wkg55 44 M 3  questions	Moving out and away - 1/6/2005 People are meeting on here all the time from other countries, other cultures, many times thousands of miles apart. Now, in some those cases, the couple may actually develop something that leads to mariage, which means someone has to move. My question is to both men and women. How do you feel about moving, your thoughts about moving to another culture? Although another culture could mean ... 5 response(s), 12 votes
No1PopTop 68 M 2  questions	Winks and Hotlist - 1/6/2005 I am very curious I have had dozens of beautiful women ad me to their hotlist and winked at me but not many of them have sent me an e-mail, What gives with this? Im here looking for a nice asian lady to marry. I have a friend who found Love on AFF and sugested I might also so here I am, Did i miss something in the rules? <br> <br> No1PopTop 6 response(s), 15 votes
OnNewPlanet 54 M 9  questions	how it can be possible... - 1/5/2005 how it can be possible... I'm a black male living in Italy and working around IT. I speak french, english and Italian fluently, but haven't any knowledge in asian languages. How can be possible to me, found here an asian female as a life partner with whom I can share mutual love & respect to complete my life. [note that : I am a tender, lovely, virtuous, and responsible guy]. ... 1 response(s), 8 votes
OnNewPlanet 54 M 9  questions	how it can be possible... - 1/5/2005 I'm a black male living in Italy and working around IT. <br> I speak french, english and Italian fluently, but haven't any knowledge in asian languages. <br> How can be possible to me, found here an asian female as a life partner with whom I can share mutual love & respect to complete my life. [note that : I am a tender, lovely, virtuous, and responsible guy]. ... 3 response(s), 5 votes
No1PopTop 68 M 2  questions	Winks and Hotlist - 1/2/2005 I am very curious <br> I have had dozens of beautiful women ad me to their hotlist and winked at me but not many of them have sent me an e-mail, What gives with this? Im here looking for a nice asian lady to marry. I have a friend who found Love on AFF and sugested I might also so here I am, Did i miss something in the rules? <br> <br> <br> ... 4 response(s), 6 votes
Law37 60 M 1  question	are there any chinese ladies interested in indian man - 12/20/2004 I have been a member of AFF for a while and been corresponding with asian ladies..it seems the "decent" ladies don't prefer Asian indian man. Most asian ladies wants white man...is this because they want a green card or think western man make better husbands? I think most asians and Indians share the same culture, values and traditions with similar outlooks on family life 3 response(s), 0 votes
Dougiemd 49 M 1  question	What are Caucasian girls looking for in Asian guys? - 12/11/2004 What are Caucasian girls looking for in Asian guys? I have gone out with both Asian girls, and Caucasian girls, and as an Asian guy, I have to say that girls, irregardless of their race, have their own unique qualities. I've always understood why a Caucasian guy would be interested in an Asian girl: she has what a guy wants in an ideal woman -- loyalty, respect etc. However, I've become ... 6 response(s), 0 votes
placeinsun 36 F 1  question	Motivation - 12/8/2004 Hmmph you people paste topics here in order to get attention or really have the question? I suppose the former is the mainly reason for nearly most contributors xixi^^ Am I right again? I am right most of the time and listen, DO you guys really care about those people who against you and appeciate those who are back your opinion? disagree or agree are both fine with me....see how minus ... 1 response(s), 7 votes
xiexie50 70 M 1  question	How fast can one fall in love??? - 11/21/2004 An accident brought me to the AFF site... I rather think of it as an happy accident! I first was overwelmed by the instant offers to get married... well just about! I started by reading forum opinions on the subject and realized that there is honesty and dishonesty everywere... so one must be lucid and carefull. Once having put aside the exciting offers from beautifull younger women (hard ... 0 response(s), 12 votes
cbr_600 60 M 1  question	Will (Asian) Girls Ever Make the First Move? - 11/20/2004 A little background... I just started dating again after a breakup so I am taking things kind of slow. I am just wondering if girls always expect the guy to make the first move or if they will take the initiative sometimes? Or will you just drop subtle hints like verbal cues or maybe getting really close in a crowded place? 5 response(s), 35 votes
LL5950 56 F 4  questions	Aren't men and women equal...? - 11/20/2004 In Asia, when a married man has an affair, it is regarded as normal. Their pals don't think that he did a really bad thing. But if a married woman was to have an affair people will say that she was a horrible woman, a woman of loose morals etc. If a woman should kill herself over a lost romance, people will say she is so true to her love, but if a man should do the same, they will say he ... 11 response(s), 0 votes
aguilar56 67 M 1  question	Why is humor so misunderstood in Asian culture? - 11/20/2004 I have worked with Asian people and I find that it is very hard for most to express emotions when there is a humorous situation or they cannot laugh out loud if something is funny 4 response(s), 22 votes
qingqing_susan 42 F 2  questions	Is there any western guys could help me?when a Chinese girl fall in love with a German man... - 10/23/2004 We first met on AFF and then chatted on the internet for months, he was attractive to me, I enjoyed being with him very much, he created strong emotion within me , I have no idea if this feeling can be called love, but I miss him very much when I am offlined, I want to spend time with him. I started my German language lessen because of him...... It's the first time in my life I attach to ... 1 response(s), 0 votes
tml721 60 M 2  questions	Women in Asia - 10/19/2004 In the Asian cultures do women seeek out the man or does the man attempt to make the first move to the woman. I've been approached by a lot of Asian ladies saying they are typical or traditional chines woman, if that be the case would they wait for someone to find them instead of them looking for a man?? Just wondering 4 response(s), 7 votes
132304300 51 F 1  question	To those perverts on AFF - 10/17/2004 Please don't annoy the people who are sincerely looking for normal relationships on AFF. You have your right to find sex partners/discreet relationships but please don't annoy the people who are not looking for that. Go to Adultfriendfiner to find your sex slaves. 2 response(s), 24 votes
sweetbiologist 49 F 2  questions	lots of western men said: I love Chinese culture...... - 10/16/2004 I met many western men on this website who said: I love/am interested in Chinese culture. You see, even some young Chinese people today dislike Chinese culture......But when I asked them what Chinese culture mean in their words, their answers always beat around food, kongfu and tender/loyal Chinese women...... China is one of the largest countries with more than 5000 years' history, and ... 10 response(s), 0 votes
Lvirman1 71 M 2  questions	Do you think that people should take the to answer their emails. - 10/16/2004 Answering your emails not only shows politeness, it also let people know that you are courteous and care about their feelings too. So it is nice to answer all your emails even if it's to politely say you are not interested. 6 response(s), 1 vote
salad7 55 M 2  questions	Need information - 10/5/2004 I have been on Asia FF for over 2 years and I finally found someone I was interested in enough to visit. I have travelled to China and met with her and her family. We now believe we are in true love, not just internet love. I have asked her to marry me. We know it is a long time before this happens, but I want to start getting prepared. So, I need information about the process of marrying a ... 6 response(s), 5 votes
yukisunshine 48 F 1  question	smiley_james - PLS BEWARE OF HIM IN TOKYO - 10/4/2004 I'm currently online and suprised that saw SMILEY_JAMES on the file. He is basically a cheater, a man with sweet talk. He is not a single man but claim that he is. Why do I know this guy??? Well, my friend met him in one of the bar in Tokyo and got invited for drink and dinner later. He is a jerk at all time and also try on me even he is with my friend!!!! Also, we saw him with others girls ... 2 response(s), 13 votes
angel181049 74 F 1  question	Where are all the nice chinese guys. - 9/21/2004 I came on Asia FF as I love Chinese guys. They are so respectful and hot at the same time. All I found are English/American guys searching for Asian women.Where are all you sexy chinese guys please. 3 response(s), 1 vote
brandonbrophy 49 M 1  question	Flight ticket purchase - 9/19/2004 Lets say a man or woman contacts you for a friendship, ... and over time you both decide you like one another, ...if you both decide that he/she will come visit you, then do you pay for the plane ticket, do they pay for the plane ticket, or do you split the plane ticket? <br> Please answer according to the choices: <br> (Don't like) = No matter what, the guy pays ... 8 response(s), 3 votes
ltrGuy 71 M 1  question	Dating Culture in China - 9/18/2004 Hi Fellow AFF folks, <br> I would like to know how to properly date my Chinese lady when I go to China. My intention are honorable for her and her . What may be confident and witty with American ladies may be offensive with Chinese ladies. So in short: I don't want to screw it up. <br> What are the things that are Not acceptable and what are the things that are ... 3 response(s), 0 votes
jennyview 50 F 1  question	Why does the west man always like some less than normal level's asia girls? - 9/13/2004 For a long time, we can see in some asia city that the west man always have a asia girl beside him.But in our sight the asia girl really not good looking and just spoken normal english.why they still like? does the west man 's judge the beaty things different from the asia person? 2 response(s), 2 votes
diveman_68 50 M 1  question	The hook... - 9/7/2004 What is the first thing you look for on a profile? Is it the tag line, picture, or how the person writes? Is the first thing you look for also the most important? What do you think??? 9 response(s), 0 votes
howcouldyou 50 M 1  question	What to do, please help me! - 9/5/2004 I know already it is possible to fall in love without knowing true nature of person. Now I can't decide: what to do if people are too different to be together, but they want to? They can't live with each other, but also can't live wihtout each other. One of them wants to find compromise, but other- no. It's impossible to leave and is not possible to stay with. Thanks for all your ... 9 response(s), 0 votes
tml721 60 M 2  questions	2 or more contacts - 9/3/2004 What do you do when 2 or more ladies contact you and you DON'T want to hurt their feelings by telling them you are talking to more than 1 lady? Do you tell them you are talking to others or not?I want to find the right lady but I don't want to hurt any feelings either.What do I do?? 15 response(s), 0 votes
Phoebe101 36 F 1  question	How to keep a good relationship forever? - 8/30/2004 I just started this relationship 2 months ago. We are so happy to be together even there is nothing to do. I know this is just because we are still new in the relationship or we are in a so-called honeymoon stage. How can I keep it like this forever? Sometimes people says the relationship will get faded after a period of time instead of getting maturity. How can I avoid that? How long ... 6 response(s), 0 votes
salad7 55 M 2  questions	Need advice and info - 8/17/2004 I am seeking advice from People who live in China about certain customs. I have met a woman who I have become quite interested in. We have decided to meet in October of this year. I have done some studying about Chinese customs, but I have some questions. I was informed that it is customary to bring gifts when visiting Chinese friends. I had planned to bring the woman of my interest a gift. ... 7 response(s), 0 votes
LL5950 56 F 4  questions	Have u ever heard? - 8/15/2004 Have u ever heard of the saying - If u love something set it free, if it comes back its yours if it doesn't, it never was... well, personally i think "it " (being your pets)will always come back, but a He/She will almost always never comes back and if they do, do u think u still want them? (yes, i know u will say it depends under what circumstance that u parted, and what if i say its ... 4 response(s), 0 votes
emanon007 69 M 2  questions	Are these good male dating tips? - 8/15/2004 I am not a Casanova or Brad Pitt, but I have found these suggestions have helped me in my relationships with women. Guys and girls, What is YOUR opinion? 1. When having a conversation with a woman, let her talk 80% of the time and you talk 20% of the time. 2. Women work hard to be attractive, always give them sincere small compliments. 3. Always be a man never be a doormat wimp. She ... 9 response(s), 1 vote