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GreatGuy555 66 M
1  Article
Say Thank You !   6/26/2017

You could go on and on about what you want when you describe what you are looking for in a woman but sometimes explaining all those things can get feelings hurt. You must not take it personally. We all have what and what does not please us in our minds eyes. It would be nice if women would not take it so personally.

There are men out there that will want you as you are or what you look ...


0 Comments, 2 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
smicer123 57 M
2  Articles
Control Your Anger   4/13/2012

Make sure you read all the way down to the last sentence. (Most Importantly the last sentence).. There was once a little boy who had a bad temper. His Father gave him a bag of nails and told him that every time he lost his temper he must hammer a nail into the back of the fence. The first day the boy had driven 37 nails into the fence. Over the next few weeks, as he learned to control his anger, ...


0 Comments, 22 Views, 3 Votes ,2.94 Score
LG_Leo 43 M
1  Article
THE BEST   9/8/2010

Discussion topics are for original material written by members


0 Comments, 11 Views, 0 Votes
Ben909x 41 M
3  Articles
Sometimes You Just Need to Say No   5/17/2010

There's definitely times when you need to say no to advances from others. I can think of one in particular that I had to turn away recently. She wanted to get married immediately! I mean, I definitely want to get married but come on, she didn't even meet me yet (we met online) and she was already talking marriage and family. I at least need to be in love with the other to get married. At least!


1 Comments, 137 Views, 3 Votes ,3.43 Score
_Hot_Guy_ 52 M
2  Articles
Saying no thanks   3/9/2010

It is best to say no thanks than to say nothing at all. A quick reply does not count as a email and does not effect your email allowance as a standard member and is a polite way not to leave a guy on a string of wondering. Let him know so that he can move on to and search for his match!



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1 Comments, 27 Views, 10 Votes ,3.98 Score
bootyman1963 38 M
1  Article
How Do You Say "No Thanks"   3/5/2010

I get many invitations but some times they are not matches. Is there a correct way to say No Thanks I'm not interested instead of just ignoring them like so many people do?


2 Comments, 28 Views, 0 Votes
peach08 59 F
1  Article
Too Sick of Being Harrassed !!!   10/25/2008

I've been online off and on for all these years. As a human, I do believe that we all have right to choose our mates but many men didn't give me that right. They harassed me when they didn't get my interests! They ignored my polite no that was said on my automatic reply!

I couldn't even select the details of man I want any more as they all will show on the automated matching. I got very ...


5 Comments, 86 Views, 11 Votes ,3.92 Score
deanom72 45 M
2  Articles
now you have agreed to meet... first time   2/28/2008

What do you do?

1. dinner date 2. coffee date 3. lunch date 4. ask to invite her/his friends to meet with your friends 5. go to the movies 6. other

I ask this as sometimes and rarely I experience when I ask a girl to meet they say yes but they want other conditions like just a coffee. I guess its less intrusive and also there is no big bill or easy to get out of or maybe its ...


1 Comments, 36 Views, 3 Votes ,2.94 Score
WoAiNiSweetBabes 107 M
10  Articles
its easy   11/26/2007

"No Thanks"


1 Comments, 44 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
rsflener 58 M
19  Articles
Leave room for both to break with dignity...   10/3/2007

The curiosity was there. The emails where honest and open. Then came the first date. Boy sparks flew! A few more dates later, and you share a private time. Wow, what an experience.

After a few months, things slowly change. You don't care for their political fews. They think you have stinky feet. Their parents are to nosy. Your parents are to nosy. ETC.

What happened? Maybe you ...


0 Comments, 54 Views, 7 Votes ,3.80 Score
imthereforyou 48 M
4  Articles
whats the interest   6/16/2007

of saying "No Thanks?


1 Comments, 25 Views, 4 Votes ,0.92 Score
procida 68 M
25  Articles
no thanks   2/26/2007

no thanks ....no mercy ?


0 Comments, 68 Views, 11 Votes ,0.36 Score
ke5541 33 M
10  Articles
What is the Best Way to Say NO?   2/11/2007

What are some of the classic lines you have used to turn people down?


6 Comments, 170 Views, 14 Votes ,3.14 Score
Adel88 48 M
1  Article
How Can You say No Thanks?   2/11/2007

I don't know if it happened with you as well, but it did with me. On your first date and you are so excited about it, then....the one how shows up is totally different to what in your mind..oops, now what? how you gonna say NO? I would love to hear your story....


2 Comments, 78 Views, 9 Votes ,2.36 Score
bb10103 45 M
2  Articles
New kind of e-scam   12/25/2006

Well let me tell you of another e-scam . Some people from ex eastern block countries, especially the poor ones like Georgia and Moldova discovered another way to get cash. From airplane tickets.....Yes exactly airplane tickets. I sent an airplane ticket to some chick in Moldova to visit me for a weekend. The chick never came and the ticket disapeared......


5 Comments, 228 Views, 28 Votes ,3.65 Score
jfender 107 M
2  Articles
I never say no   12/12/2006

Cannot, everygirl is a moment of maybe the future! How is it possible to stop what you want!


1 Comments, 78 Views, 10 Votes ,1.00 Score
MrStan 58 M
74  Articles
You have the following rights to say NO   11/19/2006

It's always important to date smartly and safely, regardless of how you first meet someone. Before you begin exchanging emails with other singles on, please take a few minutes to review these online dating safety tips.
1. Maintain your anonymity. One of the safety benefits of online dating is the ability to take as long as you want getting to know a ...



1 Comments, 123 Views, 27 Votes ,6.61 Score
procida 68 M
25  Articles
logique   11/4/2006

If, after reviewing the sender's profile and email, you decide that you're not a good match, saying "No, thanks" can mean a lot to the other member. It will provide closure and let them know it's ok to move on to other matches that are better suited for them. Remember, they took the time and effort to send you a message, even if they're not the right match for you. Surely you would ...


1 Comments, 30 Views, 5 Votes ,2.82 Score
RichardTTripp 72 M
95  Articles
Let me apologize,   10/28/2006

Let me apologize,
I am a hot headed egocentric fool much of the time acting far to quickly in anger with far too little information.. I want to apologize to SP33DY2 for my insulting remarks about his postings in this magazine. He is a very intelligent man with a kind and forgiving heart, fortunately for me. He could write some very powerful articles in French but not in English. ...


0 Comments, 41 Views, 5 Votes ,3.14 Score
SP33DY2 45 M
11  Articles
hello   10/27/2006

i'm here


2 Comments, 46 Views, 4 Votes ,0.92 Score
RichardTTripp 72 M
95  Articles
I'm having fun with these no thank yous...   10/18/2006

We all live in this world together and we need to act like it. I like much about you and would like you for a friend. I would like you to join my circle and have sent you an invitation to it.
I am honored by your attentions. I know that through interacting with people on a friendly basis we can often find love somewhere. Everybody knows somebody and the possibilities are endless. ...


0 Comments, 12 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
RichardTTripp 72 M
95  Articles
I want to thank you   10/18/2006

I want to thank you for adding me to your hotlist. I am honored by your attention. I would like to offer you my friendship and find out how your doing. In our search for love we can not forget to find friends. And after all that is the the beginning foundation of any lasting love.
Thank you again for your attentions. I am truly honored......


0 Comments, 19 Views, 5 Votes ,4.12 Score
RichardTTripp 72 M
95  Articles
Some of us love spinach….   10/18/2006

Some of us love spinach…. Some of us hate it… It is not that spinach is good or bad… It is we all have specific likes and dislikes… That we can not control… Can you make yourself like spinach…. If it does not taste good to you.. There is much about you I like… And some things about you I could love… I am sure many others ...


0 Comments, 10 Views, 3 Votes ,2.94 Score
RichardTTripp 72 M
95  Articles
Please forgive me ..   10/18/2006

Please forgive me .. I am a foolish old man chasing younger women.. I will probably pay in hell for this.. I wish you luck in all you do ...and hope you find love. soon...


0 Comments, 20 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
RichardTTripp 72 M
95  Articles
[COLOR blue][/COLOR][SIZE 5]I am not sure that love will find us[/SIZE]   10/18/2006

I am not sure that love will find us.. My heart seeks another... But friendship can bind us... Forever in this world...


0 Comments, 6 Views, 3 Votes ,3.43 Score
RichardTTripp 72 M
95  Articles
Funny ways to say no....   10/17/2006

This was posted in the general section by another member and if you did not see it here you got to check it out...it is so funny... WAYS TO TURN DOWN UNWANTED MEN !!!! HE : Can I buy you a drink? SHE : Actually I'd rather have the money.

HE : I'm a photographer. I've been looking for a face like yours. SHE : I'm a plastic surgeon. I've been looking for a face like ...


1 Comments, 46 Views, 7 Votes ,4.31 Score
ru4me76 47 M
1  Article
Just say no thanks   10/2/2006

All of us have experienced it at one time or another. We come home from a first date, swimming in euphoria, sure that we've just spent the first night of the rest of our lives with our true soul mate. Mr. or Miss Destiny. The One. And then, we never hear from them again.

As we sit by the phone, waiting for that second date call (or call-back) we first begin to doubt the ...


1 Comments, 62 Views, 8 Votes ,3.94 Score
terryaki 70 M
11  Articles
regarding asking for the first date...   9/7/2006

People need to be more careful in the work place today. If someone asked you out, on a first day, you may want to give this careful consideration before saying "no thanks". This is because you co-worker many be worried that he/she may get into trouble if, after you turn them down one time, they ask you again. So... do not play hard to get, just make an honest decision one way ...


0 Comments, 52 Views, 10 Votes ,2.59 Score
stevv06 53 M
2  Articles
Why our email is censer?   8/30/2006

Please help me out?...why can we pass on email...
Do we allow to give our phone#?
Thx


2 Comments, 76 Views, 9 Votes ,2.57 Score
Ihab52 42 M
1  Article
Welcome 2 Syrian Airlines   7/28/2006

Welcome 2 Syrian Airlines Hello everybody

This is your captain “Ihab” Welcoming both seated & standing passengers on board of Syrian Airlines.

We apologize for the four-days delay in aking off, it was due to bad weather & some overtime I had to put in at the bakery baking Kaka.

愁his is flight 717 to Sham Airport. ...


0 Comments, 75 Views, 8 Votes ,2.09 Score
in2play22 55 M
10  Articles
Ladies, do it w/ class   7/18/2006

Lots of times, ladies just ignore emails. Plz at least say a simple not interested to let people know you received the email. This will cut down the repeat emails sent to you.


1 Comments, 108 Views, 14 Votes ,3.46 Score
soulsearch888de 37 M
11  Articles
how many guys say it?   7/14/2006

i'm wondering, how many guys will actually turn a girl down for intent on being honourable ?
(I would, and i have!)


1 Comments, 83 Views, 9 Votes ,3.00 Score
diablojones28 37 M
1  Article
What has happend to common courtesy?   6/8/2006

I posted this on my blog but didn’t get the response I was looking for so I decided to try this forum. Not only related to email, this is something I have noticed in other areas of life since high school and have been trying to figure it out. Now I know that there are extenuating circumstances to some situations but why do some people seemingly act with blatant disrespect for other ...


0 Comments, 116 Views, 17 Votes ,3.27 Score
WhAtSoUnD 48 F
9  Articles
How dare!   5/26/2006

One night, I went out clubbing with my very good friends. All females. I had met this young girl who came from New Orleans, LA. I had no idea what kind of person she is. Until few of us, include myself, started dancing and drinking. Guess what had happened? This young girl had done touch my a** and I, of course, turned to her and told her excatly in gentle respond " I am f***ing straight. ...


0 Comments, 157 Views, 21 Votes ,2.26 Score
down_by_the_sea 61 M
7  Articles
Why would people single out a member and dis him???   3/22/2006

Why would members single out Wiseman phd for instance and dis him????...


3 Comments, 125 Views, 13 Votes ,5.66 Score
ThomasPhD 56 M
124  Articles
REJECTION creates INTERNET STALKERS   2/27/2006

It is really creepy, frustrating and violating when someone stalks you over the internet. Why do they do it mostly? REJECTION Rejection is something that is part of life, and we all have been rejected at some point in ourlives. Either the gal or the guy turned us down one to many times. Or we didn't get the job and the other girl or guy did instead of us. People are paying ...


2 Comments, 184 Views, 15 Votes ,4.20 Score
ThomasPhD 56 M
124  Articles
What don't you understand?   2/9/2006

ABOUT THE WORD NOOOOOoooooooooooooooooooo!


8 Comments, 196 Views, 12 Votes ,2.27 Score
WhAtSoUnD 48 F
9  Articles
***Ladies*** .... men can share opinions.   2/8/2006

*Sigh* This guy who lives in another state, I have chat with him online for over 5 yrs now and never have met in person. We became close friends when both of our relationships with other were going down the hill. There were no secret between us on about being together until after my break up and his dirvoce, he just, out of blue, asked me to move in. I was really shocked and confused. My ...


2 Comments, 204 Views, 20 Votes ,3.38 Score
speedscenetv 54 M
10  Articles
Creative Ways of Saying No Thanks   2/7/2006

I think to some degree we all get in to those bad relationship experiences that sometimes require a little finese or creative ways of saying "Thanks for the great time, but no thanks - I don't want to continue this relationship with you" kinda situations.. <br> I'm sure that many of us would benefit from some of the most creative ways to say "No thanks" - whatever form of "No ...


0 Comments, 100 Views, 4 Votes ,2.86 Score
Kriezl 34 F
8  Articles
When would you say NO?   1/26/2006

Hey guyz... <br> Just wondering if there is already an instance when you say no and then regret it after??? Have you experienced that already? So when would be the best time to say NO and why?


3 Comments, 142 Views, 13 Votes ,1.97 Score
dltctncm 72 M
7  Articles
Do Chinese women prefer no reply to a negative reply?   1/24/2006

Perhaps this should be a question for the advise section. Technicalities. <br> At AsianFriendFinder I receive one or more unsolicited emails from Chinese women. <br> That is expected here. <br> For one reason or another, most of these emails do not spark my interest in the writer. Perhaps the reasons I am not interested is material. I think not. <br> Do ...


2 Comments, 193 Views, 11 Votes ,1.86 Score
WhAtSoUnD 48 F
9  Articles
Common situation to say it   1/23/2006

A guy offer me a drink at club, I accept it without doubts but second one, it's always "no thanks". <br> Mom give me money, I say "No thanks, mom" <br> <br> A cat bring dead mouse as a gift, I say " oh no thanks! EWW!!!!!" <br> "Why don't you go ask him out?" I say "Huh? Me? No thanks. You go ask him." <br> A slap on my buttlock by a guy, I say ...


0 Comments, 118 Views, 9 Votes ,3.21 Score
DarkNite2000 42 M
18  Articles
Don't hate me for saying this but...   9/4/2005

Do Asian girls or do they not who knows... Who cares, Asian girls and western girls they're all the same they just don't know it yet, Asian girls live in the past and western girls live too much, I hope one day I understand or maybe I'll fall in love and I just won't care any more Anyway guys around the world are just guys but girls in every city are different so should a guy know ...


7 Comments, 416 Views, 22 Votes
DarkNite2000 42 M
18  Articles
Don't hate me for saying this but...   9/4/2005

Do Asian girls or do they not who knows... Who cares, Asian girls and western girls they're all the same they just don't know it yet, Asian girls live in the past and western girls live too much, I hope one day I understand or maybe I'll fall in love and I just won't care any more Anyway guys around the world are just guys but girls in every city are different so should a guy know ...


0 Comments, 145 Views, 5 Votes ,0.53 Score
DarkNite2000 42 M
18  Articles
Don't hate me for saying this but...   9/4/2005

Do Asian girls or do they not who knows... Who cares, Asian girls and western girls they're all the same they just don't know it yet, Asian girls live in the past and western girls live too much, I hope one day I understand or maybe I'll fall in love and I just won't care any more Anyway guys around the world are just guys but girls in every city are different so should a guy know ...


0 Comments, 129 Views, 5 Votes ,1.84 Score
DarkNite2000 42 M
18  Articles
Don't hate me for saying this but...   9/4/2005

Don't hate me for saying this but come on why do Chinese girls always say they like the older men! this in 2005 and woman don't have to respect a man just because he's old, that's sick, the emperors are gone and now woman are as great as any men in China, they should all show the men they can't be bought by money and power only with through love, and don't believe every thing your told in ...


0 Comments, 113 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
DarkNite2000 42 M
18  Articles
Don't hate me for saying what I feel..   9/4/2005

Don't hate me for saying this but come on why do Chinese girls always say they like the older men! this in 2005 and woman don't have to respect a man just because he's old, that's sick, the emperors are gone and now woman are as great as any men in China, they should all show the men they can't be bought by money and power only with through love, and don't believe every thing your told in ...


2 Comments, 139 Views, 8 Votes
zorgnot2 112 M
1  Article
Is any reply too much to ask?   8/26/2005

This may have been brought up before- I can't imagine that it hasn't- but what about a polite..."No, thank you". We're all here because we want to meet people. Maybe not in person for a variety of reasons but we all want some kind of contact with another human being.Is it too much to think that we deserve a decent reply to a decent inquiry or attempt at contact? What I mean is: if I try ...


3 Comments, 258 Views, 7 Votes ,3.80 Score
lartimer 58 M
10  Articles
Automatic reply, short sentences reply....   8/14/2005

I need to admit that I don't like to read an automatic answer or reply. "No thank you". I prefere to have no answer, I can understand that you are busy or simply not interrested, great, no trouble at all. But have this type of impersonal answer it's to be impolite. Are you the selectio reader digest for give this type of answer??? Are out of courtesy for just admit that the people does ...


0 Comments, 89 Views, 7 Votes ,2.79 Score
ValentinaM55 36 F
1  Article
Hehe   8/14/2005

At first date meaning part is the fealling inside of u. U should be shure that this man is for u. If u dont feal this way ...so u wouldnt meet with him any more in future. But some ladyes wanna meet with a man that have one time sex and the quit it. So sad for that...


1 Comments, 200 Views, 15 Votes ,1.45 Score
credibility 67 M
1  Article
is common courtesy and being polite a problem with female members   8/3/2005

it seems as though that most female members selected as matches to male members don, t seem to understand or realise that both parties receive the cupid mail ...therefore if you receive mail from a member and you are NOT INTERESTED kindly have the god sense to let them know , rather than ignoring them ....remember the profile with all the fantastic things you say about yourself goes down ...


1 Comments, 345 Views, 8 Votes ,2.78 Score
guitarman1964 60 M
8  Articles
politeness   6/28/2005

when saying no thanks or im not interested you should be as polite as possible as others have feelings to and and its not nice to uneccisarily hurt anothers feelings after all you wouldnt want your feelings hurt either now would you


1 Comments, 235 Views, 6 Votes ,3.37 Score
VeryHandsomeCdn 58 M
12  Articles
Can I buy you a drink   6/6/2005

No thanks but you can give me the 5 bucks and get lost


0 Comments, 634 Views, 13 Votes ,1.97 Score
fudpuckr 68 M
1  Article
Can a man say no?   5/4/2005

Yes, why not.Usually we are the driving force in the sex departmen, but that dont mean we are ready at all times. When we say no we will be looked at with suspicios eyes.Why?


0 Comments, 377 Views, 11 Votes ,1.86 Score
Michael-Mac 62 M
9  Articles
Easier for men   4/15/2005

Because there are at least 10 men here to every woman (my own rough non scientific estimate), it follows that women will recieve a lot more messages than men.
While I agree that it would be nice to receive even a polite "no than you", it is understandable that it does not happen very often. Because we get less messages, it is easier for us men to send polite rejections than it is ...


0 Comments, 542 Views, 21 Votes ,2.88 Score
he01234 60 M
25  Articles
Tell the truth.   4/10/2005

Telling the truth and being honest is always appreciated and you won't feel bad either. Playing games is the worst thing you can do to the person facing you and to yourself. Honesty is the best policy. Palying with the emotions of a person is immoral and unacceptable.


0 Comments, 122 Views, 17 Votes ,3.55 Score
moontears22 61 M
4  Articles
replies   3/23/2005

should one always reply, even if not interested...or by not replying does that send a message? I always try to reply at least once if someone messages me.


1 Comments, 294 Views, 11 Votes ,2.42 Score
keg963 61 M
11  Articles
You never know the person you tell no thanks could have been the one you seek   3/8/2005

When you say no thanks unless the person is rude you may be thinking this person really sucks, but remember this if you do not chat and get to know them that may be you prince charming. We get so busy in our lives you never know love and experiences you've never had could be waiting for you and change your life.


0 Comments, 415 Views, 8 Votes ,1.39 Score
Quick3033 48 M
1  Article
No thanks   1/24/2005

No Thank is what has been said, peace , love and craziness.


1 Comments, 500 Views, 4 Votes ,0.14 Score
V1ncenz0 44 M
1  Article
Reality   1/21/2005

The reality everyone reacts differently to rejection. Those who are strong will take it on the chin and move on or may proceed to keep trying. These people you need to be pretty straight up even if it hurts their feelings it won't be for long. For those who are weak means a differnent aproach would be required. It's about being honest again but being more suttle. I believe most people ...


0 Comments, 234 Views, 6 Votes ,3.08 Score
AngelChiou 37 F
4  Articles
Thank you dear   1/14/2005

Thanks for giving me heartbreak Thanks for letting me feel so bad Thanks for rejecting me Thanks for ignoring my tears Thanks for making me strong Thanks for putting me in the rain Thanks for telling me how stupid I am A lot of thanks... I'm strong enough to face everything you did for me I don't feel bad I don't be sad I don't cry Because I already get over you My ...


3 Comments, 565 Views, 30 Votes ,4.02 Score
mitch9922 55 M
13  Articles
Never be what you cannot deliver   8/25/2004

Well, I used to be one of those prissy-type girls. You know, the ones that wear nail polish, wear really cute little clothes and fling my "oh so silky" hair about. I attracted those kind of people who were just as twisted in their thinking as I was. I say, unless you are willing to deliver attention and sincere respect to all those you are demanding it from, than all you are doing is ...


1 Comments, 67 Views, 21 Votes ,5.72 Score
ZippityDay 72 M
1  Article
Not my type   8/19/2004

I met a woman in a nice little bar for our first meeting. She seemed nice over emails. She was waiting for me at the hostess stand, when she saw me, she squeeled loudly. I was embarassed. I was wearing clean blue jeans and a nice shirt. She was wearing blue jeans and an old sweatshirt. Her front teeth stuck almost straight out of her mouth when she opened it. It was gross. I ...


1 Comments, 342 Views, 34 Votes ,3.69 Score
yexiaojun725 39 M
1  Article
我依然爱你   7/16/2004

栾/ <br> 我想起我们共度的时光是我最美好 ...


0 Comments, 146 Views, 30 Votes ,2.75 Score
abd33 47 M
227  Articles
没有感受,因为我是无心之人   7/10/2004

心碎 一缕缕的思念轻掸着我的心房 一丝丝的苦恼缠绕着我的神经 一庄庄的故事摇曳着我的记忆 风吹乱了我的发髻 吹散了我的思绪 任凭雨水在脸上拍打 品不出口中的是泪水还是雨水 请不要这样残酷 你可以伤我的心 可以伤得彻彻底底 用你的言语击碎我那痴狂的等待 ...


0 Comments, 132 Views, 25 Votes ,5.23 Score
kll1985 38 F
5  Articles
你比我幸福   6/25/2004

寂寞当然有一点,你不在我身边,总是特别想念你的脸,距离是一份考卷,测验相爱的誓言,最后会不会实现!!!!!!!天气转凉了,我要送你一件外套∶ 口袋叫温暖;领子叫关怀; 袖子叫体贴;扣子叫思念;让这件 外套紧紧伴著你渡过每一分每一秒,一定要幸福喔! *☆∵


0 Comments, 269 Views, 32 Votes ,5.68 Score
Enrik23 38 M
13  Articles
I NEED YOUR HELP!!!! PLEASE   6/21/2004

I have aa close friend to me, but lately I have been very concerned about her. He hangs out with people who smoke(smoke other things along with that)and make stupid idiodic choices in their pathetic lives. The more she hangs out with them the more off track she seems to get from having a good life. I don't know what to do, because after a while I'm afraid that she'll want me to too. I don't ...


1 Comments, 979 Views, 31 Votes ,1.32 Score
bill_8843 57 M
3  Articles
curious about reasons for marriage   6/4/2004

Hi everyone. I am writing this in response to a email reply that I just recieved. While thankful to even receive the reply it made me very curious as to the motives of some of the members. In the reply it was stated that the lady was only interested in western men living in western countries. As I am a westerner who is currently living in Korea (temporarily) I was in a way shocked. If the ...


0 Comments, 1097 Views, 80 Votes ,7.28 Score
dalatvn 55 F
9  Articles
Profile   4/24/2004

I get turned off by someone who listed their wealth on their profile. For instance, the man says he owns a 4 bedroom, 3 TVs, nice car, and a job with over $100, 000 salary, should I be impressed?. NOT. I prefer someone who tell me more about him self whether his a decent human being or not. His wealth doesn't say anything about him but it sounds more than a bait to get people's attention. ...


7 Comments, 3309 Views, 124 Votes ,7.63 Score
1unusual1 42 M
6  Articles
Reply to   2/10/2003

I read the "Pic not what expected" article and offer the following advice: I too received a number of responses to my profile and the pics I received were not the problem... It was the distance! I got a lot of replies from beautiful women but they were in China and I am in the USA. <br> At first I responded politely to each inquiry by suggesting that they contact someone ...


0 Comments, 1529 Views, 68 Votes ,6.72 Score
BestAsiaGuy 111 M
2  Articles
Picture is not what you expected ....   5/28/2002

I have received over 200 inquiries to my profile to date and I am flattered beyond belief. <br> Sheer dumb luck I think I would call it. Right place at the right time. I feel so bad for all those wonderful people who are lonely and seeking as I am .... <br> I was wondering what is the proper thing to do when someone writes you and you check their profile and : <br> ...


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anna118 49 F
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don't say sorry!   6/5/2001

看了你的文子,很是一般。其实不用象他说什么道谦的话,没有必要,既然你爱他,又为何找别人,没有什么理由可以说,是你的错,但无须道谦 ...


0 Comments, 299 Views, 7 Votes ,2.02 Score
anna118 49 F
2  Articles
don't say sorry!   6/5/2001

看了你的文子,很是一般。其实不用象他说什么道谦的话,没有必要,既然你爱他,又为何找别人,没有什么理由可以说,是你的错,但无须道谦 ...


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AmericanBeauty 57 F
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Always Be Polite~!   10/6/2000

When you receive and email from someone that you know you are not interested in, it is always best to be polite. ther eis nothing more painful than to receive and email that says "You are not my type because you are too (old, fat, ugly, skinny, young, etc.) The nicest way of putting things is to always thank the person for taking the time to contact you. Because, this person opened ...


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Glyndragon 68 M
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It is better to say   8/19/2000

If you received an email fom someone who is not the "right" one, it is far better to say "I'm sorry, but I am not interested...etc" than to let the person keep sending unwanted email. Plus it will be better for you. <br> Many people try to "shotgun" emails to a wide variety of people in the "hope" of getting the right one. I don't see anthing very harmful in this, but it is a ...


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Squirrel_c 42 F
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ڵSexal Abuse !   7/27/2000

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Anddre2 53 M
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I’d rather prefer a “no Thanks” for an answer then…   7/16/2000

<br> <br> I met her in an old girl friend of mine Party. I look at her and thought there she is…. I beg my friend to introduce us and she did it Wright away, this is “Brian”, this is “Jane”. I talk with her only a few minutes, I’ve turned my backs only for just a short length of time and Abracadabra…. she gone. Well, I asked my ...


0 Comments, 33 Views, 8 Votes ,2.09 Score