rasberry81 42 F 3  questions	what guys have in there minds - 1/29/2002 i met a guy in a club..well something clicked between us that i haven't felt for a long time..i went out with him again..he seems nicer then i thought.first he was intrested in me but lateron i found out he still loves his ex..i understood what he is going through so i said we could be friends..after that we did not have much contact..after that i saw him 2 times in a club..first time, he ... 1 response(s), 1 vote
CarrieZhang 51 F 2  questions	Can we find a true love here? - 1/28/2002 In this cyberspace world, we start to know each others through words.Words could be beautiful. It records our feeling at the time we write it down. Since the feeling is written down, it can be read many times and seems will last forever. So, it's easy for us to fall in love through words. We might feel the love is so ture. Words together with distance can creat a wonderful imagnation. ... 0 response(s), 0 votes
snow_dove 45 F 2  questions	Sometimes - 12/2/2001 <br> Sometimes I feel really down and lonely, And sometimes i feel blue, Sometimes i feel in this whole world, No one understands me, Will i ever find one that could? <br> Once I thought i found one, That finally understood, But he used the things i told him, Aganist me and hurt me so. <br> The pain runs deep, The scars never heal, But i still want ... 1 response(s), 2 votes
Japanese25 49 M 2  questions	Greeting gifts - 7/28/2001 When I first meet a girl from Asia friend finder. Should I give her flowers as a greeting gift? Would red roses be appropriate? 0 response(s), 0 votes
lucky28nyc 51 M 1  question	Is she marrying for love or citizenship??? - 5/19/2001 Need advice.. <br> Meet a woman over the internet from a personl ad. When I wroteto her, I thought she was in China. To my surprise, she was already in my city ...visiting. We really hit it off (2 months ). She will have to go back in another couple of months. In order for her to stay, we would have to get married. <br> Issues...she does not speak English and it will be ... 0 response(s), 0 votes
QTmuimui 44 F 1  question	Why is ONCE never enough? - 4/30/2001 I m sure that we have all been through many different relationships, may it be good or bad, but I m sure we'll not forget. <br> Sometimes its quite ironic, every time we are in a new relationship, we tell ourselves that this is the "one" that we'll spend the rest of our lives with, to love and to cherish, and to share our pain and sorrow. But when it doesn't work out, we then tell ... 0 response(s), 1 vote
snow_dove 45 F 2  questions	really hurts - 4/14/2001 My sister is very rude to me. When we disagree on something, she'll start yelling and when i try to talk to her nicely about it, she'll just close her ears and says, "Go away, i don't want to hear you talk". Even when she's wrong, she just won't listen, she thinks she's right all the time. <br> My relationship with her has really been deteriorating these two years. She just gets ... 0 response(s), 0 votes
AelZiig 73 M 1  question	Is Interracial Dating Ok? - 3/12/2001 Is it ok to date out of your race and is it possible to find true happiness in a interracial relationship? 4 response(s), 0 votes
LonesomeHeart 40 M 5  questions	Some advice would help me alot :) - 3/10/2001 I am a single chinese guy (never dated) living in Australia <-- pretty pathetic eh? I've known this girl for maybe 2 to 3 years on the net and wehave met and gone out a few times. <br> I have had strong feelings for her, even before we met faceto face. I've even wrote numerous poems for her to express my feelings. <br> Anyway, we have talked about these feelings about a ... 0 response(s), 0 votes
angle1913 40 M 1  question	Why am I scared? - 12/27/2000 When my Girlfriend and I make love, sometimes I like a little oral action. Me and Her have been going out for over 2 and a half years(2 years and 8 months as a matter a fact). But, when we make love, why do I get scared when I try to ask her for a BJ? Sometimes she would just get me all worked up( you know what I mean ^ ), and we would kiss and touch eacher and get each other ... 0 response(s), 0 votes
shy-heart 42 M 1  question	love a Japanese girl? - 12/21/2000 My girlfriend is Japanese and I love her like no other girl in my life before. She shows me her love so deeply and so often and she says she want to share her life with me. She couldn愒 imagine a life without me. I惴 very happy with her. We have so much in common and share our good and bad times. I惴 even young, but I cannot imagine a life without her!!! But I fear our families ... 0 response(s), 2 votes
DJProducer 43 M 1  question	true love over long distance.. make it offical? - 12/9/2000 Ok.. here is my problem: up until this year, i have lived in the US, but now i live in HK.. but, for the past couple years, I have been very good friends with this girl in S. Korea.. I first met her last year around christmas time, and we hit it off right away, even more-so than we did through email.. now, we talk on the phone all the time, and I goto see her, maybe once every 6 ... 0 response(s), 0 votes
libra999 42 M 1  question	should i go after her ?? is height important ??? - 12/1/2000 i just had a wonderful date with a cyber girl after knowing her for a while ... <br> before i even met her on the spot, i was just taking it casually as my past experiences with other blind date didnt turn out to be what i expected ... when i met her, i was surprise to find that she is somehow different from those girls that i dated before ... She is a pretty girl compare to the ... 1 response(s), 0 votes
naree 61 F 1  question	We have different custom. - 11/30/2000 I live in Bangkok, Thailand. I find someone in this website. He come to meet me at Bangkok for two week. I am glad to meet him. But he want me to stay with him all day and night. I live with my parent's home. I could not do it because we're not yet to marry. My mother will be angry me if I stay with him everytime. I try to explain for him and he did not understand. Thai people must ... 1 response(s), 0 votes
jeffmwknight 61 M 1  question	Do people think that age is a factor after thirtysomething? - 11/18/2000 Do you think that age is a factor after thirtysomething or do you believe you are as young as you feel and finding a soulmate isn't bound by age differences? 0 response(s), 0 votes
anniehuang0513 44 F 1  question	age, is it a problem? - 9/14/2000 if a boy is 20years elder than the girl, will the age be a problem to them in developing their relationship? 2 response(s), 3 votes
qtjade 42 M 3  questions	Is love Passion? - 8/30/2000 I am probably one in a million to believe that love is not passion, desire, or sex. I believe that love is a companion, it is undescribable and when it comes around you would know it. Love is not the desire to have someone, because in the phrase: "The fire is still burning" This is a phrase of desire and everyone knows that fire must stop burning eventually. Love can be sex but it is ... 0 response(s), 0 votes
qtjade 42 M 3  questions	What should you do if you love someone to death? - 8/26/2000 i really love my ex and I can't live without him. I'm not satisfied with the reason why he dumped me. He said he does not love me no more. But everything he said to me...I don't want it to be lies. I mean, I'm not an obsessive person because I don't follow him around, I don't call him up at night...I don't do any of those. All I do is think about him. How can I forget about him? I ... 0 response(s), 0 votes
qtjade 42 M 3  questions	Is it true that when a guy says he loves u no more he really means it? - 7/28/2000 I'm madly in love with a guy who I just broke up with because he claims he does not love me no more...but I can't put myself to believe that that is really the truth. What sign should I look for when a guy really means he does not love you? Thank-u for answering. 0 response(s), 1 vote
iso300 41 M 1  question	Is it just me or is it with somebody else? - 7/9/2000 I can't seem to keep up a friendship which will last more than a short period of time. I have no real friends to begin with. People who associate themselves with me only because they need my help, after all is done I get shoved aside. I am sure it has something to do with my height, I am an extremely short individual. I feel that most people out there are ashamed to hang out with me. What ... 1 response(s), 0 votes
ZableFar 44 M 1  question	Dunno what to do.. - 6/10/2000 I had been best friends with this girl for over 5 years, I think. We became more than that 2 1/2 years ago, but broke up maybe half a year ago. I'm not good with times n such. Anyhoo.. we broke up but still friends. My humdilly is she still loves me more than a friend. I still love her too, but I don't love her as much as I did, more just like a sister now. I want to find someone else now, ... 0 response(s), 0 votes