joe2207904 44 M 4  questions	What to do in this situation - 6/14/2003 One night when im out with friends they intoduce me to another group of friends they know, two of the group are girl friend and boy friend. <br> While I sit down in a big group I notice all is not well and that the girl really wants her boy friend to go play pool with her as she needs to practice for a competition. I pick up on a vibe that he might be intrested in another girl in ... 0 response(s), 0 votes
joe2207904 44 M 4  questions	Engaging first contact - 6/13/2003 When you first meet a girl and take a chance and talk to the girl for the first time. How can you make it clear that you would like to go out on a date rather than her thinking you would like to go out as mates? (Without hitting on her of course with chat up lines). 2 response(s), 0 votes
joe2207904 44 M 4  questions	how do you know if a girl is intrested - 6/4/2003 What are the signs that a girl is interested? <br> How many times should you phone a girl when starting to date or making that first contact on e.g. Asian friend finder or after a date before you think its time they should maybe make the effort to ring you. And what if they always sound receptive when you make contact but the man always finds himself making contact via email ... 2 response(s), 0 votes
msk 54 M 1  question	older with younger? - 5/30/2003 I am very interested in a woman who is 15 years younger than me. She is obviously attracted to me and we have had some very good times together. She remains with her boyfriend who she is not really interested in romantically but feels "safer" with because he is from the same country (Taiwan - I am white). I am wondering if she would be worried about the age difference or if age is not so ... 3 response(s), 1 vote
rasberry81 42 F 3  questions	what's wrong liking someone online - 5/26/2003 sigh.. is it true that we shouldn't trust ppl online? is it true that meeting someone online isn't the same at meeting the same person in reality... it is risky isn't it...but do u think i should go for it... i think that a good relationship starts with good communication..although in most cases ppl tent to put looks as first point of view... it doesn't really matter for me especially when ... 1 response(s), 0 votes
Rickmac05 67 M 1  question	How do I show an Asian women I met real promise? - 4/2/2003 I am a single white good looking thin not fat successful male living in America with a good job, health care, vacation time and no big School bill to pay back. I am saving money and also putting away money for my retirement. I have three courses to get my B.A. in Biochemistry and another pay raise. There are a lot of good things in my life and I am very thankful for that. I have always had ... 3 response(s), 1 vote
andy110673 50 M 1  question	How to get a girl to be one's girlfriend? - 2/9/2003 I always want to have a girl to be my everlasting companion. However, I'm no longer in the 20's, I'm close to 30's. I just wonder to know if anyone can answer this question: how can I get a girl to be my everlasting girlfriend and eventually become my wife? What skill do I need to have? Can anyone ask this question for me? Please let me know in advance. Thanks for the time with me. 2 response(s), 0 votes
saturn9691 54 F 1  question	Should I fly to him? - 1/26/2003 We just met a short time ago at AFF...but God knows we both have very strong feeling and desire for each other when we chat online at every minute we could and the moment we see each other through the webcam, even every goodbye after chatting was a farewell to us. To tell the truth, my heart has been flying to him, but how could I know this is just temporary passion or something else? I ... 5 response(s), 0 votes
dalatvn 55 F 3  questions	what is caucasian men look for in Asian women? - 1/14/2003 Be honest with your answers please. I've heard so many different answers but I haven't found anyone one of you guys have any common responds. For instance, guy ( in general ) like intimatcy but they don't show their affections when we get close. Eventhough time and time again they keep telling me that's what they want. I don't get it. 4 response(s), 0 votes
LonesomeHeart 40 M 5  questions	Your Thoughts... - 12/21/2002 I have a question well rather a thought and wish to know your opinion on it... <br> "In the game of life and love, those who play by the rules always lose" 0 response(s), 0 votes
LonesomeHeart 40 M 5  questions	Experience... - 12/21/2002 People are always telling me how wonderful love is and some tell me how terrible it is, that being single is a much better lifestyle and that they envy me for never having a girlfriend. <br> So who do these people (family/friends/etc) think they are making such comments towards me. The only person that can ever make such an opinion on relationships, good or bad is you. Gaining ... 0 response(s), 0 votes
father007son100 58 M 1  question	Can a GAM find his true love in China? - 12/16/2002 Hi Everybody, I'm a GAM living in China, and is going to go out of the closet. I'm hesitating about making the decision becouse I haven't been able to find the man who would like to establish a true love between us, in the most case, we met just for fun. I have been tired of this situation. Who can tell me whether it is possible or not for a Chinese gay man to find his true love in ... 0 response(s), 0 votes
LonesomeHeart 40 M 5  questions	Religion N Love - 12/11/2002 I have a question that I would like to pose to everyone here in AFF. I've known this girl that I've liked for about 3 years now. Have told her how I've felt and everything. <br> My delimma is that she is of christian faith and has constantly told me that she only wishes for a christian boyfriend. I have no religion, I don't nor do I believe in God. <br> Just this past ... 3 response(s), 0 votes
lostinseattle 72 M 1  question	Visa requirements - 12/1/2002 I have met a woman from China and we have become very good friends although we have not met in person. Our plan was for us to meet soon and since it was easier for her, we made plans for her to fly to the USA and I would pay for her air fare. She has told me that one of the visa requirements was to have a bank account of over $6, 000 and asked if I could provide this amount to her bank ... 6 response(s), 1 vote
Loveheart78 42 F 1  question	Which one is more important? To love or to be loved? - 11/10/2002 I've been going out with a guy from more than a year. He's the most kindest guy I ever met, he loves me like there's no tomorrow, he truly love me with all his heart. But I dont love him, I've been trying soo hard to let my heart open up to him, and I'm still trying, I dont know what to anymore. I used to have a bf, he was bad, very poor, was using drugs, didnt go to school, didnt go to ... 2 response(s), 0 votes
LionsWood 50 M 3  questions	How do you ladies and gents feel about everyone knowing? - 9/8/2002 How do you feel about everyone in your immediate circle (family, relatives, friends, etc.) know that you're dating some one, the person you're dating and being nosy about it? I'm referring to dating and not long term relationship. Do you find this an annoyance or an opportunity to share opinions about your date in case you overlooked something? 2 response(s), 0 votes
LionsWood 50 M 3  questions	Where's the Sense of Humor? - 9/8/2002 This is for both males and females. When dating, be it your first, second or third date, please bring a sense of humor. Nothing is worst than a date who doesn't have a sense of humor. It is humor that helps break the ice on your first date, and it is humor that will help develop a healthy relationship. Although humor isn't the only aspect for developing a relationship, it does help ... 1 response(s), 0 votes
LonesomeHeart 40 M 5  questions	Why do nice guys always lose? - 9/2/2002 I have a question I'd like to put forward to you all...why do girls on paper want a nice sweet guy but in real life they want someone who abuses them, mistreats them and takes them for granted and later on in life they all ask "but where did all the nice guys go?" 7 response(s), 1 vote
sansan3342 64 F 1  question	I want to find again! - 9/1/2002 how do I do if I hope show my profile to all members again? 4 response(s), 0 votes
Law37 60 M 1  question	are there any chinese ladies interested in indian man - 8/31/2002 I have been a member of AFF for a while and been corresponding with asian ladies..it seems the "decent" ladies don't prefer Asian indian man. Most asian ladies wants white man...is this because they want a green card or think western man make better husbands? I think most asians and Indians share the same culture, values and traditions with similar outlooks on family life 3 response(s), 0 votes
ivy_sing 43 F 2  questions	To all guys - - 8/30/2002 I've advised by people many times that, girls of china would like to use the website to find any foreigner to marry with, not only for go abroad , but aslo vaninglory caused. Is it true? 11 response(s), 6 votes
kireina_josei 45 F 1  question	Asian men vs. white women: please help ! - 8/21/2002 Hi people! Well, it is hard to write down my problem... Ok. I have been trying to find an intelligent and handsome Asian guy for a long-term relationship or marriage, and I got to know some guys, and among them there was one who took our relationship serious (It lasted for one year). But I noticed a basic problem with all of them, that they don't respect women the way white men respect and ... 9 response(s), 8 votes
LionsWood 50 M 3  questions	A Rant...A Question...An Answer? - 8/15/2002 Like the subject says. This is could be a rant, a question or an answer for some AFF members. Whichever the case, please don't take this post too seriously. I'm new to this online dating thiga-ma-jig. Like most of you, I thought I would try something new. Hey, I like trying new things. Unlike myself, I have friends who started online dating long before I have. You can say that ... 2 response(s), 0 votes
Japanese25 49 M 2  questions	How do I get people to respond to my profile? - 8/11/2002 Nobody is responding to my profile. I have been on Asia Friend Finder for two years. During that time I had 3 responses. I even have my picture on my profile. Does anybody have any advice on how to attract people? 4 response(s), 0 votes
lingeringsoul	- 2002-08-10 it seems a rather active community here--i think i do need some help! pardon me if i sound confusing, im probably a bit ga-ga now. im going out with a guy, nice he is, smart, kind, serious, the decent upright middle class kind. everything is well except that he s keen on having a family with children. i know theres nothing wrong with that, only i start to wonder if thats the only thing hes after, and it doesn't matter who with. i mean, im very fond of him, and id like to be with him, it is HE who matters, as long as we are together, i don't care about marriage and children (not to mention im really not keen on children, and i have no plan for either one in at least 5 years). As i learn more about him, i think what he might do is to set a time, if i don't comply, he will move on. I don't want to lose him, but if this is whats going to happen, id rather call the whole thing off right now. ive tried to talk with him, but he's very determined about what he wants and confident about me coming around (only if he knew im no less obstinate!) What should i do? how can i be sure he s in love with me instead of some ideas of a family... any advice will be appreciated!! <br> response(s), votes
girlfriend1 48 F 2  questions	let us be a friend - 7/9/2002 I think friendship is the most important thing in the life. what do you think? 2 response(s), 0 votes
life49 47 M 1  question	如何付? - 5/29/2002 ??，如何用人民???付?？ 0 response(s), 0 votes
CoolColJ 53 M 1  question	What's wrong with me? Females seem to be scared of me? - 4/28/2002 I don't get many females emailing me at all. I don't think I'm the best looking guy, but I'm not that ugly either. Females take a look at my profile, and tell me what I need to fix to make myself a bit more desirable? <br> 3 response(s), 1 vote
lili96826 41 F 1  question	Ե - 4/28/2002 我想结识些懂中文的外国朋友! 0 response(s), 0 votes
destinydynasty 40 F 1  question	Why do older chinese guys lie? - 4/19/2002 I've been in three relationships that involves chnieseguys... thry say one thing but then at the end it's just a bunch of BS... why?why do they say, they like me and then...at the end..ignore me? 1 response(s), 0 votes