北京??自己可不这么看,总是说那些丑女是外地??,北京??就是爱嫁祸于??,??实
0    136    10    3.78    4/23/2002 12:00 am   

buttqwck,

4/9/2002 12:00 am
2 Articles, Score 0.0
Asian Brothers, Please Take Note...
First of all, let me just say I love you guys. Yes, I do. But as an Asian sister, I feel it's my obligation to let you guys know that the following things are NOT SEXY, and please try not to do ...
0    104    130    7.04    4/9/2002 12:00 am   

wantchange,

3/20/2002 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
answers to what kind of woman she is
love is such an unique feeling. From one side you know there is no fruit in your relation, but becuase of love, you are blinded and couldn't do what you should be doing, which makes you hurt and ...
0    966    50    3.63    3/20/2002 12:00 am   

yfryndl, 30 M

1/29/2002 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
一夜情缘
为什么,你说的全是谎话, 为什么,爱我一辈子变成了一天。 真的,我想象不到,你会那样绝情, 我想不透, 那床上的落红点点,是那样刺眼。 难道是你在追寻刺激吗? 可我看你不象呀?是我看错了吗?? ...
0    20    25    0.37    1/29/2002 12:00 am   

Romanticfuture, 50 M

1/26/2002 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
You will both know when time is best
Couple need to be as one in mind, spirit and body to make best decision - if important decision in love don't go for second best, but mke sure time is right and you both agree. If it is sex and ...
0    526    39    5.35    1/26/2002 12:00 am   

fengjiancheren, 27 M

1/17/2002 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
talking no
one day , mother said to the duauther; if a man touch your body up aspet, you must say ;Donot.if the man touch your under, you must say ;stop. one day , a man touch the gril.when the gril ...
0    77    49    6.50    1/17/2002 12:00 am   

wutongwutong, 32 M

1/16/2002 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
秋天的心情
叶子转红的时候,正因为它理应是绿色,所以特别的凄艳。在这份凄艳里,她满载着不落言诠的笑与苦,独身步入陌生的街道。  ...
0    1    6    3.08    1/16/2002 12:00 am   

mman2000, 47 M

1/7/2002 12:00 am
4 Articles, Score 0.0
Safety ensured forever
Would you have many know how to come in a small dark room, just far away your familiarity enough the dark room, safety ensured don't be enough. If your kindly, friendly, lovely or mind are absent ...
0    59    30    0.00    1/7/2002 12:00 am   

dfh-gz, 54 M

1/5/2002 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
要我如何说不?
我与她相爱了,很快就进了一步。 但我很快又发现,她只是爱我的钱,从不关心我,虽然经常口头上说爱我,但并不关心我,甚至病了也不问一声,经常不问时间,不管我在干什么就发最后通牒“马上过来”否则如何如何。 ...
0    276    5    2.82    1/5/2002 12:00 am   

aoaoso13119, 30 M

1/4/2002 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
拒绝爱情
失恋了。 依旧是一成不变的原因:她厌倦了。出差去广东的的时候在火车站。拒绝了男友的 吻。提着皮包头也不回的上了车。从此音信全无。那个夏天最热的时候她回了北京。呼 ...
0    1173    7    1.77    1/4/2002 12:00 am   

srlyf123, 36 M

1/2/2002 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
我是在回答“我是怎样的女人”所提出的问题
你说你爱他,他爱你吗? 你不想再爱他了? 为什么不想再爱他了? 如果是可爱的就大胆的去爱,为什么要放弃呢? 放弃的应该是你的顾忌。 如果你是因为别人给了你不好的建议的话,你将会失去你的未来。 ...
0    1    11    2.42    1/2/2002 12:00 am   

yibach119, 27 M

12/28/2001 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
当你需要拒绝时
在人生的漫漫长路上,总会时不时的碰到这样或者那样的另人难办的问题。尤其是在拒绝别人时。 ...
0    50    3    1.96    12/28/2001 12:00 am   

Rosenna, 32 F

12/6/2001 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
我是怎样的女人?
我不知道是如何爱上他的, 一个我不该爱的台湾男人, 而且现在一直爱着, 执着的爱着, 痛苦的爱着, 我知道该结束, 可是谁来教我不去想念, 不去爱, 有谁可以教我啊? 不要用异样的眼光来看我, 我是一个很普通的女人, ...
0    120    27    1.56    12/6/2001 12:00 am   

xiangxiaoweinuo, 26 F

12/6/2001 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
昨天的神奇
<br> “小鱼就是小宇儿去, 昨天小鱼还带这一身的神奇, 今天却安然而去! <br> <br> 小宇会和小鱼一样! ...
0    73    3    1.47    12/6/2001 12:00 am   

maqh0506, 37 M

12/5/2001 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
当你遇到不想接受的要求时
我只想用自己的原则去衡量, 用自己的理智去战胜, 我就是我, 我要有自己的性格, 有自己的活法, 决不在这短短的人生路上去做一些自己很不情愿或特别勉强自己的事情或接受一些自己不愿意接受的要求, 你呢?朋友!! ...
0    98    14    2.66    12/5/2001 12:00 am   

kevin3344520, 33 M

12/3/2001 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
爱的取舍
爱与被爱永远是个烦人的问题,爱--意味着付出,被爱--意味着不劳而获,这两个东西永远也不能用天平来衡量孰重孰轻。也很难找什么东西来作为衡量的工具,有的话,就是爱与被爱的受害者。 ...
0    32    5    3.14    12/3/2001 12:00 am   

lfrxysm1, 31 M

12/3/2001 12:00 am
2 Articles, Score 0.0
享受人生
发掘人性的优点,挑战人性的弱点。 呵呵!看了不要生气啊!这是我总结的一点小东东! 一、如何抗拒忧虑 有的人有两个我:一个在黑暗里醒着,一个在光明中睡着。 1、生活在今天的密封舱里 ...
0    57    10    3.98    12/3/2001 12:00 am   

david19701019, 39 M

10/30/2001 12:00 am
2 Articles, Score 0.0
Never hurt yourself
Say you will think it over instead of saying No Saying you like her or him instead of simply saying no Never promise then you needn't say no ...
0    17    27    2.61    10/30/2001 12:00 am   

AIXIAO2000, 27 M

10/26/2001 12:00 am
2 Articles, Score 0.0
爱是一种距离
  (引:爱是什么?是与相爱的人相守一生,还是为了爱而离开?) ...
0    61    4    0.92    10/26/2001 12:00 am   

hejincen, 35 F

9/17/2001 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
真实的男人
我以为真实的男人是可靠的,是可信的。你想想,他能够和你说一些可以说和不可以说的内容,足以证明他信任我。许多人都愿意隐藏自己的暇疵,而他对我说了,所以我相信他了,就象相信我自己一样。 ...
0    38    4    2.08    9/17/2001 12:00 am   

xiaoyaozi01, 2000 M

9/17/2001 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0

我就是我,我没有可以赞扬的壮烈举动,但我有一颗平常心,我想这最重要。 我不企求轰轰烈烈,但求一个平淡。 ...
0    14    1    2.40    9/17/2001 12:00 am   

huangql6195, 29 M

9/15/2001 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
在对与错面前要勇敢的说
在一次和朋友闲聊中, 他这样说过:今天在家里老婆又叫我不要来上班, 要我陪她去逛街, ...
0    102    3    2.45    9/15/2001 12:00 am   

xuyunlong1984, 91 M

9/14/2001 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
雨中的微笑
...
0    1    0    0.00    9/14/2001 12:00 am   

Abc22001, 36 M

9/14/2001 12:00 am
2 Articles, Score 0.0
让她说不
当你想与她分手时,你要让她意识到你不适合她,配不上她,让她自己说不,让她抛弃你,这样就如你所愿了。 ...
0    333    1    2.40    9/14/2001 12:00 am   

yes818, 29 M

6/29/2001 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
“不”
...
0    42    14    1.54    6/29/2001 12:00 am   

yang860888, 26 M

6/26/2001 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
说就要说的干脆
...
0    31    5    1.19    6/26/2001 12:00 am   

yuanyihang, 27 M

6/24/2001 12:00 am
2 Articles, Score 0.0
那一天我说什么是对的?
不知道你们有没有被女朋友甩过,但我是有经历的。哎!真不爽 ...
0    299    4    3.63    6/24/2001 12:00 am   

love.sun65, 27 M

6/23/2001 12:00 am
2 Articles, Score 0.0
是那场雨,是那场风
是哪天的风让我认识了你,突然惊醒我的心,你掠发得手不仅仅是美丽。是哪天的雨让我们在相遇,一眼就认出了你 ...
0    82    2    1.04    6/23/2001 12:00 am   

cao3658, 74 F

6/9/2001 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
一切都是我的错
如今的我不知道怎么办。我需要一个人来帮助我。 ...
0    90    2    2.42    6/9/2001 12:00 am   

anna118, 35 F

6/5/2001 12:00 am
2 Articles, Score 0.0
don't say sorry!
看了你的文子,很是一般。其实不用象他说什么道谦的话,没有必要,既然你爱他,又为何找别人,没有什么理由可以说,是你的错,但无须道谦 ...
0    299    7    2.02    6/5/2001 12:00 am   

anna118, 35 F

6/5/2001 12:00 am
2 Articles, Score 0.0
don't say sorry!
看了你的文子,很是一般。其实不用象他说什么道谦的话,没有必要,既然你爱他,又为何找别人,没有什么理由可以说,是你的错,但无须道谦 ...
0    50    3    4.90    6/5/2001 12:00 am   

wjymfbj, 32 M

6/4/2001 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
给我一点时间,我会更加完美!
给我一点时间,我会更加完美! 给我一点空间,我将浪迹天涯!我向往北国的大地,却忘不了五彩的南方。我不敢期盼天长地久的永远,但愿曾经拥有过难忘的昨天!我行走在孤独的大地上,漂泊在异地他乡。我等待 ...
0    2833    4    1.30    6/4/2001 12:00 am   

HappyGile99, 30 F

6/4/2001 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
也许我们注定是普通朋友
在我刚出社会工作时,我对这个所谓的大家庭充满了憧憬和幻想,一如所有花季雨季的纯纯少女,梦想着我的白马王子满载着智慧和财富翩翩降临,那时的阳光是那样的明媚,每一天都是美丽的代名词。 ...
0    31    2    1.04    6/4/2001 12:00 am   

jingbeitong, 77 M

6/3/2001 12:00 am
2 Articles, Score 0.0
你想知道你在想什么吗?
在你安静时,你在想什么你知道吗?我不问你,你不知道为什么“我在想什么?”因为你不会改变你的原有想法,你也不知道你在忙什么?当别人问你时你总是很没心情的回答他,可是又真的不知道你在想什么?而你很想知道我
0    581    1    1.10    6/3/2001 12:00 am   

mingxuan1981, 28 M

6/3/2001 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
我想找个女朋友
在你受伤的时候来安慰你 ,你在寂寞的时候来理解你, 每当凝望真月光,心里总有垒垒的平,难道真的是命中注定吗? <br> 难道是“命里有时终须有,命里无是莫强求”吗? ...
0    235    9    2.78    6/3/2001 12:00 am   

sd6507, 44 F

5/31/2001 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
网事如风
...
0    76    26    2.38    5/31/2001 12:00 am   

xiaoying667203, 28 F

5/26/2001 12:00 am
2 Articles, Score 0.0
爱,不是勉强
不知我从何时开始喜欢静静的坐在球场,我的目光是河流,追随他如帆的身影。 ...
0    244    12    3.51    5/26/2001 12:00 am   

lwhb, 24 M

5/26/2001 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
假如……
假如爱情可以解释, 誓言可以修改, 假如你我的相遇 可以重新安排, 那么, 生活就会比较容易, 我也终于能将你忘记! ...
0    261    4    2.47    5/26/2001 12:00 am   

99809982829998, 30 M

5/8/2001 12:00 am
3 Articles, Score 0.0
想爱就要勇敢去爱
我曾经暗恋上一个女生,可她就是不知道,只到有一天她去了广东,我这才醒过来,我已经错过了机会。 ...
0    85    4    3.25    5/8/2001 12:00 am   

4076142, 27 M

5/8/2001 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
你和我
愿你有足够多的欢乐让你觉得甜蜜, 有足够多的尝试让你坚强, 有足够多的悲伤让你更有人性, 有足够多的希望让你快乐, 并且有足够多的财富让你买给我礼物。 ...
0    234    2    3.12    5/8/2001 12:00 am   

w8e8r8t8y8, 27 M

5/6/2001 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
初恋
...
0    33    7    3.04    5/6/2001 12:00 am   

ryoky, 26 M

5/6/2001 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
失去之后总想在拥有
为什么,为什么!所有的人在失去之后总想在拥有。 也许,这就上天的安排吧,他也许喜欢捉弄他的子名。但这是为了什么呢?又何苦呢?这可把我们这些爱情之人给好好捉弄了,你说是吗? ...
0    35    3    0.98    5/6/2001 12:00 am   

tedboss, 26 M

3/17/2001 12:00 am
3 Articles, Score 0.0
现实生活的爱
<br> <br> 一句老话,命里有时终须有,命里无时莫强求。平平淡淡的爱才是我们要找的幸福。 <br> <br> 其实,在很深的友谊中都带有爱情的成分。 <br> ...
0    254    3    2.94    3/17/2001 12:00 am   

helen1988,

2001-03-14
Score 0.0

"Your English very good"was said by he.But I have lost him yet.May be my English too bad.He can not want long time.He hope chat wiht me at yahoo, but I can not... I really love him so I wish that him luck, happy, he name is...
                2001-03-14   

RNY, 28 M

2/4/2001 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
用心来面对我们这份感情
以前我们太年轻,现在又彼此有了心爱的人。你叫我如何去面对以前的那份感情。如果上天能给我一个从头在来的机会我想我会等你,你呢?是不是和我一样。我们今天都有了彼此心爱的人了,还有什么不好说出口的。 ...
0    127    2    2.42    2/4/2001 12:00 am   

cryingboy1, 37 M

2/1/2001 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
人生
生死:人生似草,小小的,青青的,随风轻舞,也许只是一瞬,或被残踏,或被水淹,就是这样,人生很脆弱。既是这样,生死只是由天,莫看重。 ...
0    1255    2    2.42    2/1/2001 12:00 am   

nick_008, 29 M

1/17/2001 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
IT IS VERY IMPORTANT
In our life time , do you think how to say "no thanks"is very important , in china when some one say to you that "thint you", i think most of you will say that "no thanks", but in west country , ...
0    109    21    1.39    1/17/2001 12:00 am   

Paulvo, 31 M

1/4/2001 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
Who sets your standards? Why should ethics be compromised?
Who sets the standard of ethics in today's society? Do we allow our minds and the minds of our children feed off television, the latest talk show, or someone's opinions that lack ...
0    49    24    5.63    1/4/2001 12:00 am   

tobyeve, 29 M

12/26/2000 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
и㎝珿ㄆ
ǎレみ笆, 钮М并羘い, ぱ痷年憨╲甧, êぱぇ硔! <br> 佩尺ㄓ筿杠い, 癸杠ぇ薄笆, ē迭笷絋ぃ, Τ帝稲紏の甧! <br> 栏皘翴牧, ...
0    100    19    4.71    12/26/2000 12:00 am   

happy811122,

12/19/2000 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
we are good friends!
In fact, many people prefer to say thanks to someone eles.but I think it is not necessary if you are good friend. ...
0    91    23    1.26    12/19/2000 12:00 am   

curt007, 46 M

11/28/2000 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
Accept the compliment! And be honest.
it may be hard to say no, but treat it for what it is! this person has just paid you the highest compliment that it is possible for one person to give to another. (ok, that may be overstating ...
0    155    21    5.35    11/28/2000 12:00 am   

EGGCITE, 39 M

11/28/2000 12:00 am
9 Articles, Score 0.0
How do you say no to a girl?
I suppose being popular could be a problem. How do you say no to a female without hurting their feelings? I love female company and I normally have one or more attractive female company all the ...
0    184    33    0.00    11/28/2000 12:00 am   

play_jun, 28 M

11/24/2000 12:00 am
5 Articles, Score 0.0
猠琌屡︹
粄醚竒筁ㄢΩ琄 讽и–Ω稱碞穦稱拜и杠 猠琌屡︹盾 癘眔Τぱи盿ǐǐ琌縡帝產柑敖敖禲╆帝 ...
0    1717    6    4.22    11/24/2000 12:00 am   

play_jun, 28 M

11/24/2000 12:00 am
5 Articles, Score 0.0
肶秨
眖换环よ糶獺倒и⊿Τ爹盚獺 ﹑ê娩琌琄ぱ盾硂柑秨骸肶ê笵﹑ぃ腀㎝и癬玡 ㄓи穞瞒秨狦Τぱи瞒秨琌и穦盚獺盢み薄糶秈 ...
0    30    2    1.04    11/24/2000 12:00 am   

play_jun, 28 M

11/24/2000 12:00 am
5 Articles, Score 0.0
府
玼抽﹑ぃみ砆êΨ︹╤豪端繷函聋坚韩翧 ﹀êΨ琌﹑克も从 ﹑盢硂Ψ眖╤豪鲦い芭ウ苭秨黑褂マ礛狈帝 ウ淮淮府 ...
0    105    2    3.81    11/24/2000 12:00 am   

play_jun, 28 M

11/24/2000 12:00 am
5 Articles, Score 0.0
à辅
и羆琌尺舧Гà辅柑み薄羆琌尺舧肮à辅琌иǎ贺贺 瞏薄并籩瞏℉Θ蛮﹖虫┪琌㎝и妓肮à辅 ...
0    528    1    2.40    11/24/2000 12:00 am   

rambo990825, 29 M

11/19/2000 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
癸
㎡獺и蒒畿筁穦诨碞パぱ∕﹚狦さΩ㎡獺砆祅O琂杠溯碞猔﹚蛁诨澬糶㎡O琂み薄↖и穦量Oиョ穦笆矗O琂翴常常璶谅谅谅稲 ...
0    90    1    1.10    11/19/2000 12:00 am   

EGGCITE, 39 M

10/23/2000 12:00 am
9 Articles, Score 0.0
Find it hard to say no to girls.....
I've met many girls through out my life and a lot of times they are physically attracted to me. One of my weaknesses is that I do not like hurting others' feelings. So when I date some girls, even ...
0    101    149    0.00    10/23/2000 12:00 am   

olddevil2000, 33 M

10/10/2000 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
A GLANCE IS ENOUGH
YM is gone . But she is not dead.She only disappears from my sight. I have not seen her for several months. In these few years, I saw her occasionly.She works in theunit near the ...
0    644    27    0.00    10/10/2000 12:00 am   

AmericanBeauty, 50 F

10/6/2000 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
Always Be Polite~!
When you receive and email from someone that you know you are not interested in, it is always best to be polite. ther eis nothing more painful than to receive and email that says "You are not my ...
0    74    32    5.96    10/6/2000 12:00 am   

gongyongdong, 39 M

10/2/2000 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
遗憾
遗 憾 <br> 我从春寒中落世,带着满心的寒伤, 我来了,母亲走了, 留给我的是一搂朦胧的遗憾。 我忐忑的走向温厚的夏夜, 我长大了,父亲却走了, ...
0    785    3    1.47    10/2/2000 12:00 am   

qingyunjushi, 39 M

10/1/2000 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
分手总是在雨天?
分手总是在雨天? 也许一个人的命运真的早已是定数,不然为什么与你分手总是在雨天? 多少次的分分合合、合合分分,命中注定我们永远只能是... ...
0    85    6    0.80    10/1/2000 12:00 am   

gxwsz11, 32 M

9/21/2000 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
笑话(有点色哦!)
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0    113    11    0.00    9/21/2000 12:00 am   

jw3152, 34 M

9/19/2000 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
网恋
在现实生活中经历了几次恋爱, 但终于都以失败告终, 不知道是我有什么不能让女孩子接受的东西, 但好在还没有要一定要结婚的时候, 所以总是想以后再说, 终于朋友中有结婚的了, 这时候才感到自己好象不在年轻了, ...
0    123    53    0.00    9/19/2000 12:00 am   

markfour, 55 M

9/18/2000 12:00 am
2 Articles, Score 0.0
Response roulette
It has been my experience on these internet relationship sites that the women are out numbered by the men. It has been my experience in life that women do not write to men at first. The ...
0    566    13    2.14    9/18/2000 12:00 am   

lidadong19, 28 M

9/17/2000 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
缘让我认识了---她
...
0    23    65    0.00    9/17/2000 12:00 am   

Bunniee, 33 F

9/15/2000 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
Know when to let go
Hi, my name is Bunny. I have some thoughts to share with you. I have a good friend. She broke up with her boyfriend couple years ago, but still keep an intermate relationship with him. She's ...
0    115    19    4.05    9/15/2000 12:00 am   

seifer00,

9/6/2000 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
Advice
It is simple, using conscience all the time. Whenever someone offers you drug or alcohol that could influence your judging ability, just say "No Thanks". Just don't think that smoking is cool, ...
0    3    15    1.75    9/6/2000 12:00 am   

kjray,

9/4/2000 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
no response = no or low class
there are many more people that are NOT exactally what we are looking for than there are the "perfect" match. But if someone will take their time to respond to anothers profile, if it is not ...
0    7    161    0.02    9/4/2000 12:00 am   

abcdy, 31 M

8/28/2000 12:00 am
2 Articles, Score 0.0
一个真实的故事
有一个男孩在无意间,爱上了个女孩。那份爱,来的很突然,很奇怪。 那个男孩告诉那个女孩,我不知道为什么,但我爱你。可能太突然了。 请你让我爱你,照顾你,一生一世。 ...
0    24    7    4.31    8/28/2000 12:00 am   

andycock, 37 M

8/21/2000 12:00 am
2 Articles, Score 0.0
Why can't you say
This can apply to both gender, that not just for girls or boys! Look for the part for boys, please! <br> For girls, please consider these: <br> 1. You may think of when a man ask ...
0    122    28    4.16    8/21/2000 12:00 am   

Glyndragon, 54 M

8/19/2000 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
It is better to say
If you received an email fom someone who is not the "right" one, it is far better to say "I'm sorry, but I am not interested...etc" than to let the person keep sending unwanted email. Plus it ...
2    178    35    6.59    8/19/2000 12:00 am   

Dandra, 40 M

8/18/2000 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
Tell her/him
Well, having sex may be attractive when you two stay somewhere nice and romantic. But as you may know lots of diseases would be delivered via sex. Then, ... Say no all the time if you don't really ...
0    350    14    2.82    8/18/2000 12:00 am   

maierhappy,

8/15/2000 12:00 am
2 Articles, Score 0.0
想要
想要什么 想要的也不过就是和你的那一瞬 你交负你的一生给我 就这样 就这样 与你相遇  然后就那样深深地爱你 一直 一直 <br> <br> 离别 无奈最是 但留得凄美回忆 <br> ...
0    147    10    2.39    8/15/2000 12:00 am   

maierhappy,

8/15/2000 12:00 am
2 Articles, Score 0.0
爱如满月
若爱上一个人,请一定要温柔地待他。 不管爱的时间有多长,亦或多短,若始终能如情初时温柔地相待,那么,拥有的时光都将是一种淡而无瑕的美。 ...
0    56    0    0.00    8/15/2000 12:00 am   

hezhi88, 33 M

8/14/2000 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
学会说
时常我们会碰到许多我们也许并不需要的热情, 但是, 由于怕辜负别人的一番好意而不敢加以拒绝, 孰不知, 这样反而让自己陷入了许多的麻烦当中。 因为, 我们并不需要的热情是否有其在的含意也无法确定, ...
0    122    5    1.84    8/14/2000 12:00 am   

dandelions, 37 F

8/13/2000 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
How do you gently say
Not that I constantly find myself in this situation, but how do you tell someone that you've, say, had one date with that you can don't think it will work out? I'm all for being open-minded and ...
0    273    22    2.53    8/13/2000 12:00 am   

lover2B, 34 M

8/10/2000 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
Rejected by your our race! :(
I recently met someone on a vacation I took out to Hawaii. At first I didn't think much of her, but as we got to know each other better. I felt this sensational feeling that she could be the one ...
0    270    22    3.97    8/10/2000 12:00 am   

Hg_B, 26 M

8/9/2000 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
硂妓弧no,ゑ耕〆胞翴...
┯籜眤岿稲, ぃ脖稰縀.礚ーセ﹟ギ, 厩醚﹟睱, 獵琄腳禥, 讽厩穨, 珿礚穠ēのㄠ薄.τ, иρ畍弧, ネ疭翴琌"ぃぃ", ぃ笻璉畍轿轿毙旧, ...
0    162    20    1.08    8/9/2000 12:00 am   

edwardwallace,

8/6/2000 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
虏虏虫虫弧------稲┪ぃ稲!!
﹑弧﹑羆琌策篋, 羆琌策篋﹖虫., и笵, ㄤ龟﹑琌┤;砆и.╯澈﹑临稱玂痙ぐ或?螟笵ユ┕ぃ ㈱港翴盾 ?﹑弧﹑┤薄и差, 沧╯簘簘亢亢, ッ环綼ぃ─.ㄆさ, ...
0    133    10    2.79    8/6/2000 12:00 am   

Mvox, 44 M

8/4/2000 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
Doesn't Make You Cool
Just saying no is OK IF it's sex, drug's or something against your principalsit's ok to say no. There's more to life than getting high and having sex and babies having babies. ...
0    91    2    2.42    8/4/2000 12:00 am   

tvert, 32 M

8/1/2000 12:00 am
3 Articles, Score 0.0
help w/ no
I guess a lot of people are reffering the no thanks to sex - but i want some advice/hints on how to turn down girls... i used some pretty lame excuses before, but i want to do thisright...so, ...
0    215    3    1.47    8/1/2000 12:00 am   

transform7, 57 F

7/30/2000 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
Do you deserve a reply
Once, I put an ad in the net. I got a reply from a man who askd me whether "MBA"in my ad meant "married but available". he added that if that was the case, be sure to give him a reply? I felt a ...
0    62    22    4.09    7/30/2000 12:00 am   

Squirrel_c, 27 F

7/27/2000 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
┶荡Sexal Abuse !
硂柑, ┦奶耑ンぃ耞祇ネ.ぃ恨闹, 砆甡み柑だ甧痙帝馋端甡.辨, и荷磷硂妓ㄆ祇ネ, 腊甡ǐ筁潮紇. 琌烦珿ㄆ: , ...
1    377    9    2.57    7/27/2000 12:00 am   

Anddre2, 39 M

7/16/2000 12:00 am
7 Articles, Score 0.0
I抎 rather prefer a 搉o Thanks for an answer then
<br> <br> I met her in an old girl friend of mine Party. I look at her and thought there she is. I beg my friend to introduce us and she did it Wright away, this is 揃rian, this ...
0    33    8    2.09    7/16/2000 12:00 am   

tseung, 46 M

7/5/2000 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
From a guy's perspective
OK, so you've all probably turned down more men than you care to remember. How about a few tips from a guy? <br> First, most of the time it's the guys who have to ask and the girls can just ...
0    155    18    6.40    7/5/2000 12:00 am   

xiaoqing69, 43

7/2/2000 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
being honest
at once i noticed he was nervous, he made me nervous. i got worried but put the feeling to the back of my head. first impression can be wrong. <br> we walked, we talked, it was a disaster. ...
0    140    4    2.86    7/2/2000 12:00 am   

buttercup69,

6/28/2000 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
Let me think............NO
Smoking, Drinking, Sex, Drug!!!!!!!!!! If you don't wanna do it then just say no..... It not as hard as it may seem......... I no you may be presered....... But just speak your mind....... ...
0    237    0    0.00    6/28/2000 12:00 am   

sexy_chick,

5/30/2000 12:00 am
3 Articles, Score 0.0
I SAID NO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
If someone ever tries to presure you into anything like smoking, drinking, doing drugs etc. say no. But sometimes your in a hard position like if your with all your friends and they ask you if you ...
0    228    7    3.55    5/30/2000 12:00 am   

azn_babay_kAt,

5/14/2000 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
how to reject a guy's idea of sex
okie..so you girls out there..i'm sure a lot of you have had experiences of your boy friend asking you for sex on the first or second or third date..and a lot of us are just too nice to say ...
0    1166    24    4.49    5/14/2000 12:00 am   

TotallyRelaxed, 34 M

5/11/2000 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
It's about being honest
No matter what you read here, or anywhere else, no one is an expert on relationships, it is the most difficult thing about humans to understand. I am not an expert either, but this is what I ...
0    197    7    5.08    5/11/2000 12:00 am   

hihiu, 32 M

4/29/2000 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
different usage of NO
NO is used infact to give the meaning os negative and positive as well same times no is consisted of two words but it confines lot of meaning in it. the word only sometimes causes lot of ...
0    171    7    1.00    4/29/2000 12:00 am   

mejoyu, 59 M

3/29/2000 12:00 am
3 Articles, Score 0.0
Getting turned down, hurts.
I read an article in here about how us guys compare ourselves to airplanes. How many airplanes get to fly after being shot down? [0]Zero! But how many guys get to try again, and fly with eagles, ...
0    164    13    3.65    3/29/2000 12:00 am   

kill_the_man,

3/25/2000 12:00 am
2 Articles, Score 0.0
saying no and meaning it
I use to use drugs alot you name it i did it but the reason i did all the drugs i didn`t know how to say no then i figgured it out just instead of saying no sayoh i dont feal well or i`m allergic ...
0    151    4    2.47    3/25/2000 12:00 am   

GUEST USER,

7/22/1999 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
Saying 'NO' can be as easy as saying YES
Saying NO can be easyer than saying YES It's easy to say yes to things,but when it comes down to saying NO how many of us can openly say we could do it without any hesitation. Sex is one of ...
0    464    19    3.12    7/22/1999 12:00 am   

GUEST USER,

5/31/1999 12:00 am
2 Articles, Score 0.0
saying no, somwone's gotta do it
Saying no is hard, but someone抯 got to do it. That抯 where you come in. I抦 writing this to tell you that it is ok to say no. If you are with someone that is pushing you to so something that you ...
0    69    1    2.40    5/31/1999 12:00 am   

GUEST USER,

5/10/1999 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
At least say " No Thanks"
So you finally find the person who you think could be interesting. You've been searching the lists and checking each bio to make sure they are at least somewhat compatible and in some cases you ...
0    103    8    4.87    5/10/1999 12:00 am   

GUEST USER,

4/28/1999 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
I didn't think it was a crime
This story is going to be hard for me to tell. If it hasn抰 happened to you, it抯 happened to someone you know, even if you don抰 know that it抯 happened. I started dating my ex, Thomas, in ...
0    81    10    4.78    4/28/1999 12:00 am   

GUEST USER,

4/25/1999 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
I don't understand why people find it so hard to say "no".
i might be a little close-minded, but i don't see the difficulty in saying "no" to someone of the oppisite sex. I think it's all about self-respect. If you have enough self-respect, you won't let ...
0    149    5    2.49    4/25/1999 12:00 am   

GUEST USER,

4/16/1999 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
A Guy's Worst Nightmare
Its the worst thing that can possibly happen to an ambitious, goal-seeking suitor: asking the girl of your dreams on a date, and hearing that nasty, but sometimes inevitable, 揘o. Those two little ...
0    386    11    2.61    4/16/1999 12:00 am   

GUEST USER,

4/13/1999 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
NO THANK YOU
SAYING "NO THANKS" SAYING THESE TWO WORDS CAN GET YOU ALOT OF PLACES. FRIENDS THAT ASK YOU TO TRY SOMETHING [EXA.DRUGS] ARENT REALLY YOUR FRIENDS JUST SAY NO AND WALK AWAY. THEY WILL TRY THERE BEST ...
0    167    5    3.14    4/13/1999 12:00 am   

GUEST USER,

4/11/1999 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
Let them down gently, but let them down.
I thought that I was going to be doing the nice thing when I just ignored this girl, instead it made things ever worse than I could have ever imagined. It all happened a few years ago while I ...
0    150    3    3.92    4/11/1999 12:00 am   

GUEST USER,

4/3/1999 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
Saying 'NO' to the persistent
It really amazes me no end how some men can be so persistent and won't take no for an answer...their hide is so thick that 'No' doesn't seem to penetrate through... it could be due to all that long ...
0    57    2    3.81    4/3/1999 12:00 am   

GUEST USER,

3/12/1999 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
choosing the right person
hello young teens,well i know that it is one time when u guys & girls r really keen on finding yourself a date, but it's the most important thing to choose the right person.so always be careful ...
0    97    0    0.00    3/12/1999 12:00 am   

GUEST USER,

3/5/1999 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
Why to say "No Thanks" To Drugs
All Though it may seem that drugs are cool it really isn't. If you become hooked you will end up a washed up "bum" who will do just about anything to get high. People like this are poor ...
0    65    2    0.34    3/5/1999 12:00 am   

GUEST USER,

1/31/1999 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
How to brush off signals
There is nothing worst than a girl that you don't like, likes you. How do you break it to them gently? Well, I have noticed the strong signals and you just play dumb. IE: My friend Jackie liked me. ...
0    8    1    2.40    1/31/1999 12:00 am   

GUEST USER,

1/29/1999 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
Graceful way to AVOID octopus hugs FROM men, for M or F
The man is warm and wonderful and you decided to go for an embrace. Suddenly you are stuck with a human octopus. Or just as bad, you don抰 know how to change from simple hug to a little more ...
0    103    4    4.02    1/29/1999 12:00 am   

GUEST USER,

1/26/1999 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
Saying no isn't as hard as it may seem
Saying no isn't as hard as you may think. It all depends on how hard you make it for yourself. For instance, if someone asks you out and you say, "I'll think about it" when you really want to say no ...
0    89    1    2.40    1/26/1999 12:00 am   

GUEST USER,

1/17/1999 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
Saying no is a BIG deal.
Many people when asked for a date/relationship often respond poorly. Many will simply say no, many will say yes, but even more people than those two combined will say maybe. Maybe is the worst ...
0    48    1    3.70    1/17/1999 12:00 am   

GUEST USER,

1/16/1999 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
The Mr. NOT Right Rejection Letter
If everyone else's experiences have been like mine, you've met some VERY nice men and women and you've met some "doozies" - well, "doozies" according to your own standards. Sometimes, it's very ...
0    37    3    2.94    1/16/1999 12:00 am   

GUEST USER,

1/12/1999 12:00 am
2 Articles, Score 0.0
Keep your "willy" where it belongs
The hardest thing for a guy to do is to not have sex. His "willy" is wild and crazy and when there is an opening for him to see himself in, he usually takes it. Usually is the key word though. ...
0    59    6    3.65    1/12/1999 12:00 am   

GUEST USER,

1/7/1999 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
Some like It rough
If you are going to break-up, or deny someone the oppurtunity to date you:sometimes you got to be upfront. Some people just do not understand you when you give them an excuse like,"I am washing my ...
0    112    2    1.04    1/7/1999 12:00 am   

GUEST USER,

1/4/1999 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
how about a little honesty
hows this for a new years resolution....lets be honest!!! you know we've all done it. we've met the person that we have been corresponding to and well we just arent interested. instead of beating ...
0    160    3    5.39    1/4/1999 12:00 am   

GUEST USER,

1/2/1999 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
No means No
Saying no thanks can be hard sometimes when you may think you are ready, but there is a little voice in your head saying don't do it. Listen to that voice, because even if you are having the ...
0    133    0    0.00    1/2/1999 12:00 am   

GUEST USER,

12/30/1998 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
What do you mean no?
In some situations saying no just doesn抰 feel like the right thing to do. I抦 sure you have felt it before. Isn抰 it what people do? You feel you should just let whatever happen. Yet something ...
0    20    0    0.00    12/30/1998 12:00 am   

GUEST USER,

12/26/1998 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
Why Shouldn't I?
Why not take drugs? Why not have sex? Why shouldn't I drop out of school? I feel that These are most of the common questions many teens ask themselves. Askiing questions like these and thier ...
0    295    0    0.00    12/26/1998 12:00 am   

GUEST USER,

12/24/1998 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
How to Say No to Clinton !
(1) Dammit no Bill, Ken Starr knows where I live ... (2) I'll swallow like you inhale buddy ! (3) Mr.Clinton I'm sorry but that's my favourite dress. (4) Daaaaaaad stop it !!! *g* ...
0    114    0    0.00    12/24/1998 12:00 am   

GUEST USER,

12/13/1998 12:00 am
2 Articles, Score 0.0
saying no thanks to sex
If you are under age and a guy asks you to have sex say no, If you dont know a guy very well and he asks you to have sex tell him that you are sorry and that you dont want to have sex with him yet ...
0    5    3    3.43    12/13/1998 12:00 am   

GUEST USER,

11/10/1998 12:00 am
3 Articles, Score 0.0
Survival
We didn't see it coming. Life was as usual. We met everyday after school - went out, talked on the phone. The only sign was that we seemed to be bickering over small matters ever so often. ...
0    3    0    0.00    11/10/1998 12:00 am   

GUEST USER,

11/7/1998 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
Say No to the Office Beau
There he (she) is sitting across the desk from you. You get each other coffee, share a pencil sharpener, cover each other for lunch, but is it okay to take it further. DON"T DO IT! I have ...
0    3    2    3.81    11/7/1998 12:00 am   

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10/9/1998 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
Drugs - How to say NO
We live in a society that is filled with drugs. I know because I used to use them. Drugs are created to give us an unnatural high. This feels great at first but soon becomes a drag. The problem ...
0    2    0    0.00    10/9/1998 12:00 am   

GUEST USER,

9/16/1998 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
No Thanks the best
Today the usage of drugs is worldwide.It depends a lot on the user himself.Some may say yes or no to drugs.If drugs is being use in the medical purpose in curing the sick than it is okay as it ...
0    78    1    5.00    9/16/1998 12:00 am   

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8/24/1998 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
JUST SAY NO!!
Hi, This is a letter to tell people how important I think it is not to let peer pressure bother you or others. I knew this person that grew up in a rough neighborough and he was a good ...
0    47    1    5.00    8/24/1998 12:00 am   

GUEST USER,

8/22/1998 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
Why I'm Not Ready For Sex
My best friend did it when she was 15, but I haven't done it yet, mostly because I haven't found the right person. I feel like I should like him a lot, and he should care about me a lot too. ...
0    158    3    4.41    8/22/1998 12:00 am   

GUEST USER,

8/6/1998 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
What They Really Mean
What Woman Say, And What Do They Really Mean? 1) They say: can we just be friends? They mean: there is not a chance in hell that I'd ever want to go out with you! 2) They say: I need ...
0    12    3    3.43    8/6/1998 12:00 am   

GUEST USER,

8/1/1998 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
Navigating Through the Internet Swamp
Most of us have had the experience--you get anonymous email, an anonymous ICQ, or a response from Friendfinder from a person you're pretty dubious about. There are ways around the rare-but-possible ...
0    73    6    5.64    8/1/1998 12:00 am   

GUEST USER,

8/1/1998 12:00 am
3 Articles, Score 0.0
Its OK to say "NO" to SEX
From my personal experience: SEX CAN WAIT. I know some of you may feel that its the only way you can truly get close to your bf/gf, but sometimes it can only do the opposite. I once heard "Sex ...
0    99    3    2.45    8/1/1998 12:00 am   

GUEST USER,

7/12/1998 12:00 am
2 Articles, Score 0.0
Does he ever go too far?
The best way to say no to a guy is to say, "NO!" Be firm and say it like you mean it, otherwise they won't take you seriously. It's your body and no one else has the right to tell you how to ...
0    164    1    5.00    7/12/1998 12:00 am   

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7/3/1998 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
Saying NO
Hello Kids all over the world. If somebody offers you a drink or smoke say ...
0    3    2    5.20    7/3/1998 12:00 am   

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6/10/1998 12:00 am
3 Articles, Score 0.0
Professor No
Okay, so you've finally started the dating scene again and found some enticing prospects online. You decide to talk on the phone, and then to meet someone in person. You do all the safe things - go ...
0    55    1    5.00    6/10/1998 12:00 am   

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5/30/1998 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
I'm sorry, missed the word "perfect" in your profile...
While this may be great advice (in my mind) you may disagree, write your own. First we look to the familiar answer to the personal --- "I saw your ad, sounds like we might have something in ...
0    195    11    4.10    5/30/1998 12:00 am   

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5/27/1998 12:00 am
2 Articles, Score 0.0
No thanks to what, who ???!!!
Hi! Saying NO thanks is not a difficult word to say. There are many things which you want to say No to something you don't wish to do. Have some courage to say NO when somebody offer you ...
0    165    1    5.00    5/27/1998 12:00 am   

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5/22/1998 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
Smoke-free mouth
Hard to say no! Well, hear this one out first! Smoker: Want a cigarette? Victim: Nah, I don't think so Smoker: come on, chicken! Victim : No! You won't get me to do that smoky thing by ...
0    429    2    5.20    5/22/1998 12:00 am   

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5/19/1998 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
No one needs to go through this.....
For some reason, my article pasted like this...please feel free to arrange it as needed. Note: All characters' names have been changed for protection When I first moved in to my co-op, I was ...
0    390    1    5.00    5/19/1998 12:00 am   

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5/19/1998 12:00 am
3 Articles, Score 0.0
Saying NO !
Have you ever had one of those times when your friends asked you to do something you don抰 feel like doing; but simply don抰 know how to say it without hurting thier feelings ? Or when your mom ...
0    81    3    1.96    5/19/1998 12:00 am   

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5/13/1998 12:00 am
3 Articles, Score 0.0
Are You weak?
A major factor that I have found in my experiences to be somewhat responsible for a great deal of pain is called "peer pressure". We are somehow almost forced to actually believe that we are no ...
0    33    4    5.57    5/13/1998 12:00 am   

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5/6/1998 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
my ways to say "no" to a person.
how to say no. 1. if you're in a different city that you don't go to often just say that you're gay. 2. if they're gay say that you're straight 3.say that you'll call them but "forget" their ...
0    227    4    2.08    5/6/1998 12:00 am   

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4/12/1998 12:00 am
3 Articles, Score 0.0
Giving NO or Taking NO from sb.
In case you are going to have some natural fun or enjoyment with somebody and you receve "NO". Don't you worry its could be YES, but remember it could be "NO". So how to decide which NO is in ...
0    2    4    2.86    4/12/1998 12:00 am   

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4/12/1998 12:00 am
3 Articles, Score 0.0
Giving NO or Taking NO from sb.
In case you are going to have some natural fun or enjoyment with somebody and you receve "NO". Don't you worry its could be YES, but remember it could be "NO". So how to decide which NO is in ...
0    1078    2    2.42    4/12/1998 12:00 am   

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4/10/1998 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
How To Say "No Thanks"
Telling someone that they are not appealing to you or that you are not interested can be difficult. Most of us don't want to hurt someone's feelings when we feel turned off. Often we pretend that ...
0    897    3    3.43    4/10/1998 12:00 am   

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3/23/1998 12:00 am
4 Articles, Score 0.0
Mean what you say, and say what you mean!
If you've tried everything and it still doesn't work, have a good friend whom you trust and who he/she knows is close to you tell him/her that "No" means "No". Leave no room for guessing. ...
0    198    4    3.25    3/23/1998 12:00 am   

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3/23/1998 12:00 am
5 Articles, Score 0.0
How to break it to them nicely!
There are many different ways to break it to the person nicely. But I guess one of the most frequently used ones is "No, I think it's better if we just stay friends." Or something like "I don't ...
0    332    3    3.43    3/23/1998 12:00 am   

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3/22/1998 12:00 am
4 Articles, Score 0.0
A MATTER OF PRINCIPLE!
I consider myself to be pretty straight forward. I am not into drugs of any sort, except a few drinks occasionally, do not patronise gambling or pay for sex. This last point is pretty ...
0    54    3    3.43    3/22/1998 12:00 am   

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3/19/1998 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
Stalked by a 7 year old
My... interesting... experience started when I went to babysit my next door neighbor's son, Michael. It was the first time I had babysat for him, and since I wanted him to like me I brought some ...
0    101    6    4.79    3/19/1998 12:00 am   

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2/28/1998 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
ADDICTED TO SAYING "YES"?
As a friend, I would like to advise all you out there, especially the girls against being addicted to saying "yes". Most girls say yes to lifts from strangers hence resulting in their being ...
0    259    2    2.42    2/28/1998 12:00 am   

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2/27/1998 12:00 am
2 Articles, Score 0.0
It's Alright to Say No.
For most girls, the first sexual experiance is exciting, mysterious, and can also be painful. Most teenage girls give in to sex because of here it comes...peer pressure. Not only peer pressure, ...
0    52    3    1.47    2/27/1998 12:00 am   

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2/25/1998 12:00 am
3 Articles, Score 0.0
Do Not Leave Them Hanging
we all here at FriendFinders get email from others that we may not be attracted to..Now what do we do about it..Do we just trash it and go on or do we answer it. I myself try to care for others ...
0    119    5    3.14    2/25/1998 12:00 am   

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2/24/1998 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
Not that far that fast
Hello everyone ever been caught in a cituaton with a date that you were uncomfortable with? Alot of people have. And saddly enough alot of people just dont know how to say No, or are afraid if they ...
0    50    4    2.47    2/24/1998 12:00 am   

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2/14/1998 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
No to drugs!
Many teenagers around the world is taking drugs. Some of them for the very first time. Unfortunatly many of them dies as a result of the drugs. As a supervisor for young teenagers that is on ...
0    4    3    1.47    2/14/1998 12:00 am   

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1/19/1998 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
How to tell him/her No when you dont want to date them at the moment!
When a man or woman asks you out and you do not want to go out with them say No thanks or change the subject and ask him or her if they would like to go do something else. Tell him or her you like ...
0    171    9    3.43    1/19/1998 12:00 am   

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1/16/1998 12:00 am
3 Articles, Score 0.0
Why can I not say "NO" to my partner.
You have difficulty saying, "No," because you are worried that s/he will be hurt if you do. <P> You care about him/her. And if you're like most people, you're also concerned about what s/he ...
0    103    11    2.23    1/16/1998 12:00 am   

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0/1/0000 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
动动我试试(00544)
某君有私家车,颇为得意,唯车牌号为00544,常被友人戏称为“动动我死死”,甚感美中不足。一日,得高人点拨,称应解读为“动动我试试”,君立觉为之气壮。又一日,车行路上。君被一大货车紧逼而脑怒。旋下车,呵斥
0    2    12    5.27    0/1/0000 12:00 am   

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