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The Advice Line lets you ask all those questions you always wanted and then get advice from all the members of Asia Friendfinder.
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morethanafeeling 59 M
8  questions
are women irrational? - 6/17/2010

So you come home, and find your mailbox open on an old romantic email with someone you're not in touch with any more. It was from the time that your current relationship was still young and brittle, and you didn't just 'dump' your other online contacts immediately.

Since you consider your relationship stable now, you don't bother logging out of your mail all the time any more. But YOU ...

4 response(s), 3 votes
morethanafeeling 59 M
8  questions
dependence - 6/17/2010

I met a woman, and I like her. The thing is, she drinks. Her friends call her the beating heart of the group, and she seems to be essential for them to a succesfull night of drinking. So on about a weeks time, I've seen her drunk already twice.

She asked me : if we would start a relationship, would I go drink with her. Hmmm ... No I wouldn't, and I wouldn't want her to come home drunk ...

3 response(s), 2 votes
morethanafeeling 59 M
8  questions
cultural difference, once more - 6/16/2010

I see cultural difference not so much as 'too big a mountain to climb'. Yet the difference of social background can be.

They are the same thing, some may think. Well, I grew up in a poor family and had a relationship with someone from a rich family. I had far more trouble adapting than I ever had with overcoming cultural difference with an asian women.

Obviously, a mix of both ...

4 response(s), 4 votes
touch213 69 M
762  questions
crazy changes.. - 6/15/2010

I guess now, only paid members can post Photo's in blogs..

I'd like them to offer a service where an individual can download their own blogs, to removable storage devices... why they don't offer this option, is a missed opportunity to earn a profit..

if they prohibit the blogs with any more restrictions, then there's not much left for me to be on here to do...

I would ...

6 response(s), 8 votes
touch213 69 M
762  questions
what is your thought about "care" ? - 6/14/2010

how is it conducted- is itself interesting>>

some think it means, perform an action or fulfill an expected response

this may be good in the ideal conceptual things, but each individual has their own things to deal with whic is real and true in their lives at any given moment, and many times, it may not be, that people don't care.. the issue may be, what ritual ...

2 response(s), 3 votes
cecille2005 60 F
24  questions
IS IT EASY TO FALL IN LOVE AGAIN AT AGE 45? - 6/14/2010

IM JUST CURIOUS FOR LATE BLOOMERS WHO'S ABOUT TO START TO LOVE AGAIN.....CAN YOU GO CRAZY MAKING YOUR WORLD TURN AROUND AGAIN !...

17 response(s), 3 votes
touch213 69 M
762  questions
what's the use? - 6/14/2010

what's the use of a woman being nice and shapely, and being generally pretty, if they are not sharing their lives and experience with someone, Yes, that includes sensual and sexual.

it results to amount to a waste that becomes a tease, which produces not much in the over-all.. as youth and beauty are gifts to attract, but they don't last forever, and under-regarded for the nature of ...

6 response(s), 11 votes
RX0075 46 F
1  question
First meet - 6/13/2010

I met an american guy who work in Germany on AFF for 2 months ago, we almost chat everday for 1 to 2 hours. In easter we are going to spend some time together, and I will travle to his place. As easter is closed, I get cold feet about visiting (this is the first time i meet someone from net), since I have seen so many programs about missing grils. Can everyone give me some advise to avoid ...

6 response(s), 3 votes
touch213 69 M
762  questions
unconditional love - 6/1/2010

if you think it exist, buy a dog, and don't feed it.

but if you share what you have with it, it will share its devotion with you..

5 response(s), 3 votes
touch213 69 M
762  questions
change in world standing. - 6/1/2010

Chinese Edge Toward Supercomputing Record By JOHN MARKOFF Published: May 30, 2010

A Chinese supercomputer has ranked as the worlds second fastest machine, surpassing European and Japanese systems and underscoring Chinas aggressive commitment to science and technology.

The Dawning Nebulae, based at the National Supercomputing Center in Shenzhen, China, has achieved a sustained ...

3 response(s), 0 votes
touch213 69 M
762  questions
Interested in magic ?? - 6/1/2010

there's a simple and very natural ways to 'shut up a couple when they start arguing??

Imagine : 'all they have to do is a "69", and see which one of them then wants to argue

5 response(s), 2 votes
touch213 69 M
762  questions
so you like it or not ? - 5/29/2010

do you like women who want to act like everything is important in a relationship except sex?

or

the ones that only want it to be important if they can use it for what they want ?

do you like women, whose whole attitude and demeanor as a person changes when sex is mentioned ?

Do you like women, who think their sex gives them the right to be rude or arrogant ? ...

5 response(s), 1 vote
Kavita_ 53 F
3  questions
Interaction - 5/28/2010

This place would not exist if you and I did not contribute to it.

It is a very slow moving site compared to IFF, and I wonder why.

Why is there so little interaction here?

Why do you and I only come here once in a while
?...

8 response(s), 4 votes
touch213 69 M
762  questions
"Baby Face" - 5/27/2010

-- The movie "Baby Face" 1933 - is a must see...

I think you will enjoy it, the dresses the women wear are purely amazing, but the lead character is the winner, she moved to the city, and "used her power", to climb to the ladder...

After you see it, share your comments.

3 response(s), 0 votes
touch213 69 M
762  questions
did you nice the rise and change - 5/26/2010

have you noticed the rise and change in the media portrayal of - "dark haired women" - from the news desk, to many of the feature roles in movies.. It's almost as if society associates it with female stability imagery. years ago, when majority of scenery was about blonds, and dark hard women were considered like the female version of nerd, in the sense the dark haired women were workers, and ...

3 response(s), 0 votes
touch213 69 M
762  questions
Chat rooms - 5/26/2010

do you frequent chat rooms?

I personally have not seen them of much interest, maybe its because it was years ago since I tried it. at that time, nothing in it made much sense, beyond a lot of 'slap stick' commentary and people raggin on each other.. Maybe the thing has matured maybe not... ??

what have your found them to be ??

2 response(s), 0 votes
touch213 69 M
762  questions
oddities.. - 5/24/2010

many I've seen come on the web with the illusion of this "china doll" mentality, and thinking these women are some submissive sensual dynamo... reality is a trip...



In HKG, I met some nice women, friendly women, but I encountered some that was mean as a snake, and ruder than you've ever imagine. I think Westerners, are confused by the sometimes expressionless looks some give at ...

4 response(s), 0 votes
touch213 69 M
762  questions
what is your thought - 5/24/2010

I've written many things, about many things within the irregularities of relations between men and women. Often times, I point out many things, which could be possible for women to consider, so as to have better results in their relationship, as well bring about a difference in how both man and woman can build relations. Often time, women interpret it as if its smashing women. Yet, each woman, ...

8 response(s), 6 votes
touch213 69 M
762  questions
what could it be ? - 5/21/2010

what could it be that people are loosing so much regard for life?? _________________ from news_____________

SEOUL, South Korea Eight South Koreans were found dead in two separate cases of suspected group suicide, including five people who apparently inhaled toxic fumes together in a parked car, police said Thursday.

Four women and one man all in their 20s and 30s were ...

3 response(s), 1 vote
touch213 69 M
762  questions
what is going on, with this rise in stabbings - 5/18/2010

A Chinese man on a stabbing rampage killed eight people in the country's southeast, including his mother, wife and , police and new reports said Sunday.

The motive in Saturday night's stabbing was not immediately clear.

(from news) The official Xinhua News Agency cited witnesses as saying the man killed his 10-year-old and then his 83-year-old mother, who was kneeling and ...

3 response(s), 3 votes
touch213 69 M
762  questions
has anyone noticed - 5/16/2010

In the fighting in Thailand- none of the pictures, show any of the 'pretty women" involved in the street fighting ?

( it's amazing, how the people have turned a otherwise beautiful shopping center area, into something that looks worst than the war torn zones of Beirut.. mankind certainly does fight, to avoid 'creating a environment for Equality in Economic Equilibrium as being a basic ...

3 response(s), 2 votes
touch213 69 M
762  questions
its amazing how much adult subject matter this site blocks - 5/16/2010

as if people are infants.. the world is of many things, and anything imaginable, and history has much reality that is both written and unwritten..

this blogs, sit there all day, but they would not make it active on the blog list that list all blogs.

Masters and Johnson & Kinsley - the studies, not often discussed. was of female sxuality and h-mosxuality..

A world ...

4 response(s), 1 vote
touch213 69 M
762  questions
we still choose - 5/13/2010

regardless of the things which we know some women do that don't suit well with our thoughts and views about stuff.. and we know physical pretty only goes so far, and won't make one stay when other things drive him away...

so in the whole of it, the good thing is we don't give up on women, they way they give up on us. I've never yet, heard a man whine and say he turned gay because he had ...

4 response(s), 1 vote
touch213 69 M
762  questions
DO YOU THINK "WEALTHY MEN SHOULD MARRY" - 5/12/2010

A Los Angeles County Superior Court judge has ordered Dodgers owner Frank McCourt to pay his estranged wife, Jamie, $637, 159 a month in temporary spousal support, plus lawyers' fees pending their divorce.

The amount that Superior Court Judge Scott Gordon decided upon falls short of the $988, 845 that Jamie McCourt requested. More than half that requested amount ($568, 829), her lawyers ...

4 response(s), 2 votes
touch213 69 M
762  questions
will they listen and grow, is the question? - 5/12/2010

A dating expert encourages women to ditch their checklists and be open to meeting men outside their comfort zone. by:- Delaina Dixon,



"He's just not my type!" If that's the exclamation that comes out of your mouth every time you meet a guy you like but he doesn't fit your “dream man” criteria, and you're still single, Andrea Syrtash would like to have a word with you. ...

4 response(s), 0 votes
touch213 69 M
762  questions
goodness.. what I like... - 5/12/2010

I listen to the music of the 70's, the melody, the messages, the amazing toying and flowing with tones and sound intermixing. not only is it of much beauty- it is like the soundtrack within segments of my life.

there 's a certain solidity within its flow- and the crescendo within the melodic flow- not only catches focal points, it intertwines emotional stimulation that make the mind and ...

3 response(s), 1 vote
touch213 69 M
762  questions
what is going on - 5/10/2010

what is with all these attacks against in China.. does it have anything to do with a society that is producing at a break neck pace, and nearly imprisoning some people in jobs like work camps, and then seeing one segment become ultra wealthy, while other remain dire poor. divorce is like rampant, homosexuality is consuming the women, and the men, and people can't love for chasing a career- and ...

6 response(s), 1 vote
touch213 69 M
762  questions
the importance - 5/8/2010

how much do you feel about the importance of a woman, always looking as good as she can, and being as neat as possible, and showing as much of a smile in her character as she can manage.??...

7 response(s), 8 votes
christianvn2010 71 M
5  questions
Is choosing happiness as a top goal too selfish? - 5/5/2010

WHAT IS SO WRONG ABOUT MAKING HAPPINESS A TOP GOAL? ...

5 response(s), 1 vote
IzaStr8Shooter 46 F
1  question
Quebec City, asian/japanese men? - 5/3/2010

Hello, there is not many Japanese people in QC City so please tell me if you are! Also, there seems to be so many white men looking for asian female. I am white female looking for asian man!!! Why this reversal?? ! arigato!

2 response(s), 3 votes