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| Gender: |
Woman |
| Birthdate: |
October 27, 1970
(39 years old) |
| Lives in: |
Toronto, Ontario, Canada
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| Relocate?: |
Yes |
| Height: |
160-162 cm |
| Body Type: |
Average |
| Smoking: |
I'm a non-smoker |
| Drinking: |
I'm a light/social drinker |
| Race: |
Asian |
| Speaks: |
English, Chinese (Cantonese) |
| Education: |
BA/BS (4 years college) |
| Marital Status: |
Single |
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Occupation: |
Corporate Sales |
| Interests: |
Arts, Business news, Beauty, Collectibles, Cooking/Baking, Dancing, Entertainment, Exercise and Fitness, Fashion, Fine Dining, Healthy Living, Investing, Martial Arts, Music, Playing the Stock Market, Reading, Surfing the Internet, Vegetarian cooking/eating, Volunteering, Yoga/Meditation |
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Religion: |
Spiritual |
| Have Children: |
No |
| Want Children: |
Yes |
| Hair Color: |
Black |
| Hair Length : |
Long |
| Eye Color : |
Inconsistent/Variable |
| Glasses or Contacts : |
Either |
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39
year old
Woman
in
Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Looking For:
Men for a friend, casual dating, a serious relationship or marriage
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Here's the breakdown:
PHYSICAL ACTIVITIES ==>> includes but not limited to snowboarding, Pilates, Yoga. Swimming, daily exercising (well, somewhat daily), and others-depending on how well I know you (or how much you like me-hehe!)
NIGHT LIFE ==>> loves good food/wine, bars/lounges, pool halls, clubs, clubs, and clubs. Don't get me wrong though, I also love quiet nights cuddling to a movie or just silly talking in bed).
PERSONALITY ==>> down to earth, but proud, confident, driven, decisive, intelligent (hmm??). Also witty, funny, sensitive, and honest. ooh, and sometimes neurotic. I have flaws like everyone else, maybe even more. But the good thing is I'm genuine. and that makes me cool as hell =)
INSPIRATION ==>> gets from moms, dads, teachers, nurses, artist, musicians, and nice people! All these people are better than me, but I do aspire to be a better human being.
THE CHICK INSIDE ==>> a wild child, a thrill seeker, a joker, a good lover, and a lady. Oh wait, don't forget, a big dork too! That pretty much sums it up - so if you think I'm cool, then don't hesitate to bite-I mean write =) hehe! I'm very flexible, so whatever you want to do, it's probably cool. got any suggestions?
P.S Please DO NOT email me if you belong to one of the following categories (not that I'm a hater.....only because I need to limit the amount of emails I'm getting):
1. NON - ASIAN
(To those dropping me hate mails: This site is called ASIAFRIENDFINDER which means it's for those seeking asians. I appreciate those of you who are also looking for asians....but please don't email me and tell me that I'm racist (it's just my preference)...just like I don't criticize you for seeking asians too. Just bcuz you're non-asian and looking for asian....doesn't give you the right to call me racist.
BTW - Please stop spamming me/soliciting marriage with MEDICAL BENEFITS you have.....BFD
2. RESIDE IN CHINA (as I can't read Simplified Chinese)
3. BORN ON OR BEFORE 1962
(To those that are over 50 and sending me hate mails telling me that I'm not a "Spring Chicken" - I understand that it's tough out there in the dating room, especially after 50 and I'm not going to bring myself to the same level and reciprocate the hating....but since you guys tell me that age isn't an issue and how wisdom is the benefit of dating older folks, may I suggest you to try "Seniorfriendfinder" or pick up older chicks by volunteering at GERIATRIC HOMES.....after all, you are the ones criticizing me and telling me the benefits of dating older people.
4. LOOKING FOR A FLING
5. MUST HAVE A PRETTY FACE/HOT BODY - if that's what you're looking for, please contact profiles with the fake/glamour shots...not to mention the fake age . (Values are important to me and there's more to life than just looks)
Thanks!
Smiles_n_fun
*******NOTE TO THOSE THAT FIT MY DATING DEMOGRAPHIC*****
Due to the tremendous number of emails that I'm receiving, I still try to return messages (whether I'm interested or not). However, if you keep emailing me and demanding why I'm not replyinig right way.....I apologize in advance but please do not blame me for selecting the "Block" option.
P.P.S
Example 1:
Here's an email I received from a 50 year old. This is what I mean by HATER...pretty funny (LO . Therefore I wish you non-haters all the best with your search! I really don't want to see you end up like this...spending your golden years dropping hate messages...trying to bring others down to his pathetic level (when other productive baby boomers are busy traveling....sooo tragic BTW - somebody should get himself a dictionary or take ESL classes (ROF
Oh yeah...the part where he mentions that he wants Chinese and criticizes my choice for Asian...I rest my case 
> > you think your gods gift to man ---bull
> > not much longer when you are a old maid of 50 years old
> > i pity the man who finds you attrative on the inside.
> > are you really chinese??? many chinese are not like you. most are good decent hard working people with a logical way of life.
> > for me--------- i hope to find my future wife in china or here in canada and she must be chinese
> > you have the atitude of a north amerian girl
> > baddddddddddddddd
> > good luck in life---------you need it
From a blog I found (Rather than living with Caviar taste on a McDonald's budget...as well as fantasizing for that I AM THE KING lifestyle.....he should read this before criticizing North American girls...there's a reason why she tells you that you're the best thing that has happened to her since "sliced bread" along with all the WORDz that stroke egos of those suffering from "small pi pi syndrome...) Hats off to these women overseas for having that "cunning" gift.....a quality that I lack (hence the amount of hate mails I receive...ie/ that being 20 plus hate emails of the 300 total emails I receive)
thanks for the input ThaiTee. As it so happens, I was involved with a thai woman from Udonthani, in Isaan. She was spectacularly beautiful. I fell madly in love with her. Ive never had a woman treat me like that before. Why? I suppose she liked me because I am tall and white. A guy I knew in Thailand told me that when she brought me to her village I was elevating her status there.
She began to ask me for a visa, and she became very demanding. In fact, it became a daily occurrence. Many of my friends told me to never bring a woman back to the states. Once there, shell americanize, (ie. file for divorce).
So I cut my losses and said good-bye. Its a shame, I truly cared for her. If only she had given up on the visa thing
Example 2:
I have to say, i've seen your ad for some time and had to say something. Sorry to say but you have to have the most annoying photo on AFF, your personality based on your profile is also annoying, you really are not that special, but please continue believing you are, and yes you definitely are not like your wonderful Chinese sisters.
LOL - I've shared this with many of my friends and they find it hilarious. Obviously, he's non asian and choose to hate cuz it's the coward's way out. Enjoy
Example 3:
> This is not a hate email, but I have to agree with the readers that wrote to you. you are incredibly annoying. Your profile, full of yourself. No wonder your single. I have only been single twice in 18 years. So I think Im doing something right. Your picture suits your profile to a a T. As for finding a asian man...not in a 100 years could anyone tolerate you.. Typical abnoxious spoiled daddys girl CBC
> seek some counselling.
-rice king! what a riot....My last girl was Korean..and I spent 8 yrs in Korea...
rice king..never heard that one..but its obvious why people say your abnoxious. Mail order bride..not a chance most chinese woman or any asian woman born here or abroad..our show far more maturity than this. Hard to believe a 37 yr old conducts themselves this way and wastes most of her time and energy arguing with people. Conduct is pussilanimous to a tee.
My answer: I wonder too why he's single (duh) and I'm shocked how he thinks that he knows me and how I long I've been single. Well - at least these emails make one's day entertaining. One thing I have to admire him for....knows where to find asian women without having to fork the cost for a mailorder bride (LO BTW - it's "YOU'RE" not "YOUR"....and he's Canadian? LOL
I also Loooooooooove the part where he says:
Hard to believe a 37 yr old conducts themselves this way and wastes most of her time and energy arguing with people!
Look who's talking? Oh yes - the "I'm the KING OF ALL ASIAN WOMEN" but "you're an immature female dog cuz you don't need a white man to elevate your social status" one who initiated all this.Did I mention he's 43?!
Somebody needs to live with the times........
Definition of RICE KING per urban dictionary:
Rice King
A white male who only dates Asian women. Breed is marked by very distinct characteristics, including monochromatism of hair and skin, pronounced Adam's apple, lanky physique, complete lack of fashion sense, and inability to carry on a conversation with any woman who has her own opinions and is capable of expressing them.
Sooooo True
Example 4 (Another HILARIOUS email from a FT "NYC Taxi Driver/PT " Security Guard) LOL..
Wow, you are an incredible mess. No wonder you are so old and still single.
You are a racist for sure against asian people. Just take a step back and read your profile.
You sound like a crazy person. You must scare most people that take the time to read your profile. And update your picture.
Actually - not all my messages are bad. Believe it or not....the LOSERS only make up a few
> I know i fall into the dont contact me pool but hey, I had too. i just came across your file and boy, you must cop a lot of crap from some extremophiles. Dont worry about them. They are just hurt because they dont stand a chance with someone like you. I think you have a great pfoto, and dare i say it some balls (attitude). That is nothing that you should ever be sorry for or comprimise with. Give it back to them!!!!! But saying you like the pussycat dolls, thats a reason for not contacting you!! HAHA! Only joking! You look after yourself and keep on keeping on!
December 27/2008:
To the fans who find my profile hilarious. As requested, here's another one to make you laugh (BTW - per his profile..."I've been a salesman, computer nerd, company director, bad dancer,martial artist, " Looks like somebody doesn't have a REAL JOB at the old age of 44....it's much simpler to comment at others than to face their reality.
Smiles_n_fun , I have to say that i feel so sorry for you, you may want to get mental help, seriously!!! take my word for it, you need help, but as the old saying goes " If you really are mentally and emotionally disturbed, do you know you are?" in your case i hope you know... you are a disgrace to asian women, I know because many friends of mine are asian, and they all agree when they see your profile...
- northernman100
Also, am I really that SPECIAL? I mean, he already emailed me in the summer and now he tells me that he shows my profile to his friends. Boy, he sure has a lot of time on his hands to pay so much attention to a weirdo.
Again - to all you losers....I receive more fan mails than hate mails. Here's an example:
You are absolutely "fantastic"! I was happy to hear your candor regarding the hater. I cat't believe some people take the time to actually hurt others. I love your honesty about yourself and your needs....again fantastic. Take care of yourself......oh...ya I am a 48 year old guy loaded with confidence and had to reply to your profile....reminded me of well Me...hahahhah take care of yourself and be safe and goodluck to you...Kirk DDS
For some reason, it's the professionals (in this case, a dentist) who are more kind than those who label others as having mental issues. Maybe it has something with not having a real job/decent salary and the lack of an average I.Q. But we have to look on the bright side of everything...w/o the existence of these idiots, how else can Mainland Chinese girls get their papers...especially if they don't have relatives that can sponsor them over.
Until I receive the next rant from those that at life with their pitchforks and fire in hand chanting away).....take care.
May 25.2009:
It's been a while since my last hate mail.....but to the fans who keep asking me to post more....enjoy!
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Sender: llargo
To: Smiles_n_fun
Date: May 24, 2009 7:48 pm PST
whoa miss, damaged goods, while you go around berating so many men, perhaps it's time to look why you are here. so you get this right, i use this site to enhance my fabbo life, which i dig....and which i can appreciate even more greatly from here....your comment about the esl class was almost funny..but who r u kidding you and i and everyone knows that they are conducted by indian womoen over 50 who wouldn't have a clue how to use language in an idiomatic form....best of luck to you, it was a mild laugh reading your readers comments...
but wow...you are affected by life...what is it...did you want to be taller????
hard to pin-point in your case....so many women like you these days it's hard to really understand why and what causes this ......be cool
llewallyn
laurence
My response:
I'll close my account once I clear the 300 plus emails in my inbox (I reply even if I'm not interested.......for courtesy sake).
BTW - I read this "blurb excerpt" from a particular website:
Then theres the online characters who spend many hours every day sitting in a box talking about food, gossip and what a great life they live. Since they have no real life, no real friends, live in a cheap apt or single wide in a bad part of town (or in mommys basement because of heart issues, lol).......SO YOU
My Ideal Person:
Ideal Person:
Just know how to have good laughs! be yourself, be genuine and honest =) Assertiveness will definitely win you points.]
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