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Advice Lines Question by masada125
masada125 62 M
23  questions
Dick Cheney gets a heart.. - 3/25/2012

Former Vice President and Darth Vader wannabe received a heart Saturday from an anonymous donor. A cynic might argue that this is likely Cheney's first real, human heart. I know moral judgments don't

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masada125 62 M
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More than 20 percent of Americans have a tattoo-- do you? - 2/28/2012

I heard that according a Harris poll more than 20 percent of Americans have at least one tattoo. What is your opinion of tattoos? Would you hire a man or woman who has a neck of face tattoo to work fo

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masada125 62 M
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What one quality do you find most attractive in a man and in a woman - 1/28/2012

I think the qualities can be the same for both, such as honesty and kindness. The quality I find attractive in other men is a sense of humor. THe quality is find most attractive in women is kindness.

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masada125 62 M
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What is your New Years Wish? - 12/26/2011

Well, hope this one is considered less cynical then some others I posted. What is your New Year's wish? Is it grand in scope, something like world peace or is just maybe peace in your own life for a

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masada125 62 M
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New Year's resolution-- what a sorry cliche - 12/19/2011

Do you actually make resolutions? How did that lame tradition get started. It's almost like a stringent reaction to the holiday season excess, a form of atonement. I think it's just a cliche that need

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masada125 62 M
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Ever been censored? - 12/11/2011

I got word that my most recent blog had to be updated because I used profanity. The thing is, I didn't. I used the "h" word which is slang for being desirous. Have you ever been censored over somethin

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masada125 62 M
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Holiday blues or depression.. how to cope? - 12/7/2011

Even if you don't celebrate Christmas, which I don't, the season, with all its forced "joyfulness" and consumerism can get you down. I wonder if its just a seasonal thing that makes people feel aliena

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masada125 62 M
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Do you actually believe in astrology and its role in relationships? - 12/5/2011

I don't. It seems as much hocus pocus to me as New Age stuff like crystals and other fake magic. When people ask me what sign I was born under, I tell them, The dollar sign, " or, "the no exit sign."

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masada125 62 M
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Are there just too many bloggers? - 12/2/2011

Asia Friend Finder claims there are more than 72, 000 bloggers amongst its membership. Can 72, 000 people really have something unique to say? Granted, many blogs are in Mandarin, but has blogging be

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masada125 62 M
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Do extra-marital affairs ever end happily? - 12/1/2011

Even if two people are or were in terrible marriages, do affiars ever really work out for the best?

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masada125 62 M
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Could you ever fall for someone who didn't make you laugh? - 11/28/2011

I think being with someone who has a sense of humor is really important. There is a real charm to a person who is funny. I'd take that attribute over great beauty every time.

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masada125 62 M
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Hey, what happened to my home page? - 11/9/2011

I logged in and my home page was different, redesigned with the emphasis on the search for a mate aspect on the far right. What do you think of the changes? I'm a little disoriented, no pun intended.

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masada125 62 M
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What do women really want? - 11/6/2011

Is it about being emotionally or financially comfortable. Is it about finding a guy with feelings or cash. I suppose the ideal is both. But what is most important and lasting? A guy without any sense

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masada125 62 M
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Is political correctness making us all idiots? - 11/5/2011

I'm sick of the whole PC thing. We need to be racially and ethnically aware, but some of the terminology we use now, and the way we are censored for expressing dissenting ideas that are not "green, "

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masada125 62 M
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Is there such a thing as a soul mate? - 11/4/2011

Many women on this site make it clear they are searching for their "soul mate." Does such an ideal actually exist? Is it more of a dream for woman than for men?

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masada125 62 M
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Wouldn't you like to know... - 11/3/2011

Do you ever get notice that you have received an AFF e-mail only to check it and find out the sender and her message have been "removed" for some reason. Wouldn't you like to know what was in that "fo

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masada125 62 M
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Will Facebook take over the virtual world - 11/2/2011

Will Facebook eventually make sites like this obsolete? I think it has already cut into AFF's market share.

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masada125 62 M
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Separate worlds - 10/31/2011

Do you feel like this site is several different worlds. People kept apart by language and culture rather than united. I think AFF should supply a translation service to help communicate with mandarin,

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masada125 62 M
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Have you ever said this? - 10/30/2011

I think most guys are a mixed bag. Part dog, part hero, part . Most of us do our best to be good men. But when it comes to the things we say to women in the heat of passion, all bets are off. The one

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Why do we find Asian women so attractive? - 10/28/2011

I was at the science museum in NYC and learned that there was no specific gene in our DNA that determines race. Racial identity, preference etc. is a social and evolutionary process. Studies show tha

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masada125 62 M
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What really matters? - 10/25/2011

Is it sex? Is it companionship? Is it the realization that you must find someone lest you might die alone? Or is being alone OK? Or maybe nothing matters... so then, why do we chase elusive women who

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masada125 62 M
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Is it the same for guys? A name for a male cougar... - 10/24/2011

SugiDancer wrote an interesting blog about her Cougarhood and dating younger men. What would you call a guy who dates, or seeks to date, younger women? Do we have a double standard? A woman 45-60 or

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masada125 62 M
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Now and Zen--women in your life - 10/23/2011

How have your relationships with women changed as you've matured? Have you become more relaxed and accepting or more resentful?

Do you look for different qualities now in a potential mate/pa

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