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I'm romantic & common sense/street smart, imaginative, spiritual, caring & sick of hate and injustice, serious & funny, easy-going, supportive and protective of those I care about. I'm STD-free & you should be too. I am tender & gentle despite my large size. I love kissing, upper & lower. Experience DOES matter. Also emotion, imagination, intuition & sensitivity is what making love is about. I don't lie or cheat. I'm not a player. Honesty and openness are the only way a relationship works.
I have class. I open doors for you. I'm in excellent health, no medications, no Viagra (only need you). I exercise and eat healthy food. My mind is young: curious, playful, questioning, interested in learning new things, having new experiences. I am a self-employed photographic artist. Truthfully, material things and social media bore me -- I'm more interested in getting to know you and doing things together: I like to cook, travel, like music, movies, dance and other arts. Simple things like taking walks or listening to live music are nice. Spending an afternoon lying with you is even nicer.
My Ideal Person:
I am looking for an attractive, caring woman with a sense of humor and common sense. Economic or legal status unimportant. You should enjoy intimacy as much as I do. I want you to wake up and fall asleep in my arms. Even though my income isn't great, I live comfortably. You won't be bored.
A woman on AFF told me she thought 8% -- 1 in 12 -- of online daters were serious about a real relationship. I'm not a charity nor am I here to support you financially until we meet, so I don't send. I won't really know you until we meet so I don't know who is for real & who is not. I am sympathetic to tough times. I have always been generous with girlfriends. I take care of living expenses & some extra, you can do what you like with any money you earn. I am NOT looking for an online friend/romance. You have to be honest with yourself. If you're not ready to meet then maybe you shouldn't be dating. Online is good for getting to know each other, to see if we're compatible, but it has it's limits. I've wasted time on women who weren't ready to commit.
Meeting is the only way you'll know how good it is to be with me. The rest is just words. I live in a nice big apt. in one of the best areas in NYC. I respect women, I only want you if you want me. I can provide references if you like. If you come visit & by some chance the chemistry isn't working, we'll still have a good time while you're here. It's been 2 years since my last relationship. I don't like being alone, I'm at my best when in love. How about you? I miss seeing, hearing, touching,, tasting, the scent of a woman next to me.
Important: I need you to be open and honest. Don't tell me what you think I want to hear, tell me how you really are, what you want, what you think about, what gives you pleasure, even what are your fears, your dreams. We have to learn to trust each other for a relationship to work. Secrets and lies create doubts and suspicions which will destroy any love. You might be surprised at what I can accept.
If you are not in NYC, be willing to relocate. Meeting is the only way to know how good it can be. IF YOU ARE NOT WHO YOU SAY YOU ARE, OR ARE NOT SERIOUS ABOUT MAKING A LASTING RELATIONSHIP, OR ARE JUST LOOKING FOR $, do not contact me. Life is too short for lies and wasting time.
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