bsulistio 49 M 1  question	human habits - 12/8/2011 Do you believe that you are rich many people claim to friends / relatives, if poor lot of friends or relatives away from it? 1 response(s), 3 votes
SugiDancer 62 F 18  questions	How Many of you are still Unemployed? - 12/8/2011 Hi All! Thank you so much for viewing my articles and Blogs. I like a supportive community of people worldwide. The question of the Day: How Many of You are Still Unemployed? I recently landed a Commission Only Sales job that's really important to the community. It fell on my lap since not too many people I know would ever do this job in Funeral Sales. What do you ... 4 response(s), 1 vote
beyondfantasy3 112 M 103  questions	like a truth serum... - 12/6/2011 truth spectrum? There's not much you can hide, when having sx, and expect to be satisfying and to result to feel equally satisfied !!!! It's quite amazing the truth that sx forces to the surface, or, without engaging with the nakedness both external and internal, one will wallow in the self frustration of dis-satisfaction and try and blame it on someone else. sex, ... 3 response(s), 2 votes
masada125 62 M 23  questions	Are there just too many bloggers? - 12/5/2011 Asia Friend Finder claims there are more than 72, 000 bloggers amongst its membership. Can 72, 000 people really have something unique to say? Granted, many blogs are in Mandarin, but has blogging become perhaps a bit too "Democratic." By the way, check out my blog. 3 response(s), 2 votes
SugiDancer 62 F 18  questions	Do You Use Body Language on Dates? - 12/2/2011 Do you know how to flirt or use body language with the opposite sex or partner? There's a lot of cross cultural relationship here at AsiaFriendFinder and the sister sites. For women they would smile, give eye contact, play with their hair, or touch their earrings, let their shoe hang on their foot, while crossing their legs on a bar stool. Can you read these signals? Men would ... 3 response(s), 5 votes
SugiDancer 62 F 18  questions	Conflicts Between Men and Women - 12/2/2011 Why do couples have conflict? There's obvious differences in the opinion between men and women. But hopefully we can build a better understanding by communicating and talking things over. A clear message needs to be sent. Look for body language and expressions on your partner's face. Don't sweep problems under the carpet when they need to be addressed. You can always give ... 15 response(s), 3 votes
prakash3020 30 M 3  questions	2012 - 12/1/2011 In 2012 earth will get destroyed am i right ?????? 4 response(s), 0 votes
masada125 62 M 23  questions	Hey, what happened to my home page? - 11/29/2011 I logged in and my home page was different, redesigned with the emphasis on the search for a mate aspect on the far right. What do you think of the changes? I'm a little disoriented, no pun intended. 2 response(s), 1 vote
prakash3020 30 M 3  questions	waht is love ? - 11/29/2011 Love is an emotion of strong affection and personal attachment.[1] In philosophical context, love is a virtue representing all of human kindness, compassion, and affection. Love is central to many religions, as in the Christian phrase, "God is love" or Agape in the Canonical gospels.[2] Love may also be described as actions towards others (or oneself) based on compassion, or as actions towards ... 8 response(s), 1 vote
beyondfantasy3 112 M 103  questions	Are people like spiders - 11/26/2011 Male nursery web spiders sometimes "pay" for mating using worthless gifts, with a new study finding the gals are not impressed with the empty offerings. These gifts serve as decoys: Worthless bits of flower, cotton or ant husks wrapped in silk that serve only to distract the female while the males have their way. Another trick? If not satiated, males play dead until the female thinks she ... 2 response(s), 5 votes
masada125 62 M 23  questions	What do women really want? - 11/23/2011 Is it about being emotionally or financially comfortable. Is it about finding a guy with feelings or cash. I suppose the ideal is both. But what is most important and lasting? A guy without any sense of humor or empathy who can spoil a woman with luxury and treat her like an object, or a guy who is physically and emotionally present but cannot afford a new Lexus or bling any time she purrs. 6 response(s), 3 votes
masada125 62 M 23  questions	Is there such a thing as a soul mate? - 11/18/2011 Many women on this site make it clear they are searching for their "soul mate." Does such an ideal actually exist? Is it more of a dream for woman than for men? 16 response(s), 6 votes
beyondfantasy3 112 M 103  questions	is it worth it - 11/17/2011 When one is of claim to make a relation, and want it to be with a flow of loves delights mingled in with the broad spectrum of loves reality... is it worth destroying over a whimsical want, or a situation irregularity. is it worth the acts that deteriorate the ability to communication with emotional tantrums? is it worth destroying by expecting more than one is themselves willing to give ? ... 6 response(s), 4 votes
e2bob 57 M 2  questions	Marry for Green Card ??? - 11/16/2011 Let's open up a discussion about Chinese girls who marry for a green card, marry for love or some other reason. Here's a good green card story. An American friend brought over a Chinese girl. Age difference was about 10 years. The had a baby and everything was going great. After 2 years, she had her green card in her hand and they went out to celebrate with a nice dinner, a couple drinks, ... 12 response(s), 19 votes
masada125 62 M 23  questions	Wouldn't you like to know... - 11/12/2011 Do you ever get notice that you have received an AFF e-mail only to check it and find out the sender and her message have been "removed" for some reason. Wouldn't you like to know what was in that "forbidden" e-mail. After all, It might have been the "alternative" you were seeking. 4 response(s), 2 votes
masada125 62 M 23  questions	Separate worlds - 11/11/2011 Do you feel like this site is several different worlds. People kept apart by language and culture rather than united. I think AFF should supply a translation service to help communicate with mandarin, cantonese, korean and other languages, including English for non-speakers. I think there's a lot of potential friendships going unrealized. 4 response(s), 2 votes
SugiDancer 62 F 18  questions	What Do Asian Women Find Attractive About White, Non-Asian Men? - 11/10/2011 Masada asked why do White or non-Asian men like Asian Women. So I'm going to ask the Ladies why do Asian Women like White, Latino, Black, or Native American men? I've widen the scope since I'm dating some White and Latino men now, since there's a shortage of unattached attractive, Middle aged Asian American men here in Seattle that I know personally. So I don't want to hear from the men since ... 1 response(s), 1 vote
masada125 62 M 23  questions	What really matters? - 11/10/2011 Is it sex? Is it companionship? Is it the realization that you must find someone lest you might die alone? Or is being alone OK? Or maybe nothing matters... so then, why do we chase elusive women who float across our screens like sirens driving us into the rocks of hope and despair? What, in this world of male and female confusion and ecstasy really matters to you? 5 response(s), 4 votes
SugiDancer 62 F 18  questions	Home for the Holidays? - 11/10/2011 Here in the U.S. people usually run home to go to Thanksgiving Dinner. I wrote a blog on holidays, so check it out in the Blog Section. So I wonder how many Asian immigrants go back to visit their relatives in Asia? Or do they just stay in the U.S, Canada, or UK and celebrate Thanksgiving or Christmas and New Years in the country they have settled in. My dad was born in ... 2 response(s), 3 votes
masada125 62 M 23  questions	Why do we find Asian women so attractive? - 11/8/2011 I was at the science museum in NYC and learned that there was no specific gene in our DNA that determines race. Racial identity, preference etc. is a social and evolutionary process. Studies show that many people, men and women, prefer faces that are more varied than their own. What do you find desirable about Asian woman, and do you think ASian women-- discounting their motives, find ... 2 response(s), 2 votes
masada125 62 M 23  questions	Have you ever said this? - 11/6/2011 I think most guys are a mixed bag. Part dog, part hero, part . Most of us do our best to be good men. But when it comes to the things we say to women in the heat of passion, all bets are off. The one line I find inconceivably wrong-headed is this: "You make me want to be a better man." Have you ever said it? Does any guy really mean it? 9 response(s), 4 votes
masada125 62 M 23  questions	Is political correctness making us all idiots? - 11/6/2011 I'm sick of the whole PC thing. We need to be racially and ethnically aware, but some of the terminology we use now, and the way we are censored for expressing dissenting ideas that are not "green, " "progressive" or particularly "appropriate." is robbing us of our honesty and individuality. 4 response(s), 5 votes
masada125 62 M 23  questions	Will Facebook take over the virtual world - 11/3/2011 Will Facebook eventually make sites like this obsolete? I think it has already cut into AFF's market share. 2 response(s), 2 votes
beyondfantasy3 112 M 103  questions	what do you think ? - 11/2/2011 Best Opinion: Daily Mail, Modern Mom, The Frisky (quote) Sx increases blood circulation, and that's just one of the health benefits. Hormones released during sex can soothe aches and pains, and a 2002 study found that women exposed to sperm through unprotected sx reported less depression than those who used condoms or abstained from sex. If you're still not sold—"sx helps you ... 1 response(s), 0 votes
beyondfantasy3 112 M 103  questions	would you?? - 11/2/2011 Would you get into a sexless relationship ? Would you get in a relationship with a person who makes less money than you do ? Would you choose a mate because you like the person, or would you drop a mate or avoid a potential mate because friends and family do not like them? If you became rich tomorrow, would you marry ? Do you believe its hard to find a honest ... 1 response(s), 5 votes
beyondfantasy3 112 M 103  questions	"Really, what is up with our society? - 10/28/2011 Surveillance video of passersby ignoring the plight of a Chinese hit-and-run victim has sparked international expressions of shock and horror--together with a bout of soul-searching in Chinese society. The video is obviously disturbing. It shows a 2-year-old girl who was run over by a van that then drove off, leaving her bleeding on the street in the city of Foshan, in China's ... 6 response(s), 4 votes
masada125 62 M 23  questions	Is it the same for guys? A name for a male cougar... - 10/26/2011 SugiDancer wrote an interesting blog about her Cougarhood and dating younger men. What would you call a guy who dates, or seeks to date, younger women? Do we have a double standard? A woman 45-60 or so, is empowered to explore her sexuality and feminine wisdom and seek younger pastures. What about a guy? Isn't he usually considered a bit sleazy or desperate or lecherous or is that just a ... 3 response(s), 3 votes
masada125 62 M 23  questions	Now and Zen--women in your life - 10/25/2011 How have your relationships with women changed as you've matured? Have you become more relaxed and accepting or more resentful? Do you look for different qualities now in a potential mate/partner/ lover or are you still driven by the same criteria you had when you were younger? 2 response(s), 2 votes
beyondfantasy3 112 M 103  questions	guys... - 10/23/2011 don't stop talking on here because these stuck up women won't participate... 10 response(s), 5 votes
beyondfantasy3 112 M 103  questions	what are some things about "arrangement for fee" you notice ? - 10/19/2011 well, life is interesting. what are some things about time with a pay date ? You don't have to hear a bunch of stuff about "I don't do this or I don't do that", or "I'm such a good girl and I'm not like this or that. There is no game about getting undressed and getting busy. There is no routine program, of where to start. There is no need to have to deal with a woman ... 2 response(s), 1 vote