HAPPY Autumn!
I love sunshine. Life always keeps me busy. If I am not working on building the house I designed, I am traveling the country helping my family members on their dwellings. I am never bored, and only watch TV to lull me to sleep at the end of the day.
I have been on AFF for more than two years and have exchanged letters with many wonderful ladies, but I only have met one lady in all of that time. We just met once, for lunch, and that was the last time I saw her.
I have had some long and meaningful relationships, but they never led to marriage. I still remained friends with those ladies, even after the romance ended, in fact, I was even invited to their weddings when they found another man!
I want someone to love me, not as a solution to her financial, emotional, citizenship, or parenthood problems, but for me. I have everything in my life in order and I don't need much more from a lady than devotion, caring, and companionship. (she does not even have to know how to cook!). The lady should already have a career, and all the material wealth she wants due to her own diligence. It is only then that I would believe that her motivations for love are unbiased!
I am a "huggy" type of guy, even when meeting strangers.
Please understand that a language barrier is very difficult to overcome. Communication is very important and I not a qualified English teacher. I want to spend time learning about a potential lady with effortless speech, not giving English lessons!
I will write back to anyone who writes me, but please read my profile first and contact me only if you believe that we have much in common. I understand that most ladies, and men, have been married before. While I have never been married, I would consider a lady who has been married before. If a lady had children from another relationship, then I would only be interested in her if the father of those children had passed away.
Sincerely,
Roger
My Ideal Person:
I always dreamed of dating/ marrying a lady that would not find singing to be an embarrassment. I could picture us being in public, not with just an obligatory holding of hands, but with voices united in song and effortless dancing as if in a Broadway musical..... the choreography of love. Let our love be shown and not be kept under a lamp shade. Let our love turn people's heads, some maybe with embarrassment, but most with a feeling of inspiration and the silent thoughts of "Wow, I wish I could have some of that"....... and they can!
In family gatherings, I am romping and exploring with the kids (the adults are so dull!) I have 16 nieces and nephews whom often refer to me as the "crazy uncle" I love children, but at my age, I am not interested in starting a young family. I have been continuously employed for the last 35 years and have built the foundation for early retirement. A widowed lady with children is fine, but it would be nice if the children have left or are ready to leave the nest.
I find similarities with ladies coming for humble roots, for they seem to have charitable and appreciative spirits and realize that happiness is not guaranteed by material possessions. Of course there is that always hard to quantify, but undeniable need for chemistry.
I am attracted to ladies with dark hair and eyes and who are pleased with their natural coloration, whatever it may be. Unimpressed with streaked, bleached or dyed hair (except to touch up some gray). I do not use a ladies body-type as a "litmus test" for being a friend, but I am looking for so much more than a friendship and not interested in someone with extra weight.is not a valid excuse for being in poor shape. I have never belonged to a heath club, but maintain myself with about 10 minutes of exercise a day and by following a sensible diet!
Finding that 昼pecial someone� never happens as a scheduled event. One must be patient and prayerful, only then will the search result in a lifetime of fulfillment and love. We will be as two rivers flowing into a pristine blue mountain lake...what began as separate streams, of rushing and sometimes turbulent water, has now become a tranquil pool , so intertwined, that it will be impossible to separate the water back into the rivers whence they came.
Sincerely ,
Roger
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